Do you ever watch a show or read a manga and feel like you missed out when you see romance such as in pic related? Especially when the characters are young and high school or college aged? I often do as someone who still has yet to kiss a girl and that is in his mid 20s (24, actually). I’m sure some of you don’t feel that way because you either got to experience young love or just don’t care. But I often feel very alone in my experience with this. Where I feel depressed whenever I’m watching something I like and I see animated couples much younger than me, reminding me of everything I’ve missed out on.
Seriously, whenever I see young romance in media I immediately get upset and think about death. I’m that lonely. I think it’s too late for me. Once my parents die I will have no one on this earth that loves me. I think I might kill myself when that happens.
Basically, any romance anime/manga is suicide fuel to me. Especially when the setting is high school or college.
Also a kiss-less virgin at 22, but I don't get those sorts of thoughts about romance. In fact I rather enjoy the romance genre (at least in anime/manga). Just remind yourself that it's fantasy and that real relationships (especially in the modern world) are never going to be as romantic. If you start to feel depressed and like you missed out on some supper special thing, then just look around you at what relationships are in the actual world right now. Do that and you will no longer feel envious, you will just feel disappointed and perhaps a bit disgusted.
Now I understand why Elliot Rodger sprayed couples with a super soaker filled with orange juice and threw coffee on them. I’ll never kill anyone but I understand the immense bitterness after a whole life of loneliness and rejection.
Jose Sanders
I'm not asexual, I just separate the ideas of love and lust. Relationships shouldn't be centered around sex.
Grayson Sanchez
Everytime I rewatch Amagami I feel incredibly happy and I also want to kill myself. I get you, OP.
Nicholas Robinson
It’s not even all about sex. It’s about being unlovable. Never going on dates, never cuddling, never holding hands or sharing experiences.
All women would rather get gang raped by Chads and Tyrones than be in a relationship with an average looking kissless virgin.
Easton Miller
There's no need to lash out against others user. You can't control the actions of others , or of society as a whole. You can only control your own actions, and mindset.
Xavier Stewart
>All women would rather get gang raped by Chads and Tyrones than be in a relationship with an average looking kissless virgin. This is why you don’t have a girlfriend you self-pitying ignorant cunt
Brayden Bailey
21 year old here. I definitely understand how you feel. My advice is the same one that the other user gave you. Just look at real relationships and how shitty they can be. For example, my cousin just got abandoned by her boyfriend after seven years of being together. Just like that. Now they hate each other and she can't stop crying all the time. Seven years into the trash. Would you want that? Just remember that fiction isn't real and you'll enjoy it more.
Christian Rodriguez
Your never unlovable user. You can always love yourself. Treat yourself better.
Carson Hill
No it’s because I’m ugly and short. A man like Henry Cavill can literally say out loud that women are subhuman and should be property and that won’t stop women from wanting to fuck him. You fucking blue pilled faggot.
Asher James
Post your face.
Luke Murphy
KHV at 25. No, to be honest. I absolutely love romance in anime/manga, but I know from watching normie couples that real life romance and dating is almost never as romantic and idealistic as anime and manga. There's a lot of annoyances and friction when it comes to combining two lives together. Neither girls or guys are as awesome in reality as they are in anime. And that's if you've got someone good - you might end up with someone who ruins your life. I'm not asexual, but to be honest, I'd rather take care of those urges myself.
Okay, I was going to give you my honest opinion as a girl, but never mind then.
John Hughes
>Okay, I was going to give you my honest opinion as a girl, but never mind then.
kys fag
Cooper Hughes
Why the fuck would I ever listen to foids? Women will say one thing and go for the exact opposite. They don’t know what they want. Or are dishonest.
Listen to the fisherman, not the fish.
Hudson Butler
ReLife hit me like a truck
Jeremiah Moore
You're still so unbelievably young man, I don't mean that in a patronising way though. Young life is rife with awful problems and misunderstandings, many just end up screwing you up in later relationships. You can have a meaningful relationship at 24 and much older.
Ayden Perez
What the fuck would someone gain by lying to a stranger on an anonymous board? >Listen to the fisherman, not the fish. That's why you'll die a virgin. Keep it up, user.
Dominic Lopez
When I watch stuff like that I feel like I still will have the chance to experience my first love and all of that even though I am 27. Its too depressing to think that I wont ever get to have those feelings, Id rather think that maybe in the future, Ill meet someone and we can experience stuff like that together.
