My gf is probably breaking up with me, she invested money with me but everything's on my name, from the bank transactions it's clear that she sent me the money and I bought LINK with it on coinbase but it's all on my name, my account, my address, she does not have the keys. She cheated on me years ago and since then I've had deep trust issues which made me depressed and now she finds life with me impossible because she either has guilt issues (her statement) or wants to live life and party and ride the carousel (my theory) which will inevitably make my life hell for the next year at least. Should I give her the money back she sent me, or give her the LINK or get a lawyer and keep it all if I can? I'm trying to stay stoic but this thing is breaking me down for weeks now and we have said that we will decide this week.
My gf is probably breaking up with me, she invested money with me but everything's on my name...
dadc
dude just give her back her money with like +10% and dump her, end of story.
get "hacked"
The decision I'm talking about is the breakup, I'm not sure if I can handle the trust and betray thing although I have some bodies in the basement myself. And well she is way up on the career ladder with me on rock bottom basically and she can't handle that we live so different lives but I just got a new position which will propel me in the next 3 years to her status at least. She has not made any requests or talked about the money yet.
That's what I thought too initially.
what?
if it gets down to legal shit, getting hacked or losing money doesn't work with anything. not alimony, not taxes, not debt.
>all in my name
>issues
ngmie
she doesn't love you, she loves status. get rid of her.
dude just have her break up with you but don't give her the money. you're not married, so you don't need a lawyer. quit being a pathetic faggot. hit the gym if they're opened up where you live. you sound gay as fuck.
I probably am dude. Maybe what explains it is that we have been together since we were literally 15 years old. Then shit started to get complicated once we became young adults and now our lives are just desynct. I can honestly say that all of my recent memories have been with her. I don't really know life outside.
You have link, of course you can handle betray.
In all seriousness, dump her and don't look back. We're all gonna make it brah.
>She cheated on me years ago
Holy shit dude why are you still with her and abusing yourself? Women aren’t the meaning of life despite what virgins on biz tell you. You need to drop her ass and go dark on her. No texts, emails or calls. The money is yours.
Give money back and sign a contract that you're gucci. Then pocket all the extra link you got. Sounds like a good plan to me.
It's your money, your links legally. It's time to move on, never get back with a girl who cheats user come on now
Yeah I fucked her
Just put the cash into an unknown amount of Monero and "lose" the keys.
Do not negotiate with whores and do not give them an inch for they will try to take a mile.
This is your new shot at life. Find yourself a nice place to stay, get some gains, buy some LINK once your funds are safu and enjoy the ride with Serg and your frens on Zig Forums.
Next time, think twice before getting a gains goblin involved in your finance or personal life outside of pump/dump and amusement purposes.
Everybody on this site tells me how easy it should be and if you think logically it should be that easy. But it's not, I cheated on her as well so I'm not too worried about the whole thing but I did it after she did. The difference is she told me and I couldn't tell her. I need her more than she needs me right now, I know it's fucked up. I don't see myself in a relationship for a decade after that tho. I literally can't look at a woman and say I love her when she is still alive. That sounds gay as fuck I know, what can I do it's been my entire life so far. I also know the sunk cost fallacy but man it's such a fitting excuse. Also I'd have to live in the same city and there's only a few clubs so if she goes there, I sure won't. Also I told her to hand me over the money when LINK was 30 cents so "her" money is now at over 15x. And she knows it, because it was the only thing I had pride in for the last 2 years.
we'll never be gucci probably, she'll be around and I'll be miserable in this shit town. I can't move tho because I got literally the best offer for a position that puts me on a premade 3 year path to an easy mode career.
>cheats on you
>give her back the link
Are you retarded, tell her you bought link with her money and she won't get it back, and in 10 years send her "check link's price", and then she will realize how expensive her cheating was.
that kinda cheered me up kek
It's not "her" money you fool. She gave it to you. You own the keys. There was no contract involved. She cheated on you. Are you going to simp for a cheating whore or are you going to buy a mansion on Mars with the rest of us a decade from now?
