>first day of college
>everyone is really nice to me
are they really like that or are they just pretending? they seem suspiciously tolerant of my anxiety and stuttering. i think they hate me and are secretly making fun of me why cant they admit it? where are the bullies?
First day of college
it'll last for 3 days tops, don't get excited
Assuming you are going to a good school, congratulations the douchebags that tormented you in middle/highschool are now removed from all your interactions. Just enjoy it.
They are 100% pretending. It's difficult for autists to understand, but normies have a facade going 24/7. They are not tolerant of your stuttering at all. They may pretend to be, they may even act like they want to "defend"you in order to virtue signal. But inside, and behind closed doors, they are laughing.
Normies will tell you that you're schizo for believing this, but it is gaslighting. Do not trust them.
stop being a bitch and enjoy that people can be nice
Everyone is super friendly the first few weeks of college. The goal is to make as many friends as possible.
You are being friendly to other students right??? You’re not just going to coast through school as a loner are you...right???
LEAV EME ALONE I WANT TO BE LONER
get some friends dude. don't you want to be one of the normal people. this is your one chance to be normal. you won't get a second one.
in university, it’s “cool” to be overly polite and tolerant and nice. babying retards is being cool. you made it. everyone likes retards like pets.
>loner
ngmi
im getting mixed signals here
i am being nice. but cant help but act like a sperg sometimes, im not doing it on purpose. it just makes me wonder if people are nice to me because they think im retarded or something, like a lost puppy that needs to be coddled
if thats true, how do i profit off this? i can get away with things because "i dont know any better", right?
It’s because the brainwashing is yet to commence.
You go in centrist/libertarian/conservative and they mould you into an hardcore sjw.
Here is the real answer from a normie that is now during his third year in uni.
People are in general much nicer in uni for multiple reasons.
First of all people are there because they choose to, not because they are forced to (Of course not in all cases but in general) so that filters out a lot of garbage people.
Secondly, people just grow up out of that cringy "Have to make fun of this one characteristic a person has for the rest of our relationship because thats what everyone else does.". In general if ur a decent person people will forgive you for a lot of things and if u have some value they will instead focus on that. Of course adults aren't nice or anything like that and will still betray you any chance they get but they do get a bit smarter so they don't make random enemies for no reason.
Just enjoy the time man, make some friends because after uni u will need to have some connections. Maybe join some uni organization or something.
I would say with confidance that most uni students outside of some very specific majors are that cringy "everything should be free market because as we know free market fixes everything, also fuck sjws" type of libertarian. It's a natural evolution of views that I saw in most people in my uni. During third or fourth year they grow out of it a bit but before that u need to be ready to cringe at all the political takes they have.
Also stop going to Zig Forums for all ur information about the outside world.
thanks im gonna choose to have a good time
obviously, people who have ticks are always laughed at by someone
>Also stop going to Zig Forums for all ur information about the outside world.
It is the only real source in the Simulation
your going to fuck it up, I can tell
I CAN TELL
I CAN TELL, BABY, I CAN TELL
how do i make friends if everything is online? trying to hit up some girls specifically, do i just email them and be like hey i have no friends wanna chill
absolutely this is, but let me tell you that the real redpill is for you to realize that it's not just about you, everyone is fake, and everyone always has second intentions, nobody gives a shit about anybody. nobody cares about you. the final redpill is that it's everyone for themselves, of all is that this is the "game" of life, i know it sounds gay to say that but it really is like a game and you just gotta play along and do the same. fuck people lol. but you're just in college now, it will hit you hardest when you get a job and you get a feel of what corporate dynamics is like, bunch of snakes and psychopaths left and right back stabbing and stepping over everyone to climb that ladder.
Good choice fren. If you’re not having fun you’re not doing it right
All the bullies are gone now dude. Everyone in college is too concerned about their own grades/lives/getting pussy to be mean. Hell, if you work on your stutter you will probably get a gf since most of the girls on college campuses are sheltered and groomed by their parents to only be respectful and get good grades.
