watch anime, or just anything she doesn’t want me to do in general.
Long story short, I’m 25 I pay all the bills and provide for my family with no complaints beyond my wife doesn’t respect my need for personal space. Videogames more specifically JRPGs and Anime gave me an outlet from my childhood growing up in an abusive home and a crime ridden neighborhood full of negative influences. Above all saved me from suicide and depression.
I try my damn hardest to make her happy to the point where I don’t even make time for myself. I’ve even tried the approach of playing videogames or watching TV when she and our child are asleep which causes an even bigger problem. Mainly because she feels I’m supposed to be in bed until she wakes up. I do everything my wife wants me to do. I am MISERABLE. All my anxiety and ADHD meds only work for so long. I bottle up my emotions until I explode and its used against me same when I’m calm in the case of expressing myself.
It’s almost as if she can never do any wrong. I pray that once she gets a job she’ll understand but until our child can go to Pre K in 2 more years I can’t financially afford for that to be possible.
How do I express my need for personal space in a manner to avoid a problem and being shamed? I’m even ashamed to type this because as a man of conviction in the military its sad. I wear 2 hats everyday, the good friend who stands up for others and keeps the spirit up at work, while doing the same at home and the depressed suicidal man who wants to live under a rock forever.
>Having a wife >Being on Zig Forums choose one you stupid fucking normalfag, you made your bed.
Thomas Moore
>having a family for the sake of being a submissive bitch to your own partner This is what they want you to behave. Stop the conditioning.
Owen King
lol you sound like another ulnerable guy that ended up narc cunt wife. You will NEVER fix her. You will NEVER please her, you'll always have to sacrifice more until you are bled dry.
Divorce her you stupid simp, why are you putting up with that trash? What the fuck is wrong with you, stand up for yourself.
Matthew Moore
You need to first understand that everything you learned to be the truth has been a lie... Women do not think like men, because their role in our past was to create children with a higher chance of survival.
This book will change your life if you are prepared to read it and see how its content applies to your life.
See a therapist or counselor, don't ask a website full of incels for advice on relationships
Mason Nguyen
People ultimately don't change their personalities, even more when they're adults. Prepare to suffer some more years until the child is grown up.
Cooper Hughes
kek get fucked normalfag
Owen Morris
It’s time to stop posting son.
Brody Richardson
>I try my damn hardest to make her happy to the point where I don’t even make time for myself.
You have already lost control. Start drawing lines and bringing the hammer down or next thing you know she'll be cheating on you and finding a way to blame you for it.
Jace Peterson
cuckold
Nathaniel Foster
Congratulations, you bound yourself to human cancer aka a female. Expect divorce rape somewhere down the road.
This. I don't understand why people always have such a hard time with their problems.
John Rodriguez
If that's you shouting and ranting about this very thing in the apartment above/next to me right now, you need to KEEP YOUR SHIT DOWN. Everyone can hear it through the walls and someone might murder you.
Alexander Hall
>plays RPGs you deserved it
Brandon Lewis
>he got married instead of just bouncing from fwb to fwb every few months
OOF. Theres no clean exit for you son. Either you continue living on as you do now or you get divorced and get to live in the car and she gets all your posessions and 90% of your paycheck
Leo Gray
dude this is about 20 red flags. 1 she doesnt respect you get a dna test on any kids, 2, divorece or seperate. this is a relationship that super materials cant hold together. 3 relationships dont complete you. relationships add to a perfect life. end it end it end it. red alert red alert red alert. ignore this and you will be sorry, and you will deserve it.
Asher Stewart
Tell her you value your quiet time. Make sure to spend most of your daylight hours with your family and when everyone is asleep play games. if she has a problem with it too bad because you spent all day putting up with their shit. Spend time with your son please while he is young instead of being addicted to gay shit like JRPGs
