>no gf >no real friends since school >new job sucks >tired and overworked during all week >still forced to do overtime on weekends >don't really socialize with anyone there >feel like one of my coworkers even hates me >feel like i'm the only one who doesn't fit there >no longer have a reason to think anything will get better >everything gets worse and just expect it to >feel miserable as soon as I wake up >things that give me the slightest happiness now feel like a fleeting cope and my enjoyment barely lasts >gave up on having dreams and goals >every day the idea of things changing only for the worse no matter what I try just keeps reinforcing
I'm really tired and can't find a way out guys, I think I don't even consider myself a human being anymore or that humanity is just a burden that holds me back from any sense of freedom and fulfillment
know that feel, I signed up for military service last week, hoping it will give me some discipline and maybe some sense of purpose
Oliver Nguyen
what do you do for work? deliver tacos?
Gabriel Rodriguez
The way out is to dare. Go out alone if you don't have any friends... I'm through it actually, haven't had the balls yet to sit alone in a bar, but one day eventually I will. Also look for events near you live on facebook, there's probably of it if you don't live in a shithole, and if you're not on fb, just make a fake account for that, so you can see the events near you
Gabriel Anderson
yeah fucking bitch you live in a constant good temperature in mexico being lazy is actually encouraged
meanwhile in the netherlands i have to work constantly
you wouldnt last a day here before you fled to mexico missing all your siestas
Nathan Perry
i fucking hate life as wel mate. i still know a girl that i had in my class in my head that i never really had the balls to ask for her number. i still remember her face which is probably the worst thing.
Kayden Richardson
you sound burned out
talk to a therapist or a life coach to get your life in order, or at the very least they'll change your perspective to make life easier
Thomas King
Maybe try to look for other job? Even if you earn the same, it will be a change of pace and you will meet different people. Your coworkers can make a shitty job transform into a kinda enjoyable job. And about going to bars/clubs alone that other user mentioned... i have done it. Im into the techno music scene but the few friends i have are not so i mostly end up going to dance clubs alone. Drink a few beers and enjoy yourself. Interact with people there, have fun together. If you meet again the next night in the same places chances are they will recognize you and speak to you right away. You might start to establish connections with these people and can potentially become friends. Going to bars alone is nothing to be ashame of, if you already have nothing to lose, who cares? just do it
Gabriel Nguyen
move on. no girl is worth you time, trust me, i have been there. go out with friends, if you dont have friends just go out alone. I have done it. Go to bars at night, enjoy the music, know that people are there to have fun, nobody knows your background and nobody cares. Drink some alcohol to work up some courage and meet new people every night, improve your social interactions, speak to girls without expectations, just speak to them about random shit. You will eventually find a group of people you can be part of. Trust me, i have been there, it can be done. The trick is not giving a fuck, literally be yourself. It sounds like a meme but its the most real thing ever. Be genuine and you will eventually meet genuine people like you
i don't even have her number nor did i fucking try. She only exist to taunt me in my head.
Cooper Wright
What Job do you have? I have none, I still still study
Benjamin Baker
*Still study
Christian Hughes
I work as a process technician at a factory. At first it was hard acquiring the skills for it but I got better over time. Still, despite the improvements I make or the efforts I give for the company they keep getting overlooked because of the slightest flaws and mistakes I do from time to time
Chase Murphy
Okay, are you young?
James Garcia
23
Michael Williams
Then shut the fuck up, I am 3 years older than you and have no job, I am doing my second degree at the uni
Carson Thomas
the harder you work, the harder they will push you. No one is going to praise you for doing your work right. No matter how many good thing you do in life, people will only remember you for your mistakes. The sooner you understand this, the better. Try to improve your relationship with your coworkers to atleast make the work more "bearable". Or start looking for a different job for a change of pace and people like i previously said
Gavin Wood
Welcome to adulthood.
Nathan Martinez
lmao i use polish degrees as toilet paper and when it blocks the loo you clean it
Jose Johnson
>talk to a therapist or a life coach to get your life in order, or at the very least they'll change your perspective to make life easier
Shut the fuck up you retarded bong, nobody asked for your opinion.
Brandon Harris
The latter makes more sense. I feel like resigning everyday but job hunting is pretty difficult in here.
Charles Reed
are you stupid? spics are literally the most hard working people. they work more than Koreans.
Tyler White
i have met mexicans and they are some of the coolest and hardest working people i ever met. Wtf are you on about?
Jonathan Young
>people will only remember you for your mistakes I’m paranoid about this in general. I try to be seen to only do good, because seeing me at my low point gives of a bad impression. Can’t avoid having my friends and gf see me like that though.
Colton Fisher
>Mexico >over 35°C even in winter >average worker puts 50+ hours a week
>Netherlands >13°C all around the year >average worker pulls under 40 hours a week
user the fuck you're on?
Kevin Murphy
The people who have seen you at your lowest point and still stuck around, are the only people who matter. With my previous comment i was refering to toxic relationships in life/work. You need to start learning to recognize toxic people and cut them out of your life asap. These are the people that will suck the blood out of you, pretending to be your friends, but if you ever do a "bad" thing they will despise you, it doesnt matter how many good things you did for them. The same people that act as your "friend" but talk shit about you when you are not around. The key is cutting the bullshit out of your life and only surround yourself with people that do good to you and bring something good to your life