I've had intense powerful attacks from the devil giving me lustful thoughts...

I've had intense powerful attacks from the devil giving me lustful thoughts. I've resisted much but think I've given in a couple of times. I'm too weak. There is a girl with a boyfriend lusting after me. Girls think I'm cute and the one lusting after me gives me lustful stares and I escalated it by sending her a message on FB that I thought she was cute too but at that time I didn't know she lusted after me despite having a boyfriend. At that time I didn't know she had a boyfriend and was attracted to her and wanted to settle down. I have OCD and anxiety so I don't speak to girls or make any friends. I have 3 friends but they don't go to my college.

It's as if the devil is tempting me by saying I can have all I dreamed about for years before becoming catholic if I just depart from God. I would rather die than fornicate and forfeit the kingdom of God. But I can't housebound myself anymore than I have. She's in my class.

Isn't it wise to get married quickly so as not to burn with lust and risk fornication? I am nearly 19.

God help me.

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It is dysfunctional to worry. It is dysfunctional to doubt.
Make the most with what God puts before you.
Keep faith that He knows what's best.

Getting married isn't just about relieving your sexual frustrations. It's about finding a wife who is walking the same Christian path worthily as you and loving her as Christ loves the Church. Sex is both an act of creating spiritual union with her and procreation. You want to get married to a woman who you not only see yourself loving on a truly Christian level and growing in and helping each other in the faith in, but also one who you can see having a family with and raising your children.

So no, getting married as quickly as possible to the first woman who's willing to put out, emotionally and/or physically, is not wise at all. Have patience and pray to and trust God.

How about you take a responsibility for yourself and stop blaming on others? My priest always gives this remark to anyone who starts talking about "oh Im under attack and so on"
Also this

1 Corinthians 7:9
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

He means marry someone who is appropriate for you on your Christian journey, not just throwing yourself into marriage with the first person with a pulse willing to put out for you. The Bible is literally filled with too many verses that warn about hooking yourself to a dissolute, angry and unfaithful wife for me to post here. One verse even implies it's better to be alone than with a wife that makes your life a living hell.

Exactly my problem but in reverse.
Every time since I became a practicing Catholic this shit happens to me everytime. In my case is with a friend's girlfriend.
Not that I feel anything for her or such I just want to f*ck her because of satanic lust.
I try to fight it everyday and I always succeed. I hope I keep winning the battle but I so afraid I'll fall. In my dreams in such situations I think about Jesus and I still fail miserably. The shit I'm afraid the most is if I can't hold myself irl.
Cut my hands, pierce my eyes cut off my balls. I'd be willing to go through all this just to avoid sinning.
Just go away Satan you winnie the pooh.
May Lord Jesus have mercy on me a sinner.

The devil does temp us and a lot, but if eventually we sin is 100% our fault. We could have chose not to. The devil doesn't move my muscles for me.
Like Adam that was tempted by Satan through Eve, still it's 100% Adam's fault that he sinned.
But it doesn't mean that every Catholic is under attack. We are. But if we sin is because we wanted to.

Isn't under attack

We cannot overcome our sinful nature by our own strength. You need to surrender your whole life (every single aspect of it) to Jesus Christ (Luke 14:33). You need to be able to sincerely tell the Lord that you want His will for your life, no matter the consequences. Then He will give you the strength, through The Holy Spirit, to overcome your sinful nature. Regarding a relationship, always seek God's will above all else, and He will take care of the rest.

Always lmaoing at the unromantic sods who think marriage is just a way to guarantee your d is satisfied for a lifetime

I never believed in the romantic meme.
For anons who are married/have a gf is this real or just a secular meme?

It’s real. Also see Song of Somgs

Honestly, what the modern western Christian male needs to realize is that we have been put through an indoctrination course when it comes to our lusts. Frankly, we've all been conditioned and encouraged to think through our dicks. This is what has led to chronic masturbation and hook-up culture becoming the norm for young men.

