Girl here. I had a huge crush on this guy from highschool...

Classic roastie who thinks about other men 24/7. Thanks for the reminder that women cant love.

What he saidIf your mind is wandering like that, your thoughts clearly aren't on your future with your bf, you're hung up on something extremely superficial from the past.

It's a woman user, everything they do needs to be confirmed. It's just that in most cases the media has become their new daddy, and gives them frequent updates to their firmware on what they're supposed to think.

Every time I convince myself that all women aren't this way and that past encounters are just bad luck, I go and see something like this.
Women make it extremely hard to believe they're not all selfish sociopaths.

Oh noooo, I'm fantasizing about sending a PM to a high school crush to see if he liked me, with repeated explicit confirmation that I'm not actually going to and just wanted to know how r9k people would react if it happened to them.
How heartless. Btw women statistically cheat on their partner less than men do. Look it up.

That's the point, it's always fantasizing about other men, things you could have, and never focused on the things you do have. Imagine someone fucking you, someone telling you, that they love you, all the while they're thinking about some dick they didn't get 6 years ago.

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If he confirmed that he had a crush on you, and he still does, your entire mindset would change to a new "what if" scenario. At some point, you would likely try to pursue something with him if he pressured you enough. You're unfaithful.

Thanks for including a pic of yourself, 'roastie'-hating (aka envious of women) tranny/tranny-to-be.

The stuff you're talking about, there are statistics showing that MEN do it more than women. So why are you making this a 'hurr roasties' thing? And you should know that women ALWAYS, ALWAYS have the option to leave their man at the drop of a hat, so women are ALWAYS resisting literally 1000s of options. If MEN had options like this then they would NEVER settle in a monogamous relationship. Understand that women are actually better people, relationship-wise? And btw women aren't pedophiles like men are.

Part of why I'm not retarded enough to actually send it is because I don't want to give the guy false hope in case he actually was interested. I'll just wait until death to see if there's an omniscient-past perspective and find out. I just want to know.

Can this bait posting mixed mongrel nigger faggot from California stop shitting up the thread?

How do statics include people that don't get caught cheating or people who don't report this truthfully on surveys. It sounds like some way to assure yourself that you're a better person than you are.
>Muh stastics
Your mindset shows the truth though, and if you stop wander lusting over some dude from 6 years ago, it'll be someone else. If it was all about your bf your mind wouldn't even be thinking of such shit, but hey, if that helps you to feel like you're actually not cock lusting that's ok

Okay, dude who would probably immediately date anyone of average looks if they showed any interest.
This is what I mean. You talk so much shit but your filter for "should i fuuuhk?" is close to literally "are they breathing". Thank women for actually having standards and filtering which humans get to reproduce so that your genetics aren't more fucked than they already are.
Almost every man who realizes he has 1000s of options is a piece of shit (see every male celebrity). Almost every woman, who has 1000s of options, still dreams of a monogamous marriage with a big family and the green picket fence.
Men are garbage, but you're here crying about statistics being wrong.

ahem. White* picket fence. This is what I get for wanting to finish my post before CAPTCHA expires.
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See, someone makes a valid argument and you go to
>you must be ugly hehehehe
Thing is, I've had plenty of encounters with people just like you, that's why I'm unfortunately all too familiar with it. I like to believe it's not true, but then I keep running across people just like you.

No, I did not say you are ugly. You are probably an average looking person.

And I don't think you're listening to what I'm saying, so let me make it clearer:

Men cheat MORE than women, despite having vastly fewer options. How does this phenomenon happen?
It's because men are like pathetic savage animals with 0 standards and 0 loyalty, taking scraps wherever they perceive they can get them.
Women actually have standards and a filter and a sense of morality. And we are not pedophiles and we're not depraved porn addicts. But, you know, blame the wimmmminnz for society being the shitfest that men made it.

lol well, it's clear we both hold some resentment to the opposite sex the way we both generalize.

>this random [insert thing] excuses my irredeemable shitty behavior
Why do women always do this? Can absolutely never ever fucking never take responsibility for themselves, it's always X Y Z insert outside thing which made them do it. Do you actually think the average Zig Forums user is going to be cheating with anyone, retard? The majority of them just one a fairytale marriage with someone who loves them, so who are you even trying to chastise you buzzfeed zog golem zombie bitch? None of your beliefs are even your own, you read them somewhere and you're just repeating them.

