INFJ loneliness edition
How are all of you lads doing tonight?
INFJ loneliness edition
How are all of you lads doing tonight?
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INFJ here, ex I effectivly doorslammed for cheating on me message me becuase "corona" having none of it...Apart from that keeping myself busy with improving my art and garderning today.
She sounds very disgusting and vapid. Good thing you got rid of her. I've been cheated on twice before. So I guess I kinda know the feeling.
Mind showing off some of your art if you feel comfortable with it?
Recently discovered the Szondi test on Facebook and found an article about it that I'll post here just in case you're anti-Facebook.
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Basically, it's an abridged version of a psychological test that showed 80 photos of people's faces, which I will not go into full detail - for this abridged version of this test, you're supposed to choose which people you dislike the least based on their appearance and what you choose will reveal your repressed personalities or something like that.
So, with the site opened on another tab, choose which people you wouldn't want to be alone with and read the descriptions for each person to reveal the kind of person you are and what you are repressing.
So...
>MBTI
>the #'s chosen
ISTP
1,3,7
Sorry to hear that user, I hope you've moved or moving on to something better. What helped you through that time? Its been a little over you and its been one step forward two steps back but the worst is far behind me now, I actually dealt with the situation by simply not answering instead of some spiteful vitiroilic sperg out that I feared I would do.
And sure, I mainly do science fiction stuff, I some more emotive stuff but I'm kinda shy with it with it.
INTP here. Apparently thats why i have no understanding of what you're going through.
>What helped you through that time?
Nothing, I went through psychosis almost everyday and attempted suicide a few times. And I couldn't get traumatic thoughts of her out of my head. She was INFP. Second one (ISFP) just pretended I didn't exist after I was cheated on. I dox'd both of them and their close ones too. Both had their reputations ruined and the second ones relationship was ruined after I outed her for cheating on both me and her new boyfriend. I felt better after, even though I never had revenge on my mind. I was moreso blaming myself everyday for things that weren't even my fault. Therapist said because of ptsd.
Thanks for the kind words though.
You dealt with that situation in a mature way, feeding her with a response would've just enabled her. She's a piece of shit who's likely never had to take responsibility for anything she's done. This is pretty good too. Looks like it's aquatic lol.
As an ISTP, I don't understand how my coworkers will argue with their delivery customers when all you simply have to do is deliver their food while keeping a professional demeanor. Being polite and courteous to people isn't hard and you don't have to say anything to the customer, unless they ask you a question and you give them an honest answer.
Then again, I'm a straight, tall white male, so I guess I'm the least likely person to get oppressed by other people while my coworkers could be female, black or another non-white ethnicity, short, trans, gay, or any combination of the five and there are customers who might harass them.
Perhaps some of them do the same thing when interacting with customers by greeting them, handling the transaction, hand them the food and depart with perhaps answering a simple question the customer has, like I do, but somewhere before, during, or after the interaction the customer may cause some trouble for the employee, whether it was intentional or not. It's easy for me to not take things personally, so if someone makes a remark about me, I'm able to turn it into a joke or something out of it that would deflect any possible hostility and perhaps other people aren't as successful in doing that and wound up getting hurt and may cause problems.
INTJ gang
got super depressed for no reason and feel really lost in my life
>blast, play, zippy, consume, doopy, moopy!
>lady nods in agreement
I think there is this INTJ girl who likes me, but I can't really tell.
I met her through proxy of a classmate in one of my college classes. I only really hanged out with her with my classmate friend. We eventually became friends as well.
She actually told me about the whole mtbi thing initially, I didn't even know about it till she told me.
She has a very dry sense of humor and likes to pretend to be condescending and talk like she is superior to everyone, especially me (semi-jokingly). She is also younger than me, and is taking higher level classes than me.
I usually pretend to be goofy and incompetent as a joke, so it made a pretty funny dynamic when hanging out with my classmate.
