Almost lost my virginity last night but couldn’t get hard how do I prevent this from happening again...

Almost lost my virginity last night but couldn’t get hard how do I prevent this from happening again ? She was literally bent over in front of me and my shit was limp but I was hard when she was giving me head

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This happened to me I got outta prison in January so I was looking for a girl after my time. So I went to a prostitute but I couldn't stay hard. I was drinking so I blamed it on that then I went to another prostitute but I couldnt stay hard but I was taking alot of painkillers the night before so I dunno if my dick is the problem or the substances. I will get another prostitute when the virus is over with and find out

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I would guess you were just anxious about performing on your first time. Hopefully she was understanding.

She was, but like I said I was hard when she was giving me head so Idk

Consider suicide, that's not normal at all and you should be really embarrassed

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I would guess that you didn't feel as much pressure to perform when you're getting to just lie back and let her pleasure you. Once it comes to having intercourse, then you'll feel more pressure to be good for her (especially if its your first time). My best advice is just to take it slow, try to relax, and just enjoy your time together.

OP sounds like your dick is more nervous than you are. Happens to me with every girl if shes patient and understanding just keep fooling around and eventually it'll work out

Most likely yea cause I wasn’t really nervous at all tbh

user hopefully this isnt bait. This happened to me 6 years ago and I literally came to Zig Forums and asked too. No one here really helps. The honest truth is confidence.

You were probably hard when she gave you head because you know you didnt really have to perform. Same shit would happen to me. You prolly dont feel outerly nervous, but subconsciously your dick is feeling it. Just be confident, if youre uncomfortable about your body just try to be confident. Talk to her and once she seems reassuring and supportive, youll eventually get to it. My issue was low confidence about my body, so I ended up losing 60 lbs (I was like 220 lb) and that stuff never really happened in the future.

Did her pussy smell kinda yuk because that will kill a boner

Totally fine. It happened to me as well. But no worries. Try again and if that happens again maybe she isn’t just the right girl for you.
I had to try 2 girls before the one that was for me

I have a six pack and workout everyday lol it’s not that I lack confidence I was prob just nervous. And her head game wasn’t that great towards the end

Bro crazy thing is I ate her out right after and it was my first time eating Pussy and it deff didn’t taste weird or smell, it tasted like skin and a metallic taste which kind of caught me by surprise but I googled it and it’s the normal taste.

Confidence directly has to do with nervousness friend. Maybe its not body confidence but confidence of performing.

Your problem is that you couldn’t stay hard. My problem was that I couldn’t cum. I lost my virginity with a good friend of mine at the time and a local slut. He basically called me up and said he found a chick that wanted a three way and he thought of me because I was a virgin. We fucked her for a month or so and every time we fucked I couldn’t cum and would fuck her for over an hour and would have to stop from all of the sweat and it becoming boring. I never had an orgasm until I met my wife and now I cum too fast

OP must have been embar-riced

Oooooof felt that one

That’s weird. I mean I’m the same, she was giving me head for like 30min and I couldn’t cum the feeling just got boring like I got used to it too fast. Dicks are weird

Allllll about getting out of your head. And unfortunately thinking about getting out of your head puts you more in your head. First time is nerve racking man, don't beat yourself up at all, have gone limp on a 9 before because I was overthinking it. Sex will happen and you'll get more comfortable with it and there will be more embarrassing moments and many many more great ones than that. I would joke about this with her. If you're okay being honest with her that it's your first time then be honest an it'll relieve the pressure. you'll get it right and forget all about this, but I know how fucking mortifying it is right now.

Well I ate her out and I watched a shit ton of YouTube videos so she doesn’t suspect at all that I’m a virgin. But I just told her straight up I couldn’t get hard. Honestly her loving the way I ate her out saved the whole night so shout-out to YouTube for that

haha alright my friend, good on you for giving good head, but at the end of the day faking experience is just gonna twist you up more mentally. Good luck in the future it sounds like shits gonna work out just fine.

How old are you, 15?

your limp because you wanted a dude.

Dont sweat it, Op. Next time, pay attention. Dont just watch, get into it. You bout to do whatever you want, have fun. Porn does that. If you want, dont watch porn.

You're probably just gay bro, ask her if she has a male friend that can bend you over. If you get hard then there's your answer.

You probably couldn't get hard, cause of all the cock you sucked in prison. I understand, I was in jail too. You just get use to seeing all the man ass and balls and cock... maybe find a shemale hooker, one with a big fuckin cock.. ask if she will slap you in the face with her meat stick..
Good luck boss

Just fuck men. You will be rock hard the whole time.

If you were drinking the alcohol was probably the issue OP. I cant get hard if I'm buzzed. Never been able to mix liquor and sex. My dick just doesnt function under the influence of alcohol.

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