How do I cope with the fact that ill die alone?

I mean a girl with the same difficulties as user over here can still get a bf pretty easily if she just exists. That's the main reason why men are uniquely "incel" or whatever

>No. Its my fault, Im alone because I cant open myself to others, no one owes me nothing, especially love. So I deserve to be alone
That's what they want you to think user, what they want all men to think. They want us to believe that we are disposable, that if we fail we deserve no pity or assistance. They WANT people like you to die alone, and sooner rather than later at that. Why abide by the standards of people who don't consider you one of their own to begin with? Humans are social animals and if you aren't a member of their group you must not be human at all, you must be a monster then.

Go on, show them what a monster can do, no need to keep acting like a human for their sake.

user, you need to work hard to improve yourself, for some people that type of shit comes naturally but for others they need to actively try to get better.

Take measurable steps. Read self-improvement books, set SMART goals for hobbies and skills to build confidence, set exercise goals. Dont just think about them, literally keep a journal and a spreadsheet. Be persistent in holding yourself accountable and you will see progress over time. When you care enough about yourself to try to improve and have a fulfilling life, the poontang will follow. Self defeatism is how you escape responsibility. Turn around and charge into it head-on.

I would prefer to just an hero and not make more people miserable than I already do by just sticking around, I would probably fuck it up too and end up crippled or something also pain scares me away from even trying

>he's proud of being 37 and still browsing this shithole

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Im trying to do self improvement but I just cant find any motivation, I know I have a goal and I want to accomplish it but I just cant. I dont find any reason to and failure scares me

I never said I was proud of it you silly kid

you spend your time alive with people or you get to know yourself better
Either way, it's okay to die alone, billions of people have, so when you take your last breath you will be in the same spot as those billions of people
And everyone dies, people die every single second, some die in a car crash, some of old age
It doesn't matter, just enjoy life while it lasts, it can be quite beautiful

You've experienced much pain before, what is the possibility of a little more? Even if you failed think of the release you'd feel even from just attempting to pass on your pain and misery to someone deserving of it, surely that person must exist? If they feel your pain then they will understand, why wouldn't you want them to understand? user, if you live in America it wouldn't be difficult to obtain the things you need.

Make them suffer.

Oh really faggot? Is that why you're waving your old age like some pathetic little trophy? Is that why you carelessly say it to belittle me, as if it's some sort of accomplishment you're an oldfag?
Exactly. Sit down, boomie.

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>I tried to reach out to family and friends but they all answered something like
well shit, then you gotta explain to them in detail, let them know that its serious. I'd drop my discord and help you out with social skills but I'm not good at teaching that kind of thing despite having relatively decent social skills.

Not him, but stfu you newfag

cringe desu. why dont you do it yourself instead of convincing OP to do it? you clearly want it more than he does.

>Not him
>teehee im gonna samefag to make my point across and wave some irrelevant buzzword
You got me good user! I'm impressed.

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The comfy life without a care in the world

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I dont care if other people die alone, I dont want to. I want someone to be with me, I want someone that I can turn to and love and be loved by, its all I long for.

Don't you have some reaction pictures to hoard?

You're a fucking retard, boy

GREAT response, user. You're doing great.

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I dont really want to explain it in detail to them because its embarrassing, they would most likely laugh it off and dont give a fuck.
> I'd drop my discord and help you out with social skills
Thanks user, drop it if you want to but I cant really promise you anything since I get really nervous when I talk to people online and Im not really confident in my English at all, especially my voice and pronunciation

You probably have a reinforcement history associated with being disappointed with the outcomes of your effort, for whatever reason. Could be your perception of success v. Failure, could be you actually just have been fucked over. Either way, you lack motivation because it seems pointless, as if you can never accomplish anything. Whatever it is, you need to change how much you are contacting reinforcement. This will help to increase your ability to acquire and maintain motivation, so long as you are gradually increasing properties (length, difficulty, quality) of your "acquisition" goals (things to newly accompmish), while still continuing to contact reinforcement through easier/already accomplished "maintenance" goals. You wont get very far without motivation, user, I promise you. It's like trying to drive up a hill with no gasoline.

Set (write down) laughably small goals for yourself that can be accomplished in a day, an afternoon, an hour. If you're about to do the dishes, write down "do dishes" on your checklist, cross that bitch off when you're done, and celebrate yourself for accomplishing something. Do this for literally everything you do during the day. Plot out daily/weekly/monthly goals eventually. Get (and stay) organized, get motivated, become successful. Wont be easy, but that's the formula.

>t. MS in Behavior analysis studying self management strategies and adaptive lice skills

I assume you live alone, do you happen to have a basement? If you truly want love you could always manufacture some. Some rope, pliers, time, eventually you could get what you want, that is if you truly desire it.

You should be more consistent with your file formats. They're a mismatch of png and jpg. Be careful

Thank you user. It's always nice to have sound advice from an oldie.

Thanks user, Ill actually try this tomorrow morning since its really late here. Ill write the list now and get some sleep and tommorrow ill do my best to finish all the tasks on the list. If this thread is still alive (most probably wont) ill tell you how if it worked out