been broke for years. finally seeing a small profit in my bags and mentioned it around my dad a couple weeks ago. my uncle just got a boat so we all went out. good times.
dad invited me back to the lake a couple days ago. i thought cool, family time again. it's just dad. we take uncles boat out. feels weird. he tells me he needs money. $2,000 he's also supposed to be retiring in a month. and there's some kind of delay in his last check and retirement check. "itd be a loan"
but i fucked up and said let me know if you're really in trouble. and when would you need it? he said sept 1-5th probably.
then he texts me yesterday saying he's gonna need the loan sooner than expected. I haven't replied yet. wtf do I say?
btw i grew up without him, we never were close but now that im older we hang sometimes. its usually alright, kind of awkward. but the fact that he's asking me for money now just wants me to ignore him for another 20 years
Are you serious? no one is replying because you're retarded. tell him to shove it up his ass
Adam Edwards
oh also my birthday is saturday. he couldn't even wait til after saturday to ask.
Cooper Anderson
Honor your commitment. And then stop fucking committing to shit.
Zachary Rivera
2K? What’s he need 1k, $500, $250, $25 dollars for?
Aiden Bailey
see this is what's fucking me up. but ive been buying xrp and getting shitted on for years. i told him about link and he didnt invest. now that im finally seeing some profit he wants to start eating it...
Luis Collins
Just tell him the funds take 30 days to arrive. He doesn’t know anything about crypto
Chase Barnes
source, my dad also was a deadbeat who didn't pay child support and then afterwards milked me for money for years until I cut off contact.
he had 70 fucking years
Adrian Myers
fpbp
Jordan Lewis
How much money did you make? If it's too little, fuck him. If it's enough, give him the loan but also decrease contact with him because fuck him.
Ryan Brown
This, do it because you’ve already committed but don’t be surprised when he doesn’t pay you back. Never loan him money again, maybe ditch him altogether.
John Morgan
for rent and im not sure what else just said $2000
yeah mom had to take him to court for child support constantly
but she wanst much better. put me on addd medicine in 7th grade then all kinds of anti psychotics in high school. then kicked me out when i smoked weed. legit was homeless for a bit
I just want to make it and fuck off to the middle of nowhere. the thought of selling of 2k of my stack this early isn't comforting
Austin Nelson
So this is the the kind of person who buys XRP.
Dude you're being entirely controlled by the lowest most retarded level of guilt trip manipulation. Idk if you are going to even be capable of listening to good advice at this point.
Don't respond. You're an enabler if you allow this to happen but you're also a deceitful little shit because you get off on the idea that you can feel like a little good boy super best boy martyr for willingly getting taken for a ride.
You're not a martyr or a good boy. Stop jerking yourself off in your pity party and grow the fuck up in the way your dad didnt
Landon Kelly
That’s terrible user I’m legit sorry you had to go through that. I think it’s better not to talk about investments around family and friends.
Robert Lewis
Actually this is the better answer. If it puts you in a genuinely bad financial position, don’t do it.
Wyatt White
>btw i grew up without him, we never were close but now that im older we hang sometimes opinion mainly based on this
unfortunately, your first mistake was mentioning you had profit like that. If you aren't willing to give that 2k and never see it again don't do it. Cite some cryptobabble and say since the market tanked you can't afford to pull out if he pushes you.
Luis Campbell
NO FUCKING RETARD YOU DESERVE TO LOSE EVERYTHING BECAUSE LEECHES THAT PUMP AND DUMPED YOUR MOTHER WOULD PROBABLY BLEED YOU DRY. STUPID MOTHER FUCKER, YOU SHOULD GET FUCKED WITH A PINEAPPLE UP YOUR ASS FOR BEING SUCH A FUCKING MORON THAT GETS USED. PEPE ON THE GROUND WITH SPAGHETTI POCKETS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD BE FUCKING MONG
Jackson Smith
Your dad literally just breaks all of his commitments and relies on idiots like you to pay for his screw ups allowing him to never learn any lesson and screwing up everyone's lives in his wake.
And you're his son, a giant fag who bought XRP.
Easton Phillips
this.
emotional ripples and bsv-ers are all dadless fags trying to find a father figure after being fucked up by narcissistic moms.
Hudson Evans
Same here. I grew up poor my whole life. Mom kicked me out of the house when I was 17. I was also homeless for a while (living in a car and sleeping on friends couches). Trust me fren, they will be manipulative about the money. They will guilt you about it and act like they want a closer relationship when they know you have money but be skeptical about their motives.
Jaxon Hernandez
Umm say no
Obviously buttering you up by taking you out on the lake.