If you are worried, get a JEWISH lawyer.
He'll keep your shekels safe and your finances tighter than a virgin's asshole.
>on her as well so I'm not too worried about the whole thing but I did it after she did. The difference is she told me and I couldn't tell her. I need her more than she needs me right now, I know it's fucked up. I don't see myself in a relationship for a decade after that tho. I literally can't look at a woman and say I love her when she is still alive. That sounds gay as fuck I know, what can I do it's been my entire life so far. I also know the sunk cost fallacy but man it's such a fitting excuse. Also I'd have to live in the same city and there's only a few clubs
meh you're just a beta, I'm in your situation as well, she cheated once, I cheated 20 times with prostitutes and once with a tinder girl, I found out about hers since she's low IQ and she didn't find shit about me since autistic paranoia, I know I should break up with her but I can't.
You know the IQ meme where high enough you know your problems and low enough that you can't do anything about them? Well it's the same but in testosterone.
>I need her more than she needs me right now.
This is all anyone here needs to read. You’re a brainwashed simp who doesn’t look out for yourself and you came here to cry, white knight or put whores on a pedestal. I’ll never understand spineless men like you.
you sound exactly like me holy fuck, when I found out years ago because she left her fucking pc open and it was via facebook, I ripped up a photo book that she made for us, trashed her room with the food I was making at the time and was packing my bags, then she came back and begged and after a month or so I gave in. To be honest the 2 years after that were the best in my entire life except for my career failures while she was doing really well. We were talking about marriage constantly, I was kinda afraid. Now it's way too late, should've put a ring on it and forgot about the dumb youth mistake, moved to the country and had some kids. Guess I'll stay single now while failing at the gym, living in a shit city with her whoring around town.
What was the arrangement when she gave your money? That you loaned it from her, and would give the sum back eventually (no matter if link up or down), or that you'd invest it in link eventually?
IMO everyone telling you to steal from her is pathetic, you should keep money and relationships separate and if you are sour about a relationship don't try to get at her with money. Have some honor, give her the money you owe her (either the initial or the link, whatever you arranged) and walk away with a clean conscience.
bro I'm not planning on giving her the money, I was trying to make sure that this shit is legally mine. Maybe give her back her initial investment so I don't insult her family which I became a member of basically, I knew her mom and dad since I was fucking 15 years old. I know her grandparents, her brothers, I spent every Christmas with her family, not mine because mine is a retarded lowlife shit household. It's not a random whore, it's been my oneitis or so I thought, maybe I'm just coping that she can make a decision like that while I try everything to save this relationship. Maybe you can't understand because your life consisted of hookups or the occasional casual relationship. I grew up differently and am brainwashed maybe, you are right about that. But I'm not simping for her, she has been making so much more money than me forever, that's why she had money to invest so she gave it to me.
>We were talking about marriage constantly, I was kinda afraid. Now it's way too late, should've put a ring on it and forgot about the dumb youth mistake, moved to the country and had some kids.
Do you want the mother of your children to be a prostitute?
She opened her fucking legs, had some STRANGER come inside and creampie her.
She is DESECRATED and worth less than dirt. A true waste of carbon and water in every sense of the word. You are pining for a WHORE. You are kissing a WHORE. You are sleeping next to a WHORE. Get it through your thick skull user, I'm telling you this as your fren and your partner in flyfishing on a cambodian market, this girl is not worth a single tear and she will die a lonely spinster.
Do you want to throw away your joy, your potential, the greatest future version of yourself, for a fucking WHORE who let some other dude FUCK HER while you were in a relationship?
Men have killed women for lesser infractions.