Yeah, my side's mostly accurate though. That's why I take the time to filter my guys to the best of my ability because I don't want the 90% of men that are pieces of shit.
You can keep thinking the way you do and eventually take your retarded estrogen pills to give yourself shriveldick and gynecomastia and claim you're a totally non-woman-hating woman now.

Oh fuck off, I hope your bf wises up and dumps you because it's clear you're an absolute whore. Imaging lusting after cock so desperately and having to defend your stance against anonymous strangers on the internet to convince yourself you're not a piece of shit.

When did I say my behavior was excused? I'm aware that the urge I had is wrong; that's why I've said I'm not going to act on it since post 1.
The fact that I have the urge to msg a highschool crush to ask if he liked me to is being used as "all wimmen bad" when the millions of posts here from men about wanting to rape corpses and fuck little girls are looked over as "Heh! Just part of being a fantastic man!"
Fuck your sex.

And yet I've only slept with 1 person and do not desire to leave him, but keep on projecting those crazy stazys onto me before you become the ultimate tranner.

You only spread for one maybe, but your lusting after cock from 6 years ago and I assure you it won't be the last. I honestly hope for your bfs sake he wises up and figures out that his gfs heart isn't committed to him. Just because he has your gash doesn't mean he has your heart.

You're trying to excuse yourself of being unfaithful on a whim by saying men do it more, like it somehow makes what you're doing less worse. You're also trying to veil your feelings by saying you would never date the guy, but even you don't know how you would feel in the moment if he reciprocated you positively. ie. you can change your mind later. So whatever you FEEL now doesn't fucking matter at all, does it? Because the way women FEEL about what they might do in the moment can change because of the slightest thing. Being told he wants you when you're in a bad mood, or horny, or needy for attention will completely change what direction you're going to take and how you're going to respond.

I have not thought of his cock. I'm not a primitive person like you. You, like all men, think about and care about cock more than actual straight women do.
What I like is the feeling of my heart racing or the little flutter you get when you meet eyes with someone who might be on the same mental page as you. It was a cute little seemingly romantic thing and that's why it intrigues me, because I like innocent romantic things like that still and haven't plagued my brain with the images of a thousand pornos like you have.
If anything, thinking about that feeling of the crush makes me want for my boyfriend more because it reminds me of the romance I feel towards him. I'm obviously extremely committed to my boyfriend and can leave at any time that I want to (and I do not want to).

So to be clear, 'unfaithful' means wanting to message a guy to see if he liked me back? That's a low bar but it's somewhat fair of a judgment; however that's as far as I'd take it, despite knowing that I could easily take it much farther with tons of guys starting literally 20 minutes from now if I hopped on an app.
That's the point I've been trying to make about the differences between the sexes. If you had as many options as the average woman does then you wouldn't know what to do with yourselves because you're so fucking pathetic and monogamy-- you yourselves say it!-- "isn't in a male's blood".
Yet here you are shitting on all women and saying we're unfaithful blahblahblah despite all logic pointing to women being much more of the glue in any monogamous situation.
All of the rest of your comment is male projection and does not apply to my actual case, but you won't believe it because maybe monogamy when you have options is actually incomprehensible to you.

That's what's more concerning. Is the butterflies in your stomach thinking back on a past crush from that long ago. You can believe me or not which I'm sure you won't or you'll find an offhand comment to dismiss me but whenever I get into a committed relationship with someone, my mind is never focused on people from the past or anyone else.It's on them and us. If I felt myself getting those feelings of infatuation and butterflies for somebody else, I'd be concerned about how I actually felt for the person I'm with, because those are the feelings I feel towards them.

If a girl sent me a message like that I'd probably call her a whore or something and then block her. That information is useless to me now. I suffered through high school and some chick thinks telling me after the fact that she could have prevented all that? You don't get gratitude for telling people you could have helped them and chose not to.

It's a memory... It's because I'm reliving a time with clear visualization.
I don't know how anyone could forget the feeling of a first crush, and I wouldn't blame them for still having those feelings in their memory. It keeps the heart going, even i those feelings are directed to a new person in the future.
And just to make a menvswomen comparison, guys are known for keeping nudes of their exes and fapping to them. So that's obviously way more deprived shit than keeping the memory of crush butterflies, but whatever.

*Thumbs up* Thanks. That's what I was most curious of. I can totally see that.