I want nofap

Shit man, quitting porn is so hard. I've been looking for that special Christian girl for a long time, so far haven't found her yet, but even if I did I'd still have to wait until marriage.

Porn and masturbation is my only sexual outlet right now. It's so hard to quit. Most I've ever gone is 6 days. But on average I can only go like 3 days. It's so hard. When I don't masturbate I end up being turned on for the whole day and… it's a winnie the pooh mess. I get blue down there too and it really hurts. The only way I can relieve it is by giving the snake a little rub. winnie the pooh man it's so hard. I just can't stop thinking of beautiful women sometimes and just want to… you know… *unhhh* them. winnie the pooh! What do?

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Prayer, fasting, and confession are your friends. Also, there's already a designated thread for this.

Polite sage.

I do but it doesn't work.

Go to nofap thread.
If you truly prayed…..regularly, you would not be able to fap. Fapping eliminates praying and vice versa. You can't fap and pray at the same time.
Stop justifying weakness rather smash it with all the willpower you have.
Go to nofap thread

Always look to distract yourself whenever you're tempted. Understand you will fail at the start as your masturbation routines are old habits (although I'm not encouraging you indulge in them in a half-spirited way), and as the saying goes "old habit die hard", so become strong with the LORD through your progression & never lose hope.

At least it CAN still die so do not lose hope.

Does anyone have a link to the Easy-Peasy Book?

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this link is decent but ultimately a psychological gimmick. please don't worship at the altar of modern psychology. "outlets" are a meme. God is all-powerful (as in ALL POWERFUL). many people think and act as though God is not more powerful than nebulous "psychological forces". they do not really believe God is ALL POWERFUL.

humility is the main key to purity. God allows people to fall into obvious sin to keep them out of the more serious sin of pride.
trying to nofap out of a desire of "self-improvement" is, I won't say doomed to fail, but it's a trap such that even if you succeed, the "success" is going to do more harm than good.
love of God and humility go hand in hand
love of God arises from knowledge of God (through faith) and knowledge of self (through humility)
you are nothing, yet God loves you with an infinite love. this is the starting point of humility and grounds your love of God, and also your love of your self (for the sake of God) on the solid rock of truth.

you cannot internalize these things without a lot of prayer.
i recommend two hours of mental prayer daily, but that just works for me because i have a harder time sticking to smaller commitments than larger ones. in other words i do that because it's easiest for me… maybe it will be easier for you too if you go in deep, i can't say

to pray profitably you need to know who God is, that means daily spiritual reading and lifelong education in the faith. the more you know about God the more of him you can find to love, and since he is infinite you will never run out of new goodnesses to praise and love in him

Love God above all else, no matter what, and trust him completely, and everything else will fall into place.

humility, humility, humility, humility, humility

p.s. nofap threads are worse than useless. bunch of guys with the same problem get around and commiserate… reinforcing bad habits of thought and distorted emphases… worse than useless.

Stop being effeminate and have fear of the Lord and of hell, because as St Paul says, the effeminate and unclean (masturbators) will not inherit the kingdom of God. You will go to hell if you do not stop. You will also become a sodomite like all masturbators eventually do.

Also have some respect for the women you are lusting over, they are children of God and someone's daughter and you dishonour them with your thoughts. No Christian woman wants to marry an effeminate masturbator as no woman wants to marry a sodomite, so don't expect anything if you can't be bothered.

I am at day 12, the last few days I had moments of true joy and gladness towards life and especially God because I am learning to control myself and especially my "appetites"; I suffer from SSA, I have been raped and I was borderline addicted to hardcore pornography (among which was humiliating BDSM stuff from women against men); I still find it difficult at times not to fall down into the deepest abysses of despair, when the memories of my past failures and sins come up like bubbles of noxious gas being released from the bottom of a swamp and bursting into bright will-o-wisps on the surface of my soul; when those moments come, it's hard not to just say to myself "I'm doomed anyway, better enjoy this trainwreck as I used to!"…in those moments, I start to say a silent prayer to rebuke that other voice. And when I fail, it will be because of my hubris and fallen nature: I will start again, from scraps, with the help of a priest (I am Catholic, btw).
Go to your local church/parish/community, find people who are struggling or have dealt with this issue in the past; talk with them and your priest/pastor, open up to them: my biggest regret and mistake was thinking I was alone and that I was able to do this alone.
Have courage, God will never send us a test we cannot pass! Pray, fast and train yourself, and learn to detach yourself from technology, a step at the time: use your smartphone less and less, maybe spend a whole day without turning it on, without using your laptop/desktop PC/mac, and pick up a book and the Bible…silence and inner meditation under God's guidance can help immensely.
I will pray for you and all the other anons who are in need; please pray for me, for I have fallen and I will fall again without your help and especially without God's grace and gifts.

