I always bingewatch Youtubers. I already knew of her since HWNDU (good times), but I never really watched her streams.
Venti ist known as a booby streamer, but watching her streams and videos actually made me realize something.
Despite her reputation as a booby streamer, she never does anything sexually suggestive. She doesn't bounce around or presses them together. In fact she actively avoids being sexually suggestive. And she never shows her lower body on stream. She only kissed her bf (they met on HWNDU) on cam, when they were both drunk and high on the birthday of some other female streamer they hosted and it's more his fault for pushing so hard. She got quite angry, when he told chat that she has pink nipples.
Anyway, I've never once thought that she overstepped a boundary, when it comes to being sexual, even when she made out with her bf. That's honestly quite refreshing, because even if she's going venti mode and being ironic and satirical, she never cross the line like certain other female ecelebs. Like she posts her outfits on instagram, but never does asspics for example. Her fashion sense is also always limited to what looks good and aesthetic and not slutty.
Also generally quite a lot of girls don't like too sexual PDA, because they have a sense of shame. That is good. You should be happy they do. Girl, who have a strong sense of disgust, might be annoying sometimes, but it's the safeguard against being a THOT.
So the lesson to take from that is to go for good girls, who don't do overstep the line to being slutty AND only get sexual, when you initate it. Lots of girls are scared about doing the first step, which is another safeguard against being a THOT. So when they respond sexually to you, it's okay. I am talking about a situation, where you just started dating. Even actual sluts rarely take the first step and go sexual on you.
Anyway, I hope you all kinda knew this already, but watching a few of Venti's videos reinforced my view. Also stop watching porn and don't masturbate, so you lose the muh dick mentality. Men should have a sense of disgust too, which unfortunetly gets attacked by watching porn.
