My wife admitted to me that she feels she chose the wrong brother

My wife admitted to me that she feels she chose the wrong brother.
My brother has a masters degree, very fit, better looking, paid more, and every single one of my girlfriends growing up always said they would rather be with him. My crushes used to give him valentines gifts not me.

We have been married for 7 years and idk if I can move past this comment. Also she told me that when I started texting her 13 years ago to go on a date she only agreed because she thought I was him. She was initially disappointed when I showed up but because I made her laugh and had a big dick she settled.

What do I do Anons?

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Show said big dick so I can worship it since she doesn't deserve to

talk out your issues retard

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>trips checked
Start talking to an individual therapist about leaving. Talk to a divorce lawyer about how badly you’re gonna get fucked. She’s a cunt that is tryin to emasculate you and destroy your brotherhood. Also you could acid attack him so you’d be better looking

smack her with said big dick and tell her to stfu or you can talk it out like a normal person

I tried to. She turned it around and said it was a joke that she told her mom and brother but wouldn’t tell me the context of it so my mind started to just wonder as to why she wouldn’t tell me. She turned it around on me and said I was being unreasonable and jealous for no reason but she knows my deep seeded jealousy with my older bro and how insecure I am about it. So I can’t help but feel that’s how she truly thinks and how she is unhappy with me.

if you guys aren't compatible then their is not a reason to stay together

probably fake/kike thread but if true you're headed to either divorce city or the state of forever cucked. Chose one.

Tits for trips

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It fake argument happened last night. I cried like a baby’s this morning when the reality of it set in.

Last two digits is how many times she have sucked your bros dick

Checkem

It’s not*

If we get a divorce I’m fucked. She is stay at home mom and I am sole breadwinner. There goes house cars half of 401k and retirement savings etc. divorce would be in her favor.

might as well fuck the shit out of her and use her as a cum dumpster then

And the thing is I am a great dad and husband I’m tender and attentive and literally buy her everything she ever wanted.

Why am I still not good enough.

youre a simp

I don’t get the term simp?

>get brother to fuck your wife in front of a nanny cam
>divorce her, using her infidelity as leverage to get better terms
>take your sexy-ass brother out for drinks, wingman him for life, and live off of his leftovers you pathetic shit

He is married to a black girl and has no interest in my wife ...:/

Do you have any attractive male friends who are single? If she's being like that about him, she's ready to cheat on you.

some retarded incel term because apparently Nice Guy wasn't enough.

Ask your wife why she thinks your brother would choose her?

She never had the option to have your brother in the first place.

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The superfluous mention of your supposed sister-in-law's race really makes this seem like bullshit

So your wife was always going to pick between a minimum of two brothers? Your bitch has a weird fucking fetish.

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I have a lot I was in a frat. So maybe I just take her up to a smoker or something get her drunk with some alumns and then maybe just ditch her at a party and tell the bro’s record what you can?

Divorce that ungrateful pig, she doesn’t deserve that big cock

Well I’m just saying he doesn’t like white girls. My wife is white. I felt like it was related.

You are a trip generating simp.

If you really don’t want to be bled dry here is what you need to do.

Open a secret account. Decrease your 401k contribution and send that to the secret account. Go see a therapist for your weird brother issues and low self esteem. You’re never gonna be able to be on equal footing with her when you come across as such a bitch to Zig Forums strangers. Plan to get in great shape and move on when your kids are older. You’ll still be able to get girls in their 20s. She’ll be a used piece of meat. But the first part is work on your shitty self.

That’s a good point. Not like he would have chose her I guess. But still it’s eating at my manhood and worst part is my brother and I work together and are really close but I have always had this underlining jealousy towards him for all that I’ve mentioned and more.

My wife just called me saying she schedule a therapist because she feels that she is screwed up and other wise would have never said anything like that because she knows about the insecurity.

I feel she is trying to twist this into me being abusive or controlling or whatever. She always turns it around and I can never actually be mad at her cause it’s never her fucking fault

She needs to be sober. If she's drunk, she'll say your friend raped her to avoid culpability in the divorce.

Ohhh solid point
She is less likely to fuck someone else’s sober tho
At least I think

Leave the trashy slut and don’t tell her why. Treat her property like property though. It’s the only thing keeping her female mind working so as long as you treat her property well while you leave her life you’ll survive.

Sounds like she is right

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Tell her thanks but you’re going to get your own independent therapist and when you’re ready you can try couples counseling. No way should you explore your insecurity there with her otherwise you won’t be able to work it out and you’ll know your weaknesses even deeper. That’ll be fun at your next fight

You need to pick a dude that she'll think is hot. If she's saying she picked the wrong brother and shit, she's either regretting her decision or trying to hurt you. Either way, she's likely to fuck some other dude. Just don't set it up to be an obvious trap and she'll probably go for it.

If there are things about this that she won't tell you, and she turns it against you, trying to make you feel guilty for not being confident enough, something's very wrong. Not necessarily in the choice to date you and not your brother, even though I hear how much it must bug you ; more in the unwillingness to help you deal with it, and even more in the way she moved that burden to you. In my eyes, THAT is unacceptable in a partner.
Now, she may have panicked because she knew this was gonna be a big deal, and have dealt with it in an instinctive but clumsy way. If the fight is very fresh, don't rush to conclusions.
However, you must communicate thoroughly on the matter, because it sounds like you need clarity, and doubt is your biggest enemy right now. It can eat you up, and must not be underestimated. If she refuses to help you deal with that and instead tries to shift blame or guilt to you in the course of the next days, then I'd consider getting out of this relationship.