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Based. Psychiatry is mass market lie based off of physcology. Physcology is the study of the mind, including minds with actual abberations and disease. Psychiatry is the Jewish lie designed to sell us expensive therapy and pills in a effort to create a society of placid zombies with zero sense of personal responsibility.

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Every time.

Maintaining friendships feels like a chore sometimes
First off, I love my friends and I genuinely enjoy spending time/chatting with them. But like many other ADHD folks, I rarely miss people when they're not around, and therefore rarely get the urge to make plans with them or even randomly write to them to ask how they've been.

I like hanging out with them, I just don't need a lot of social contact to be happy - a hang out session will usually "last" me a long time. Kinda like how a good meal means you don't feel hungry for the next few hours. Therefore they're usually the ones who take the initiative to ask me to hang out. I make it a point to accept unless I really can't, because I know most people feel upset/neglected if you don't see them a lot and they mean a lot to me so I don't want that. Plus, I know I'll have fun once I'm there. To continue with the meal analogy, it's kinda like when you're not hungry but still wouldn't turn down a tasty snack like popcorn/candy.

The thing is, I tend to always feel like I'm very busy because every task I can envision feels like an emergency. 90% of the time my mind is just a mess of all the things I have to do and it feels like a lot even if to a regular person it wouldn't be that bad. As a result, making/accepting plans with friends sometimes feels like just another thing on my already full & stressful to-do list. I feel kinda guilty for rarely initiating things, and often accept plans out of a feeling of obligation to maintain the friendship. Once I'm there I pretty much always end up enjoying myself and being glad I went but sometimes I still feel the stress of every other thing I should be doing in the back of my mind. It's kind of exhausting.

I guess that was mostly a vent post but I'd love to hear if others have similar experiences and/or advice.

Being lazy and inept is not a mental illness.

I get that last one.

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THIS IS ME. I don’t really have any advice since I also do this. But looking forward to seeing what others say. I’m also ALWAYS late because if we’re hanging out at 3, I’m prob not leaving my apt till 3:15. My brain just can’t comprehend time and how to not be late... It’s almost like I’m stressing out about the journey there, getting distracted, etc. that I just continue to sit or lay there and hope I dont need to go anymore.

I also hate answering the phone cause I can’t usually sit still and want to do other things, but then they feel like I’m not listening.

mental health disorders are pretty real but medicating them is the jewish part

We’re all just selfish pricks :D

I kid, our minds tend to be more practical and see social constructs as less important - I think.

If you force an animal to live in the same conditions humans do these days, they will also show signs of mental illness.
Humans aren't made to live in boxes and slave their lives away.

It's because of idiots like you that America is imploding.

I know you're joking, but I spent a big part of my life scared that I was secretly a selfish prick or unfeeling or something. Because, I mean, I genuinely like people and enjoy their company! So why can't I remember names? Why do people get excited to see me after a long time and I have no idea who they are? Why do I want to throw my phone in the toilet rather than answer when someone calls me? Why don't I miss far away people more? I must actually suck.

Being active in ADHD forums like this for the last couple years has lifted some serious guilt and self-hatred off my shoulders.

If you want to learn how to control your anxiety and stress, it's called having a family and community. Psyciatry is a fucking lie designed to help you duck personal responsibility and feeds into the cycle of decay eating our civilization from the inside.

Take your meds

psychotherapy is also a lie invented by jews

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Take your meds Amerigoy

By not crying about it like a baby.

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I actually have a good tip for this!

I know we all suck at scheduling things but that’s one of the main issues I’ve been attacking since I started medication. I put in a lot of effort to schedule as it’s well... necessary. I’ve started tracking my entire life in a bullet journal - It helps most with the things that I’m not held accountable to in some way. When something’s necessary life has a way, but when nothing holds our feet to the fire (such as reaching out to friends) it just falls by the wayside. So now I put a call to some long-distance friend in every weekly calendar. It feels satisfying to cross something off the list and it inevitably becomes one of those “procrastination chores” that’s an easier alternative to get off the list than something I’m actively avoiding, like scheduling a Dr’s appt. I have a call scheduled for tonight with a friend I haven’t spoken to in 3 years!

I’ve also noticed that my friends are just more conscientious than I am. They’ll send me letters, thoughtful gifts, etc. Us ADHD’rs are terrible about that and usually satisfied with a convo. So in my yearly calendar I put a reminder for every month to commit one act of generosity for a different loved one. Normally that’s sending a gift but I’ve had some other creative ideas. I’ve missed a few but for the first time ever I got my dad and best friend’s gifts in time for their birthdays. The gifts so far have been much more thoughtful than usual because I had enough heads up to consider them. Just this morning I messaged a guy on reddit about a super unique gift for a friend I’ve been bailing on, because he’s on my September calendar.

I can play games fine, it's focusing on anything that requires actual effort that is the problem.

Energy drinks, coke, amphetamines, caffeine, whatever the fuck and some WipEout or similar super fast paced game, might as well enjoy it to its fullest.

ironic

Was thinking about this a lot this morning before I saw your post. I moved around a lot as a kid, and was rationalizing that this exact type of behavior was possibly a result of that, but you summarized exactly what I go through so succinctly.

I love my friends... love to hang out with them, but I will never initiate hanging out. At the same time, I feel just fine whether I haven’t seen them in a month or 3 months.

Maybe it has something to do with RSD? The few times in the past when I have tried to set something up, it’s failed fantastically, so I’m happier not going through that

fbpb
trannies and subhuman shitters btfo

Do energy drinks and caffeine really help with ADHD?