You're tired of videogames and sleeping all day, yet you continue to torture yourself by not even trying. You have convinced yourself that you are hopeless.
Stop waiting for something to happen user. You have to act now. Your life won't start by itself. No, not next week, not tomorrow-- now.
What the fuck am I supposed to do then, asshole?
What the hell am I fixing my life for? This world is pure hell. I don't want to step on other people so I can live better than them. I'd rather die with the good ones.
>start thinking about self improvement
>crippling self doubt emerges
Is this living
Fuck it. Let self doubt creep over you, but do not let it control you. Do what you have to do even when your emotion tries to fight you.
>You're tired of videogames and sleeping all day
No actually I'm tired of my job and want to go back to sleeping all day
You know what you have to do. But you have to make the choice to do it. Quit hurting yourself by doing nothing and take action.
I can't even do anything faggot there's the chink flu and everything is closed. Right when I want to turn shit around these slant eyed zipperhead cockroach looking faggots show up and slam the door shut in my face.
Don't LARP user. You know you're still capable of actually doing what can be done when everythings closed. Read more books, learn an instrument, meditate.
I don't have the motivation to do it and don't act like you care about me, user.
what if I have no interest in doing any of those things? then what, faggot? I just want to work out at the gym but I can't even do that.
If people did things based off of motivation, the world would not function.
You don't need motivation. Motivation does not control you as if it were a possessive demon. You control yourself, your thoughts are you. And in the future when you're more successful, you will be thankful that you actually tried despite not wanting to. Now go improve yourself, faggot.
>You know what you have to do.
Fuuuuuuuuck you. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck you. If I knew what to do, I wouldn't be having this discussion with you, would I?
Improvercoomers are so cringe
You will still be ugly
You will still be poor
You will still be an incel
Just kill yourself
You are subconsciously pretending, and you don't even realize it. You know deep inside what you have to cut out in your life and what you have to do instead. The question is will you ever get off your ass and do it?
Quit loathing in self pity, stop making excuses and improve yourself. I double dare you, little bitch.
Do it faggots, you stopped on this post because OP is right. I know OP is right, I'm taking steps but I also know I could do more, stop making excuses and start making progress. There is no singular event that is going to come into your life to dramatically turn it around in a positive way. So, Do it, do it right fucking now
fucking do it fuck you faggots fucking go and fucking do it right now or ill fucking smear shit all over your walls and jizz inside ur xbox
Learning a language, drawing, exercising every day. In any given moment of the day, it's more likely that I'm doing one of those things instead of playing video games. It gets my mind off things temporarily, but I am still depressed and lonely.
Mentally ill people need treatment and social support, distractions and stoicism can only go so far.
I do want to get help, but finding a good therapist is incredibly hard. Talking about my issues with friends would just alienate the few people that still like me. I also don't know if the problem is neuropsychiatric, in the case of which I wouldn't experience an improvement through merely talking with someone. Medication is another beast entirely. The potential for harm is profound.
I'm sorry to hear that user. But what counts is that you continue to do best in what you truly are capable of. And if you are capable of your hobbies, continue doing them; and never fall into the abyss of laying in bed all your life trying to dream away everything.
But I am taking action, every single day. Every day, for the past 4 years, I've tried to do something, even the smallest thing that normalfags don't even think about in their routine. But I can't do them consistently. My brain is broken on a fundamental level. Things like
>brushing my teeth
>showering
>shaving
>eating
>cleaning the house
>washing dishes
>washing clothes
>talking to people
>reading a book
It doesn't work. I've tried, I've been continuously trying and NONE of it sticks.
>tired of videogames and sleeping all day
No, I'm tired of normalfags thinking that's all I do, that my efforts aren't being made and that if I just "try", it will magically fall into place. No, it won't. I've been to therapy for over a decade, I've been on tons of medications, had brain scans and check ups, there's nothing left but electroshock therapy or suicide at this point; that or slowly rotting away until 10 years from now when I'm forced to live in a group home for adult retards or even a nursing home at the age of fucking 40.
I am never going to get a job, let alone a satisfying career. I am never going to get a girlfriend, let alone a loving wife and children. I am never going to be able to live independently, let alone have any sense of responsibility for others or a community. Some people are just fucked, you know it and I know it. I knew it back when I was 11 and first thought about suicide but couldn't do it because I was a coward little faggot. The most moral thing you normalfags could do is open support for government euthanasia, painless, free, and easy access as a human right for anyone who wants it. But nope, keep pushing your self-help to mental and emotional invalids.
Literally makes no sense. Just with this post I can tell your ideology is nonsense. Why should I listen to you? If you deny a basic concept such as motivation then you must really have no clue how you actually got to the position you're at or why other people are in the position that they are in. Must be nice to have things be so good that you get to believe in your magic control that comes from nowhere and you somehow magically do all the objectively good things.
Don't kid yourself user. Get the fuck off your chair and brush your teeth and do the dishes.
