Watch for for is grooming and poaching. I've seen women actively target the brothers of their friends by using things like sleepovers as an excuse in order to gain access. Its actually the secret reason why good big sisters are so protective of their younger siblings. A lot of it involves fighting off other bitches or making trades if they see someone who they think is 'worthy'.
Another thing to look out for is grooming. Women can and will groom children in order to set them up with family and friends whom they consider worthy.
One thing that is tragically spoken is poaching but not in the stealing for themselves personally, but rather to sabotage and steal them away for someone ELSE. Whether it be a friend or family whom they consider more worthy. They will happily try to sabotage any current relationship and try to matchmake those they consider a 'good couple'. Just as they are willing to try to sabotage their enemies with terrible partners.
Something to keep in mind is friends/enemies but 'real' friends are instead considered a part of her 'tribe' aka real friends/family. Women actively bias towards those whom they consider tribal members and outsiders. Tribal dynamics in the modern world hidden as it may be is a real consideration.
Now grooming and matchmaking is serious fucking business for women. It's deeply wired in their genes. I had no idea how extensive it was until I did some serious digging and investigating. Basically, though it came down to good old fashion evolution.
Groom children into worthwhile mates. Matchmake worthy mates together to form strong families that would make strong babies into strong tribes. Plain as day if you think about it.
The only problem is we aren't into tribal societies anymore and men have forgotten the importance of keeping women on a leash. In fact, many of them are giving up entirely or supporting the goddamn matriarchy. Which is creating a very dangerous dynamic.
Then there is the problem of undesirable. Women instinctively hate these elements because in the old days they were useless leeches who would drag the whole tribe down and thus they wanted them gone. Women related to these elements can either chose to support them or abandon them(cut their losses).
So one thing I have often noticed in families is the mother and older sisters fighting viciously over matchmaking/grooming of the younger ones. The mother would often introduce possible mates for them and the older sisters would fight to drive them off. Mother would try to teach them one and the older sisters another.
What it mostly came down to is disagreements about settling. Big sisters were protective and mothers simply wanted their kids 'taken care of'. In the end, I noticed it was families without big sisters who served as a vanguard that actually suffered the most.
Which was a very interesting dynamic. On the other hand, I have noticed on plenty of occasions of big sisters selling out their younger siblings to friends in trades. Basically, a friend of a big sis would display interest in her sibling and approach her. Negotiations are made and a deal is struck. Think a much more formal version of a guy asking permission to ask his buddy's sister on a date.
I have most often noticed this among college chicks. She finds out that fucking hell its a barren wasteland in terms of mates in college for actual dating and goes home to poach a lad from a friend's family. It's becoming an increasingly common phenomenon. Go home find a sweetheart and take him back with you.
Which is pointing to the opposite side of female hypergamy. Zig Forums is aware of older men with 'proven' ability but there is the other. The inherent 'potential' of a young mate. This is what women are very careful about covering up while at the same time positioning themselves to harness it. They know exactly what they are doing. Grooming, matchmaking, poaching, and its all about securing potential.
Zig Forums's problem is it focuses far too much on the obvious and in this case its older successful men. Its not the young kids who can be groomed, molested, fucked, tamed, harnessed, poaching, and sharing. THAT is something that they desperately do not want getting out.