I can't take this anymore. This desire I have for sexual pleasure is too strong.
Tomorrow, a woman wants to have sex with me, this is my first time. I know I shouldn't, but it's too hard, I get consumed by pleasure. I don't want to lose my purity brothers, but I don't know if I'll be able to refuse that woman.
Help me, please, I really want to change my ways, but I don't know how or where.
Be afraid of hell. Know that you could die after the act and know that you now have to spend eternity in the torments of hell just for a fleeting moment of unsatisfactory pleasure. Don't give up heaven for corruptible fleeting pleasure
Samuel Carter
I think OP is aware of that. I've been in a similar situation, but the issue is that as a generation we've lost the visceral fear. The fear of hell has degraded into a mere intellectual fear, but not the kind of fear that wrenches you in the gut.
OP, my advice is to read the Bible for about 30 minutes then spend some time in prayer so you will be confronted by the presence of God. Your mental impurity will bring you to repentance.
Jonathan Green
Oh please user. It's not that he has to worry about. If he died immediately after the fact he'd be more likely to heaven than if he lived, because once he partakes in the forbidden act he's going to get more degenerate now that he's had a taste. It's like rolling a snowball down a hill.
Please don't take this as advice to kys, op.
Luke James
tbh this is one of the most awful and retarded advise you could give anyone.
Josiah Lopez
In the past, there is a man who at this very moment is looking at you.
He may have been a man of the past but nevertheless he knew you well.
As he watches you, his weary body is dragged upon a beam of wood.
Drop your hammer! Lest you nail him unto his tree.
How is that bad advice? Hell is real, and one goes there for mortal sins, heck some saints expirenced it because of vinal sins. One doesn't know the hour of ones death and that fleeting pleasure can cause you an eternity in hell, all for my "cum"/"feels"
Nicholas Parker
You have already decided to do it.
Tyler Fisher
My question is this: how does one build a modern day relationship with a woman that: a. is a virging b. willing to marry you before having sex
Hunter Hernandez
I have a question too. How does someone even find a virgin woman? Back in high school even ugly girls seem to have already had sex.
Ayden Smith
I'm not getting into this argument worn out for atleast thousand times now. But in any case, accent should be on love of God and doing stuff for Him, not terror and fear.
Dominic Lee
Cut off all contact with her and spend the day reading the bible and praying
Aiden Ross
Flee temptation bro
Camden Robinson
Gee, I hope prices for indulgences are inflation adjusted
Of course we should all do things for the love of God, but not everyone is there yet or whatnot. Maybe we have created a different God in our own mind, where sin has no consequence. So it's always good to remind ourselves of hell, just as we remind ourselves of death, to remind ourselves that this world is not all there is. The world can consume you easily if you let it. Remember, the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.
Mason Smith
Gee I wish you would get your facts straight on what indulgence is. Seeing by the fact is has nothing to do with hell.
Jack Reed
I know. It does, however has to do with your overall pathetic """theology"""
Adam Diaz
They exist. I married one. Granted, they're unicorns.
Josiah Jones
All I can say OP if you are still in this thread is that while you are sound of mind now. Put all obstacles in your way to stop this happening. Let the girl know now while you are strong of mind and before you let your lust overtake you that you don't want to do this. You know you will give way in the moment. So while you can still think with the Lord properly in your mind, tell her its not happening.
Andrew Howard
^This. If she is not willing to abide by the Law of God, cut her off like a light switch. Do not be unevenly yolked with unbelievers, for what does light have in common with dark?
Oliver Cruz
Don't do it OP. If masturbating ever leaves you with feelings of shame, disgust, or emptiness, then the same feelings you'll get from this will be several times worse. Do yourself a favor and read Ephesians 5:1-5. Virginity is something you'll never get back, and God will judge you for it in the end. Have the courage to turn her down, as I've done to several whores who wanted to do the same with me. If you care nothing of what God thinks, then think about how it might come around to bite you in the ass when you find "the one" and get rejected because she knows you slept with whores. When you do meet the one, she will highly value the fact that you saved yourself just for her.
