We can't possibly change the way things are, so perhaps the best alternative is to find ways to circumvent the pitfalls of the modern dating culture. According to my research it is perfectly possible to find a marriage-worthy woman and lead a successful marriage that is reasonably happy, provided you go about it in a smart way.
What I've noticed is that a lot of the men who marry the wrong person are simply men who lack standards and self-respect. These are men who were a "former" slut's plan B and subsequently get the treatment they deserve. These are the men that get cheated on or are stuck in sexless marriages that end up in divorce or even worse, the suicide of the male involved.
I'm 29 and at my age, after lots of reading and analysis, I'm firmly convinced that the following women are terrible choices for marriage:
-Single mothers and divorcees: simply avoid. Not worth your time. -low IQ women: this is why you should avoid Latinas, black women and non-white women in general. This includes girls who don't read books and lack interest in intellectual pursuits and also girls who don't have any particular hobbies. - girls with any type of addiction: this includes party goers, girls who are into nigger-tier music (rap, hip-hop, R&B). These girls also tend to race-mix, avoid like the plague. - feminists and leftist girls: this will lead to problems when raising your children - girls with body mods (tattoos and/or piercings), girls who have a bad relationship with their parents (especially with their father), - girls who have a strong social media presence (lots of contacts on Facebook or Instagram, for example). These are girls that will have a very easy time monkey-branching. Not to mention the lack of commitment on her part if she's getting male attention thrown her way all the time. - girls who've ever had a one-night-stand: this includes girls who are into "travelling" as we all know that these girls will slut it up abroad without anyone knowing - girls over the age of 25: by this age, most girls have loads of emotional baggage and are, objectively speaking, too damaged in order to truly love a man. Yes, women can love, but their heart must be fresh and their spirit shouldn't be jaded. Past a certain age, both of these requirements can no longer be fulfilled.
Recommended reading: Ludovici, A. The choice of a mate (1935). This is literally one of the best books I've ever read. Another recommendation: Evola, J. The metaphysics of sex.
I was with you up until Good luck finding one that hasn't tatted herself up. It's easier to find one that doesn't have weird fucking piercings or gauges, but they still do it. Protip: avoid women who wear hoop earrings. That's a niggerism.
This describes something like 60% of girls.
Yeah, good fucking luck. Not disagreeing about what it leads to, but the only ones who don't are the 'shut in' types. *Maybe* you might get lucky and find an intellectual, shy girl who never got tatted up, whored around, loved her parents, and avoids social media because it's full of idiots.. but those are unicorns. They exist, but they're legendary rarity.
Going to disagree with you there. I'd love to have a younger, pure girl to train as my own wife, certainly. On the other hand, a girl who has seen the bullshit going on around her, is wise to it, and doesn't buy into it may be better even if she is 30-35, so long as she's not a divorcee or single mother (etc and so forth).
TL;DR: searching for the perfect woman is fine and dandy, but don't turn down 'good enough' if it comes along. In some places, 'good enough' is all you're going to get.
Blake Morgan
Decent OP. Only one correction. We can, just not in the short term. You have a pretty solid list going. It's best to basically just be suspicious of whoredom and investigate to disprove it rather than wait and be an idiot and get burned.
I got married after my first military campaign when I was 21 in (((church))). Needless to say, that was a big mistake. I am 31 now and I am working on making Odinic groups, particularly courting groups for normal people (or at least mostly normal–not fucked up like the marxist trash).
There is certainly more against racemixing than intelligence, but it's a major pitfall that isn't easily fixed (neither is being a Gods-damned Hapa), but the way that different races think is even more different than the ways the sexes think–and those differences are very significant.
Isaiah Hall
I've met plenty of women who aren't tatted up. I am not living in the West, so perhaps that's the reason.
I do agree that hoop earrings look slutty and are an instant slut tell.
I have met girls like that, but they're already taken. That kind of girl gets hitched rather early, judging from what I've seen.
The likelihood of you finding that kind of woman past the age of 30 is very small. At that age, most women will have a sexual past, which is a huge red flag in its own right.
This is what I forgot to say. Obviously nothing is going to change this year, or the next. All we can do is avoid falling for the Kike propaganda that's subverted and perverted our societies.
This is something most people are too stupid to realize. After all, the media has taught them that race is just skin deep.
Colton Watson
Most languages don't have a word for 'girlfriend'– just wife, it's actually a fairly new word and concept. Once you start carousing you can't pair-bond anymore and combine that with mass society's tendency to oversocialize people then loading them up with drugs and hormones, you get the mess of today. This is true for both men and women, more so for women.
The scariest part, this has all been socially engineered to depopulation and to bastardize the population. Even the nuclear family is a depopulation meme.
Interestingly enough, those words all have more than just one meaning. I think that there was no such thing as "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" centuries ago.
Christopher Morris
By the way, beware the kikesin OP's book. Coincidence Detector pops a few in the table of contents. Easy HTML to confirm: anthonymludovici.com/cm_int.htm
Such are the vagaries of English.
Wyatt Wilson
Ludovici was a racist and a very based man. His book is as unkosher as it gets when it comes to this topic.
Ryan Flores
Just go to places of self-improvement to meet women. The gym, the park, the book store, the fancy grocery store, etc. That's where the decent women are, but you fat degenerates are never anywhere near those places. Even a communist coffee shop is a decent enough place if you understand seduction and how desperate these girls are.
Carson Edwards
I've been to about 9 gyms in different countries in my lifetime and the average female gym goer is far from being the kind of woman you want to date seriously, much less marry.
The park = less options. The book store = good choice.
A desperate girl is not a clever choice, because she might end up pretending to be what you want in order to gain your commitment. This is why I avoid girls over the age of 25, as they are all looking for a potential husband.
