Would a small shitty tattoo, on somewhere visible naked but not in specific clothing eg on the front of the body...

if it's not trashy or holds some actual meaning and is tasteful idc
idk why some people hate any tattoo regardless of quality but are fine with large (non self harm) scars, enough scars and they have the same effect as tattoos. you date someone who was in the military or worked with animals, or even worked on a farm and they're covered in that shit

What if?
I too was seriously young once, I was rarely in a sober state of mind, and did some extremely stupid things.
It's not an excuse.

You've marked yourself for life as a certain kind of person. Who you were then lives on within you; you're the same fundamental person.

now THAT would be a dealbreaker, I wouldn't wanna be with someone that was this broken in their teens.

Non-self harm scars aren't a choice.
It's not about the blemish of a tattoo, ugly as it is, it's about how it reflects on the person.

and this is coming from someone quite broken himself but not stupid enough to fall for drugs and do things I'd regret. instead of looking for other persons to fill the void I isolated myself. I don't really respect those that fix their problems with harmful distractions

i just realized i wouldnt want to ever date someone this uptight anyway, i wouldnt trust them to know about my past or life and wouldnt trust them to be majorly unjudgemental, if you could hate me for something from my past youd find enough problems with who i'll always be anyway

If it's not a shitty ass tattoo or has some meaning then it doesn't reflect badly on them

it is a shitty ass tattoo i let a good friend practice on me for whatever reason and i had been blackout for around 2-3 months at the time

being unjudgemental is equal to being a weak man you either date weak men exclusively or you accept that those who know what they want would judge you for that tattoo

what do you mean weak men? i like 'weak men', i prefer individuals with some sort of damage themselves

Ass tattoos are a huge dealbreaker for me

No. I am autistic and maybe that's why it's so easy for me to realize that doesn't matter.

and id rather date someone 'weak' than a stupid freak over-obsessed with masculinity and being 'strong', my only bf was like that and god what a faggot

not on muh ass lol i wouldnt let like anyone see m ass

And that is a prime example of what is usually termed as a 'cope'.
No-one said anything about hatred, or being uptight, it's about having boundaries and principles.

The fact is, you damaged yourself to better fit in with the crowd, and it's doubtful you've changed all that much in the years since.
Even now, you make threads like this, seeking approval from others.
Do you really think of yourself as being different from that same fool who got that tattoo?

How could anyone value a person who values themselves so little?
But you do you. "Cool tats, bro."

what if a girl had lots of none shitty tattoos?

Contrary to Ass tatoos are a plus for me. I hope it's a fishy, so it looks like it's swimming whenever your butt bounces

broken piece of meat is looking for another broken piece that can fill her meat hole

this will only end in misery

i'm autismo too, god bless

it was this very summer

"I'd rather date someone 'weak', it just happens that my bf was the complete oposite tehee"

shut up roastie

>yeah but what if you were seriously young, like under 18 and werent in a sober state of mind when you got it
So you're a dumb, impulsive zoomer?
Imagine my shock.
Bear the mark of shame, zoomie.

>my only bf
>grade 9, didnt smash
they were mentally ill and very lonely and very weak themselves but just obsessed with the concept, one time we did lsd and they spent an hour obsessing over which cat was the more dominant one , like wtf

If they regretted it they would get it removed.
>tattoos at all
>that bull nose ring horseshit
>nose rings at all
>lip/eyebrow rings
All dealbreakers. Fuck em.

Roasties won't understand because they have no concept of the future it's all so tiresome

Nah, adds to the character