Wyatt Rivera
Read 1st Corinthians user, especially chapter 5 and 6. The people of Corinth back then fornicated a lot despite being saved and being a temple of the Lord.
Also David had sex when he shouldn't have had, and that messed up his entire family and got someone killed in the process.
Lastly, the urge is strong but after the deed is done you will be overwhelmed with guilt, and it would leave you in shame.
Do as Paul said: FLEE FORNICATION
Gabriel Cruz
Great "argument"
Chase Russell
Meh, it's nice, but it fades, like all things of the world. Consider this collect:
O God, the protector of all who trust in you, without whom nothing is strong, nothing is holy: Increase and multiply upon us your mercy; that, with you as our ruler and guide, we may so pass through things temporal, that we lose not the things eternal; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.
If you love her, are you willing to commit to what's actually involved in true love? Much sex these days is mutual genital masturbation, and involves no intimacy. If you desire intimacy, will you not make the appropriate commitment?
Also, the Bible mentions you: 1 Cor 7:9! Look it up.
Tyler Morales
Try asking God for more despair and anxiety. When you learn the pleasure can't fill you up then maybe it will be easier to stop it in the future.
You will not be able to resist. Both your flesh and the sexual brainwash in our society makes it impossible. Your only way to avoid it is to pray and then avoid the temptation. If you meet her alone, and she start something on you, then your excitement will grow and you will physically be unable to stop sex from happening. Avoid her or you will fall.
Juan Taylor
You losing your virginity will not make you a chad. It will not make you happy, rather miserable if you love God. It will give you a quick fix as far as ego and hedonism are concerned but deep inside you will be miserable. Pre-marital sex is no good. Trust me. I have been there so I do know that. I have already confessed losing my virginity before marriage 2 times and although I know God has forgiven me I regret doing it. I should have saved my virginity for the one special girl I am yet to meet. I do not know how I will tell this to my wife once we're together. I feel it will be very uncomfortable but I will have to do it in order to set things straight from the beginning. It's something I took away from her and from my soul simply to satisfy my lust, my own selfish desire. It feels bad I was a weak creature then. Insecure, low self esteem, not acting manly at all. Did the sex improve it? hell no. Now when I abstain from fapping, porn and I honestly seek a wife I have become a better man. If I could change one thing about my past it would be not having sex with my, now, ex-girlfriend. Do not make the same mistake as I did user.
Joshua Bailey
Take ye the narrow way and remember there are invisible horns on that woman's head.
Jackson Bailey
Thanks for sharing but REEEEE PRIESTS DIDNT DEMONIZE SEX, IT IS GOOD. However, it is only good in marriage. And yes, the abstinent life is a higher and more blessed call, but the call to marriage is still a sacrament and blessed and holy. Im sure you know this but that guy is from /lit/ and should know better.
Cameron Jenkins
i think our generation is cursed to have to do thot redeeming. The Samaritan woman on the well had been with 5 men and Christ still offered her the water of life.
Andrew Mitchell
Marry her and have a child with her.
Grayson Bailey
Op is under holy order to marry her now.
Asher Scott
Just thing of what God would think if you do it. Remember when Jesus was so much in pain that he even sweated blood? It was because in that moment he felt the weight of all our sins at once. And if you have relations with that women it's another sin upon the Lord. Another sin that the Lord died for. And he still did it because Jesus loves you. The least you and any of us should do is not to cause him any more suffering. Think about this before you do it user. And pray a lot. And think about hell user. Think about the worst possible thing. Well hell is worse than that. So pray user and a lot.
It's a shame that everyone who did that was excommunicated. Feels bad not to receive freely the grace of God after doing something to please him while I have no venial sin unforgiven.
