Honestly, what the modern western Christian male needs to realize is that we have been put through an indoctrination course when it comes to our lusts. Frankly, we've all been conditioned and encouraged to think through our dicks. This is what has led to chronic masturbation and hook-up culture becoming the norm for young men.
Fun fact, we have an addiction. Now, before the REEEEEEEEEEs come in, having an addiction doesn't excuse your actions, but it does say that you need to take more aggressive action to dissuade your behavior. You have become addicted to the rush of endorphins achieved when satisfying your lusts. Same as gambling addicts are addicted to the thrill of risk.
Well what do I do? You regiment your behavior, and THOUGHTS, is what you do. You make yourself busy, play an instrument, read books, get stupid good at some weeb trash game, PRAY! (like your life depends on it, because it does) You stay the hell away from things that float your boat, cheesecake and softcore count. You stop the thoughts when they come into your head. You break your train of thought, you listen to something and focus entirely on it. Hell, go play a unbalanced game at a stupid difficulty level and just REEEEEEEE until the mood is lost.
Well how long do I gotta do this? 6 months. After 6 months, it gets easier. 6 months is what it takes for conscious action to become unconscious habit. THIS INCLUDES THOUGHT PATTERNS. Now, it doesn't instantly become easier, but it does make it bearable. It doesn't govern your every waking thought. And be prepared for that. There are gonna come days where you feel like you could impregnate a rock from 15 yards away. Take a deep breath, a cold shower, some mint/Egyptian Licorice tea, and do something else. Go to the gym and run yourself ragged (you should already be doing that), go watch a movie, go play a game, socialize if you have the means. You really struggling, go hang with your Brodie. Unless you associate with peak degeneracy you probably wont feel comfortable whipping it out right there.
If you fall, you pick yourself back up immediately. DO NOT fall for the trap of "Oh, I already fell, might as well wallow." Doing that will undo all the work you've already put in and set you back. You get up, you clean yourself off, you get yourself right with God, and you continue.
Treat it like an addiction and deal with the problem. Look to other resources for mental addiction. Hell, there is probably some resources for dick-stroking addiction. (though I always found such things cringy and counterproductive. Not the idea of them, but how they are presented. Could just be me though.)
Hey fam, the devil exists and he wants us to fall. My sins are my own, but that doesn't mean the serpent isn't trying to tempt me to it.
It's real. Though note "Romance" and "Infatuation" aren't the same. Its like comparing a long term smoldering ember to a flash in the pan.
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