Why does everyone have a girlfriend except me?

How many female friends do you have?
Alternatively have you ever wonafight?

Life sucks dude, but be thankful you at least have friends. Go to dating events or something if you want to explicitly get a gf.

Because the world in unfair.

Statistically impossible.

You're not alone man, I've never had a gf and likely never will at this point.

why?

I don't either.
I'm also a straight woman so I don't know why I'd be expected to have a girlfriend, but stilI don't.

I am the girlfriend

You are probably overthinking everything. Happend to, had 30+ gfs/fuckbuddys etc, by the age 24, afterwards i wanted to find normal casual one, it simply started with mentality that she probably already has a bf, that i didnt want to be that douche that goes around grabbing womens asses anymore etc. in the process of making myself a normal human being who doesnt want to be pushy i started overthinking stuff etc.

You're in no position to give advice to anyone.

i know mate, i realized that i fucked up somewhere along the line that i probably missed the chance or already had that normal casual one tho i didnt know at the time, probably also have problems with pair bonding etc. but the reality is that he is probably overthinking it. If it makes it any easier for you i didnt get laid in past 3 years.

You don’t understand... I don’t want a “gf.” Anyone can settle for a person just to have the convenience of a relationship, and in fact, I imagine most people do.

I want a relationship with someone whomI can tell I pair with really well. It fucking sucks dude, you meet someone, be it through work or a social circle, and as you spend time, you start to realize, “hey, I think I like this person.” Not so much cause of they’re looks, cause I know prettier women (who are a mess, and obnoxious), not cause of “similar interests,” because, that’s fucking stupid shit for teenagers. But because you can tell what sort of person they truly are based on their values, and more importantly, you both FEEL that you complement each other really well based on personality. You both enjoy the time you spend together, but then... ahhh ofc.

It’s fucking torturous, because typically, I find 99% of women to be incredibly boring, but I can count on one hand the number of girls who’ve truly caught my eye, and it’s the exact same fucking story every time. It’s not a question pf wanting a person in my life, it’s about wanting to have a genuine connection with someone you can tell truly understands you. That’s significantly more difficult to find, and isn’t easily solved with “just be attractive dude.” On the contrary, being attractive has worked against me cause single women try too hard to impress you to be their real selves around you. If there’s a reason for this pattern, I’d have to pin it there, idk. I’m just pissed and venting cause it literally JUST happened about an hour ago. And in the back of my head, I knew I wasn’t gonna catch a break, because I never do. And she tried to be super nice about it too, “like a, we could all go drinking, as friends” after telling me she had a bf. But I declined, cause that shit will be fucking worse.

I’ll be going to a Halloween party/meetup thing tomorrow, to meet more girls. But I’ve been going to these things for the past 6 months, and the one who caught my eye the most out of the what 50+ I’ve met since March is the one at work. Go fucking figure.

Fuck this shit.

Get an anime gf
But don't pick mine or else I'll kick your ass

You're looking for a straw in a needle stack. It's in there somewhere, but you have to be prepared to suffer for it, potentially for a very long time.

I’ve been suffering since High School, and I’m 30 now.

You're looking for a soul mate, presumably in a country of several million. Of course it'll take a while. Ideally you should try to change things up. You aren't going to find the gem if you're standing in the same plot of rough.

Well I'm already 28 and I've never had one. I have average-to-above average looks, but I'm shy and have a boring personality, so I just don't see it ever happening

Very possible. Females date older men, several females are attached to one guy, there is a surplus (even iof it's a small one) of men in every age bracket before age ~60 or so. So unless you are into grannies, you are fucked as a man. Females mathematically can't be lonely. Men are destined to be.

>spends life lonely into adult years
>work on myself for years to be a better person
>a girl actually finally approaches
>spend an afternoon with her, eat ice cream and talk
>ask for her number
>gives it to me on the spot, even asks me to call it so she gets my number (and I get a confirmation she didn't fake me out)
>text her the following week
>no response
>text her again, being understanding, the following week to that
>no response

>years pass, another girl leaves me her number on a receipt
>I text her
>get talking
>suddenly no response
>ask where she went after giving it some time
>I went to Spain to meet family
>try chatting
>nothing

why though

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>Ideally you should try to change things up. You aren't going to find the gem if you're standing in the same plot of rough.

I’m just venting, cause today straight up sucked. All I ask for is that I meet a woman who can evoke those feelings in me, who is available, sometime soon.

Most people are average or below average, and more shallow than you could imagine. If you get over that shyness, you might find yourself better than the people around you.

why do you guys have these pictures of literally me?

I seriously doubt that the majority of women are in relationships sharing men.

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It's okay man it takes time and then suddenly things can change. I just got out of my first relationship of a year and a half after losing my virginity to her in my mid twenties. For a while it felt really good but the problem was that she was kind of depressed and even though she sometimes initiated cool things that brought me out of my comfort zone, I felt like I was taking on too much of a load for the relationship. I also feel really guilty that I felt she was getting in the way of my passion for music, because apparently most adults are supposed to look past something so "frivolous". It's been two months now and there are ups and downs. I think I'm committed to not contacting her again but I feel an emptiness like I did prior to dating her.

The best thing you can do, and what I did, is really nurture your social connections. Stay in contact with acquaintances and meet up with them when you can. Become the guy in your friend group who also has a lot of additional friends outside of the group. This helped me get over her rather quickly at the start, but I've entered a bit of a rut currently and have been playing 4 hours of Morrowind a day. It's hard.

dont larp being a Goose, he wouldnt lurk here.

I dunno, he seems a little autistic sometimes.

not you man so don't know the whole story but early on like that you gotta be all about the action. Meeting up, doing cool things, looking good and like you have a lot of friends. Don't be chatting over text it cheapens your aura.

he does and he also knows about jew fuckery etc. tho he wouldnt be lurking here when he could be drinking some fine wine, sitting his ass near fireplace with some model by his side. He is too classy for this place imo.

>have a thing with another girl
>start getting feelings for someone else
>decide to go out with them just as friends hoping that I'd realize I don't really care for them as much as I think
>she turns out better than I expected
I don't know what to do now, I figured if I just didn't see her again for some time she'd leave my mind but it's not happening.

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