I am not suggesting or condoning violence by any means, I am merely putting this as an illustration of the position you are in.
we never even considered that it could end like this, i kinda fucked up on my part with failing an education I began because it was leading nowhere so I had to reset. Which means if she stays with me, she has to stay in the city which was not her plan for the most part. The plan when she gave me the money was that we both finish our shit, LINK will be worth enough for a house or a down payment (which it more than is now for me) and lead a comfy life. I failed to do this because I was a retarded lurker instead of trying to do well. There was no arrangement, I may have said something that if shit goes to zero, I will pay her back eventually but she knew I meant in a lifetime kind of way. That I would buy our first couch or some shit.
Disappear for her life and keep the money. If she starts suing you it will always be time to negotiate a payment. But there is a chance that she gives it up because she doesn't want to fight.
love the half ironic picture, chad fren. And I would sign that post instantly. So the only solution is to find a virgin and basically groom/isolate her so that she stays mine forever? The next thing is we lost our virginities to each other, also sounds gay as fuck but that shit marks you for life. I still remember bringing her to the bus stop while my bed and pants were covered and cum and we had these retarded fat smiles on our faces and repeated it 5 times that week.
> Have some honor, give her the money you owe her (either the initial or the link, whatever you arranged) and walk away with a clean conscience.
He doesn't owe her shit.
Honor goes out the door the moment you are dealing with those unworthy of it.
Be vicious and cruel to the dirt beneath your heels.
Shouldn't you be simping on onlyfans or donating to a patreon just about now?
*covered in cum and blood i meant
>So the only solution is to find a virgin and basically groom/isolate her so that she stays mine forever?
dude, go see a shrink or something
is that way
sure, if someone cheats, break up with them
and if you borrow money, pay it back
if someone cheats, don't pay them back, that's nigger tier behaviour
> is that way
>sure, if someone cheats, break up with them
>and if you borrow money, pay it back
>if someone cheats, don't pay them back, that's nigger tier behaviour
Ok, first that shit is her money. You should at least give her back whatever she gave you, but really you should give her a statement of the gain/loss she experienced and evidence of how it was calculated. If she sues you, it doesn't matter if you keep the LINK in your own wallet or try to hide the tokens; she will be awarded money and probably legal fees, which you will have to pay in dollars. Just pay her.
Next, your posts reek of insecurity. You are so caught up in money and status, which is probably why you don't want to dump this bitch in the first place. I'm guessing she's hot and you don't think you will get someone else as hot as her. It doesn't matter, fucking a hot girl is like 15% better than fucking a plain jane. And she is 75% more likely to fuck your life up with cheating (check), divorce, alimony and child support. You are addicted to an idea of life that has been fed into your mind by advertisers your entire life. You need to have the hottest wife and the most money, and buy all the best shit. Then you'll be happy. You won't. Dump this roastie slag and spend some time to yourself thinking about what you think is actually important and start living life right now. And if you think having the nicest office of all your fellow wage slaves is what's important, you should start reading some philosophy.
/thread, OP is a faggot for even thinking about anything else
>Maybe you can't understand because your life consisted of hookups or the occasional casual relationship.
No, I'm just older and wiser than you, apparently. I had multiple relationships that lasted 2+ years, but when the whores started whoring or trying to abuse me in any way, I walked out instead of giving them multiple 2nd chances.
redpilled
>Ok, first that shit is her money.
>/thread, OP is a faggot for even thinking about anything else
this
you'll unironically never make it if you pennypinch shitcoins hoping that'll be your way out
holy shit you're a cuck. she cheated on you openly and you stayed with her.
from then on in your only mission should have been to suck as much wealth out of her as possible, which you've already accomplished. take all your shit, leave, block her number, and never speak to her again. no lawyer is going to take that case even if she put one together. also piss on her most prized possession before you go.
anybody who is saying give the money back needs a bonesaw up their vagina because they are obviously women. take the money and run OP, it's usually the other way around, this is your one chance in life for true gender equality
>also piss on her most prized possession before you go.
Look, if OP want's to get in a competition with a cheating whore over who can be the bigger piece of shit, then more power to him. I couldn't look myself in the mirror every morning if I stole money from someone who entrusted me with it, even if that person sucks. It's about upholding a standard for yourself.