>love my gf more than anything, would literally die for her >have a job where I make like $100k/year >pay all the bills, pay for her cellphone, buy all the food, etc, she still works, but thats "her money" >put $5k into stonks and $5k into crypto at the end of february when I felt the rumblings of COVID-19 and saw the writing on the wall >she absolutely freaks the fuck out that I "wasted 10 fucking grand" >is mad about it for months >say 'fuck it', I made the right decision >now she's all for it when she sees that those investments are now worth about $20k >wants me to cash out to go on a fucking trip???? (this is in the middle of all the lockdowns) >doesnt accept that if we leave the country or province I have to take an extra 2 weeks off work to quarantine >meanwhile this whole time she just calls me lazy because I "dont work enough" and "all my friend's husbands are working 2 or 3 jobs!" (keep in mind I still make about twice as much as them working less hours) >get asked to go out of town for some work up north (literally in the arctic circle right by the ocean) >I make about twice as much working out of town, so for the next 2 or 3 months (16 days on, 7 days off work back home, I get flown back and forth) I'll be making the equivalent of $200k/year >she flips the fuck out over this >says I'm "just taking one of your sluts on vacation! YOU NEVER TAKE ME ON VACATION" (keep in mind I have absolutely no sluts) >also keep in mind the population density of the area I'm going to is literally more polar bears than whores where I'm going >she doesn't care, somehow thinks I'm going to be cheating on her in the middle of buttfuck nowhere at a research center thats currently empty where I'll be staying with about 10 other guys all their 40s/50s
I just dont fucking get it. I get a chance to make even more money, she just thinks I'm going to cheat on her? Is it literally never good enough?
grow up you little bitch and stop granting women so many rights. what are you, a baby? fucking idiot
Luke Lopez
Most Woman can't into logic. They are run mostly on emotions, so give her the feelgood stuff, make her feel valuable and she should shut up about it. But might be right I am afraid. Those who yell the loudest, are usually guilty of the charge.
She's cheating on you. Projection, a general desire to have you out of the house more often """for money making""" but not within the context of you being out of range of easy, day-to-day manipulation. Anyway, it's obvious that you know something is wrong, and that is the point where you decide to move on, or continue and become a victim in the proper sense of the term. There are no fixed patterns for manipulative behavior, but we know it by its outcomes. If the relationship is hurting you, it's over.
Benjamin Barnes
Sounds like there are two bitches in your relationship
Leo Morgan
And to add, just think of her like a child, because thats how they act at the end of the day. Ask youself, what would you do if a child acted like this to you?
Be a man tell her to fuck off of that sucubous will drain you dry. She’s clearly giving you “it’s never enough” signals when you’re a hard working guy
Get that skank out of your life get a trad wife
Michael Howard
Your girlfriend sounds like sub-human garbage. You should figure out if the reason she doesn't respect you and your decisions is a problem with you, or a problem with her. Then leave, work on yourself, and gain the self-respect you'll need to have a woman who actually loves you instead of just your stuff.
