So what is wrong with me?
I'm 43 with two-count-em-two graduate degrees, a winning personality, and a good sense of humor. I keep my body in shape with yoga (see photo), which I also teach, yet my dating life is awful, and I've been reduced to seeking in vitro donors so I can have a baby before I'm too old.
I've been told this site gives, ahem, unvarnished opinions, and can be cruel, but I figure tough love is better than none. Maybe I'll learn something. Cheers, Rachel
And full disclosure, I'm a total Star Wars geek, which I've heard should help me here lol
Try a star trek convention.
I've actually gone to one. Not really a dating scene.
You've waited to long, You're drier then sun baked cow shit. it's over. now go back to work.
Well, that's certainly unvarnished. But I'm not THAT old.
43 is "that" old. You blew it. No man gives a fuck about your degrees.
Your standards are too high. You spent your twenties fucking assholes and now you want to find a good man. Should have been searching in your twenties.
It's nice you want a kid. Most women recoil in horror at the thought these days. Are you a jew broad?
No one here likes Star Wars, too Jewish for Zig Forums, too shitty for /tv/, not nerdy enough for /co/ or the other boards.
To answer your question though:
Is right.
You spent your life chasing after frivolous things like degrees and Star Wars shit, and now that you're too old you're scared it's too late.
Which it is.
Yes you are.
Look at autism and birth deform rates by age, you lost the chance of being able to have non retarded children by 30, unless you have really good genes, which on the surface it's obvious you don't, your children will come out retarded or autistic.
Tldr, you lost everything.
I hope this thread can be used as an example to women everywhere that you need to get married by 20, and spend the rest of your life giving birth to kids and raising them.
Wait, wait… you need a taller sexy bf, am I right? Take your cobwebs and sod off, roastie.
I got married in my late 20s, divorced in my early 30s. I was searching, but it didn't work out.
Nope.
Should have searched better.
A classic phrase, as if you had no hand in the relationship ending. All divorced women say this.
I know just the guy for you
I'm not saying I had no hand in it. It certainly wasn't completely 50/50. But yes, if I could do it over, I would have done a lot different.
This.
Also why didn't you have kids when you were married.
That's the entire point of getting married.
We were not financially or emotionally ready to have kids.
Choosing the wrong partner is your fault. As I said, you were busy fucking assholes instead of looking for a good man. If you want a good man now, you will have to settle for man who will not make your tits tingle, but will give you the children and stability that you want.
For 43 (you) are attractive and you maybe have credentials.
But you are too old to start a family with. Literally your kids will be autistic weirdos with Aspergers at best.
Considering adopting (kids) and a (good man).
Look up correlation to mothers age and probability of child health problems. Lots of 30+ already have their child suffer from some problem, now take a guess how high the chance of that is with 40+. You will also never find a decent guy anymore, many of my female co workers who are thirty constantly complain about how all the good men seemed to vanish, however "good men" simply go for younger women. At best you will find some average divorced dude, worse than your previous partner. Also you'd probably be better off adopting a kid at this point and save it from a live in the orphanage or some pedo ring.
You Australian?
Neither was my family but they still did it, time>best way to raise them. You were ready even if you were piss poor. You don't get married without wanting kids too.
Just in case it isn't bait: Should have married in your teens. You have (on average) a 1 in 50 chance of having a baby with down syndrome, and by 49 it climbs to 1 in 10.
Nobody wants a withered up hag. Personally I wouldn't go for a woman beyond her early twenties.
This
Why would you get married then?
Check with a fertility doctor if you can still have kids. Otherwise help your family with any nieces/nephews. They are still your blood.
I have pretty good genes lol. Not many 43-year-old women can hold this pose.
That's the language you used, and it says a lot about you to anyone who's wise.
People had kids in the middle ages. They had them in the great depression.
The reason you didn't have kids is exactly because you "planed" for it. Kids are not to be "planed" you do it or you don't.
No. Born in U.S. Live in Canada now.
No you don't, flexibility is something you train, it's not in your genes.
You're done for then.
My parents were both older when they had me (early/mid 40s) and that worked out well enough. I may be slightly autistic, but just the right amount to make me more Ubermensch than Untermensch
Actually, the city I'm in has a pretty good dating scene.
And you still couldn't catch yourself a man
Sage and reported for a slide thread
Fair enough. But still, I train regularly. :-)
Disgusting. There's not supposed to be a dating scene. People with experience in successful relationships are supposed find good matches for their children. A "dating scene" is a symptom of a sick society.
you look like a dude
You should get new tits and look for a 25yo wanting the milf experience.
Woman please date me..
Seriously YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL.
I HOPE YOU ARE NOT A FAKE.
I LIKE COUGAR TOO
I AM FROM INDIA
GIVE ME YOUR FACEBOOK LINK
Daily reminder that this thread is more than likely a data mining / psychological profiling op for some horseshit incel article Vice plans publish next week.
