swipe right on tinder a thousand times, 0 fucking matches.
If i put my job/salary on there, I'm sure i'd get some matches.
how do you cope knowing the only way you can attract a woman is by luring them with your money? It seems like a backhanded compliment.
Who cares about the opinion of women? They are basically retarded children, or dogs.
Have you tried not being ugly as fuck?
Try not being fat/ugly and you’ll get some matches fren
Dunno I get lots of matches. More than I can message.
its ok user
i only get matched with fat girls and trannies
(literally)
i'm not doing much better
stop hiding behind a phone screen and make an approach.
Fellow uglyfag reporting in.
You will never pull on a dating app where they get thousands of men to choose from a day. You have to meet them in real life. Whether that’s organically via an activity you enjoy with a social component or by hitting on drunken women desperate to prove they won’t hit the wall, it’s a million times easier.
i swipe right on everyone cause i can't afford to miss out on any matches
Ok fed
lol @ noobs who don't know how to game tinder's algo
took me a few years to figure it out
the hard part isn't matching it's meeting up
I'm an emotional retard who actually cares about the opinions of those close to me, after having some relationships where the women did nothing but pull my wallet I've gotten so paranoid about the intentions of those around me that I moved to a different town and quit signaling my wealth. I'm constantly lying about my money situation to my new friends because I'm so fucking afraid that things would change if they knew, and I'm finding harder than ever to find a date. I swear one day I'll either kill myself or get someone to lobotomise me so that I'll turn into someone who'd be happy just fucking gold digger all his life.
you are right fren. I don't have much of a friend circle, so where can I go by myself to find such women? Bars aren't for me and i'm 32 already ffs.
Also, it's not the amount of money you make/have which attracts women, it's your social standing. Having a regular job just means you're stable and can interact with people to at least a minimum threshold. Posting your salary is cringe and won't win any favors.
It's over for u. You're just an incel in denial.
If u don't look like prime Chico there is no need to use tinder
They aren't worth it. Reject modern women, they are disgusting. If you REALLY want a wife you need to go to church, but even then, there are so many whores and roasties its nearly impossible.
Your other bet is to find an asian wife looking for a green card. But again, its not about love, its about family.
Think of family as a goal, if you really want it then find a good girl, have a bunch of children and repeat until you have a ton of children and your wife is too old for anything. Then you'll be happy.
>I don't have much of a friend circle
I’d address that first.
>where can I meet them if I don’t like bars?
What are your interests? Join an adult rec sports league if you enjoy playing sports. Go to a board game meetup if you like board or tabletop games.
Even though there’s a bunch of faggoty normie politics shit on there, the Meetup app/website can be really good for meeting like minded people if you live in a decently populated area.
I’m a dyke and this is still how it works.
Turns out women aren’t driven entirely by aesthetics and actually care about the things you have the most control over — your personality, job, and hobbies. What an absolute catastrophe.
Better than having your dating success driven entirely by face/body genetics.
This OP. But if you’re on a date or someone asks what you do, tell em confidently and casually you’re a stock analyst and trader. Hearing a fancy word like ‘analyst‘, sends a message to their monkey brain that this man can secure a lineage and take care of me. Thus she will be attracted to you instead of you groveling saying “I MAKE MONEY PLEASE FUCK ME.”
Why do you look for a partner on Tinder? Fucking retard.
Please do explain. It’s not like we’re your competition, we likely live in distant locations.
Nigga I want sex
I used tinder. Didn't post shit about my job or anything. Got a lot of matches.
Maybe you're just an ugly beta. Or toxic
Lose weight, fatso
i'm not really looking for a partner, just pussy.
>toxic
Go back
If you put your job and salary on there, you still wouldn't get any matches because that looks desperate as hell. It makes it look like you know you're ugly and uninteresting and that your approach to that problem is brutishly revealing your money rather than working hard to cultivate your interests, change your life in frightening ways, and do the most you can to look better by adopting a disciplined diet and exercise. It reveals you're lazy and unwilling to grow yourself in substantive ways, but worse yet it shows an actual absence of real personality to begin with. Money is different from personality in that there's no qualitative difference between and throughout money and it's completely interchangeable; it's a universal medium of exchange, not a marker of distinctiveness. It's only quantitatively different. by revealing that you think it's your most interesting trait, you reveal that you regard yourself as completely interchangeable with someone with the same bank account and that you think being interesting is a quantitative trait that has to do with how much you wagecuck, rather than something undefinable that takes the confidence to pursue what you like on your own terms for a whole lifetime, which in turn manifests as personality.
Worst yet is that if it does attract anyone, it will be an equally vapid hollowed out person who thinks the same thing you do: that you're interchangeable and only quantitatively different than other people, and the moment some other person with more money comes along, you're history.
Get an escort
i'm not particularly good looking, but not really ugly or fat either. Hell, I get called handsome at work a bunch, but usually by older women.
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Based
Placing sexual viability in your success on dating apps is what is destroying you. Listen to Patrice o'Neil, and dont live according to women's standards or success. Make yourself happy first, and love or accept yourself for who you are. When your lifestyle or modum or thinking changes, as will your success with women. Any woman with access to social media is tainted, and should be treated as such. Make yourself the divinely ordained Chad you were born to be, and leave these women in the dust. You need to find someone that compliments your lifestyle and enhances you as a man.
Move to Vegas and fuck women or transsexuals for money, you literally walk down the street and they hang you flier and cards.
This
You can't have a real relationship with a whore.
Our best bet is to travel/invest in eastern europe or south america and meet an woman there
Market yourself. Women have red flags on things like tinder. Even if your friendship circle is small or non existent, you must have a couple pics with other people in. They can even be years old. Post them. Market yourself
I pretty much don't have a single pic with people other than my own family, hell even those rare.