Why do men never play hard to get?

>Why do men never play hard to get?
meh it can work sometimes but only in specific circumstances with certain girls.
Like for example on here when I talk to a fembot or soc girl on discord I try to act like I'm not interested in getting in there pants at first and tease and joke about them some.
I can sometimes get the girl to enjoy talking with me and she will message me first to talk the next day or so or do something to peruse me.
Issue is that does not work on most girls and you have to be decently charismatic and if in person also decently attractive to pull off and telling by the fact I still use this tibetian cotton farming form its not a guarantee it will work out in the end but I'm talking to some Italian fembot for a month now so there is still some hope.
That and it only works if you met in a place that does not say "hey I'm looking for choochie" so if you're alone in a bar or on a dating app it won't work.
Honestly I probably would have gotten a lot more interest if I just went the normal nigger route and said "damn girl you sound fine as hell. let me get yo snap."