>dad hangs “I fed and housed you!” over my head as if I owe him something for doing the bare requirements to be considered a father >didn’t do anything you would expect a father to do like encourage his children to pursue hobbies or sports or teach them life skills >is a huge hypocrite who says one thing but does the opposite himself >expects me to be his cash cow for the rest of his life because his retarded decisions left him in $100k debt >tries to prevent me from going down my own path of independence and thinks me leaving is betrayal >treated my mom like shit growing up and still acts that way towards her >I can’t stand the idea of her being stuck with him when I leave
Your mother can make her own decisions and that has nothing to do with you. Also, beign fed and housed is more than a lot of fathers do. Acept that he is flawed and follow your own path. You dont owe them a thing.
Juan Allen
They’re going to lose the house and die in poverty if I cut them off.
Caleb Sanchez
You are in a fucked up position. Sorry for your shitty parents user. I would recomend you therapy. You will need it.
Jace Phillips
I really do.
Most people really shouldn’t have children.
Daniel White
Here's what I tell my kid. His mon and I are divorced, both own homes:
>I don't care if you resent me or thank me >I don't mind if you love me or hate me >I don't need you to do anything for me or want anything from me.
>but you're a goddamn fucking idiot if one of your parents is losing their house and you don't step in and take it over.
Tyler Ward
your dad is doing a great job of inadvertantly pushing you towards freedom. whatever you do OP, dont end up as one of those people on reddit begging for advice: "I loaned my dad 10k and he won't pay it back. What do I do?" "I let my dad move in and now all he does his drink all day and fight with my gf. I asked him if he's looking for a job and he said, 'I'm retired.' What do I do?" "I let my dad move in and I caught him rifling through my things. I looked at my CC bills and he stole my CC and spent $1500 on clips4sale.com. What do I do?" cut and cut cleanly OP
Hudson White
your life is your life don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission. be on the watch. there are ways out. there is light somewhere. it may not be much light but it beats the darkness. be on the watch. the gods will offer you chances. know them. take them. you can’t beat death but you can beat death in life, sometimes. and the more often you learn to do it, the more light there will be. your life is your life. know it while you have it. you are marvelous the gods wait to delight in you.