Nicholas Scott
Sounds like brainlet gnosticism. Body/matter aint bad, just had a proper context.
Jason Williams
We've been with a thousand women in our mind, though. Even if one is still virgin in the body due to being an incel doesn't mean he would not be a furnicator given the chance.
Jose Peterson
it says much the same thing as those screencaps, about lecithin and phosphorous depletion, various other nutrients, brain health
Dominic Wood
It's gonna be a wild ride lads.
Colton Thomas
I'm on day 29, you can do it bruh. First week is the hardest.
Jackson Young
Eh, Just a reminder for everybody here Sex with wife=Good Fornication=Bad Sex=/=Bad Cathars, Bogomils and similar gnostard faggots, please leave this board
Joshua Morgan
Hey, OP here. Just wanted to update y'all. I deleted that woman from my phone. Took me three days to get the courage. I've read all of your posts and decided to keep myself loyal to my future wife. I know I'll feel the desire for sex again, but at least this one temptation I've managed to overcome. Now I'll make everything I can in order to surpass those degenerate pleasures.
Thank you everyone for all your help and support.
Gavin Lee
user someone up there is very happy for you. Thank God you were strong enough to repel Satan. The grace of Christ be with you everyday.
Benjamin Roberts
Dont' know what day I'm in but I feel physically strong, confident with people and almost free of impure thought. My mind is more lucid and works harder now. I feel as if I lost a weight I was carrying on my shoulders. It's really incredible the amount of physical and mental energy we waste in lust.
Michael Davis
This is what the true chad speaks like, not some weakling drunk with lust for a thot. Good for you user. I have not managed to keep my virginity so at least I do nofap and I stopped watching all porn and nudity. That's what I am going to offer..the best version of myself. It's not as good as all this + virginity but what can I do now. I want to offer what I can to make it up you know…
Big if true Seriously though, what you did is really based user. If you ever tell about this to your friends they will probably tell you that you're a loser and that you have no balls, but it's literally the opposite. I hope I can be like you when the time comes.
Samuel Thomas
As others have said, good for you! You have done what is truly masculine by thinking for yourself and wanting to save sex for its proper beauty and context in marriage and true love. Your gaurdian angel and perhaps all of Heaven has rejoiced. Be steadfast in this victory and ask God to not let it make you proud but grateful for His grace and direction. Read Fulton Sheen's Three to Get Married.
Evan Price
Good posts user God bless
Nathan Gomez
Glad to hear it, brother. Continue to keep your eyes on the Lord and you will live a fruitful life.
That's great to hear, user! Surrender yourself to Jesus and He will give you the power to completely overcome this. Keep fighting, and keep your eyes on Jesus Christ.
Jordan Ramirez
so did OP put his peepee in someone?
Aiden Thompson
God bless you user, I came back to this thread a couple of days after posting advice expecting a post about regret. But you've done it. You should be proud of yourself your faith and love of our Lord is stronger than temporal sins. A lot of us would still be too weak to do an act like that.
Daniel Ortiz
Yeah, honestly don't know why he hasn't sent another flood tbqthwu famalamaramadingdong.
Leo Bailey
Because of the covenant our Lord made with Noah. No more floods.
William Roberts
this. pretty much everything our generation comes into conflict with the teachings of the Church and Christ; I'd argue that this is one of the hardest times to keep your morals Ironically enough it's easier for the Christians in the Middle East to keep their faith, there's strength in struggle
Wyatt Morris
It's pure shame. It's absolute shame, it gives you nothing whatsoever. Take it from someone who almost lost his virginity to his whore sister. I regret my actions every single day since, and despite all factors there was no justification for it. Meanwhile she doesn't care, pretends it never happened, still wants it to happen, and indulges daily. To whoever else is struggling with what OP did, you're already a better person than at least one other person, don't lose that.
