Seeking arrangement

for those of you who have used it, how was your experience?
What sort of arrangements did you come up with and what $$$ was involved?

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who does that when they can organize events with $50 tickets for some bs

what?

Had a chick come over from seeking arrangement and we smashed. $0

Many of these young ladies are looking for their money guy AND their fun dating guy at the same time. They don't necessarily care if you show up on the "wrong" platform though.

For the more hardcore pros on there, you're looking at anything from $200-300 "pay per meet" up to allowances that cover tuition + rent + car. Just know that $0 is possible if you're attractive and frame yourself as "in on it" with them.

To add on to that, I use SA as a Tinder where it's easier to get past step 0 (matching) and into a conversation, as an low-average looks guy.

Doubt I'd look for long term there, but it's a neat hunting ground.

$400 for top tier pussy including anal

Yea I used it to bang 2 girls. My buddy went crazy and banged a bunch of 10/10s. Young girls you would never get in a million years. I might do that one day. I donno. It's amazing what these young girls will do for a couple hundred bucks. Fucking strangers for just a few hundred. Wtf lmao.

It's pretty legit, but at the same time, could fuck you up emotionally. Knowing all these women are hooring themselves, and if you get attached and catch feels for one of these young snus, then you get crushed (because they don't care about you).

Anyways, just make an account, and message everyone you find attractive. Simple opener, ask what they're on there for or some BS, and then when they inevitably ask you, then you state what you want.

as the other user said, the term if you want to just smash is pay per meet (PPM). Usually a few hundred bucks, then take it from there. It's pretty nice way to have sex with young hot chicks. But like I said, it's a bit soul crushing. But that's because I am a emotional faggot who just wants to be loved at the end of the day.

Ages?

How do you frame yourself as "in on it" with them? If they want $ they want money. Unless you banged one of those chicks new to the site?

19-23, for the price it's almost (!) guaranteed they won't see anybody else, highest bidder wins you know, make sure she delist her profile, change them every few months, ask for STD test, enjoy

i'm looking at the site right now and it says PPM is against the rules and they should report it...is it not an issue?

also do you need face pics?

don't fall in love, always ask for ID, bunch of 16 yo there, blackmail is real

So you gotta pay 400 every time you want to splooge? I am too much a poorfag for this. My village PNK holding has not taken off yet sirs

>How do you frame yourself as "in on it" with them? If they want $ they want money. Unless you banged one of those chicks new to the site?

Plenty of ways. One is just starting a normal conversation -> meetup flow and NEVER any exhange of money. This is what it looked up for me last time.

Are some total pros where it is $50 to even talk to them? Yes, but you just move on. Plenty of fresh girls looking to "check it out" and have no idea what or how to get into a sugar baby career. You just show up as a normal guy that isn't 40+, divorced, overweight, etc.

You can even get into jokes like "I don't care if you go collect a few thousand from a loney 52 year old on the side"

A chick I hooked up with last Halloween I recently saw on both Tinder and SA. One profile just had a hidden face.

for 10/10 yes, for 8/10 can go around $200, anything below that = Tinder

>This is what it looked up for me last time.
what it looked like for me last time*

It’s ridiculously good at pulling in bareback hot sloots too young to realize they have daddy issues. It’s a lot of time and money.

Easier to just pay the slooots then to waste your time looking for the 1% of them that you can finesse

met current gf and slept with ~15 chicks over 2yrs off it. if i really craved sex (i don't), that could easily be over 50 by now..

most slept with me before any exchange of $ (aside from paying for mostly average dinners, drinks etc). but I'm an attractive 28 year old chad brogrammer which helps. It's like big fish/small pond dynamics except attractive fish/ugly pond, whereas on Hinge/Tinder/etc I'm an averagely-attractive-fish/attractive pond

I'm by no means rich, just make a decent income and can afford to pay for nice dates or gifts if i feel like it, but again it helps to be young and attractive when the rest of the dudes are fugly old men

also, girls mostly hate when you make it seem transactional. they feel like the sloots they really are and their lizard brain revolts. just chat them up like actual humans before jumping to "$300 to fuck ur ass plz??"

