Recently, I've had to take a step back and look what has went wrong in my life. I realized immediately that working from home while living with my girlfriend was a terrible mistake.
All day every day she demands attention and just destroys my concentration. She'll then get mad at something and start yelling at me, leaving me extremely stressed for hours. If I tell her I'm busy she bothers me a few minutes later. If I ignore her she gets mad. Sometimes she will say she feels like she is living alone. She sometimes demands me to cuddle with her. She will try to assault me if I don't. Then when I lie down with her, I'll tell her I can only do.it for 15 minutes, as I need to get shit done. She'll say ok then try and hold me down and not let me go. Sometimes she will try to seduce me.
After all of this is done with every day, I find that I get like less than two hours of focused work done. Whereas before I could work with lazer focus for over 8 hours. Now I am far more stressed and I kind.of got used to this shitty life as normal. I just now realized how fucked I am and that if I go bald or grey at 23 it is because of this. She has taken way too much time from me and corrupted all that I have left. She even wants me to impregnate her but I have no money and.am in massive debt.
If I ever get a minute away from her I can never even relax without sacrificing my work. Sometimes I.feel like I have fucking PTSD and I need a day to recover. Sometimes I.waste money just because.of this stress.
Not normal behavior and seems like a horrible partner. As bog would say - Dump it.
Easton Lee
Wow man I didn't read all you're blog but sucks she yells at you. I work from home too but luckily I don't have to deal with that. Maybe try finding a room a locking the door?
Cameron Cooper
If it’s like this now, it will prob just get worse Man up, stand your ground, have an adult conversation with her If that doesn’t work, make the hard choice, and move on. Better in the long run
Eli Ward
sounds like what we in the biz world call a pump and dump
Chase Jones
Does your gf not have a job? This is not a normal adult way to behave, she sounds pretty immature. Does she call you every ten minutes when you're at work?
Matthew Jones
You fucking retard OP you dont appreciate what you have.
Its not easy to find love these days
Find a less sttessful job. Preferably outside from home.
Maybe its also time to find a way to put your money working for you.
Anthony Gomez
Don’t listen to this pussy who obviously has no experienced advice to give. Listen to instead. Godspeed.
William Flores
Big questions op is she azn and does she do anal?
Ian Baker
biz has taught me so much about life
OP, ditch that bitch. i guarantee you, if you let your job slide or lose it, she'll be the first one to dump you. do the pre emptive strike and find some lesser annoying cunt.