Become saved.
It gets pretty easy after that. Once you’re saved, God plants his laws in your heart.

I will pray for you user.


I will also pray for you user. But first go to the No Fap thread, theres plenty of advice that I won't recite here as well. You need to pray more as others in this user have said. Anytime a lustful thought crosses your mind pray. Catch your mind wandering thinking on a past sexual occasion? Start praying the Hail Mary. See a woman and can't think of anything else? Pray the Our Father. Come across something on the internet that keeps your mind clouded? Pray to the Lord to remove these sinful and lustful thoughts from your mind. Pray that you may become stronger in your faith and adhere to his will. Do this and it will become second nature and lustful thoughts will immediately turn to pray and you won't dwell on these things.


God bless you and keep up the fight. On another note I think I know what Winnie the pooh is filtered from. Try refrain from swearing as much in everyday life and writing, it'll make you much more appealing to the ladies as well.

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There be plenty more of pretentious xi jinpings like this user

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Wow, I am COMPLETELY blindsided by this argument! Its like the first time this has happened in ten years, and it'll surely work since there are no previous cases of it not working!

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Pornographer scum getting roasty toasty when called out.

Pathetic

Glad to see the responses to that post in resounding disagreement with pornographers. They even accused NoFap of "bad science", YBOP has a wealth of studies, as do any other site that aggregates studies on it.

It's fascinating to see the various pro-sin, anti-Christian, anti-white, anti-straight, anti-male, anti-Nation groups starting to coalesce under the tent of liberalism, progressivism, social justice, intersectionalism, feminism, etc., and claims that anyone against these things is inherently "evil" according to their ideology.

It's virtually a heuristic to never accept anything these types say at this point.

/sage
It's easy to stop watching porn.
You just disable certain websites on your IP.
And you don't jerk off, which is the hard part

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Yes, this is the "American Pie" view of sexuality.

Reich believed in a pervasive field of orgasmic life-giving energy permeating all living things called 'Orgone'. He also wrote books on "Psychology of Fascism" and weird sex stuff. Kinsey took interest in making his scale on the basis of reports from sexual deviants: criminals, fetishists, pedophiles, etc.

John Money (yes that's his name) is another weird one that experimented on the sexuality of teen boys (often twins). He came up with the sex/gender dualistic view that people pretend is normal now.

I have not read all of Libido Dominandi but I did hear an excerpt in a NobodyTM video called "you" or something.

These types invert and subvert. To them, pathologies are normal and resistance to this inversion is pathological!

Very good post, thank you very much.

Nofap is easy with the mindset in pic related. Just live your life for God 100% and you won't even think about it anymore.

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Well the no fap circles do constantly advise against attempting to do monk mode.

Since /nofap/ is a pretty slow board I'll ask my brothers in Christ as well. My longest streak so far is 39 days, the reason I keep failing is because I will wake up in the middle of the night with my heart racing and really intense cravings. Has anyone else on their journey of beating a porn/fap addiction experienced anything similar?

Lift weights or quit complaining. I’m telling you what works.

"For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy."

If you cannot find that special Christian girl, make that special girl Christian. :^)

In all seriousness though, this is what happened for me. I wasn't as religious at the time, and I started dating the woman who is my fiancee now. Over time, we've both become much closer to God in the time we've spent together.

Take heed though, don't fall into lustful desires. I did this and it weighs on me now. We're each the only person the other has been with, and we're getting married, but I still struggle with it. Part of me feels like we're already man and wife, but I feel like I'm lying to myself and that shouldn't excuse me.

It's become my hurdle like fapping is for so many of our brothers. Let me tell you, if you thought it was hard to stop jerking off to porn, it's a nightmare trying to stop having intimate sex with the person you love.

I'm planning to get baptized before long and abstain from sex until we're officially married, but it's a struggle, the wedding isn't for over a year. Stay strong and stick to your convictions. Read scripture and pray. This world of flesh is temporary, that of the spirit is forever.

By The Way, Check this Pro-Sexual Retention thread, might interest you.
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ow, my feels…

It's a good book. It's true that psychology is gimmicks and things of that nature, that does not mean it is entirely without value. Psychology is in many ways an imitation of Christianity, at least in terms of pathologies, sin, impulses, self-control, attention, etc.

