NoFap Thread

Carter James
Carter James

27 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:27-28

19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 1 Corinthians 6:19

8 Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8

Post your NoFap successes/woes/prayer requests/ etc.

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Brody Turner
Brody Turner

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For me: Lucid wet dream is a sin but I don't see it as a relapse, going to day 0 since you did not actually fap/view porn.

Chase Turner
Chase Turner

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they're pleasant while you're sleeping though
Indeed! My last one was me giving a political speech...felt good, like I was a minister of God and a politician all wrapped in one.

Juan James
Juan James

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Joshua Bailey
Joshua Bailey

The one before that was me being raped by a goddess to bring forth the end of the Kali Yuga…most of my dreams are weird.

Thomas Campbell
Thomas Campbell

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Luke Price
Luke Price

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)I sometimes feel pretty tired after having a wet dream
Maybe that's because you're sleeping

Jackson Richardson
Jackson Richardson

Failed again, feel like just quitting and waiting to get dragged into Hell when I’ll die.

Luke Reed
Luke Reed

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You should absolutely not be distracting yourself from evil by turning to another form of evil. Not only will it not fix your original problem, it will stack more problems on top of it.

Turn to prayer and scripture when you are feeling temptation. God will help you through this if you accept it.

Jeremiah Jones
Jeremiah Jones

How accurate is the chart?

Samuel Robinson
Samuel Robinson

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Don't use a computer, fam

I'm convinced internet addiction is the main root of my problems.

Ryan Evans
Ryan Evans

Very, but faith makes the urge waves less common.

Easton Richardson
Easton Richardson

Day 23. Probably the second longest I've ever managed to go. I try to learn from my mistakes every time I fail, and as long as I don't see any explicit videos or images I'm fine (so I avoid them like the plague, even when the urge is great). Together with sincere prayer and the help of God, listening to this chant really helps: youtu.be/h-MSLN5bXyU

Guys, stay strong and don't allow yourself to make excuses for sin. God will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. Face life one day at a time, and do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

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Julian Gomez
Julian Gomez

Literally three weeks in and woke up in the middle of a nocturnal emission while dreaming of nothing sexual. Does this break nofap and negate the "super powers?"

Eli Allen
Eli Allen

Yes.

Isaac Hernandez
Isaac Hernandez

No.

Hunter Cook
Hunter Cook

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Aiden Garcia
Aiden Garcia

you're fine. keep going.

Jordan Myers
Jordan Myers

just failed again
I feel like at this point I need to be locked in a room like in Trainspotting to get rid of this addiction

Tyler Wood
Tyler Wood

Failed after a bit over two weeks. Did good for a while. Had a small bit of backsliding last week but the Lord found me strength to keep it under control, with the help of tips from this thread. The weekend was where things went to hell, it was like my willpower had suddenly run completely dry.

I started this thing for Lent; rather than just give up any one particular thing, I give up one of my hobbies or something I really enjoy for a week if I view porn, and I increase the severity if I fall. It only worked for so long, but it did something, at least. This next week is going to suck, but I hope it'll help drive the point home.

Wyatt James
Wyatt James

Partially.

Justin Thompson
Justin Thompson

Just got baptized today, gonna try to give up jerking it finally

Oliver Harris
Oliver Harris

It will not ruin your streak.
Some feel better after wet dream, some a little bit worse.
Even if you do feel a little bit worse it will take just one day to recover back to no fap superpower levels.

Cooper Butler
Cooper Butler

Congrats!

Jayden Thompson
Jayden Thompson

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Lincoln Reyes
Lincoln Reyes

Kind of. I thought it was mainly a meme. But once I passed 60 days limit recently 3 girls(independently) told me I am 'somehow different' 'look more confident' 'look happier'
All said the basically the same stuff so when I heard the 2nd and 3rd I was like: the meme becomes real.
I do feel great and people do notice that.

Jeremiah Hughes
Jeremiah Hughes

Proverbs 24:16 For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief.

Matthew Wilson
Matthew Wilson

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Thanks

Julian Lee
Julian Lee

Since I stopped fapping, I am having dreams of middle schooler girls flashing their privates at me. They are usually brunettes with short fluffly hair. I am gonna explote!!!

