Anyone have any stories of how they caught their significant other cheating?

Anyone have any stories of how they caught their significant other cheating?

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> Be me
> Living together for 7 years
> Playing Vidya
> Watch her play
> Both playing Sims
> Watch her screen
> See her enable Dec cheats

Mfw cheater

Arranged the whole deal, walked in with a video camera while they were in pound town in a motel, tried jerking myself off but I was in my cage, and I had to pay the guy afterwards, the good news is my wife finally came.

>be me
>she downloads a rom of Age of Empires
>thatsstealing.jpeg
>whatever
>get back to watching football
>see her type
>”pepperoni pizza”
>360 and left right there

she hooked up with a guy who happened to be roommates with my coworker
he saw her leaving their place in the morning and told me

>knew shit was going sideways because she had started talking to a male friend of ours (who lived across the country) on the phone a lot
>on a hunch I checked the computer's recycle bin
>found a topless pic of her that she definitely hadn't shown me
>decided to confront her about it that day on her lunch break
>she confessed she just realized she had feelings for him and was going to send that but decided against it because she knew it would be a mistake
>I confessed that I still knew her email password and that I already seen the email she sent with it, and the rest
>she broke down crying, doing her best to play the victim as usual
>I dropped her off to finish her shift and told her to call her mom because she wasn't coming back to the apartment

I was cheating on my gf with another girl. I was hanging out at this girl's house for the 10th time or so, when her phone rang. She ignored it and left it ring. I saw a guys name on her screen. Me, jokingly: "pick up, it's your husband!". She: "when did you find out I have a husband?"

>be me, 23
>been in a 7 yr relationship with the woman i thought I was meant to marry
>one day that at first seemed like any other I left for work and kissed her goodbye like I always did
>i was not feeling well that day, I had a horrible stomachache and a bad headache, so I decided to leave work early
>upon arriving at my apartment i walked in and i hear whispers, not really thinking much of it
>all of a sudden my fiance walks out from the direction of our room wearing one of my shirts and looks at me as if she's just seen a ghost
>she asks what I was doing here and I told her I left work early because I was not feeling well
>My mind was cloudy from that headache I had so in retrospect I didn't pick up on her body language and all the red flags
>I then tell her that I'm going to bed but then she asked if I wanted her to make me some tea for my stomach
>i declined and told her it was okay and as I began to walk towards our room she began to frantically tell me that it always upset her how I never let her help me
>I was confused and at that point genuinely concerned/alarmed because this type of behavior was so out of character
>I then firmly asked her what was going on and she began to cry
>At that point I was extremely suspicious that she was cheating so I walked into our room and hiding underneath our bed was a fucking man
>He then got out from under the bed and made a run for the exit
>I tried to give chase but my fiance stopped me and kept saying how she "loved me" and how she was "sorry"
>I felt extremely disgusted but mostly hurt so I proceeded to go to our room and began to pack my shit
>throughout the entire time she cried and howled that she was sorry and at one point tried to guilt trip me by saying how her life was over
>I then finished packing, left the apartment and never turned back.

Its been 4 years ever since that happened and although it hurt for a long time, I can definitely say I'm in a better place right now

>close to my family and found out in February of 2018 that a relative of mine had cancer
>thought she would be able to make it through with treatment and chemotherapy but she ended up passing at the beginning of September
>when I found out we wouldn't be able to save her, I was beside her nearly every day in the hospital and at her home on her deathbed
>for about two weeks, I had to experience watching her die in front of me and being unable to help her
>fucking mentally destroyed me
>as well as that happening, my gf and I decided to move to our first apartment together in a city that's two hours away from our hometown
>since we moved, I still managed to try to do things with her and have fun with her
>played a ton of Pokémon Go
>took trips to different state parks
>had a mini-vacation in another state
>just shit to take my mind off of everything and trying to make up for having to cancel a big trip we had planned
>even though we had no choice but to cancel, she couldn't stop crying about how she didn't get to go and how she deserved to be sad about that too
>I tried to be there for her as much as I could
>still became emotionally unavailable


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You did the right thing user, never regret it

Thanks man, it took me a very long time to realize it but I now agree that this was for the best.

