What has to go into a suicide letter, so that the people you leave behind will not suffer?
Writing a suicide letter
There's nothing you can say that won't make them suffer
Why? If you lay down your manifesto with good reasoning and making it clear that it was your decision, why would the people not just accept that? Everyone has the right to kill himself. You were born in this world against your will.
Because not all people think that way user. There's no way to get rid of the suffering, even if you think like that. There will always be apart of that person left in you that'll linger with you the rest of your life. The only thing you can do is try and soften it as much as you can.
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do you seriously believe that your parents will just say well he had his reasons oh well
Just fucking do it, user. A classmate of mine killed himself back in high-school. His family cried like 3 days, the class held a little ceremony and that's it. Humans adapt easily. People do not give a shit if you kill yourself, you are nothing but a number, an insect.
This.
You can say it was your own decision and your own fault, the people that care about you will still blame themselves.
> that the people you leave behind will not suffer?
This is just not possible. If you gonna kill yourself accept that you will hurt a lot of people a long period of time. Even you will explain how and what they won't be able to rationalise it because we can't switch off our feelings like that
I would just he venomously spiteful desu. Why would I care when I'm either going to Hell or eternal sleep?
My parents unironically do not give a shit about me. They would brush it off. I have one friend who probably would understand my reasonings because he is quite intelligent.
People will easily adapt to my death like said.
You won't mitigate suffering, but you can at least make it a novelty. Make it funny, make it short and sweet, or make it poignant, but nobody wants to read some pretentious manifesto of why you blew your head off.
You can make it really interesting by dying in a cool way. Blow your head off in a public area with tannerite, suicide by cop naked in Times Square or some shit idk.
Life is garbage, absurd, and pointless. If you're going to die for something it might as well be nothing at all, and if you're gonna die for nothing at least make it interesting for the bystanders and those affected.
That is crazy talk. No non-suicidal person would or could understand this kind of thinking.
>That is crazy talk
So people who use arguments and logic are crazy? I guess that's one more reason to die.
Gives aus a few examples off your arguments user.
Unironically yes user. Humans are made up of more than just logic. Emotions are literally anything but logical.
>What has to go into a suicide letter, so that the people you leave behind will not suffer?
the most important thing to do when writing a suicide letter is to sleep on it.
write the note, then go to sleep and revise it again the next day. a good suicide letter takes days or weeks to make good.
>if you find it hard to read
I find it hard to read because it's chicken scratch, nigga needed to work on their penmanship.
>Why? If you lay down your manifesto with good reasoning and making it clear that it was your decision, why would the people not just accept that?
Do they understand and accept your feelings now, when you are still alive? I'm guessing "no" since you are writing a letter and not just talking about it with them directly.
Anyway, even if they did understand and accept your feelings rationally, people's emotions don't always follow suit. And even if they weren't so bothered by the fact that it's a suicide (and most people really are) there's still the pain of loss.
Unfortunately, you can't ensure there will be no suffering. It's wishful thinking and you probably already know on some level it's just not a realistic outcome.
I do think letters can mitigate suffering though.
It's better than simply disappearing.
this is a fact, and i will absolutely agree. just do it, bro
You are inside a thinking bubble where suicide is a completely logical thing for you. But that's not the reality for 99,99% of other people.
Just think about it this way, some people think the earth is flat and they have all the necessary arguments and logic to keep believing the earth is flat. But none of their arguments and logic makes sense to people who know the earth is not flat.
will somebody please post on here a list of diy suicide options
>muh emotions
An emotional state is only temporary while logic holds true until falsified. When someone kills himself then his friends might be a little sad. However, they just have to sleep one night and digest the reasoning behind it and all will be good the day after. Humans are mentally strong, they can overcome the worst kind of shit. Someone killing themself is nothing but a small misfortune.
you are delusional if you think that is how most people will respond to a suicide
OP killing yourself is fine, I'm considering doing the same soon. Your family will be fine, and they will die eventually, too. Normies believe suicide is wrong because they have a valuable life, but if you are like me for someone who sucks at everything and incapable of growth, you might as well ditch the prison system that's called life and leave it for the more fortunate. You are only a blimp, and nothing else matters, my guy.
Have you ever met a single person in your life lol
You sound naive and thats just magical thinking user your suicide will leave scars that will never heal
This. Like I said, humans are made up of 2 things. Logic and emotions. Emotions always come before logic for the majority of people, so trying to be logical behind guessing how they'll react is not viable, because there's no way to know how they'll react until they do. Some families will get over you soon, some families will carry the pain of your death the rest of their lives.
I remember when my father OD'd. That left a ripple in my family. My grandfather and mother never really recovered from it, and it took me years to recover from it my self. It really does depend on the family and people user. You can't viably guess how they'll react.
life goes on. Anyone who would once have known you are still going to laugh and have a good time without you anyway, so don't feel ashamed. death is the most regular thing you can do
yeah. no amount of logic can override emotions in cases like this. even if you understand the full context and feel like youre ready to move on, in the end, you cannot fully control how your brain makes you feel
based and remember, 7 billion of humans and one less wont make a change for anyone.
it will suffer
the best thing you can do is say why youre doing so (assuming those left behind are not the cause) and write out your last wishes
I have observed this all my life. People only care about themselves and if they take interest in you then it is only for their own benefit. I have mentioned my depressive state and suicidal thoughts to my friends and family. However, they all distanced themselves from me after it. It's a natural reaction because it would mean work for them which does not benefit them.
Everyone on this world lives for his own. You are nothing more than an insect. Create a textdocument with seven billion Xs and then delete one. Nothing changes.
You better hope to have Life Insurance
> one less wont make a change for anyone.
you know that's a lie.
you're obviously completely absorbed in your delusion so just end it no one will convince you of anything different.
You spend way too much time alone on your computer