Reported. Now, fuck off.
Wow. Well, no one's ever accused me of looking like a dude before. And a boob job isn't my style. I don't have kids, so I can't be a milf, but I certainly have indulged a few "cougar" scenarios since I turned 40.
Nope. This is the road you chose. You haven't been "reduced" to this situation, you chose to pursue your hobbies and casual sex rather than a man to have children with.
I am from Calcutta/Kolkata
Waaaay too far.
Whatever come to India
Give me your Facebook link
You don't know about my life.
See this
I will care you for sharing, caring and talking to you.
You also femdom me
8ch.net
Not hobbies, but my career. But I get the gist of what you're saying. Yes, I did choose this path. Sigh.
no tits no ass
now type in milf into yandex (putins google with better porn) there is your competition
Obvious troll, however…
Late twenties is when women hit the wall. You needed to start in your teens. Men care about personality and looks, your degree doesn't give either of those.
The fact that you can admit it is a good step, but now comes the hard part. You have to settle. You can no longer rely on your youth to pull you a man that is also young and successful. You're going to have to settle for a man below your standards because you chose your career over a family. It won't be easy, and you might even still have enough time to have a child, but you have to start right fucking now.
the white race cannot afford these petty excuses any longer.
This is either some joke or you're more naive than you sound.
Anyway.
Problem #1 - Any (sane, competent) man can do better than a woman your age.
Irrelevant for dating
That's your self-description. We don't know if it's actually true, I doubt it though.
Good on you.
You already are too old. The chances of having an autism goblin are way too high at that age.
I may be petite up top, but I do have a booty.
Even I wouildn't do that.
Come on user, that's low; sticking a white woman with a shitskin.
If you are not fake then I can become your girl friend
I like woman age from 18 to 28
Also cougar from 40-50.
I have been. I've been doing LOTS of online dating, and bit the bullet and registered at an in vitro service. Which means I'm also monitoring my cycle – aka "peeing on sticks" – believe me, I'm taking this seriously.
Who took these photos? If it's not your ex husband you are leaving out a crucial part of your story. Or you're simply a troll, which is why you should post tits + timestamp right now.
Please ignore the Indian street shitting spammer. So, this seems real enough, so here's my two cents.
It's really unfortunate that someone who is pretty attractive like yourself has come to this point in life where you're mentally ready for children, but biologically you've hit a wall.
Now, I think that you're running health risks to your children if you're having kids in your 40s, you're also setting these kids up for being abandoned in their early years if you or your husband passed away (you seem to keep healthy enough so its less of an issue, but we live in the age of getting cancee out of the blue and dying). Think about it, when your kid is 21 when you're going to be 64. Not saying you'll be some kind of relic, but life's going to be a lot more of a burden on you. I don't think you should give up hope however. Seeing as you've spent your life as a career woman, you should be moderately well off, you have the option of having a surrogate hold your fertilized eggs or you could adopt with your future husband. (white North American children exclusively to make up for denying your biological imperative)
ITT: Old jewish whore trying to get bred by internet nazis.
Is she is fake or not
I am confused.
I am olive beautiful Indian.
The yoga/beach ones were taken a girlfriend. The Leia one is by me, on a timer.
No one cares
That's subjective, and saying that makes you seem like a narcissist cunt.
That's good.
That's extremely vague. You might want to elaborate on how/why.
You look hot in that picture but otherwise no one gives a flying fuck here. Whoever told you about 8ch is probably a retard who knows nothing.
So let's get down to the real issue. Your mental state. What mental disorders do you have? Be honest. If you don't think you have any, get evaluated. It might help you understand why you can't find anyone even though you are above average looking for your age. Also,
TITS OR GTFO
You ignored the important part of my post. Post your tits and a timestamp, or people will keep calling you a fake troll
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Jesus fucking christ what the hell is going on here?
I think you have a problem turning men on
those pictures are more goofy then sexy
I haven't ever been diagnosed with mental disorders. I've done therapy over the years, when needed. I do have a long list of "behaviors" I've exhibited that may have contributed to my current singlehood.
You became a vol based on pajeet spam which you are responsible for yourself and now you're branching out.
dailymail.co.uk
If this sounds like you we found the problem. Please don't be this. Nobody likes this.
I like older women, but thirty is my high marker. Too old for me, but I'm 19 so take that for what you will.
I think she is fake.
Confusing
I thought she could become my girlfriend
I don't even understand that, sorry.
There is nothing wrong with your appearance, you look great.
But there is a difference between lust and love.
You should have married when you were younger. No self respecting man should marry a woman who has layed with other man.
It's not about insecurity. It is just how God wanted it. Also stop doing Yoga.
What's your background/ethnicity?
It's okay. Without cancer like you, the decent people wouldn't stand out as much.