Ya. That's my niche as well.

Late 20s software engineer where I get killed in the tinder pond. Meanwhile, we standout on SA while still having cash to back some lifestyle

>Easier to just pay the slooots then to waste your time looking for the 1% of them that you can finesse

Certainly more time efficient. I enjoy the finessing process as a hobby though

Oh I see. So you don't bring up $$ unless they do basically.

> "$300 to fuck ur ass plz??"

Lmao I wasn't as bad but yeah I thought you have to negotiate. Didn't know there was a way to not have to pay. Intredasting.

>Oh I see. So you don't bring up $$ unless they do basically.

Yes. I tacitly put a mental anchor on the conversation that there is $0 of value being exchanged. A non-verbal expectation that I'm getting it for free or will be from the next gal up

Paying will certainly make everything faster, more plentiful though.

Just helps to know what anythign is possible on there.

If she asks what you offer and you don't want to cut ties, you can follow up by saying that it's easier to negotiate that kind of thing in person.

Gotcha thanks. You and the other user have a better way of finessing these situations than I do. When I would just message all these girls, usually some sort of expectation was brought up in the conversation, as I'm assuming most have had their time wasted or met a scammer and are expecting to make the terms known before they venture out.

But gotcha good to know thanks.

If I had to sum it up, it would be to delay delay delay any money talks, while leveraging that you have her attention, which is an opportunity to build attraction,whether over text or in person.

Basically, bide your time while seeing if you can produce organic chemistry that she's willing to make an "exception" for.

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In terms of demographics, the younger women will be morenaive. 18-20 or 18-24 year olds on an account made in the past week or ideally the last day are where you can get with a chick who hasn't been shaped by the ecosystem.

A 28 year old that has already had 5+ sugar daddies in the past decade is going to be a lot more mercenary

>Basically, bide your time while seeing if you can produce organic chemistry that she's willing to make an "exception" for.

I was going to ask what the parameters were, but then you summed it up here:

> In terms of demographics, the younger women will be morenaive. 18-20 or 18-24 year olds on an account made in the past week or ideally the last day are where you can get with a chick who hasn't been shaped by the ecosystem.

Nice user thanks. My buddy was always telling me to go after the ones new to the site and now I know why lmao. My experience was the new ones wanted to "see the lay of the land" before they committed to going out. But I see it just means putting in more effort to establish some sort of connection. And also it comes down to attraction as well. Thanks again brah

Question to some of you that have done this, do you live away from your family? I live in a somewhat large city (1 million people), but I always fear that somehow someway it will make it back to family/family friends that I am banging whores on this seeking arrangement platform or something. I hate living in a place where I know so many people. I'm a pretty private person and it honestly makes me just want to move to get away and take part in some degeneracy. At the same time, I would have to sell part of of LINK investment to do this.

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For me, the girls I find most attractive already have their shit together and don't need the money to pay rent that week. They may require a guy to PPM for just dinner, but usually only if he's fugly.

For them it's less about the actual exchange of money, but more about elevating their lifestyle. Dating a rich, smart guy who's "made it", going to nice restaurants, getting gifts..

Now, there's also the type of girl who literally needs $300 to make rent that week. She'll be fine if you approach her with a blunt message like "hey ppm tonight?", in fact they often approach ME with that. That's not attractive to me as I'm a pussy and like the emotional connections more than the physical, but if that's your type then all the better.

yes we live near and it's certainly a minor fear but, at least in my situation, it wouldn't be that crazy.

I did meet one SB who saw her uncle on the site. It ended in a Nash equilibrium where both had dirt on each other, so neither said anything..


somewhat related, I recently moved back to my hometown and saw a hot girl I knew from high school (was out of my league then, not now I guess). Debated whether to DM her or not, and gave in after a few days. She took it well and we plan to meet up when she's done taking care of her elder grandma (covid. hope its not just an excuse..)

mate just pay for a professional escort, you'll get much better value out of it