Why is my gf so fixated on the fact I mainly sleep on a single size bed?
I'm 31, I'm not married and don't plan on sleeping on a queen/king bed regularly until I am married.
I own my own house and have a master bedroom with a queen bed which we use when she stays over so I don't get what's the big deal.
When she isn't over its not like she can see me sleep so I don't understand why she is so bothered by the main bedroom I sleep in. it just has a wooden single size bed, wooden desk, wooden chair , bedside table and my old MacBook and some plants for decor.
I just use it for convenience since it's closest to the main areas of my house I hang out like my study where my computer is and the lounge/kitchen
here's the kicker. she seems so bothered by the way I live in my house when she is the one who still lives with her parents at 27 lol.
its really really odd. now you've got her thinking if you do simple weird things like this imagine what sort of weird and depraved shit you do when shes not there or that you dont tell her. it would make her look foolish if any of her friends found out
Carter Cox
I'm 32 and also have a single size bed. I also haven't had sex in 11 years.
Levi Campbell
just tell her the truth : you dont ever want any of her disgusting, dying, bloody, pusy, pussy juices on the bed you actually sleep on.
Aiden Young
Carpet flooring or hardwood?
Luke Wilson
>here's the kicker. she seems so bothered by the way I live in my house when she is the one who still lives with her parents at 27 lol. And you don't, yet you still live in your own house like you do.
Henry Evans
She's just upset she can't sleep in the same bed as you when she comes to your place , just get a new bed and make her happy brah
Kayden Butler
Anybody got a hybrid bed? Got one coming in wednesday.
Robert Jones
I was the same until i finally got a king size bed and now i dont know how i ever slept in a twin..
Bentley Gray
What is a hybrid bed?
Jaxson Richardson
I do have a full sized bed that we both sleep in when she is over. I just don't feel the need to use it when she isn't there with me.
Anthony Rogers
A hybrid mattress is a multi-layer bed that combines memory foam, latex, or gel along with an innerspring system.
Mason Wilson
You have a bitch room and bitch bed. It's like she's a slut that comes to visit. Not good.
>here's the kicker. she seems so bothered by the way I live in my house when she is the one who still lives with her parents at 27 lol. Such an immature defence lol.
Benjamin Thomas
btw how do I delete this. it's not letting me. I posted in the wrong board
Aaron Roberts
please explain yourself
Luis Watson
>still lives with her parents at 27 Haha can you imagine
Ryan Baker
Dated a girl in college who had a single bed. I didn't even know they existed. I thought double or full were the smallest. Not only was it a single, but it was a hide-a-bed that pulled out of chair, so the mattress was really thin. I ended up giving her my bed and buying myself a new one because two people in a single bed was absolutely terrible.
Christopher Powell
Latex? Like those porn girls wear? putting that in beds? Gel? Is that safe?
Does adding all this stuff actually help?
Justin Murphy
Should be obvious why she's upset. She wants to get out of her parents house and needs a man to move in with. Right now she wants that man to be you but you're ruining it by having your home set up for the life of a single man instead of the life of a couple. Decide if you want to live with her or not. If yes, upgrade your shit. If not, kick her to the curb, things aren't going to get better.
Logan Bailey
A man owning a double bed signals he is marriage material. Single beds scream student life. Once you do get married after 20 years you go back to singles because she can’t stand your tossing and turning any more and you keep her from some proper sleep with your farting, snoring ass
John Turner
but I do have a full sized bed which we both use when she is over
I just find myself sleeping in the "spare room" on the single bed when I'm by myself. on top of that it's way easier and quicker to change bed sheets on the single bed .
Juan Allen
based illiterate poster
Nolan Bell
do you fuck her ass?
Christopher Bennett
Yes
Kevin Richardson
you're adjusted to and comfortable in a situation with no room for her
dude, are you autistic or just trolling? what's the implication of you preferring to sleep in a single bed? That you like to be alone. That you just want to do enough to take care of you. That in your heart of hearts, you just want to be a bachelor living a simple life.
Obviously that doesn't bode well for your relationship with her.
Angel Jackson
Basically all normal people view having a large bed as more desirable than a small bed, and would never even consider sleeping in a smaller bed than the largest one they own.
Your GF probably assumes you have some weird psychological baggage compelling you to sleep in what amounts to kid's room/guest room in your own home instead of using the master bedroom. And she's probably right, you sound pretty crazy.