Realized that I'm the annoying steam friend

I haven't had a friend on steam in about 6 years. Every one on online games seem so antisocial nowadays. It's like you can only have friends to play with if you have friends irl. or is that obvious.

Of course you are since you still play TF2

>tfw no steam friends
:(

>6 years
Boo hoo, poor poor normalfaggot

Are you the type of dude to message me about how you’re gonna come out to your parents as a furry even though I haven’t said a word to you and I never respond to you?

>mfw had a friend that did this exact shit.
>Started out as literal fb or 9gag posts, dude would just scroll it
>eventually catches on that I also scroll some subreddits
>asks me wtf it is and I tell him
>he then proceeds to send me reddit TTS videos

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It could be a response to the old trashtalking culture, either people think they're more mature and above it or would rather keep to themselves because saying "gg ez" is considered hate speech.

lol

Same, but I just realised those really weren't my real friends.

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>that one friend who always spams me with messages about qt anime girls from pixiv when I'm in the middle of a video game
He's based but I don't know how to tell him I don't like when he does this because I do genuinely appreciate having him as a friend and don't want him to become shy enough that he stops messaging me altogether because I tell him I don't want to be spammed with idols and atelier ryza characters

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Its only up from here. Understand that if someone wants to play with you, they'll ask. Otherwise, lay off asking others. Or make new friends.

>vtuber faggot has no friends
yep, checks out

>online friends
>2020
Is that a thing still? I had plenty of faggots id play Xbox live with but everyone seems so..... unfriendly now these days that I dont think it would be possible. Perhaps I'm too old.

I never talk to people online, i feel like i never have anything worthwhile to say

>That on guy on the server no one likes that lives in the voice channel
>Can't play any games without him either inviting himself or talking about bullshit the entire time because he can't afford the game you're playing
>Any time someone confronts him he starts going into a sad sack routine
>Pulled the "I've had suicidal thoughts" card when pressed about being an annoying faggot.

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>really bad at talking to people/hanging out
>but I like doing it
>friends make a token effort to involve me
>then I never talk to them again because I can't make myself make the first move
>probably think that I don't like hanging out

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>add friend
>never message them or interact with them a single time
>if they message me, I either ignore it or give a very short and simple response
Both online and irl. Feels bad

What a sad life

how is not having friends a sad life lol what the fuck

Anyone else have zero "online" friends?

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my only online interaction is from Zig Forums

But if everyone is waiting to be asked no-one ends up asking.

Honestly I had too many "friends", this helped me realised who actually wanted to be my friends and cared. So the energy and time I spend is genuine and mutual.

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>>Any time someone confronts him he starts going into a sad sack routine
>>Pulled the "I've had suicidal thoughts" card when pressed about being an annoying faggot.
These people are the absolute fucking worst. Force yourself onto people and try to guilt them when they tell you to fuck off

you're not missing out on much by not having steam friends user
>guy sends me steam request
>he sits appearing offline 24/7
>remove him
>he adds me again just to call me an asshole for removing him
these people are fucking retarded

I have such a bad temper when it comes to competitive games. I've tried everything- therapy, psych meds, meditation. None of it works. I just get incredibly salty and I can't shut the fuck up about how shitty and unfair things are. I actually really really hate it about myself. I think the issue is I hate myself for losing more than I hate the other guy for winning. I'd like to slap them on the back and go "hey good game!" even if they beat me, but I can't do it. I feel hopeless wrt to ever having fun with competitive games, especially team games with friends, and I'm sure it stems from something in my childhood. I just don't know what. It drives people away and otherwise I am a really nice guy and I really want to hang out and have fun. I just can't handle my tilt.

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I don't see the point of online friends. Sure talking is fun but after a while I think I'll never meet them irl or do anything fun with them irl so what's the point?
Talking on imageboards is fine, I don't consider you guys friends so much as just a peergroup.

as long as you attach your personality and self worth to how good you are at video games you'll never be happy playing them

how do you not do that? Its hard to not feel like a failure when you suck at something

>user posts a reaction image he probably had no idea the origin of
>AAAAAAAA VTUBER NOOOOOOOOOO
rent free in tranny's heads lmao

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>playing alone and enjoying it
>someone ask me if I want to play together
>say yes because why not
>join his server and play with him
>fun instantly stops
>make an excuse, leave the server and set my steam to invisible
>return to enjoy playing the game by myself
I don't like playing coop games.

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The secret of online friends is only talking every so often, talking every day becomes old too fast. If you talk with someone for a long period of time with some space in between each chat then it is rather nice.
Also playing with someone without a mic and still enjoying it is a nice feeling.

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I'm the guy you're responding to. Yeah man, I really try not to attach my self-worth to games. My outlook is that winning is the only thing that matters. Don't get me wrong, when I'm drunk and stoned I can let it all go and just be happy as hell when I'm losing. Problem is I can't be drunk and stoned all the time.

By contrast, it took me multiple times to get S ranks in DMCV DMD. Like some took hours. But I was never angry about it. It's just comp games.

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>I don't consider you guys friends
o-oh haha... yeah.. right that would be silly

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>even reddit is fine

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some people live in a bubble
>looks at camera