How to become more humble

based thank you

seems to be it

i did different iq tests online and got 124-140
people say online iq tests don't really work, so i might actually be 110 iq
im aware of dk effect, valley of despair was a few years ago for me

Those are all bullshit, what matters is what you got on standardized tests you took in school or an actual IQ test

my lifestyle
>wake up
>drink coffee
>browse
>smoke weed
>drink coffee
>browse
>smoke weed
>jerk off
>sleep

haven't exercised in years
smoked weed daily for years
haven't had a girlfriend in years
jerk off everyday

Unironically, take mushrooms. You'll realize how small you really are.

i try to every 6 months to get perspective and reprioritize stuff

That's because you're insecure deep down, and intelligence is the only thing about you that is higher than most so you cling to it with all your life and have decided unconsciously years ago that it is safer to judge other people on it than to let in the vulnerable pain of the fact that you don't belong, even though deep down that's all you really want. Even belong to the people you so vehemently judge, creating even more emotional knots in your psyche, causing you to feel the need to lock up and "become hard" even more.

being arrogant is not a crime, just try to be it in the right time

hang out with competent people who will belittle you and insult you until you ahut the fuck up

i agree, this is true.

this is one of my biggest fears, because my self-esteem is low. but deep down i know you're right, good tip for gaining humility

Do something hard
Declare you will do it publicly
Continue increasing difficulty until you either join the ranks of the great western men who built the foundations of modern society or fail early enough to fully understand how incredible those men are thereby gaining humility

Read my comment again, all you need is in that comment. I was you.

What you need to do is go towards that immense reservoir of pain inside of you, and allow yourself to feel it, slowly over time. Dig into yourself and your emotions.

Your whole problem at heart is that you are afraid to feel. Because feeling brings up the pain. But feeling is also what makes you human and what connects you with others.

The only way to learn to feel again, is to go through the pain you're protecting yourself against. Anything else is a dead end.

It's not gonna be fun. But it will be ultimately the most rewarding thing you could do for yourself.

you dont have to be friendly to anybody just recognize who helped you when you needed help and try not fucking those people over with your "I am so based and superior" mentality. also nofap off course

thank you user. you hit the spot. your comments gave me a small serotonin boost. i know i have a lot of work to do.

thanks, that's a based pov

Take psychedelics or strong weed, you don't have an IQ problem you have an ego problem

i fully understand and agree with this need to belong. i've had difficulty with belonging/relating to others ever since i started going down rabbit holes.

the more knowledge i obtain, the more i feel distanced from people
i have this addiction to learning about unconventional topics (seems cutting edge stuff is usually unconventional, so i spend alot of time looking into unconventional things, which causes me to feel more distanced from others)

psychedelics help me temporarily get rid of the ego and view things from different perspectives
weed just numbs me, pushing whatever emotions into the future
i had a bit of depersonalization few years ago, so i've been reconstructing my ego and personality past few years

i've been stuck in this ego trip of superiority, because it's the only way i can feel 'secure'

i think dabbling with psychedelics has caused a lot of these insecurities to come out and now i have to deal with them

are you german?

canadian

>guys how do I become humble???
>just squeeze your dick weird in the shower bro
This fucking board

here's the thing, you aren't actually as smart as you think you are. probably not even close. keep reminding yourself that. it helps

your just a type 1 jew OP

thejc.com/lifestyle/features/what-kind-of-a-jew-are-you-1.433347

that was literally me. I've mostly beaten it but the process has cost me.

Came here to say this. 5g in the dark tames the ego

meh. people are throwing money at me to work for them. i ve worked 20 years on my skillset in conjunction with personal development. my advice : do the same. also, remember that health is the ultimate asset.

>standardized tests you took in school
you still define yourself based on your high school performance? fucking christ no wonder all of you are poor

weed and psychedelics are only temporary solutions. being kind to people is the best drug of all.

That's good. Don't run from them. Deal with them. At least a few hours per week as your soul focus. Sit down and go at it. Feel, write, cry, be angry. Get that shit to the surface.

>how to become humble?
do you ever take risks? do you actively work on personal projects, in spite of failure? do your aspirations hinge on your actions more than luck?

of course not, because otherwise you wouldn’t be asking this. you’ve built up a social callous to protect yourself. the “intellect” you pride yourself on is kept bottled up, because you’re afraid to take a risk, because you’re afraid people will look at you the way that you’ve trained yourself to look at people.

log off Zig Forums. go pick up a difficult activity. fail over and over again until you learn to respect the process of mastery, rather than trying to rationalize every failure along the way.

This was me
Did a ton of mdma to fix it. Finally not a retarded Zig Forumsack anymore and actually care about other people

Why do autistic dumbasses always think they are smarter then everyone else? Is it a defense mechanism for being socially incompetent?

you're literally a failure, tell me what makes you superior again?

Based user, I've been through the same process and this is 100% correct

what you suffer from actually have a name, it's a personality disorder
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_personality_disorder

>Is it a defense mechanism for being socially incompetent?
literally yes. a lot of this is instilled by schools from a young age.
>parents are emotionally unavailable, incompetent, narcissistic, etc
>kid may or may not be autistic - the more autistic, the more extreme
>succeeds in school, put on a pedestal by the teacher
>other students feel resentment rather than competition
>kid is ostracized
>the lack of a comfortable home life means the kid is constantly defensive, and likely not living a proper childhood
>the kid has not been able to understand their emotion in a safe environment, pushes feelings down
>only objective measure of individual success is grades
>conflate grades with intelligence
>base personality around “intelligence”
>backed by teachers ready to boost their ego, kid takes pride in being subservient to all forms of authority, learns to leverage their intelligence as a form of bullying, and locks themselves in their head
that’s how you end up with 75% of the posts on this fucking website.