So, the fundamental philosophical schism between the fasc and gommies is that Marx built his thought off of the axiom that 'existence begets essence'. That the material world produces the immaterial world, and thus in order to change the immaterial world of human relations and the manifestation of variation, you must first alter the Material Conditions.
Many of the people here won't disagree with (some of) your values, and I strongly support several. However, these values need to be explained materially, through economics or politics, otherwise they don't have an effect on reality. This is why you see yourself as very different from capitalists, whereas the communists don't make that much of a distinction. Historically, all a NatBourg state has to do to gain the support of people like you who identify with values is to put on the performance of these values, change the color of their flag, switch around who is the lowest class, slightly change the rosters of the ruling class, but still have complete private ownership of property. If you don't have explicit material explanations for your values, you can't fully judge whether your society follows your values, except by the performances it puts on. The same exact process is currently going on here in burgerland, except with feminism. More female politicians, the first female head of the CIA!!!, more female CEO's, more products that say they support women, but nothing actually being done for the lower class women who work as much as slaves, but without a master to at least want to make sure his investment doesn't depreciate.
From what I've seen of the fascists who have actually posted their earnest opinions here, I've noticed that the primary drive is believing in fantastical stories. Which I can't fully fault you for, because people have been defining themselves through the stories they tell since the dawn of consciousness, that is fundamentally human. What I can fault you for is falling for a baseless story. A narrative designed to support a certain class (the bourgoise) by presenting an idealized version of the past to the people whose values and history had just been eroded by capitalism. It's essentially the most real form of cultural appropriation.
Itd be so easy to believe that my mostly German blood entitles me to being a member of the volk. But it doesn't work like that, because I wasn't part of that culture. I do not know how to produce and prepare the food of that people, I do not speak the language, I did not grow up wandering around those lands, and most importantly, I was not raised in the social reality and thus have no idea how that actually works/feels. Itd be nice if I was, but I live here, a wageslave in burgerland. We all want something to identify with, stories we can tell about ourselves in order to feel like we belong. And that's the problem with communism, it's completely right, but also inhuman. It's a wall of text, material descriptions, dry and in-accessible. And thus, I have some sympathy when you try talking about values. But then you go and rant about jews controlling the world, and remind me that if you let your desire to belong overcome the need to live truthfully, then you are a weak, brainlet cuck.