Why has dating gotten so hard since leftism hit me? In my teens I had no problem dating, going to parties and meeting people, etc… But now? It's been like 8 years and while I've not been single the vast majority of the time, I've enjoyed the relationships less, had a harder time relating to people, stopped going to parties and shit… Is this leftism or is this growing up? Either way it sucks tbqh.
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You're a doomer, user.
I don't see how leftism can possibly correlate with your dating life.
I'm wondering if it gave me autism?
What's a doomer? I have been away from Chan culture for a few years and I was never only on 4chan before.
it is because you speak to basic bitches about revolutionary communism instead of the Kardashians so they zone out.
a doomer is just internet-speak for a pessimist, characterised by the wojak with beanie who smokes cigarettes. It rhymes with "boomer" so it joined the canon of digital identity.
Well shit that does sound pretty spot on
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I'm actually thinking the problem.has to do with anti-capitalist action against the capitalist mode of production.
Remember correlation vs causation, user. It's not cause you're leftist, you just changed over time.
But what if it is the opposite? *sniff* perhaps you have found less, how shall I put it, juissance in your relationships and have sought to to replace it with anti-capitalism.
Because you see how 99% of people are knee-deep in ideology and it's depressing.
Personally, I think it's very easy to get from the Kardashians to Revolutionary Communism in a conversation. I'd even go as far as to say it's the next logical association.
Try to "go for" women/men who you think you'd get along with, who feel like they'd be a good match. Don't go for people to whom you're only attracted and with whom you want to have sex with. Beauty is skin deep. You'll never figure out your "type" or what qualities you like in people if you only keep pursuing them based on looks.
eat shit sexhavers
Sounds like you're growing up if your old enough, maybe you're depressed. I've had the opposite effect and I'm having a lot more fun and sex with liberal and socialist chicks rather then the conservative crowd who were always stuckup.
Dating is bourgeois. Read Nechayev.
Exactly how?
This, I just do not want to talk about spectacle or get involved in a fucking argument about Stalin with someone I'm dating.
And then guillotines as the next step after that
like owning property, sex and relationships make you buy into capitalism and they provide a convenient means to prod you into consuming goods and services when you "go out" with your partner. also sex makes one complacent
If you've got horror stories of liberals or other problematic sorts in your relations please share. As well as tips on avoiding or managing them.
But all leftist women are dykes or tranies.
I'm sorry but what the fuck is this thread supposed to be? What the fuck are you doing differently OP? If you go fucking quoting Capital while dating don't expect people won't look strange at you.
t. hasn't left his basement in 5 years
t. Aposematic Neolib girl who thinks Marx is kewl.
The women can be even more reactionary than the men.
-Rosa Luxemburg
roasties btfo
is this race realism for incels?
this is why I'm married to the eternal revolution. heteromonogomy is bourgeoisie liberalism, you have to kill the cop inside your head before you can truly love your comrades
If you don't do this to find the good ones your doing it wrong, vulgar consumerism is unattractive in any potential partner
The goal is to change the person from the inside. We need leftychads to spread class consciousness to all the basic bitches through sex.
God damn, all your posts make me cringe.
r u sure?
Besides the last one, all of them are pretty cute.
As someone joked on Twitter: "if you are repulsed by these colors then it works because they're meant for predators". My partner has been coloring her hair for the last years and it's super cute, so I'm glad no example of insecure masculinity would approach her.
I am a predator and I have preyed upon both men and women alike. I enjoyed my time when I would seduce homosexuals like you and their girlfriends, then beat the shit out of them both, rob them of their drugs and money, then leave them a bloody red sobbing mess. BLOOD RED SOBBING MESS. That is what you Marxist scum are to me because you deserve nothing but death and ruin. I always keep tabs on the Marxist neighbors when I lived in the city and I report them to the police and try and get them sent to jail after I bait them into attacking me in front of the police who are "on board and my side" so to speak. I can't wait till you animals are slaughtered in the next civil war.
take your meds
dude we have chomsky on our side you see what that guy did in irak? yeah watch the video link in the description
Lol'd.