That book is about repentance in psychological language. I posted it in the purity thread because I have read enough "self-help" nonsense and found Carr's work to be one of the few gems in that entire area.

You can adapt the terminology and things in that book into the Christian faith. I wouldn't dismiss it so quickly without giving it a sincere and thorough try.

Self-control is what monastics and ascetics cultivate. If you can control one aspect of your life, and resist or even extinguish one kind of sinful impulse why not expand that to every other sin and vice? If you can find a way to develop virtue with ease why not pursue it? Humility and chastity are such examples, and Wisdom is the grandparent of them all.

NoFap and psychological things can even provide you with enough wisdom that humility bears down on you like a tsunami. Self-control is a powerful method for practicing and understanding humility.

(((They))) are scared. We are winning boys

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I like these. Definitely support death penalty for pornographers.

It's way harder to quit masturbation if you dont quit porn first. Stop watching porn first, but fap if you feel the urge is too strong. After a few days, you will realise that watching porn was what made you fap like a degenerate, and your desire to masturbate will naturally decrease.
It's really mindblowing how people say they cant stop watching porn because of masturbation, when you dont need to watch porn to masturbate at all.
Stop being a slave to pornography first. The rest will come naturally.

That's some insane advice, also terrible.

This is really funny for some reason

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If he can't stop both at the same time, cutting porn first without stopping to masturbate ONLY DURING THE FIRST WEEKS/DAYS is an easier way. Your comment is just dishonest .

Then do it.
nobody claims it's easy but the archetype of man is warrior and ascetic.

Someone needs to deconstruct this entirely, and use it to write a prayer book for Christians to read to push us towards more prayer and submission to God.

What should I do if I feel really drawn to the Priesthood and am 99% sure I want to live my life in service to Christ as a Priest, but can't stop fapping?

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Get a vasectomy

MODS should rename the Purity Thread into NoFap thread again, to avoid such confusions.

Getting a vasectomy doesn't reduce your sex drive

Get married

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Stop trying to no fap. The more you try the more you'll fail. You WILL give in, and this is what creates futility in the mind of no fap, causing you to fail even more.
Stop relying on your own ability to obey the Lord. If you were disobedient before you gave your life to Christ then your crimes are still punishable before the Great Court Date. No judge is going to excuse your lawlessness just because you decided to keep the law afterwards. But PRAISE GOD that he is so merciful that he sent his son to die on our behalf, to pay the punishment for OUR sins.

If it took the Son of the Living God to atone for our sins what makes any of you think that you can overcome the sins of the world by your willpower? Where is your trust? Where is your faith? Dont be so self righteous, repent of that first. Repent of your self righteousness THEN repent of your lusts. I'm not trying to chastise anyone, this is the revelation I have realized in this struggle with sin, that Christ alone is sufficient for us. Stop trying so hard! When you are tempted, FLEE. Get on your knees and WEEP to the Lord for your sin. Tell HIM you want it gone, stop trying to do things for him. God is faithful and just to forgive you of your sins, he will do it every time, but if you are allowing this fact to excuse your sin further then you haven't repented at all and it's all lip service. Do you not have the Holy Spirit in you? Do you not have the voice that spoke creation into existence living in your very being? A gift that even the prophets of old would envy? Stop taking it for granted. Obedience has nothing to do with willpower or going cold turkey. Christ is sufficient, cast your burdens onto him and YOU WILL BE SET FREE. For those the son sets free are
==FREE INDEED=
I've been recently restored to repentance, complete and total breaking of chains. Habits that I would seemingly be possessed to commit daily, especially that of lust, I commit more and more infrequently, and every time I commit them it grieves my heart more and more. When I DO fail, it's because I'm relying on myself and not the Lord. RUN from temptation. Try beating your meat when you're in your prayer closet communicating with the Lord of creation, try giving into your lusts when you're praising his Holy name. The Lord promises us a way out when we are tempted, the final choice is ours and it is conscious and deliberate, dont be deceived, you are never overcome, especially when you are in the Lord

God bless

Its not about the power of our will, it's about the temptation of sin that even Christ faced, to become more like Him means to deny our sin.

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Disregard this poster. Don't sin. If you fail, repent. If you succeed, give glory to God. But this whole "it's literally impossible to choose not to sin" nonsense got started with Martin Luther and it has corrupted many souls.

It isn't complicated. Choose not to sin. You will sometimes fail, but just pick yourself back up and continue to carry your cross. Deny yourself for the Lord. Don't adopt this poster's defeatist mentality.