As short as possible:
>born in the poorest ex comunist country in a poor family
>father left when I was little because he was chased by police
>mother tried to raise me as good as she could
>last year of highschool met with my father
>he now has a buissniess pretty whealty for our country
>he borrowed me money to make the driver license (he needed me with a license)
>worked for him to pay my debt off
>he payd me even worst than an avarge job and worked me from 8 am to 3 am sometimes
>he planted the idea in me that good things will come
>worked for 1 year still in debt to him
>learned how to trade cars for a profit because I was desperate
>gf pregnet
>all my rational thoughts told me that she should abort
>i'm not ready to bring a child in this shit world
>convinced me that I can pull this off because I have a family backing me up
>time passed
>she is now in the 4th month
>decided to go in another country to work so I can invest in my own buissniess
>still had 2 cheap cars
>father told me in advance that he will buy the cars from me at the price I bought them so I could have some money in the new adventure
>bought the plane tickets from the money he borrowed me
>one day before the flight I call him and ask him if he still wants to take my cars
>he changed his mind but said he will take one of them
>I go to his home
>he pulls out a my "debt book"
>finally he end up giving me 200 $ for a car I bought with 1500$ that could easily be sold with 2500$
>I left devasted
>I still got another 3k car but no time to sell it
>fly to the new country
>mother offered to keep us at her home for the first month
>her husband is a alchoolic dumb fuck
>tried not to distrub them but he tried the whole time to fight me for no reason
>worked for a month
>found a cheap rent where I could stay for a few months
>now life was calmer
>work was hard
>my shifts where from 4 am - 3 pm
>used to work even 20 days in a row without a free day
>took a mini job too which was a neightmare to maintain
Is my life over?
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Ya dad is a fucking jew, move to a western country. Currently im sitting on my arse in Australia and getting 550$ a week on the dole, ill jump back into mining jobs come after the financial year
>paid all my taxes and separate medical insurance for my gf because we were not marrierd (200$) a month
>gf had a very hard and dangerous prgnecy but in the end everything turned out fine
>monther insisted to live with them a few months so she can teach some stuff to my gf
>her husband insists to pay a part of the rent
>their rent was 500 for 4 bedrooms
>wanted me to pay 300
>father comes and visits
>asked if we want to partner up in a buissniess and if i wanted to build a house on his land (he has tone of it)
>he really seemed like he wants to help me
>I send him some money to start the building process
>worked for a couple more months
>got home
>build a cheap home with my hands near my new buissniess in which i could live for the next 2 3 years
>invest in the buissniess
>first months were pretty good
>money was pretty good but I still had to work 18 hours a day
>corona kicks in and I'm screwed
>the money I recived I had reinvested in the same buissniess
>manage to live for 2 3 months
>now my money are ending, no profit
>found a really good job well paid in trading
>worked 1 month and now the buissniess is closed
>got no money i'm in debt again
>my only hope is that i'll recive at lest the payment
>father now tries to buy the buissniess and the home from me for almost free
He dosen't really need money, he got money, succesful buissniesses lots of cars atvs and land. I realised he wanted a personal slave to make lots of money for him.
I know I'm a dumb fuck... is there a way to change my life around?
Now basiclly I have nothing, I'm in debt with a child and a gf I love.
Your family are leaches draining you dry, especially your father. Cut all ties, never speak to any of them again. Work hard, ignore family, NEVER TRUST YOUR FATHER AGAIN.
Your dad is teaching you a valuable lesson. It’s time for you to out jew the jew.
your father sounds like a real piece of shit, I am not well off by any stretch of the imagination but when my parents have gifted me money to pay for rent in the past (Dad died some years ago) it was always given on the premise they didnt want the money back.
It was me who would want to pay them back..Shit my Mum specifically has been a star in helping me in life I certainly would not be where I am today without her.
buddy, your dad is a piece of a shit. I'm sorry to say that, but obviously you're coming to that realization yourself.
Your life is not over. It's just going to be hard, until it's not.
Take things one day at a time. Do whatever you have to do to keep a roof over your heads and food on the table. I wish I was more familiar with life in Eastern Europe and I could give you better advice.
Do you think if you confront your father you could get a better price from him for the business and home?
Just remember that this time in your life is a season, and all seasons pass. You've got a kid and a woman who loves you. For all that shit I've been through, and things I've achieved, I still I don't have that. Make the most of the little moments.
I will pray that God blesses you and lifts you out of this hardship.
You guys have no idea how grateful I'm for your answers. I will try my best to go forward even if now I feel like I got no power left.
@ he is not dumb, he knows that I'm in no position to negociate. I'm on his land. In his eyes I should be grateful for even reciving something.
For the moment the most important thing for me is my child. I will try to keep the happy apparance for her and make sure that she is happy, has food and a warm place to sleep.
Ukraine ?