>trying to make online friends
>dont mention gender on purpose
>people ask anyways
why
Trying to make online friends
You're probably on discord, that's why
WHAT"S YOUR GENDER LOCATION AGE BRO !!!! THESE ARE ALL VERY IMPORTANT TO ME GIVE ME YOUR SOCIAL SECURITY TOO BRO COME ONE BRO
>trying to make online friends
Indeed, why?
i met some adhd roastie. forgot her gender but she brung it back up
Is natural to ask this sort of questions when you try to get to know someone. You should simply stay honest and say you like it that way.
because how can you ever call someone a friend if you don't even know that basic information?
If they ask for your gender you don't even need to go further than that you already know what he thinks.
probably
gave me a lil chuckle, thanks user
i cant make irl friends. i feel lonely
im sorry to hear
when im honest, people assume im lying and i dont really want to go through the hoops of proving im being honest. that or it just causes other problems
do people really give a shit about a gender in the year 2020?
that tends to be true. i dont see why gender would have to be important in an online friendship anyways.
apparently so. i know why but its silly
because men and women are different and i don't feel comfortable acting a certain way in front of a female. for instance i don't like to swear in front of girls because its immodest.
if its for a reason like that, its understandable to ask. it just sucks when people have certain expectations or will unadd if you answer their question one way or another
Grow a fucking pair pussy boy
I presume you're female, since no one would question you if you said you were a dude. If you feel the need to "prove" you're female then just tell the person that you don't give a shit whether they believe you or not, and that you have no interest in using your gender for attention. If they still want you to prove shit after this, then you might as well stop talking to them and find someone else who isn't so neurotic.
They wanna fugg a girl and so they need to know if you're a girl or not
I will be your friend regardless of your gender user
People can probably smell that you're female from your manerism so it doesn't even matter if they ask or not, tell them that you're a twink or something.
>tfw add someone from discord
>end up catching feelings for them regardless of their gender
>this has happened 4 times now, 2 times with a girl 2 times with a boy
Am I just bisexual or am I insane or am I just really lonely and clingy?
I can relate and you are problably lonely and clingy
you can't develop sexual feelings for someone you have never physically seen. Don't confuse an emotional connection with sexual desire and start believing you're a homosexual or something.
>you can't develop sexual feelings for someone you have never physically seen
are you retarded?
BEGONE ANIMEPOSTING DISHWASHER
You're just emotionally starved, theres loads of people like that on here.
yeah i guess they arent worth the time if theyre so hung up on it. its just tiring dealing with these type of people at all
i specifically say i am not interested in lewds/relationships and yet people add me expecting these things.
sure thing user. do you have an email i can send my tag to?
im not a big fan of lying. anyways id be fine with pretending to be a guy but its difficult when they ask to play vidya and vc
probably bisexual and easily attached due to loneliness
Those people I ended up falling for I had all seen pictures of. I think less about putting my pp in them and more about just giving them a long hug, or laying on their lap and watching Naussicca together on a cozy afternoon.
Tell those people that you prefer maintain your gender anonymously, I do it all the time because I only want to chat or make a friend without all the bullshit.
fuuu bless u user that's so cute
The only person I fell in love with has a boyfriend and I feel the exact same way you do feels bad man
maybe ill try that. it just seems pretty obvious from the way i type and the experiences i talk about that i am female, and then that spirals to anons having certain expectations or something
Actually there's literally nothing you can do since ppl will still get feelings for you because you act girly.
Because guys are only interested in women for their holes. Women are shit friends and super fucking boring
Literally this. I've added females with the intent not to do anything involving a relationship with them and I just end up caring about them. Blame my brain, I hate it. I'm just lonely.
I only ask for age to make sure I dont end up in jail by accident
What actions could send you to jail?
>get blackout drunk
>ask for nudes to anyone who writes me in that time
how can you be physically attracted to something you don't even fucking know the appearance of?
then i think guys shouldnt add people who say they dont want anything like that
fair enough. i mean, i dont mind developing crushes since as you guys have said, people cant help that. however it becomes a problem when it negatively affects the friendship and makes it uncomfortable
that is smart user
Do people really value physical appearance that much? Am I the weird one that just wants a body that will hold me back?
>how can you be physically attracted to something you don't even fucking know the appearance of?
by seen a pic of them?
you don't necessarily need to see them physically to be attracted to them
That's the part where you start collecting orbiters and generating drama.
i really do not like or want that, user
I count this as physically seeing them (you are seeing what they physically look like)
this is not sexual attraction.
>join fps community server
>have fun listening to everyone's banter
>get into top 10 players, points wise
>dont bother with mic
>continue playing server for years
Its really pretty nice. A few people have tried adding me to friends list,but I always ignore it.
>people assume im lying and i dont really want to go through the hoops of proving im being honest
As a girl this is such a big red flag when I talk to people honestly. Guys who think it matters or who feel like I need to prove it just reveal their true intentions.
Like, if all he wants is to be friends, why does it matter what gender you are? Why does he want proof that you're a girl? I've had one guy insist on a voice call "just to be safe," like what the hell.
I never asked what you wanted, good luck on your discord adventure as an attractive person.
>I've had one guy insist on a voice call "just to be safe,"
You can't really blame him, there are a lot of catfishes trying to manipulate simps.
>I count this as physically seeing them (you are seeing what they physically look like)
the adverb physically implies something more specific than just seeing a picture of them shouldn't have used it.