So this is something that just keeps bothering me everyday, even if I'm not around it still constantly plagues my mind. I don't know how to fix it or who to ask.
It's mainly my 2 sisters.
One of the is 30 she still lives at home with mom. She has never had a boyfriend and if she's not at work she spends all her time looking at netflix, instagram, facebook and whatever. She's just another basic thot, She has no personality, morals, interests or skills outside of just looking at a screen and scrolling. She get's mad whenever I question her lifestyle or speak up against it, if I talk about relationships or children she genuinely loses her shit.
She's mean, ignorant, lazy and extremly egoistic. She provides nothing but still demands respect, power and authority.
However the worst part about this is that she's influencing our other sister, who is just 11 years old.
She's beginning to show just the same symptoms of thottery that my older sister is. She's mean, ungrateful, talks back when spoken to, makes a mess, doesn't want to do anything productive, refuses to listen to reason and she wont even eat properly.
On top of this she's extremly spoiled; she always gets it her way and she gets everything she wants either from dad, mom or most of the time our sister.
She has her own little laptop, tons of make-up and clothes and even an iphone which she got after she broke her previous phone which was a samsung galaxy s6.
Our mom is too old and busy to really give a shit, but she still tries but she gets shut down and attacked by my sisters whenever she speak ups about it, it's like our mother is the only sensible person. Dad doesn't care either.
As for myself I try my best to be a good older brother and I am. Ever since she was a child I've taken care of her, I carried her when she was baptised, I was the one babysitting her while mom and dad was out getting shitfaced, I was the one who played with her, I was the one who walked with her to school every day when she was too scared of the dark to walk alone, I am the one who helps her with homework, makes her dinner and makes sure that she's ok and safe.
But I get nothing from it… she gets nothing from it. Because I guess I'm "just a brother" and have no real influence or authority over my own sister.
I would just move on but I can't just give up on my family, but they're my family and I can't stop caring about them
I really don't know what to do