Fun fact, we have an addiction. Now, before the REEEEEEEEEEs come in, having an addiction doesn't excuse your actions, but it does say that you need to take more aggressive action to dissuade your behavior. You have become addicted to the rush of endorphins achieved when satisfying your lusts. Same as gambling addicts are addicted to the thrill of risk.

Well what do I do? You regiment your behavior, and THOUGHTS, is what you do. You make yourself busy, play an instrument, read books, get stupid good at some weeb trash game, PRAY! (like your life depends on it, because it does) You stay the hell away from things that float your boat, cheesecake and softcore count. You stop the thoughts when they come into your head. You break your train of thought, you listen to something and focus entirely on it. Hell, go play a unbalanced game at a stupid difficulty level and just REEEEEEEE until the mood is lost.

Well how long do I gotta do this? 6 months. After 6 months, it gets easier. 6 months is what it takes for conscious action to become unconscious habit. THIS INCLUDES THOUGHT PATTERNS. Now, it doesn't instantly become easier, but it does make it bearable. It doesn't govern your every waking thought. And be prepared for that. There are gonna come days where you feel like you could impregnate a rock from 15 yards away. Take a deep breath, a cold shower, some mint/Egyptian Licorice tea, and do something else. Go to the gym and run yourself ragged (you should already be doing that), go watch a movie, go play a game, socialize if you have the means. You really struggling, go hang with your Brodie. Unless you associate with peak degeneracy you probably wont feel comfortable whipping it out right there.

If you fall, you pick yourself back up immediately. DO NOT fall for the trap of "Oh, I already fell, might as well wallow." Doing that will undo all the work you've already put in and set you back. You get up, you clean yourself off, you get yourself right with God, and you continue.

Treat it like an addiction and deal with the problem. Look to other resources for mental addiction. Hell, there is probably some resources for dick-stroking addiction. (though I always found such things cringy and counterproductive. Not the idea of them, but how they are presented. Could just be me though.)


Hey fam, the devil exists and he wants us to fall. My sins are my own, but that doesn't mean the serpent isn't trying to tempt me to it.


It's real. Though note "Romance" and "Infatuation" aren't the same. Its like comparing a long term smoldering ember to a flash in the pan.

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OK but is that kind of romance the kind you see in those shitty romantic movies or is that just pedowood shit?

Great post, deserves to be at the top of the nofap general.

I would like to add that the average time it takes for something to become habitual is 3 weeks.

Feels like the childhood romance that I missed out on We can just be each other together.

100% this. Stopped masturbating and looking at porn right around 6-7 months ago, and some days are hard yeah, but it does get easier. I don't even miss it 99% of the time and now I find myself doing better things with my time.

Always lmaoing at Catholics that think sex is only for procreation. Feminist cucks.

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Repent

Stop posting.

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Literally is not. You are an idolatrous cuck and should stop saying you're a Christian if you don't believe the words written in the Bible.

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Yes, it does. I already linked several posts with sources. If you're too willingly ignoratn stupid too read that, then you're too much to read quoted Scripture, because the sources are the same Scripture I would quote here.

It literally doesn't. Post the scripture right here, right now instead of backing away.
I'm not going to dig through someone's blog.
Like you keep showing, your only "arguments" are to call names. Drop your immature "cuck" calling if you want to be taken seriously.
By all means, stop keeping me in suspense.

The fedora has been tipped.

winnie the pooh off back to Reddit.

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I'm not going to spoonfeed an idiot cuck incel that worships women and "romantic love" and then lies about what the Bible says about sex within marriage.

How bad did I trigger you?
Amusing

I haven't even begun.

You are a fedora cuck incel that gets all of his knowledge from what some cuck priest spoke about in Catholic school. You are a LARPer. You don't think for yourself. You are a hardened heart fool. And if you had Christ then you would seek knowledge and not scoff when it is laid before you.

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