Eventually she discovered that I'm not as dumb as I pretend to be, and we then also debate current events and talk about interesting news stories. We tend to disagree a lot, especially politically. She is a pretty stereotypical leftist. You'd think that would mean that I'm conservative, but actually I'm am just a centrist who is for smaller government (kind of like a Libertarian if you want to put a label on it).
I switched to a different college that was closer to where I lived two semesters after meeting her. We still texted on and off (sometimes daily, sometimes not for months), debating with each other and making jokes, and just telling each other what has been happening in each other's lives.
(Cont.)
But the way she texts me starting last year, has made me wonder if she is into me. Just as a preface, we haven't met in person for about two years.
When we text into the night she usually texts me goodnight, but on occasion recently text me "sweet dreams!"
"And hey, I will miss your stimulating intellectual debates this semester! Though not to worry...I'm now planning on going instate to (some university)! You can't get rid of me that easily... haha. :)"
"You've been one of a few close friends for me. Do you know how many people I routinely text? Not counting my parents that's like 2 or 3 (you included). Don't underestimate that, but on the other hand don't let it go to your head."
"Honestly I don't keep my claws in sometimes because I know that even though you will probably be offended, we're good enough friends that I know you'll understand and still be my friend.
I'm an introvert. That's as mushy as I'll get for a long time.
I can't actually debate with most people"
After talking about really not liking this one person's argument earlier that day,
"I appreciate your openness and patience more now, haha"
Do you guys think she likes me? Or she just finds me intellectually stimulating compared to most people she's befriended.
Wow, that is pretty interesting. I wonder how they came up with that.
Did they just make people take a survey and then choose a face they didn't like and average the results or they knew what faces did what based off another study.
Probably going to look into this more.
>feel really lost in my life
Who posts on on this board and doesn't?
Damn that sucks bro
What kind of art do you do? Mainly just doodle with pencil and paper when I'm bored.
Are you tall? What is her race and your race? Rate your face from 0 to 10.
None of this MBTI bullshit matters, only looks do. That's the blackpill and it's the truth.
>Are you tall?
6' 3
>What is her race and your race?
Both white as far as I know.
>Rate your face from 0 to 10.
I don't think I'm that attractive 5 outta 10. Maybe 1 point more or less.
>None of this MBTI bullshit matters, only looks do. That's the blackpill and it's the truth.
Well she's an introvert and really plays into being an intellectual, so I don't really see her being direct if she did like me. That is just what I wanted to figure out. You are probably right with looks being the main factor (+80%)
>None of this MBTI bullshit matters
For dating or in general?
Both. Finding out your personality type is pretty much equivalent with finding out your favorite color. It might say something about you, but in reality doesn't mean much. Knowing some else's is mildly interesting, but won't help much other than a ballpark estimate in who they are.
Don't think you can figure out someone just because a personality type, or you'll just end up like those astrology fags.
L-lonely INFJ-T reporting in~!
Hold me... :'(
>Finding out your personality type is pretty much equivalent with finding out your favorite color.
That's not how logic works, feeloid.
What do you think it is like? You think its some grand internal discovery? Get over yourself
I just came up with another harebrained scheme to make money out of my parents basement using skills I use to have and let rust as I grew older. Guess my type.
Alone INFJ weak, together INJF strong!
>I just came up with another harebrained scheme to make money out of my parents basement using skills I use to have and let rust as I grew older. Guess my type.
INTP? Sounds like something they'd do.
You deserve lotsa hugs, love and happiness~
You are important and a good person. Never forget that! c:
But I like being on my own.
Image uploaded with my first post is a doodle I did awhile back I posted one of my spaceships earlier in the thread :) Thanks for taking an interest user, love to see some of you work
And thanks for your kind words :) I'm doing well, swings and roundabouts. But overall doing much better these days.
If I don't find an alternative, I'm planning on killing myself early next year because I don't want to get a job. Guess my type
First guess is an INTP?
stop masturbating to feel better