I have a girlfriend and i really love her. she is my first ever but im by far not her first...

Enjoy being single, incel scum.

Claim her by making her pregnant. You’re not his first bf but you ll be the first to breed her

>I didn’t enjoy sex with Chad hun, his was too big
>your little guy is the perfect size
>sometimes I just can’t control myself when I’m drunk
>I don’t do (FILL IN BLANK) anymore so we can’t, that’s in my past
Sounds familiar?

Sex is fun and people do it because of that. Stop giving it so much weight though. You don’t own her and neither does she own you. If either one has had sex with someone else: so what? It doesn’t diminish your worth as a human, in fact it raises it, by learning a skill or two.

Or: go to some Muslim countries where popping virgin pussies is some form of accomplishment.

Yeah that’s a red flag. Women/girls who do this are intentionally trying to fet you to feel insecure so the squeeze every last bit of attention from you until the next best thing comes along. My advice? Break it off. Call her, say shits over, hang up, block all contact. Start the healing process asap, finish your studies, then try to find someone. Youre saving yourself heartache. She is not devoted to you the way you are to her. Women are natural manipulators and a lot of times they do it w/o realizing it. It’s in their best interest biologically to weigh their options and take advantage of men to get ahead.
Don’t hate women for it though. There’s a lot out there that have a conscience.

user, just tell her it makes you uncomfortable hearing about this shit and explain to her why in a kind and loving way so that you don’t come off as an asshole or mean. if she cares about your feelings she will stop.

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You can stop by accepting that was her past and she is with you now. I used to be jealous when I was young but I grew out of it. Also the more experienced you are with girls the less jealous you'll be. I can hear my girl talk about previous guys and it doesn't bother me at all because so what? I've been with other girls too. Who cares. I'm not gonna let it kill my vibe and you shouldn't either OP. And always keep this in mind too when you feel jealousy: jealousy stems from insecurity. Next time you feel jealous, stop and think about it. Why do you feel that way? Is it something you can change? If so change it. Is it something you cannot change? Then accept it. After you do this, your feelings will go away.

i will do that the next time she does it and see how she reacts. we always tried to be honest to each other and she tells me when i say things that bother her.
but i know she has some mental issues and therefore i dont want to bring up her past to much.

sorry but that doesn’t sound like a good advice at all. I m jealous yes but what you suggest is being a cuck which is worse

>Next time you feel jealous, stop and think about it. Why do you feel that way?
I’m rank like 12 out of the 14 guys she’s been with.
>Is it something you can change?
No
>Then accept it.
What that she enjoyed many larger cocks than mine? How?

This

It's a shit test. Tell her to knock it the fuck off, and start living in the present rather than the past. If she doesn't like it, there is the door.

i know what you mean user.
my insecurity used to be way worse than now. weve been in a realtionship for half a year now and now it doesnt bother me to much anymore. its just like for 5 minutes and then its over because i know how stupid i am for reacting that way. but i dont want to talk to her in those 5 minutes.

>she has some mental issues
2nd huge redflag. Don't date women w/ mental issues. Why do you feel so insecure that you have to be with the lowest hanging fruit? There's nothing respectable about a woman who openly talks about her exes and one night stands with her s/o, let alone one that's mentally ill. you're not her servant, you're not her caretaker, and she will abuse every bit of your good nature until some other desperate fag w/ slightly more money and spice shows up.
This is based on experience because I had no one to tell me this. The girls I dated who were like this were the WORST. The 2nd time I made this mistake I realized my fuck ups and just used her for sex until I got bored and removed her from my life.
Life is 100% better and she's riding the cock carousel hardcore and stalking my profiles and discord on a daily basis. Don't stick dick in crazy.

How is that being a cuck? Sounds to me like being upset and jealous that your girlfriend fucked other dudes is more bitch than just accepting it as fact. Boo hoo people fuck each other. "Why didn't she just keep her virginity until she met me?" But whatever if you think being jealous makes you less of a cuck then by all means keep being jealous

Big red flags if she's talking about her exes my dude. She does not respect you, that's the past the present is with you

Whatever you do don’t start watching porn with actresses that look like her while thinking about her past

Like this. Can you make your cock bigger? No. Can you change that she's had bigger cocks? No. Then don't trip about it. It's not your fault, and I'm sure your dick is fine as long as you know how to fuck her well. No point in letting it bother you

just want to make clear that that wasnt OP.
i think the point you made was good.

She gave those people up to be with YOU. Not anyone else, YOU. You're the person she wants to be with right now, not her exes, not her one night stands, YOU are the one she wants. THEY should be jealous of YOU: whatever they did, whatever they gave her, you did better, since after all they did, WHATEVER they did, she went with YOU anyway.

Don't ask. If she tells you out of the blue; tell her you don't wanna hear that shit. Stop being a pussyfaggot

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Betabitches and bait.. that's all this fucking place is tn

This is a good thing to think about. Whenever I would feel jealous before I would just think "well I'm the one who's fucking her now"