Be with gf for 7 years

>be with gf for 7 years
>be loser the entire time
>she cares for me
>tells me it doesn't matter, she loves me for other qualities
>meanwhile i hold 13k LINK, drns
>now worth more than 150k with LP
>get decent entry job at a bank
>get new, nice place near her
>can afford a cheap first car
>everything seems to be actually happening for the first time in my life
>she leaves me

WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS TWISTED WORLD WHY CAN'T I HAVE IT ALL AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH WHY IS SHE SO RETARDEDLY GOOD THAT SHE CAN'T EVEN FAKE AFFECTION FOR THE MONEY FUUUUUUUUUUUCK

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imagine not selling when it was at $20, with that 200k in actual investments instead of a shitcoin that's going to slowly crab to zero over the next year, you wouldve been well on your way to retirement. now you're going to wage for 30 years, loser.

It wasn’t about the money there could’ve been any number of factors at play like maybe you changed, she changed, but either way congrats on the financial growth, I’m sure you’ll find love again elsewhere.

I had 14k, the drns was more of a theme from 2017 to 2019. I sold 1k to get 19k in the bank, that's how I got a new place, new car, still over 10k to spend and enjoy the next years. I still don't get it, it just fell apart so quickly with her out of nowhere. I'm not even sad, just in disbelief how life can turn instantly on its head. I want a mommy gf again, I alread shit up my new place.

thank you, didn't expect a genuinely positive response. I hope so too but right now it feels like I am looking for her in other girls so I guess it's not time for a new one yet. You're right, we both changed a lot and the basis of our relationship was always a bit weird but beautiful. This Christmas will be hard, my family doesn't really celebrate and I was with her family all 3 days the last 6 years or so.

>mommy gf
That would explain why she left you, user. Women only want to be a mother to kids, not to immature failures at life. Once you started doing well, she no-longer had any guilt about leaving you as you now looked able to handle your own shit.

that could be the case but she actually embraced it, it was kind of our thing. meanwhile i managed her money, got her through statistics in college, etc. i'm just not a household type of guy and she was a household type of girl. but maybe there's some truth in what you say.

to prove my point, we were so close, i actually showed her mild memes from here, and showed her the gf meme, the mommy gf meme to be precise and she called herself mommy sometimes like "mommy made pancakes" it was surreal and hot. i think the biggest issue was that i never pulled the trigger, i took her for granted and never commited with marriage or moving together seriously (we were living a street apart and basically lived together anyways) and we talked about kids for years but never actually tried. well now it's gone.

Your mom finally got to see you fly

This user is right. She got off on the fact that she outclassed you in every way. Now you’re the one who surpassed her, it’s time to level up and get a new gf. Don’t be upset about this user, women come and go for a reason, never forget that.

It’s more like if he has his shit together she can’t mother him any more and she fails to be fulfilled. I’ve seen it before

>I BOUGHT THAT FOR YOU NOW SUCK MY DICK

i wish it were this simple

Some women like projects that they try to improve. I think it brings out the mothering instinct in them
Some women are the equivalent of guys who buy old rusty cars and spend all their time tinkering with them

The remainder are leaches.

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Maybe she just wanted to see if you would take her back

>she actually embraced it
>mommy gf
No woman actually likes that shit, they just tell you that to your face but in reality they hate it and they complain about it to chad as they ride his huge cock. Sorry user but men don't need their mommy to take care of them

Op. Its the 7 year itch. Happened to me. Happened to multiple friends. People change and move on. Nothing you could have done against years of the girl going "what if...". Yes it was years of those thoughts. You would have also had them.
Hang with friends, have fun with new girls but dont get serious. Solo travel for a bit. Enjoy life. Then hunt for the next long term gf.

I need a woman who will love me and breastfeed me. Preferably one who will stay at home full time to cook and clean and sex me whenever I want. I don't mind being the breadwinner as long as she is my doting mommy sex slave when I come back.

thanks fren, fuck it's so sad that this seems to be the norm. the world could be so much nicer if we could get over petty instincts or thoughts. because i had a lot of "what if" thoughts and wanted more freedom but now that i'm free i want the coziness of a relationship again. shit sucks. but the advice sounds awesome, nothing new but always nice to hear and get reminded again how well off i am actually.