I'm dating a centrist and it kinda kills me on the inside. I haven't realized just how much time I spend reading and discussing politics to the point it bothers me that my partner isn't interested at all, I'm fucking autistic.
Every time someone like you post, you just further convince me that gulags are both necessary and desirable
I knew it. I knew you guys were all butthole surfers.
I'm dating your centrist too and I feel the same way. She just wont make a decision that puts her out for even a second even though the far-right is the best bet.
Says the guy who thinks he's cool because of a pixilated tank avatar.
great band, not as good as the residents tho
Shit, this is the first time I trigger this level of crazy. "Achievement unlocked" badge just appeared from the thin air.
Getting back to the OP's question: of course dating is hard when you are not a normie. Look for the irl groups that match your worldviews, even some eco-leftist vegan gf would be better for you than a STILL WITH HER average liberal.
I wish it was as glamourous as you describe, my intellectual coward of a poster. Perhaps you might want to go back to reddit with the other weaklings?
yes
schizo is literally satan who would've thought get out of here satan
GOD IS BOURGEOIS AND SATAN IS THE FIRST REVOLUTIONARY
SATAN IS PROMETHEUS AND YHWH IS DEMIURGE
IALDABAOTH IS GAY
MADE BY SATAGNOSTIC GANG
Basically any trot on uni.
wtf i'm a psychedelic posadist now?
download tinder. put some communist shit in your bio.
enjoy your guranteed communist girlfriend/fuckbuddy when you swipe up on the first girl who also has some socialist/commie shit in her bio or pics.
communist girls want to date you just as bad as you want a communist girlfriend. trust me
lol you aren't fooling anyone you kissless virgin
you are ugly, take the blackpill and then the escortpill
Its both user. I think its a combination of social alienation under capitalism and the fact that you realize you can't do anything about it. You would have grown this way regardless of being a leftist but I think now you might have some context on why its happening. Seeing what your problem is and not being able to solve it is almost worse for you mentally than not knowing what the problem is. I don't know of I make sense.
I do. Why wouldn't you want to have philosophical debates with someone you are dating.
Is this legitimate because I really want to try it. I just doubt anything will come of it considering I live in a mostly straight republican state.
That means you're a novelty user.
The "sexual marketplace" nerds aren't entirely wrong. Being unique makes you appealing. Just don't be surprised if you end up dating a succdem who thinks supporting Medicare for All and donating to Bernie makes them a socialist.
How can I make my girlfriend more interested in politics in general? Any good movie, book or manga for this? Just some basic interesting content to get her going
Cuck
Don't user, let her live the sweet life of not knowing how fucked up the world of politics is. I honestly wish I had never entered down this path all those years back, I could have been a Paleontologist but no, my dad had to get made redundant and have it politically radicalise me. FML.
Because you're a sub 8 male and we're living in an era of unrestricted haremization by the chad sexual bourgeoisie.
I'd mess with Zoe tho, she thicc.
I actually googled for a picture of her laughing, and didn't find any.
Currently dating a "normie" girl, told her about not the specific actions I've been a part of but the kinds, and she said she won't stop me as long as I promise to do everything I can to come back to her, and I told her that as long as she's all dolled up for me when I get back then it's a deal. Seriously, it's so far the most fulfilling relationship I've had because she doesn't need/expect me to explain or justify myself, she just accepted this is who I am and it's what I have to do. The answer is that dating is harder as a leftist because it is genuinely harder to be with us if you're worth your salt, because the likelihood you will be arrested/seriously hurt starts rising, which is very stressful for any partner.
Polygamy among the sexual bourgeoisie is natural and desiral from the eugenic standpoint. Monogamy is the female nature dominating the male. Virile competition for females results in the fittest elements reproducing and the least fit being relegated to the side. Men are naturally polygynous, while females can have their reproductive needs satisfied by a single male. The female is naturally monogamous. In the perfect society the sexual bourgeoisie would be the sole class of society capable of reproducing, while the sexual proletariat would be excluded completely to breed a fitter populace. The dysgenic females of the population could work as prostitutes to keep the dysgenic proletariat happy.
