How do you cope with hearing others talk about their accomplishments that you've yet to fulfill and/or life experiences more interesting than yours?
How do you cope with hearing others talk about their accomplishments that you've yet to fulfill and/or life experiences...
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you're suffering from a scarcity mindset, get up off your butt and do something, anything that'll make your life better, and limit anything that doesn't contribute to your overall well-being. start with drinking water and getting a good sleep schedule and go on from there
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Not op, I'm doing all of that and more. Doesn't help, if anything, it makes me more depressed.
I really don't care. I just get annoyed when people try to get me to talk about shit I've done or want to do.
Quit talking to all my friends and family
Depends most of their accomplishments don't mean much to me
What I want to accomplish most is getting land and becoming somewhat self sufficient
i eat my troubles away.
Quite an experience to live in envy, isn't it? That's what it is to be a loser.
Literally Im stopped by the first life road block I KNOW FOR A FACT if I could get passed it I could sail into normal faggotry happiness
Just cope with knowing that their and your life is a tiny thing that wont be remembered by history. That this drama has played out a million times in a billion other lives, and that your struggle isn't unique.
erm, maybe stop comparing urself to others sweaty?
Its honestly such a basic school of thought
>WAAAAA IM NOT THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PERSON IN THE WORLD
>WAAAA THIS MAKES ME INADEQUATE
>WAAAA MIGHT AS WELL IVE UP
How about making a step. Any step, do anything, something. Now another step. Only compare yousrelf to past you. Everyone else is irrelevant. Gamify your life progress and fuck the rest
I feel like this should be a revelation that 8 years olds make. You compare yourself to yourself to progress.
If people didnt try because theyre not the best everyone would be dead
because its all irrelevant
whether you die a virgin or a whore, rich or poor, happy or miserable, we rot all the same.
i live my life for me user, no one else matters, i couldnt care less what theyve accomplished or not
embrace the void, and understand its the only true freedom there is
The better question is why you should care?
None here will be able to provide an answer.
You know what's worse than having no accomplishments? Having accomplishments you can't talk about since they invite questioning about more...unpleasant...memories.
it inspires a bit of envy when i hear people are successful and rich, but only a tad bit. like, it doesnt really bother me
what bothers me is hearing people who have a lot of sex, are happy with their relationships, are in deep love, have experienced love in youth, etc. that inspires much more envy and jealousy than anything financial or some career achievement
how do i cope? videogames, escapeism, schizoid fantasies, porn, Zig Forums shitposting, etc
It's very rare I hear someone say something that genuinely makes me jealous. Most people, me included, are just drones. Go to work, get home.
I don't care anymore because nothing really matters. You live you die and you are forgotten as if you never existed to begin with. Unless you do something truly big like be Hitler two it just doesn't matter.
Then again I hate life in general and want a gamma ray burst to wipe this shit ball clean.
Is that Hanzi the paranoid pakisany guy?
ITT: a bunch of in-denial losers who are so delusional that they lie to themselves that they dont feel envy, pic related
why is it so hard to admit the truth? envy and jealousy is a primal human emotion, on the same level as hatred, hunger, enjoyment and fear. so many people here lying to themselves saying they dont feel such emotions. the truth is the truth you guys, regardless of how its makes you feel
and this is my post btw, i just try not to delude myself when the truth is uncomfortable
I've stopped communicating with anyone outside immediate family for this reason. My one huge fucking problem with normie/boomer fags is they're bullshit small talk always seems to latch on to your job, like is somehow justifies the rest of you, not what you actually enjoy doing/have a passion for. I might not go to a job for a full 40hrs a week because i dont enjoy slaving away but why can't their conversations be derived from literally anything else.
All I said it's rare I find someone I'm actually jealous of. I think this old man was the most recent one but he's so humble and nice it's hard to feel a "bad" kind of jealousy.
Look at that house at 14:30 he built all by himself.
You only feel jealousy or envy about things that you want, nigger.
But every little step I'm capable of making is just completely meaningless.
I don't envy other people at all. All their struggles, their accomplishments,
all the things they care so deeply about, it's just all worthless noise I have zero interest in. What the cattle call "interesting" is just something instragram-worthy or some unusual anecdote.
There are things I wish I could do but I recognise they're simply beyond me. I know full well there are things I'll never have the capacity to accomplish so it doesn't really bother me that there are other people who have it, it's only natural and being bothered by it would be as irrational as being bothered that birds can fly and I can't.
I don't really care. I already accomplished a lot and there will always be someone less accomplished and more accomplished than you, so it doesn't even matter.
you're probably not actually doing it. contrarianism is its own disease. ask how you can do more, not how doing positive shit "makes me more special"
creating a false sense of superiority and living fantasy
I'm 28, failed uni twice, currently working a dead end job. Very little social skills. I'm jaded, bitter and cynical and can't seem to get rid of these thoughts.
I feel like my lack of passing any important milestones into adulthood, has rendered me fundamentally broken and useless.
Any advice?
i dont really care as our lives were completely different, if we were on the same road i had less i would feel shit but i dont know if they got everything by themselves or daddy, mommy, gave it to them