I have no desire to spend time with friends anymore. I really don’t give a fuck about those people anymore. Nobody I ever called a friend even talks to me anymore except for the two from sixth grade that were always my bros. But even then I don’t go “hang out” anymore. The only people I really feel compelled to spend time with anymore is my family. Is this just part of getting old? Does this happen to everyone? Maybe I’m a fucking hermit or something. All I care about is my family, crypto, and vidya/anime. Should I make myself go spend time with other people my age? What do I get out of that? I genuinely like you faggots. This is a good board. But people in real life suck outside my family.
What’s wrong with me biz?
Colton Foster
Brody Allen
You need to buy LINK.
Leo Watson
Jesus fucking Christ I said lanymore” a gorillion times. Fuck
Aaron Roberts
Yo I'm sorry to hear that user, I'm no doctor but you sound like you might be depressed
I know this feeling well though, and I do think it is a part of getting older
That being said, you should still try to socialize with people even if its not your favorite thing anymore. It's good for your brain
Joshua Murphy
Human is opportunistic. He Only ever cares about ppl who gives him true value for his desires.
Nothin wrong with that
Cooper Gomez
Welcome to adulthood. Next step don't get tricked by some female parasite who wants to drain you of your resources.
Zachary Ward
Cope. Socializing for the sole purpose of socializing is wasted time.
Only ever socialize if it gives you some kind of value.
Gavin Jackson
>Only ever socialize if it gives you some kind of value.
t.neckbeard with no friends
OP, the value of socializing is literally the benefit of maintaining sanity.
Isaac Diaz
Meet new people
Easton Hughes
It’s just boring. The fuck are we going to talk about? None of these people will ever be there for me in a time of need. Only family. That’s all that matters to me.
Colton Cox
Need bigger personally meaningful goals which naturally connect you with like minded people who share similar values
Owen Bennett
What would be considered meaningful for you dear edgelord? Life? Politics? The universe?
Jackson Bell
I'd build your money, go do cool stuff, will meet cool people, life becomes cool
Luis Bennett
spend time helping out older blue collar men who still work on their houses and cars. when they sit and bullshit, they talk the truth and talk about how to create things, unlike worthless people our age
Camden Bailey
>hang out with hick boomers
Of all the shit advice in this thread, this is the worst. Don't do this, be OP.
Dominic Evans
I had four good friends in my youth. Two ghosted me, one I only talk with once in a while, and other I talk with regularly/play vidya together. LIke you OP I don't really have a desire to meet anyone else. My gf, family, and job keeps me occupied
John Cooper
You need to find different sources of joy. Its easy to seek self gratification through isolated activities and family are a given (stuck with you if your a chad or neck beard). The trouble is that these isolated actions give little fulfillment which is why you feel empty.
Sure you will meet some weird/annoying people in group activities but you wont get satisfaction chasing solo tendies. Join a club, mentor someone less fortunate, bang an escort for gods sake but dont give up on trying new experiences.
Juan Bailey
What club?
Landon Kelly
i feel the same. at least you have family. i barely interact with my family. older family members are ok, family members my age are unbearable to be around
Bentley Ramirez
Dead set it can be whatever you want it to be, i walked past a bouldering club which ive never tried and just started chatting to them. Nice people and im gonna give it a try. I think because i enjoy working with my hands in the past (gardening etc) its a way to watch in real life your progress. like one day i might get 2 meters high the next week 5.
Ive always found working with my hands in a physical activity draws me out from my own internal bs
Logan King
ooh a thread I can relate to. found a woman in college circa 2008. she's a foreigner, was very conservative coming from a small town in central asia. this was important to me at the time (and still is). knew within 4 mos dating she was the one. married in 2010, had kid 1 in 2012 and she hasn't worked since. I have a crap government job that pays ok. father passed away in 2018 leaving not-insignificant assets. all this was kept separate, nothing commingled, because shitty divorce laws in commiefornia. I have practically no family left here and want to live where she's from, where the family is larger. I cut most people out after 2018... they're all drinkers, partiers, but have families. just trying to figure out how to get away with petty thievery or getting over on people. seems to be "the american way" where I am in california.
anyway, after spending 12 years here, she's too liberal to talk to about anything with current events - thanks, new mommy forums!
so now marriage is on the rocks, my fault of course. nothing to do with her not wanting to work in one of the most expensive states in the country. she's got a masters in medical biochem so she's not entirely an idiot.
you're not alone, op.
Andrew Ramirez
Yeah just jabber with soiboys about consooming mass media and products. Sounds great.
James Johnson
All that money and you married an ugly gook and had retarded mutant future school shooters. Good job beta idiot.
Jackson Sullivan
why did you send your genetics down the shitter for an insectioid? fuck man. horrible move
Noah Jones
A real friend will always text you back and want to hang out, even if you haven't talked to them in years. Sad to say that if a "friend" doesn't make time to hang out when you try to make time multiple times, they aren't your friend anymore. Don't take it personally---most commonly this happens when people start families. When you have a family, your time to hang out with friends is reduced drastically or to near 0.
Gavin Rivera
Just go full monke. Today, contributing to society incurs a net loss. Save a bunch of money, buy land in the middle of nowhere and avoid people as much as possible.
Adam Martinez
The women situation in America is very dire. It has something to do with wealth, abundance and propaganda. Also having hyper aggressive circumcised white males doesn’t help at all in the current environment. Did I mention America attracts a lot of male immigrants from all over the world? Some of them are good looking, exotic, hard working and willing to play the current consoomer game, which makes the mating/dating environment highly competitive. Then there is the obesity of course. Also a lot of boomers and kikes are very wealthy compared to the younger generations which takes even more young pussy away from the dating pool.
The middle class is destroyed, hooked on opiates, hooked on materialism, riddled with all kinds of chronic diseases and blah blah blah. The tiny WASP upper class is where it’s at, unfortunately they don’t want anything to do with average males and only hang out in their circles usually.
Owen Cox
lol
Noah Thompson
I feel sorry for anyone who doesn't have a brother. Anyone with a real brother who isn't a moron knows how worthless friends are
James Cox
You just have a shit group of friends, might be a reflection of yourself desu. When I lost my job I had a lot of my mates reach out to me to find me a new job.
John Cook
listen to this guy
Kayden Nguyen
kazakh women aren't gooks, I beg to differ. looks asian (win), speaks russian and they have different hair color/texture than the usual "asians." I ended a 6.5yr relationship with a white girl for this one. she's got it all, cept the work ethic. which would be fine if we didn't live in california.
google for yourself - kazakh girls, astana girls, astana. amazingly beautiful city. but it's kind of fake the way las vegas isn't a good representation of the rest of the US.
right, and that's what I saw in her - exotic. at first I didn't even like her, had never been with an asian chick before. the money shot i put, as I said it's separate for good reason. I'm not about to enhance my lifestyle or hers if she's not going to lift a finger and work for a living.
what would you do if you had some decent savings and can't share it with your wife? kinda sucks. and even if she did work, it's just more stuff. I've got guns, modest cars, 3 motorcycles, a job I can't really be fired from, but still unhappy. there's no struggle, no effort. some people dream of the cush government job they can't get fired from, but it's not all that. those who believe the retirement will be there when they reach that age are delusional. after what calpers did to the public agency employees in southern california - cut their pension benefits - because their respective workplace couldn't afford the payments to pers.. they were fucked. there's ~3200 public agencies "promising" a pension to their workers - who do you think is on the hook? taxpayers. what happens when this uncovered liability comes due? one of the many reasons I don't want to live in california. but also having no family here, kz has a nice expat community and plenty of opportunities for foreigners.