I'm 30, never had a friend let alone a girlfriend, and I enjoy plenty of romance manga (including shoujoshit). I can read something and think "what a nice story" without wanting to experience it myself.
The fact that you even know who this Henry Cavill guy is is enough for me to know that you have been consuming a lot of media specifically to beat yourself up. This is the media that is causing you to be unhappy, and suicidal, not the romance anime.
Camden Roberts
Just come out the closet bro it’s 2020
William Kelly
It makes me feel sad, I want love.
Matthew Murphy
Stupid blue pilled s o y s
thinking that looks don’t matter and that women can get wet for short, ugly shy autistic men
Alexander Walker
Not to mention the fact that he’s chasing after the type of woman that would fuck someone who insults them just because the man is hot. Faggot needs to start looking for people actually in his league instead of bitching on the internet about girls not wanting to fuck him and feeling bad for himself.
Joshua Nguyen
>thinking that looks don’t matter and that women can get wet for short, ugly shy autistic men you can always lower your standards until you get a crumb of fat disgusting whore pussy. If you're as bad looking as you make it sound then stop hoping for relationships with anything above a 4/10
Isaiah Bell
Women in my league also only want Chads. Fat girls want hot guys too and will not settle for men on their level until they are in their 30s and desperate. Ugly girls do not want ugly guys and based on how Tinder makes it easy for them to get with above average men then they have no reason to.
Benjamin Clark
OP, im a relatively good looking guy and talk to girls just fine, however im about to be 21 and I am kissless, never had an irl girlfriend, held hands, nothing like that. Looks make it easier to get into entry but theres a lot more to it man, I know you can get someone someday just like I hope I can
NOT EVEN 1/10s WANT THEIR LOOKSMATCH YOU STUPID FUCK
ALL WOMEN NO MATTER HOW HOT OR UGLY THEY ARE ONLY WANT CHADS
Ethan Wright
When I self insert I don't even give myself the girl. Get on my level.
Evan Young
Either not good looking or too much of a retard to not use tinder
Ian Peterson
I stopped watching anime because all the romance was depressing me. I watched Kaguya-sama and thought how I'd love to have a girl like Kaguya with me but then realized I'm not even close to be someone like Shirogane.
At least being in the 20s there's still time. I'm already at the 30s and "romance" for me is looking like settling for women who are desperate for a children and paying bills.
Alexander Hernandez
There’s a 16 year old girl that’s already had sex that’s why I can’t get myself to watch it besides Kaguya is bound to lose her virginity soon
Ryder Jones
Ive used dating apps plenty and had fun, but I never met up despite having the oppertunity to, im just kind of too scared and nervous, I never progress anything past like nudes or sexual phone calls, im kind of retarded
Anthony Lee
The problem is most likely your personality. Nobody wants a bitter insecure guy even if he's decent looking.
Carter Jackson
Yep. Never done anything, never will do anything. That's the point of escapism. You just read these stories about things you will never get to do so you can forget for a wee while about how worthless and disgusting you are.
No, no girl wants an ugly guy but they’ll happily go with a hot guy who beats the shit out of them and cheat on them. Fuck your personality meme. Fuck all you virtue signaling faggots.
I had a girlfriend when I was 17 so I'm not a virgin and got to experience young love. It was the most traumatic experience of my life. The only time I wanted to kill myself was when I was with her. I'm 32 now and haven't had a girlfriend since and it's just much better for me. I'm just not very interested in sex and having a girlfriend really messes with my head and brings lots of negative emotions to my forefront. I've had girls be interested in me over the years but I've just ignored them. I'm content with being alone because this is the only way I'll be emotionally stable.
Levi Jenkins
You sound like you really want to be that guy who can beat the shit out of her gf and cheat on her because he's hot. You don't want romance, you just want the power being a Chad gives you.
Asher Wood
>I often do as someone who still has yet to kiss a girl and that is in his mid 20s (24, actually). I'm 30 and virgin (although I at least got to kiss) and I can't even watch romance stuff anymore without feeling like shit. I had to drop Oregairu early on because of that.
Caleb Long
>do all that >be 5’4 >be non-white >get nothing
Joseph Diaz
I fucking hate romcoms and romance anime in general. It's all just reminiscent of normalfagginess. Except with your average nip writing ability it's disney romance for 90IQ otaku themes but instead of innocent it plays off like a bitter nip writing about how he never scored 3D pussy. It's repulsive.