Ian Wright
It's mad thinking that five was a big number back then, nowadays plenty of women are clocking up twice or three times that by the time they're 20
Brandon Clark
Hey, OP here again, if anyone's interested in my ordeals:
Some days after I blocked the first woman from all my social media, this girl that I met online sent some messages to me after a long time and out of nowhere. What surprised me the most was that she was being very direct saying things like "I'm a changed woman now, I'm much more naughty", she even sent me a pic of part of her breasts.
That second woman is much younger and "hotter" than the first one. It was really hard to resist, I desired her. This was very strange too, I can't help but think this is either a test sent by God to prove my faith or the devil trying to tempt me.
The thing is, I didn't block her yet, but I've ceased to send messages to her and she also stop sending messages to me. I hope I can overcome this one temptation as well. It feels unbelievable how things turned out to me, kek, but I think I'll be able to resist.
Pray for me, anons.
Charles Gray
You're not actually promoting a works based salvation, are you?
Jason Russell
I married one. But she is from South America. When we met, she would associate with a black crowd, so because she was quiet, I assumed that she was of that ilk. Only after dating did I realize that that was the furthest thing from the truth. Now we have 2 kids. I honestly think it was divine providence. It’s hard not to. I don’t think there are very many (non-obese) virgins out there. Best chance is to meet in church imo.
Ayden Rivera
If you succeeded in resisting once, resisting again should be relatively easy. Exercise your will, and just say no.
Blake Sanchez
If you were paying attention at all, which you aren't; you would know that they cycle is Flood/Fire/Flood/Fire, and that the next cycle is Fire, not flood. The entire book of revelations (at least the important part) is about the coming purge of the Earth by Fire, not flood. Christ spends a lot of time teaching you, the book of Enoch teaches you this, so many sources teach you the end of the Age theology. But you don't seem to pay attention or care. Hmmm…interesting.
So, he doesn't say that there will BE ANOTHER FLOOD (because this cycle is Fire, not Flood) he says that it will take you all unaware…as it obviously is about to do.
So this is something IMPORTANT to pay attention to…right now, in front of your faces the children of the Angels that have race mixed/species mixed with all the women of Earth are being gathered together to be burned along with their parents (Revelations and Enoch cover this). Also, which one of you even understands what a 'barn' ark is, or where it is right now…SMH…whatever {shrug} what are you going to do…only a few things left to happen and you better start looking for 'the barn [ark]' kidlets.
Luis Rogers
Don't fall for it, I had sex several time with a girl that was a dear friend for two years before it happened (we experienced the same hardships together in our late teens) 3 month ago. I couldn't resist, we started going out after it and she dumped me 1 month after. I was terribly depressed, (still a little, we're in the same prom at Uni so we see each other quite a lot). I deserved to have my heart "broken' though, for our union was based on sins. It felt nice sure, to be considered attracting by a beautiful girl, the physical pleasure of sex and the fact that I was really eager to witness how our relationship would evolve, what we would do together as a couple, shit like that… I would have preferred to stay pure and virgin tbh, I feel like I've been used as a sextoy and that I lacked something for our relationship to remain. Now it will never be the same with her, we wasted a precious friendship over petty thing. And that the hardest consequence to bear for what we did, we don't talk much by SMS or as freely as before, not as naively. And I cringe, and say to myself 'If only I could go back in time". Tl;Dr :
Christian Brown
This is the best advice for my situation of habitual pleasure-seeking that I'm getting really tired of.
Sebastian Perez
You thinking the devil is trying to tempt you through that woman is denying that woman her God-given rights. You've objectified her, she is no longer a temple to God but instead a mere tool for Satan. Satan is there, by all means, however you are both free to choose whether or not to succumb to his temptations or reject him. She has embraced him, but it is never too late to save her. You don't have to be her savior, but at least pray for her. She is not just some tool, she's as much a temple to the Holy Spirit as you are, as disgusting as she acts It's probably hard to, I get that, I'm in a similar situation myself. I hope you can get out of it, OP.