Just chill and relax dude.
Everyone is simply happy because...
>realize no more parents to answer to
>Staceys in skimpy clothing...Staceys in skimpy clothing EVERYWHERE
>no more 8 hr block of class for 5 days a week
>less suddenly free to become an alcoholic
Hope you get banned from this board for spamming your shitty threads with your Google Image pepe
Some people might just be responding to incentives without thinking about it, not pretending. Young people in college are disproportionately hot, likely to have financial support from parents, likely to have generational wealth depending on the school, and disproportionately young, so a friendship before somebody "blows up" to any extent is like getting in on the ground floor of a clout investment. Everyone being consciously or unconsciously aware of that makes it easier to make friends and fuck than it will likely ever be for the rest of your adult life - if you can somehow chill out, get in touch with your normie side when you need to, and get lucky, you might make real frens.
this both together means that most people are just as insecure as you are, and so for the world to change you yourself need to NOT do this about others. only then can you truly enjoy life for you are not talking part in the hate and are above that.
This
university is the best everyone wants to make friends and fuck
In general people in college are much nicer than almost any other group you'll meet in your life. Even the "douchey" kids just want to party, they shouldn't bother you. Granted I went to a small college, no frats etc., but I think this is mostly true everywhere. I think everyone is happy to be out of the house mostly, and no one wants to be an asshole when they are on their own. You'll be fine user, you'll find some friends.
Good luck OP. Don't be me, I was doing extremely well then snubbed a qt who went out of her way to ask me to her gay art thing and ended my social career before it even began. Had some core friends tho so its all good, and one of her friends even came around to me.
Furthermore, and let's be frank here, there are no white men. 70% of college drop outs are white males. As a white male, I can confidently say that were are a source of large amounts of toxicity.
(On top of that 60%+ of most college populations are female so men aren't driven to compete with each other through tearing each other down.)
You remove white males and society is just... better.
I am in my last year of college and I never even kissed a girl
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It's ok to be gay user
>(On top of that 60%+ of most college populations are female so men aren't driven to compete with each other through tearing each other down.)
>TFW stem major at a stem college
Fourth year here, going 5 bc fuck my original major. Heres some tips user
>Fuck whatever happened in high school, no one at uni knows or cares of your social status
>Take classes seriously, its a investment (college is a investment)
>Do not care what others think- ever see that picture of the virgin and chad dancing and the chad pulls it off bc he doesnt care and is having fun? that should be you, let loose, fuck people who negatively critique you since 99.99% of the time they are extremely insecure
>Take risks with talking to people, uni is sooo big you fuck up or drop shagettt? who cares they arent going to remember it
>Overrall enjoy it, make friends, stay safe and make smart choices
I doubt I would be a kissless virgin at 26 years of age if I was gay
>implying gays would kiss a fat ugly Zig Forums autist
covid fucked it completly up tough.
i literally started my courses in march, and everything is online ever since and atleast for another year
I never talked or looked or kissed any girls in college because I had crooked teeth and bad breath, I'd go one day and miss the other day, I repeated 3 years, I would just stay alone in the back corner class and I do not regret that Am I being naive or gay? I feel like once I make it I will fuck many girls
>fat
I am 7 years Zig Forums now, lift and eat better than anyone around me
The bullies are at the fraternities.
i remember the first week of college. you need to be friendly too user. also stay far away from the desperate weirdos. in a social situation, the freaks are like crabs in a bucket. they will try to get you to be their friend and seethe when you be friends with other normal people. identify the cool ones and be nice but avoid the losers
hol up nigga you played yourself because your fucking teeth were crooked?
jesus christ I was fat as shit I'd swap you in a second
Its illegal to be a bully in 2020.
Uhh maybe if its a really really good school. Douchebags get good grades and scholarships too.
You dont need to try so hard