Fuck my life

If you really want to have sex get viagra but honestly once post nut clarity sinks in youre going to regret a hooker. Better to wait and go find the right girl.

I'm afraid of women and being judged by my inexperience in sex. I'm tempted to buy pills or whatever to be ready next time I see an escort

At least you came, right? Right????

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I'm 28 man

Yes

you have no confidence because you haven't pulled a girl in real life. Go lift, run, or do some physical activity or sport and become competent at it. Then when you feel accomplished go talk to girls in public until one becomes receptive enough to go on dates with you, then you have sex.

Keep hiring and trying to fuck escorts.
Your mind and body will adjust.
Trust me on this, I had a similar experience to you when I got my first girlfriend. Could barely get it up. Couldn't cum. Took about a month to feel comfortable enough to fuck. 10 years later I fuck like a champ and cum whenever I want.

theres nothing to be afraid of dude, they are literally inferior to men in everyway and generally much nicer to be around. maybe try and pick up a part time wagie job where you are regularly around women so you get desensitised to them? find a hobby with nice girls so you have something to talk over? talking to women doesnt have to have the end goal of sleeping with them, they are flawed people just like men.

Do this OP

Nice

thats why I said to stop caring about what others think. Yes get some viagra or cialis if required. Build confidence and technique. Fuck it, even tell your first few whores that you are inexperienced and need help.
You are paying them, they are there to provide the service you need

>Go lift, run, or do some physical activity or sport and become competent at it.
Yeah I guess this. I mean... It's for sure something I don't do, and I clearly need to change something. I wasted years being obsessed with my officemate and she exploited me working for her PhD, didn't have energy to do much else outside work

I am 26 years old and I never even kissed a girl

>maybe try and pick up a part time wagie job where you are regularly around women so you get desensitised to them?
Good point, with my studies I was always around mostly dudes

I used to be a very normal person relatively speaking and had sex and went to parties and did drugs and wageslaved and all that. Never amounted to anything. I fell out of doing literally all of that and am much more "me" now albeit a nutcase from the outside. I've always just lived the way I'm comfortable living and try to accumulate worth points within that scope. Maybe if you're not good at women you should just ignore them and focus on stuff you like & are talented at. Eventually bitches will surprise you if you just don't hate life and yourself.

at least you don't have to work anymore

this is the correct answer. i know guys who have been date raped by sluts and had long term gfs but still act like incel virgins because they didnt get either on their own.

facts

>i know guys who have been date raped by sluts
I wish I would get date raped by a slut

>Maybe if you're not good at women you should just ignore them and focus on stuff you like & are talented at. Eventually bitches will surprise you if you just don't hate life and yourself.
I mean I did kinda give up at some point, trying with an escort was my capitulation (I was thinking about it for years :/). But I see what you mean, it's more about not even thinking about it as a problem

Try a pill, it'll give you confidence, then next time take 1/2 the pill, then the next time 1/4 then next time zero. Just keep at it, with time you'll build confidence. Also don't fap for like at least a month before and watch zero porn for the rest of your life.
Follow that and I guarantee you'll be fine.

all these "dude just improov go to the gym two times per day join 12 different book clubs become rich and extremely passionate harp player" empty normalhomo casual advice is useless considering that the vast majority of dudes that are in relationships are none of those things, probably even more boring and interest-less than a standard kissless virgin

just get with the terms that people like you and I are simply meant to die alone

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kys doomer

This is true and I was even told as an advice, when I think I'm not "interesting" enough, that a lot of dudes have absolutely nothing going on for making them interesting and they still find partners easily.
One advice I was given that in retrospect makes sense was to lower my standards, because at some point I'm quite confident I did have a chance with a girl. She was another PhD student in another department. She was not ugly but couldn't walk. I really believe it wasn't a problem of standards though but just me being afraid of taking the initiative for anything physical

no you dont she was a short ugly troll and she only did it because a big dicked whiney chad told her to

You are going to be killed when you are found

The only recourse against terrorism is terrorism

>She was not ugly but couldn't walk

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people give this advice because you need to develop a positive mindset and a desire to live and enjoy life rather than just reading doomer advice online, your mindset is a self-fulfilling prophecy if you never even try to talk to girls, you will always remain nervous around them.

the best advice is just to do 1 thing you dont want to do each day. if you are afraid of doing something then doing it will make you less afraid the next time.

>the best advice is just to do 1 thing you dont want to do each day.
bro please no, don't sell LINK

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No, she was really ok looking

Top kek

>bro please no, don't sell LINK
Already done man

I was not a virgin, had had a gf before, but still couldn't get hard when I went to a whore
but she was a mean bitch so it probably didn't help