You were together for 7 years and didn't live together? Are you 16?

dude if she hung in there for 7 years and then quit when you GOT money then she's got something wrong up top mate

She's probably a "fixer" and doesn't actually want an equal partner, but someone to take care of or "fix"
It's actually common for women and unfortunately she was probably more in love with the feeling of "taking care of you" than... well.. you.
What's her age jw?

Welcome to hypergamy. You didn't do anything wrong. Women did not evolve to love you and they did not evolve to be loyal. She's probably been ready to leave you for months and finally found the right branch to swing to. Accept this fact about nature and your life will be infinitely more positive and stress free. Keep growing financially and go to the gym. Every ex I've ever had hit me up at some, even ones I hadn't spoken to in almost a decade. Use hypergamy against women.

Funny how white people don't seem to get the 3 letters that most women lack in all relationships:

B B C

Take my advice. Use your new freedom. Every decision is now your own.
Want to visit your long lost friend in another city? Book that plane ticket for this weekend. You have no one to complain at you now.
Im in another long term relationship now but I fondly look back on those single days. Moved in with some roomies for a year and just spent it working, partying and playing vidya. Enjoy it as much as you can until you nail down the next best thing. Dont rush into finding it.

we are both 22 now so we dated from 15. it's kinda insane to think about

she moved on to bigger and blacker things

bbc is a proven myth faggot

most likely. my 7 year relationship was also at 16.
you stay together bc you're young and think this is love, then as you hit your 20's you're like "hold up i wanna do single shit" and it ends. If OP is drowning in link, has his own place, a car, and a good job, his life isn't over, it's just beginning

That means she wanted you to play Daddy, not baby.

user, just want to say I went through the same exact thing a few months ago and was about to get engaged, but she began to resent me as good things continued to happen for me while her problems were becoming harder. I bought a brand new car, have over $500k and 30k Link, flexible work since I own my own soft dev company here in the US, etc but she still randomly broke up with me out of the blue. The days before that she took me to the literal plot of land where we were gonna build our house, and was talking about getting engaged in January and i was even going to move in the short term to be around her more. Not gonna lie, shit still haunts me because I genuinely thought it was going to be the person I spend my life with. She was unironically my best friend for years, and then she broke up with me and blocked me on everything. Literally everyone was in shock and called her crazy since she said she loves me but doesn’t know why she’s doing this. Anyways, try your best to move on. It might end up being a blessing in disguise

for some reason she’s a fixer-upper and since you fixed yourself she subconsciously felt you dont fit her partner qualities and that she became useless to you. be happy and find yourself a healthy girl now

>be white
>girthy and dick hits the gf uterus opening
>ow, slow down, that hurts
She loves it. Maybe im blessed i dont think i need to worry about her cheating for bigger dick

How old are you OP, if you don't mind the question

Damn bud, sorry to hear that. You are young and being single may be the biggest blessing you could have. Focus on yourself and who knows, you're both still out there in the world - it could still work out. Just take this as an opportunity to focus on the bigger things.

This is three wrong mindset and is what lands at many men in divorce court getting fucked by alimony. This woman want worth marrying. Tell yourself this every single time you get sad. You wouldn't have to marry a woman to lock hey down.

You were absolutely blessed that she left you. Same as above, you don't marry women like that. She isn't marriage material. You have no idea how lucky you are that she bailed before the marriage. That is a 100% guaranteed divorce, so let it be someone else's divorce. You deserve way better than that. Guaranteed she hits you up again in a few years after she's done whoring around. You should feel disgusted and disrespected enough that she still thinks she's on your level that you don't even dignify her with a reply.

I had a similar situation and she just changed on me
At first I was crushed, naturally, but after a year and seeing that she was now super fat and entering never ending short term relationships with a kid it was clear I dodged a bullet

Unfortunately a vast majority of women are pretty retarded and if that wasn't bad enough we live in a society that constantly preys on emotions as a main factor of brainwashing, which particularly gets to women

I think you dodged a bullet. Work out (not just to look good - the endorphins it releases will fight the serotonin/dopamine imbalance you likely are experiencing). Keep investing. Drink some good whiskey but not excessively. Drink water. Eat protein.
It's a great opportunity to reforge yourself mate

She discovered the grass is actually greener. Whatever though, download tinder or whatever, spend some time making a non-creepy profile.. And learn when to sell at the top. Work on you. Ditch the shitcoin, it will only make you more depressed.