Im glad you left user, I hope you find someone better

Yea, id like to read the rest

>I dropped her off to finish her shift and told her to call her mom because she wasn't coming back to the apartment
What happened after this???

Did you leave your man? Did yall fight? What was the result?

>yall

Fuck off

You come off incredibly based in that story user, I applaud you if true

Fuck it, I'll continue regardless

>knew I wasn't doing well but didn't want to burden her with the horrible thoughts I had been having
>understood that death is something everybody deals with but I just wanted to figure out how to cope and hoped that she would be here for me
>she helped me a bit with my grieving process at the beginning
>however, she has a tendency to snap at me when I say or do things that she doesn't like
>like asking her a question about something I should have already known
>being asked something that I don't quite know was responded with bitterness and sarcasm
>she was beginning to hide her phone any time I would enter the room
>could sometimes see the picture of a man I didn't know when the conversation was up but not the conversation itself
>engage withdraw_even_more.exe and begin isolation mode
>one weekend, my family members were visiting my mom and sisters and I told I wished I could go see them
>she suggested I go visit them considering I had a hopeful interview at the time and was expecting to start a new job
>didn't really want to leave on that day but she convinced me it was okay
>was thinking how, earlier in the day, she had shown me something on her phone
>saw the man I didn't know was messaging her through Facebook
>she desperately grabbed her phone and swiped out of the conversation
>"My coworker... He probably like... has a question about work that I don't feel like answering right now"

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AND WAS IT?

>I'm suspicious as fuck but I have other things to worry about
>as soon as I mentioned visiting my family, they instantly made plans with me and expected me to be there at a certain time for some kind of shit like bowling
>I prolonged as much as I could because I wanted to spend a little more time with her before I left
>the plan was for me to be there around 9:00 PM, meaning I needed to leave at 7:00
>say our goodbyes, kiss, "I love you and I'm gonna miss you while you're gone"
>for the weekend I was there, I tried to communicate as much as I could through Snapchats and messages
>relatives wanted to get together to make thank you cards and spend time together
>the town we were visiting is where my recently deceased relative was living, another hour and a half away from my apartment
>this is Buttfuck, Nowhere
>horrible phone service
>girlfriend was very well aware of this as she had been at the funeral and complained when I rode a motorcycle for five minutes without her
>*There's no service here, what exactly would I do if you would've wrecked?"
>while I'm there, start going through more emotional turmoil because her house with all of her belongings was still there but she wasn't
>her house was eerily silent and devoid of all the life had had put in it
>expressed how horrible I was feeling to my girlfriend
>still tried to talk to her as often as the spotty service would allow
>figured some of the times she couldn't respond was because she was at work or asleep

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We talked a few days later when I was less pissed off, set up a time for her to come pick up her shit, and I haven't talked to her since.

>doing her best to play the victim as usual
god I fucking hate women. typical bullshit behavior. I really hope this story was true and you never spoke to her again, if so, good for you brother.

Fuckin hardcore

user, as a man who stuck around for 6 months after having a similar experience I respect the shit out of you for doing what you did. I wish I had the balls to do that at the time.

WHAT'S TAKING SO LONG I WANT TO HEAR THE REST

Hold on, I'm taking a break to eat so here's a bump

Kek

>Be me, 25
>I have a good time with my gf of 6 years
>Actually love this girl
>She starts making no more advances towards me
>Starts fights every day for no apparent reason
>leave one day for work after i set up security cameras for unrelated reasons
>see a dude walk in my home
>see her kiss him in the front door and taking him inside
>fucking broken.jpg

welp this thread has caused me to revisit enough fucking trauma for one night. how long does it take for the feeling of inadequacy to finally go away?

About the amount of time for the bullet to clear your prefrontal cortex

It depends on the person, for me it took about 1 year, but i still feel some stuff about it, and that's without therapy