I'm sorry I've been having a hard time putting my thoughts into perspective recently because I've been thinking a lot and am having some personal issues
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I've personally known many anarchists and also that I've read and witnessed the behavior of the modern American anarchist movement through various media and the predominant phenomenon seems to be participating in various forms or lifestylism and encouraging this as sufficient or to claim that as an anarchist one is for a mass movement of the working class to actually dethrone the bourgeoisie and rebuild society in a socialist fashion but most settle for actions which, while not "wrong" in themselves, don't actually challenge neoliberalism or globalism and actually reinforce it at least in the sphere of public opinion as dominant.
For instance, the current "cancel culture" largely stems from good faith efforts many anarchist groups undertook and continue to undertake to expose fascists disrupt their ability yo organize. This in itself is obviously not a bad thing. However, without using these mass efforts and technology to actually cancel people with power or at least functionaries of the State, it's become very easy for the tactic to be appropriated by and supported by the bourgeoisie and petite bourgeoise.
The OccupyICE camps are similar. It was a great idea that got wrapped up in defending immigrants from deportation as an end in itself rather than utilizing the opportunity to build anything that could go beyond it. Libertarian socialists deserve credit for getting the ball rolling but they then were also the first splitters, repeatedly alienating other sectors of the Left who attempted to participate and even accusing people who tried to dissuade violence that wasn't self-defense because police used it as an excuse to arrest people there who couldn't affford to easily get out of custody the next day as liberals because yhey woukd rather pick fights with the police.
Bringing up Occupy Wall Street as am example of how easily a libertarian or "horizontalist" approach is almost a Godwin's law tier vote at this point but it's really where a lot of this got started. Again I don't know if this checks out outside or America, but today anarchists seems to be fine participating in events for their own sake and out of moralist rather than to build a material base of support towards and actual goal or series of goals.
You could abolish ice, make every single person with fascist sympathies terrified of showing their face in public, and create a squat in every major city in America. If you don't actually do any of this towards the destruction if the current system and feel satiated in doing the thing itself, neoliberalism not only continues but is reinforced. To dissolve the border without also dissolving wage slavery and the State only creates an opportunity for the bourg, who have already successfully internationalized themselves while largely obliterating both national and international solidarity among the working classes, to source more cheap pools of unorganized labor.
However, I don't think at this point it makes sense to argue for a return to the "Old Left anarchism" either, despite it being preferable in both form and substance to the modern day trends, because I believe the failure of the anarchists to successfully challenge the bourgeoisie has proven it as irrelevant. The Leninist model of course also ultimately failed, but I see it as a progression from the issues of anarchism, which becomes apparent when you read State and Revolution and Imperialism and how quickly many anarchist revolutions that did last a,decent amount of time became pseudo Leninist in nature themselves.
I'm saying that while anarchism is socialist it's proven itself to be a historical relic rather than something useful to modern day struggle outside of being something to learn from. I'm saying that the Old Left attitudes are preferable to lifestylism and New Left libertarianism, but that both would fail to actually dethrone porky, the former because of irrelevance and the latter due to actually having the potential to reinforce the system due to not actually having any goal beyond temporary organizations and associations that dissolve immediately after being defeated or accomplishing the single purpose they were developed for