John Hill
GOD YOU"RE MORON YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY HAS REALLY IMPACTED MY DAY WITH FRUSTRATIONS ENOUGH TO LEAVE CAPS LOCK ON. YOU'RE A FUCKING RETARD AGAIN. HARD FUCKING NO TELL HIM TO GO FUCK HIMSELF!!!!!!!1
FUUUUUUCK! MORRON! I WOULD ANALLY FIST YOU WITH VERBAL ABUSE IF WE WERE IN PERSON FOR YOU MAKING SUCH A STUPID POST
Matthew Harris
if you want to be nicer about it, you can just lie and say you lost the money or got hacked or something and you don't have it to give anymore. Instead of just saying no.
Adam Jenkins
Yeah just tell him you were saying you plan to make that much in theory, but no one reallllly cashes out. Also tell him we are in a massive alt coin recession that could last up to another 36 hours
Jace Flores
Faggot advice
Sebastian Ramirez
>some kind of delay Sounds like bullshit desu. I wouldn’t, tell him you can’t touch your funds for a couple years because that’s how crypto worksc
Jonathan Reyes
I got kicked out at 17 as well. slept on porches etc. now i have a really good life
at first it wasn't such a horrible idea, lending him the money. but after I left. I realized the whole reason he invited me out alone was to ask me for money.
but the last time we were all out I made the comment "i dont owe anyone anything and no one owes me shit" telling them how I hardly hang around people because they always want something.
Brayden Ward
Here user I have some daddy time for you. Who's a good boy? You are. Yes you are. Now I need like a small loan of 2k. I know I wasn't involved in your life like at all, but hey let's work on our future using your money. I never helped you buy a car or down payment on a house or even with college, but look at you now you're so successful you can keep funding our experiences together.
Since you don't know me that well, I still don't have any reason to pay you back and wouldn't mind cutting you off like I've done in the past. Don't worry champ, I'm just teaching you a life lesson. You'll thank me later.
Connor Butler
thanks for raging like this against this tard. he really needs it.
David Ross
you need to be careful who you tell about this. My mom knows I'm into crypto because I mentioned it to her a few years ago but she has no idea how much I have. My dad does not know anything about it.
Asher Butler
Literally anything, you put in the wrong address when sending to exchange and it’s ALL GONE, then ask HIM if YOU can get $2k
Angel Jenkins
he had over half a century to get his shit together. He didn't. He should have invested in your relationship when you were younger. He didn't. Adopt the persona of a bond villain when dealing with boomers. Speak slowly and cryptically about Darwinism and through in some quotes from ancient stoic philosophy with some totalitarian overtones for garnish. If you really want to push it ask him to beg, you can get as theatrical with this as you want. Then when he does say you could never trust a man who begs for money and tell him to go be a nigger somewhere else.
Nolan Walker
say no. I was in a similar situation with my own father. Took me thousands of dollars wasted to find the balls to say no and cut the bastard out of my life.
Dylan Price
Don't do it, user, please. Sounds like your dad has had trouble holding up his end of the deal for most of his life. You won't see anything back. You should ask your boat uncle about who else he owes money.
Ian Kelly
you talked me out of it. thanks. ill just ignore him for now. but its gonna be hovering over my head.
Maybe someone can learn from my mistake. keep it a secret. keep all good things a secret. the world is full of fucking leeches. I really thought he could just be happy for me.
John Scott
Most loans these days require collateral no? Maybe take his most prized possession on pawn until you get your money back. Also unless following this recommendation, of you give him the money we at the Zig Forums organization will never welcome you back, you will be banned for life.
Jack Stewart
Just say no, dad asking a son for money wtf man.
Elijah White
Never tell your family about your ampies user Say you rebased it all away
Samuel Hernandez
Good, borrower is space to the lender, even if you guys had a perfect relationship this would change the dynamic drastically. Also, maybe now that you know he was trying to take advantage of your good fortune, do what I mentioned above and tell him you lost a ton of it and that if he can spare any change for you, that way he’ll be the one to ignore you and you don’t have to be the asshole for cutting him off. Think about it.
Dominic Brooks
Makes me sick reading this as an dad. Here is a real relation test, tell him you lost your money. And ask him to hang out on X date. If he cancel it you know enough. If he gives you shit for losing it give him shit for asking his son for 2k like a deadbeat dad.
Logan Hernandez
slave not space fucking phone posting
Christopher Russell
Sounds like he has an addiction.
Adam Taylor
Well $2000 isn't that much, for me it would be worth it to see if he pays it back. If he doesn't you know the type of person he is and can avoid him.