For the fellas that have an femdom fetish, why do you think you have it and why is femdom appealing to you?

for the fellas that have an femdom fetish, why do you think you have it and why is femdom appealing to you?

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I thought I had a femdom fetish for the longest time and I was constantly beating myself over the fact that I'll never have a mommy gf but then I realized that I probably just want to feel loved and needed by someone and that I was just projecting this onto a fetish I latched on to that has no basis in reality because women like that don't exist and even if they did it isn't going to be the same as my fantasies and dreams.

I enjoy the idea of a better woman dominating and belittling me

I don't consider submission to be a fetish for men nor women. Its appeal is very simple, when you submit to someone sexually you are temporarily relinquishing control of yourself to someone whom you trust. This is extremely relaxing, relieving, comforting, etc. The only reason its considered a fetish for men and not for women is because of societal expectations for men to not seek comfort in this way.

I have it becausw when I was a kid bigger girls used to act dominant towards me. Things like saying their friend thought I was cute or something. Obviously that didn't really work out, and here I am.

I want to feel loved, gentle femdom is my favourite for that reason. Anybody here wanna love me?

Because I got molested by a chick at age 12.

>it isn't going to be the same as my fantasies and dreams
It won't. I've met two girls who were into this fetish. One was a solid 4.5/10, 18 and had a face like a 30yo coalburner. The other one must have been a truly massive lardass because she told me she had I cups and refused to show a picture of herself. I've never met a man who admitted being into femdom but from what I've read in the gfd generals it's not farfetched to assume most of them resemble pic related. It's almost as if a transgressive fetish like this is mostly going to be shared by disgusting looking people...

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Im into it and a female but im short and not like your pic related. Although I like a little more spice than normal gfds

Why did you come here? Just to tease lonely men? You evil bitch, get lost.

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I'm not sure why I have this fetish exactly. I didn't get molested by a female or anything like that. Aggressive and dominant chicks were always a turn on for me. Now that I remember it, watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer or Alias where the female lead was a tough chick always got me rock hard like nothing else even before I stumbled onto femdom porn. It also probably has to do with some insecurity on my part as well and second guessing whether I'd be good enough for a certain female or not due to being a perfectionist. It kinda sucks because I am assumed by chicks to be a dom since I work out and look masculine so I'm automatically considered a "daddy" to many.

Because i'm not masculine at all. I don't want to be the dominant one in a relationship, it makes me sick.

when i was going through prime sexual development I was a lot shorter than all the other girls at school, but i still got attention from them anyway. So my sexual psychology from day 1 was "Girls who are bigger and stronger than you are ideal mates"

because i want someone to genuinely love me and want to turn me into a happier better person, supporting me in the few things i do as hikineet, dote on me and make me feel loved, safe and comfy

>I like a little more spice than normal gfds
What exactly is that supposed to mean? You're into sodomy? Let me guess, you also enjoy men wearing diapers and crossdressing. Lawrence R. Harvey probably looks better than you. Nasty whore.
If you want this you deserve to be lonely.

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I'm a switch so I go both ways. I knew I was in to it when I found femdom porn to be an immense turnon. Also when this girl started teasingly degrading me I found it to be a huge rush. Like adrenaline and being turned on all at once.

I find referring to a girl as mommy to be a huge turn off as well as infantilism. I like dominant affection but nothing that makes you feel like an invalid. My real turnons are aggressive dom women, light bondage ala shibari and handcuffs, a bit of verbal degregation, rough handling, and being used either as a toy or forced to service her. I'm not in to the boomer tier cbt leather and chains stuff, I just like it a but more rough than the typical gfd fag.

I started talking to a sub leaning switch girl about a week ago who's really in to me and we have matching kinks. We're a timezone apart but I think she's pretty fun to be around.

nigga i just want a fucking god-damned hug at this point and no way to get that than from a gfd female

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Easy. I'm stubborn, demanding, bossy, assertive, controlling, and dominant in my relationships. I'm confrontational to a fault, I demand victory in petty fights that escalate into insanity, and I'm a sweaty fucking tryhard who goes out of his way to ensure that I always fucking win.
Sometimes it's nice to just...not be that way. I like the idea that after all that I can just surrender my body to a girl who will just engulf me and eat me up. Especially when she's been so obedient outside the bedroom all day. Like a yin-yang thing.

It's simple really.
Somewhere in my life I must have meld together the ideia of someone being dominant with me means they want me.

i'm not that assertive so having an assertive gf is a dream
i've had one before and it was the best shit ever

When I was real young an older girl bullied me during a playdate

I think I am more of a contrarian than just I like femdom, I like the idea of the role men are supposed to play being reversed. I realized it's not even limited to femdom. The thing i love the most is having someone that thought they were in charge lose control. Since men are usually supposed to be in control i like the woman taking control. Though even in those scenarios nothing is better than flipping that script so lets say it's a bitch that is teasing you and acting like she owns you and then you get too frustrated and force here to give you what you want like that even more.

Because I don't know what to do in bed and would be nice to not have to know what to do.

My former gf was kinky as fuck and I caught the horny from her

A number of reasons, probably all stemming from a complete lack of self-worth. I don't feel worthy of "normal" love and affection, the thought of receiving it just makes me uncomfortable.

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damn what was that like, was she hot?

Idk, I just love the idea of bringing a girl as much pleasure as I can and do everything she wants. It can include humiliation and pain, or it can be gentle, but anyway I just want to do everything I can to make a girl feel good.

>Anybody here wanna love me?

Traumatic childhood abuse.

When I was going through puberty I actually liked the idea of being dominant at first, but my first sexual experiences all involved dominant gals, which is why I believe I developed a preference for femdom.

Childhood abuse from mother. Constant ignoring from women. Lost confused in life. Wanting love and affection. Being led around makes me really happy.