It doesn't have to "stick". Just do it even when it sucks
Im a 6'6 male born with female sexuality. Im fucked for life, will never find a relationship and yes i tried.
Not that user but sometimes you have to take actions that you logically know would be good for you even if you lack the motivation to do it. Sometimes motivation stacks upon itself and when you get to a point where you have none, you have to just do it because you know it could be a logically good choice to make.
You have deluded yourself into believing that you must truly have an urge to do something inorder to do something. That is an ideology that is fixed when you get kicked in the face and made to man up. You are just the textbook example of straight refusal to self improve.
Accept it, you have to do things that you don't feel like doing. Now do it.
Go sodomize yourself with a cactus you useless piece of shit.
I think you know he might be right, that's why in triggered a response like that. If you knew it was beyond your control you'd have accepted that long ago I think and it wouldn't bother you.
You're getting defensive because I'm exposing your juvenile behaviour. You are just like the kids on worlds strictest parent.
That is literally what you need, you need to be on Worlds Strictest Parents. That kick up the ass to your whiny little attitude will save you.
You can't change your life now.
It's a long fight. You can start it now in small steps but don't try to do something big immediately.
Also some things can't be change. You always be ugly you always be kinda retarded but your outlook on life can change.
Every morning I try to brush my teeth, I spend an hour throwing up. My hair and teeth are falling out now and I don't even eat junk or drink soda. I bleed like crazy and gag. I get panic attacks even thinking of doing it again. You have no fucking idea what it's like living like this, user. The feeling of running water over my body makes me cringe and stressed all day, more likely to snap and break things. I hate the feeling, it's painful and just thinking about it now makes it come back almost. Some days I wake up and push through all this but I'm so exhausted I just sit in a lawn chair in the backyard and play with my fidget spinner. I physically can't move, even though the voice in my head is screaming at me to get up. Every now and then this causes me to shit myself and I'm too tired to even clean up for a few days. One major improvement I've made is shitting myself way less. It hasn't happened in almost 6 months. I'm 25 and only relatively recently managed to control my bowel movements. I still can't tie shoes and get frustrated no matter how much I practice. I know these things are good for me, I know I'm supposed to be able to function but it just doesn't work, it doesn't stick. Nothing works, I am a dysfunctional retard and trust me, I've been trying nearly every day for at least 4 years since I stopped taking meds, which gave me enough energy to even attempt improvement. Turns out antipsychotics suck the soul out of you and I used to sleep 16 hours a day.
If you are functional enough to form the paragraph you just created then you aren't trying hard enough.
It's hard and I'm stupid and lazy and my teeth are fucked up so I should probably just rope
I only do it because of the chance of recovery. It doesn't feel good now. I will be able to actually appreciate the things I've learned/done if I ever get over the mood component of whatever is wrong with me. If I assume that I am deteriorating and never going to get better, then I would have no desire to continue.
Assuming that I will get better is complete conjecture. And I have to push through an insane amount of mental resistance just to get myself to believe it. Not everyone is unpragmatic enough to make such a bold, uninformed assumption, which is what drives a lot of anons to feel hopeless and amotivated. It's a disagreeable state to be in, and it's difficult to articulate how exactly it feels. One can commit no mistakes and still lose. And while not rotting in bed all day is something to strive for, getting a professional opinion and help, if need be, should be the main goal. Preferably avoiding medication, except in the most severe cases. And I do think a professional opinion matters, because it can be difficult to distinguish between mental illness and a simple fault of character like laziness, due to the subjective nature of feelings in general.
You will get to experience death at a later time in history anyway. Why not try mix things up now? Experience life, feel the pain and the good things. Embrace it all.
You're not stupid, user, why do you insist someone like me will ever be a contributing, happy, healthy member of society with a career and job? At best, with decades of work, I'll be able to take care of myself and maybe get the most menial possible job while mostly subsisting on welfare. Why go through Olypmian efforts for complete and utter mediocrity when the truth I discovered 14 years ago won't budge next month, next year, or in the next century, that I'm a worthless fucking retard and should never have been born? All it takes, all it takes user, is a government program that pays for a lethal injection at my request. Mail order a kit and do it myself even, pre loaded so I don't have to take measurements. This is what you should be advocating for, not self help bullshit.
Even if your life were to become 100% pain and not even a shred of 0.01% happy, your life and death should never be in vain. You could spend your days of misery finding ways to make other people happier.
I wanna have someone to snuggle with. I can't really do that with the meme virus still about
Did you just block out what I said? Let me say it again.
If you can form sentences like this, you can do better. I know you can. And you also need to humbly accept loving help you can get from others. I couldn't tie my shoes at 16, it gave me massive anxiety and I cried and cried as people expected me to just "know how", when in actuality they know because they were shown and it internalized in their brains. My mother
patiently ended up showing me how because she actually knew how alien the concept of tying was to me
If some shitty wikihow diagram (that not even I myself can get my fucking head around) on how to tie laces is confusing you, seriously get somebody who will slowly show you.