Finally got a gf

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idk user have u tried drinking beforehand? maybe like a beer beforehand for anxiety
masturbating or porn has no affect on ED
“Our study, and now two others, have found there is no relationship between the amount of sex films men view and erectile functioning with their partner,” says Nicole Prause, PhD, a sexual psychophysiologist and licensed psychologist at the Sexual Psychophysiology and Affective Neuroscience Laboratory. Her research with Jim Pfaus, PhD, IF, was published in Sexual Medicine and was the first peer-reviewed study of this topic.
“In one case, the study found stronger sexual arousal in men who reported viewing more sex films at home,” she adds.
Only those men who were conservative and in relationships had any relationship between sex film viewing and erectile functioning.
“Taken together, this means that sex films do not contribute to erectile dysfunction,” Prause notes. “However, those whose personal values contradict with viewing sex films may be experiencing general shame around sex that also influences their erectile functioning.”
researchgate.net/publication/278036754_Red_Herring_Hook_Line_and_Stinker

Sildenafil, stop wasting your time with all these cope solutions.
50 mg (half a pill) is more than enough, even a third does the job if you're young

Does anyone else stay hard but struggle to cum?

I've had sex with a couple of girls and I don't think I've ever gotten close even after liike 30-40 mins of continual penetration.

Haven't watched porn for 2.5 years, jerk it once or twice a week.

It's death grips man. Even assuming you're telling the truth about frequency, if you're using your hand and/or no lube you are basically rubbing raw the skin that's supposed to be sensitive. Eventually it gets worse and you'll go limp, not just plug away forever; that's what happened to me.

You fix it by going 2 weeks nofap, then using a fleshlight or something similar with lube, then repeat the cycle for a few months. You need to stop using your hand and give it time to heal.

Fuck bruhh, been there :/ don't know what to tell you, you just kinda get through it eventually. It really fucks with you after its happened a few times

You’re seeing it as “making love”. You have to see it as borderline rape. You can kiss her and hold her but you have to be assertive with it. Fuck her without remorse. Tell yourself you’re gonna bust inside her right up until you actually do. Hell, you can even tell her yourself if she’s down with it. Afterwards kiss and caress her to assure her that the bad man is gonna now and everything is okay. If this doesn’t work, try fucking a guy or transition.

Thanks will try, have dabbled a bit with 2-3 week no faps over the last year, fleshlight probably a good idea.

when i was 16 i had this problem and my gf got mad at me and we had to talk it through. we just had to take it slow and just practice being confident sexually. over the months it got easier then it completely went away. idk what id do if i had that problem in adulthood. you cant really practice like that. girls expect you to not have this issue.

>porn doesnt cause sexual anxiety
wrong

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kek

Tried it but it only twitches for a sec or two and gets floppy but not the soft kind

>porn has no effect on ED
yes it does, first hand experience. The moment I stopped watching porn I never had ED problems with girls again

This is all there is it to it user, listen to your dick when it says no, it’s controlled by a larger part of your mind than you can ever imagine.

u gay nigga

Erectile dysfunction is often a sign of poor cardiovascular health.
How much cardio do you do?
What’s your diet like?

Dont worry, you wont have a gf much longer

The one girl I've been with we could fuck for 30+ minutes, I didn't cum once with her, she was my first real sexual relationship an I occasionally watched porn while dating her. Am I right to assume that it was porn and me not being attracted to her?

Get some viagra, it's easy just tell a doctor you have ED and they'll prescribe it to you, advice : don't jack off 2 days before the sex, and don't take more than 50mg or you'll have red eyes

Itll just take some time, just make sure u are laughing about it and being really cool about it. If you bring this vibe or energy everytime she wont care. If you dont care then she wont. If you get visibly flustteed / emberassed / act weird then she will also feel those same emotions about it.

Play it cool, and keep trying. Not the first and wont be the last guy to go through this.

Also yes you can easily get viagra and use it a few times at first. You also have to learn what gets you hard. For me I usually wont get super hard without physical touch, i need the girl to rub my dick a bit. I never really got hard eating a girl out etc. Just the way my dick responds. I still love doing those acts all the same

youtube.com/watch?v=-Isnr-ERfDo

thank me later