You're just getting older.
Women are naturally monogamous because they can only orgasm from genital stimulation. Men are naturally polygamous because they can orgasm from both genital stimulation AND prostate stimulation, meaning they can be stimulated by multiple partners at the same time. The natural state of man is his dick in an ass with someone elses dick in his ass.
best theory
based
Just told my gf I'm gonna join the Leninist party of my country. We had the biggest fight in a year, and I truly feel like the guy in "They Live" trying to make another person eat from the trash can. The funny thing is, she's a low-tier worker, and her only hope to have the sort of life she wants (which ain't that spectacular) is for me to be really succesful on my field. If I can salvage this, I'll post tips ITT.
She's cute. It's your gf user?
All but the last one are the same person
And you'd never want to date her, because she'd assume the most innocuous crap was an attempt to sexually harass her
tranny
Hey all, OP here.
I have met someone who is by no means an anarchist or leftist, she doesn't understand but she also says she doesn't have to, that she'll do whatever she can to take care of me and meet my needs. She said she understands that sometimes things will be weird with me, so she is willing to work with me to make sure both of us are having our needs met. I don't know if it's just that she is so accommodating that's making it so easy and idk if I am taking advantage of her willingness to accommodate me, but either way, this is at least indicative of the type of relationship that works for me.
absolute filth
It's a joke, retard.
t. monogamist
Racist whites likes you are so fragile that any form of black power not safely controlled within “muh vanguard” must be a meme and a joke
Damn, what's your leverage in this relationship? Money? Looks? Big dick?
Communist virility is irresistible to the alienated females of capitalist society
I'm going on a date in 2 hours wish me luck comrades
Control the means of the pussy, comrade! Don't let her get taken by the bourgeoisie tendencies and breaks up with you
Wtf user, what fucked up place do you live in?
she gonna snitch on you comr8. petty partners sink parties
Unrelated question: could you date someone of a radically different tendency? Stallinoids–could you date a Trot? Trots–could you date and Anarchist? Anarchists–could you date a Maoist?
And any kind of stories about political tensions from people who have crossed the aisle.
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Get an uptown SO, then proceed to do dual Blanquism
Considder myself ML, could easily date a Trot, anarchist, or radical socdem. Used to date a Trotish girl some years ago, she was the one who got me out of my socdem phase.
I would date a literal fascist, I'm really desperate.
You say that, but unless you have some weird fetish, you'll end up losing all respect for them really quickly, unless you just never talk about politics, in which case the relationship will be super shallow and not worth it for anything but the p/bussy.
As long as she's on the left of the spectrum it's ok for me
this is why incels will get the gulag
100% this. Even talking to conservative women I begin to lose respect for them. Even a liberal will leave you shaking your head.
You're not seeking people out. Ask yourself this. When was the last time you went out and put yourself in a social setting? When was the last time you approached a woman for conversation. If the answers to these questions are long ago then you know why you haven't found love. You are simply not making an effort.
I suggest either coming to terms that you are not as desperate as you make yourself seem since you have managed to not have a gf for this long or maybe you are lazy.
Another tip for you:
Don't treat women like a game they are people and deserve respect. You're not going to utter some phrase or wear some particular piece of clothing and get mad pussy. That's not how life works. You simply need to find someone with like minded interests.
First figure out your own interests. You're on this board so you're probably interested in communism. Now join a communist club. Now talk to the women at this club. I would wager you can probably talk about quite a lot with these women. Don't make this harder than it has to be alright.
go fuck yourself
if a woman with the looks of emma watson, was an insane fascist, that you knew had a 30% chance of killing you, but you knew was an insane laid, and into you, how many people in this very board would you think, would still stick their dick in her anyway? if the answer is more than 0 then this meme has no right to exist
never stick your dick on crazy
So I started seeing this girl, who's pussy gives my dick some of the most insane orgasms I could have, but she's against abortions and she's allergic to condoms, what do?
Suggest the pill or an IUD?
Forgot to add she seems to be having an allergic reaction to her birth control lately.