Being proud of your race (social construct) is completely retarded. You didn't choose your parents so why be proud of it? There is no pure race, so it's really a silly notion, especially in the age of globalism. We're all from Africa after all, why not be proud of and accepting of our human diversity?
Being proud of your country is also retarded. Some old white guys draw imaginary lines around some soil, and that's where you limit your loyalty? It was only due to luck that you were born in a privileged part of the planet. We're all human, we should go be able to go wherever we please. You wouldn't shoot a bird for flying over your border, so why would you kill a human? The antiquated notion of borders belongs in the dustbin of history. No walls, no borders.
Gender is another social construct. Tell me, what exactly is a PURE male, and a PURE female. It's all a spectrum, and while some may choose to rigidly follow one end or the other, and that's ok, understand that this is the thinking of a bygone era.