Anons with kids. Advices on how to save money. Were you financially cucked by kids?
My wife wants kids. How do I make it despite kids?
its only bad first couple years..other than that healthcare costs is the only real hard expense in my opinion
>healthcare costs is the only real hard expense in my opinion
Yeah here in Switzerland is super expensive ffs
Having kids is not like getting a dog, you can’t drop them off at the pound and they live a lot longer than 10 years
Kids are THE worst financial decision you will ever make though people don’t have them for financial reasons... clearly
If you don’t want kids, do not have one.
I have one, it was not my choice and was tricked/stitched up
I’m 14 years into 18 years of $300 a week child support that is going to increase significantly when I have to declare my crypto gains next year
Not long to go now until that tap is turned off
Also don’t forget that if your relationship ever fails, which statistically is highly likely to happen, you will get raped in a divorce or separation because of the kid
It’s not a 50:50 split when kids are involved, prepare yourself for 70:30
So if you have any real wealth, be prepared to say goodbye to 70% of it
you will only make it BECAUSE of kids.
it forces you to think in 20-30 cycles and forces discipline. you now will have something on the line instead of just being a fat fag who lays around watching teevee
>think in 20-30 cycles
What do you mean?
>you now will have something on the line instead of just being a fat fag who lays around watching teevee
Do you have kids?
I’ve got an 8 year old son. He’s right here playing PlayStation since he finished up his school assignments. Kids are pretty rad and don’t cost as much as you’d think. If you have to daycare them that’s where it gets spendy.
I think he means 20-30 year cycles of time (the length of time a parent typically supports their spermlets) instead of only thinking about the next degenerate food, screen activity or sex act that will satisfy your desires for 20-30 mins.
Plenty of people make it without having kids
Having kids doesn’t define a person, but it clearly defines you
You sound like the type of person that would look down on a woman who chooses not to have kids
I forgot about daycare cost that is just wasted money.
Make it from chainlink and let your wife work while you be a stay at home dad.
That is truly making it.
Do you think your parents are happy to have had you? Are their lives better because of you now that they are old and you don't give a fuck about them? Was it worth it to raise you?
Diapers are like having a two pack a day smoker in the house holy shit
I got kids, but im still making money, literally just made a 10x from eXRD from Radix on their uniswap launch.....
>no arguments
I see.
I just wanna have a piece of land which I work on all day while my wife educates the kids desu
Then in the afternoons the boy and I go hunting or fishing or whatever and we just talk and shoot the shit. That’d be the life
first couple of years they are also very cheap if you get second hand shit.
don't be one of those fuckwits that buy new nikes for a kid that can barely walk.
if you don't live in an apartment, use cloth diapers.
>first couple of years they are also very cheap if you get second hand shit.
>don't be one of those fuckwits that buy new nikes for a kid that can barely walk.
Good advice
Do you REALLY want that?
Okay man I would say having kids is great but its a little funny to think that you plan your life for when you will be 70 thats just really funny
What else would there be to do? I grew up in a traditional family with big gatherings and saw those connections dissolve in real time as the jewry got worse
Sure I’ll probably see the world and do some things for my vanity once I make it, but if you don’t have kids you’ll literally never pass on anything worthwhile. All your achievements are dwarfed by the achievements of those favored by the oligarchs. You’re outgunned financially, infrastructually, and literally
How many men were fucked and are now doing the mgtow thing to find a common community? A man is not an island. It’ll pass like most things, the times will change, and they won’t have anything to fall back on. The average man has to build his own castle, and fill it with beautiful things, not live like a pseudo monk and swear off traditional things so he can go dick around for his self aggrandizement
OP asked if you were financially cucked because of kids
Name one single person apart from a child trafficker who has not been financially cucked because of kids?
Kids are like cars, you throw bucketloads of money at them for 18 years minimum with no financial payback.
Google the cost of raising a kid... they are a Barrier to wealth but as I said in one of my earlier posts, people don’t have them for financial reasons
Tricked like how? My biggest fantasy is going with some chick who is SO horny & desperate for a kid at the same time that she makes me fuck her raw, then gets ontop & rides me until I cum I side her as she's pinning me down and doesnt let me pull out despite my protestations
Show her a picture of Sir Gay.
She'll be so repulsed that she'll never want to have kids again.
Use your pent up sexual energy to power your swing trades.
Profit.
> he didn't set his parents up with a retirement fund
ngmi
let Sergey breed her
the kids will be smarter, better looking, and well taken care of for it
Had a child with a wealthy girl. She pays for most things, got me a large safe SUV for when I drive our son around. I’m financially ahead maybe but the time drain is real.
My wife was the one who suggested we invest in Linkpool. I explained what a range of different crypto concepts are and she thought that made the most sense at the best price (she used to be in finance) we have 4 children and a mortgage paid of so riskier investments aren’t that major of a deal if it all goes tits up
Get a vasectomy asap.
>Were you financially cucked by kids
No. Kids themselves are cheap if you're not an idiot who buys them everything they want or what their "friends" have. What's expensive is that your wife won't be able to work full-time anymore, aka her income will be missing.
But apart from that, kids are quite cheap financially. They just take pretty much 90% of your time - but nonetheless, they're probably the best thing you can ever do in your life.
The 50%+ chance of child support, divorce, and alimony will fuck you harder than a kid will
subsist on PPB&Js.
I have 4 kids. If you have any specific questions ask away.