Wyatt Davis
Wyatt Davis

Distract yourself immediately.

Austin Thompson
Austin Thompson

Day 66.
The temptations seem to be gone.

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Henry Bell
Henry Bell

117 days

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Dominic Garcia
Dominic Garcia

How do you feel? Is the "I have superpowers" part of nofap atleast partly true?

Aaron Murphy
Aaron Murphy

Chastity gives you something much better than superpowers. It gives you God's grace and friendship.

Jason Reed
Jason Reed

Why hasn't God just tossed me in the fire yet?
Its been over a year of weekly confession and relapse, never made it past two weeks. I'm getting worried at some point God's infinite justice is gonna kick in and send me straight into the furnace I belong.

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Wyatt Reed
Wyatt Reed

Read >>606251

Trust me. If you read and understand each paragraph as you go through it, you'll be free forever.

No willpower needed.
No withdrawal or deprived feelings.
No temptations.
Pure freedom.

Nolan Ross
Nolan Ross

Well I think we all came to expect that, but more specifically he probably was reffering to more material effects. Like has your pysiology gone through any noticable changes?

Dylan Clark
Dylan Clark

So whats the trigger? Is it porn? Were you just bored. What happened?

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Andrew Watson
Andrew Watson

Been waiting for baptism for almost 10 months now, nofap the entire time. The temptations have come back and they bring depression with them every time, like clockwork, every 2-3 months. This time it feels much worse.
Is this the Devil trying to stop me from getting baptized or something, or am I trying to rationalize impure thoughts?

Jeremiah Moore
Jeremiah Moore

It goes without saying that if you quit masturbating, looking at porn and regarding women as sex objects, you start to act differently around them. You will care much less to impress them, as you're not going to have sex with them anyway. You'll come across as more confident.

Ryder Thompson
Ryder Thompson

This tbh. I think girls did notice me before no fap but I was so insecure I failed every single time. Going no fap felt exactly as 'the virgin fapper X the chad no fap' meme

Hope to get there too. A long way to go still.

John Harris
John Harris

What age is middle schooler girls?

Dominic Jackson
Dominic Jackson

204 days of strong temptation and I broke. I couldn't stand this anymore, it was too much. I feel ashamed for losing after a longer period

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Owen Hernandez
Owen Hernandez

I think its like 11-14

Asher Howard
Asher Howard

CATHOLICS: i wake up every morning with an erection becuase i have high test

sometimes i just touch myself without thinking of anything. dont really climax or anything. i also tend to think about girls and i do get aroused but i try not to think about the act of sex with them in my imagination. is any of this a mortal sin? i know its gotta be at least a venial sin. lord jesus christ, son of god, have mercy on me, a sinner.

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Justin Hughes
Justin Hughes

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Woah, that book is quite something. I disagree with many things in it but I advise everyone to give it a try. I'm sure it will help those who can relate to the author's point of view.
I didn't even realize how horrible it must feel for some people.

Anthony Ortiz
Anthony Ortiz

see

Kayden Cruz
Kayden Cruz

If it's encouraging to anyone the super powers are real. Nofap definitely makes you more disciplined and closer to God, I'll be praying for you.

Owen Flores
Owen Flores

I started Ash Wednesday, failed today.
I now discovered that Lent isn't the best period to stop fapping for me (though I try and commit myself anytime).
The stress of school combined with fasting and NoFap made me into a very passive aggressive person (I'm normally not like this) and it suddenly became too much.
Good thing is, I really noticed the rehab working since I was physically shaking out of excitement when looking for pr0n.
This is good, it's an indicator that everything is feeling new and vanilla again.

Please pray for me guys, I really need it right now.
The NoFap is working and although I failed tonight 1-2 times won't completely destroy my progress.

i also tend to think about girls and i do get aroused but i try not to think about the act of sex with them in my imagination.
Definitely a sin, but depending on how much you allow it either venial or grave.

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Gabriel Evans
Gabriel Evans

In my dreams, she was like 12.

How can I distract myself in a dream?

Easton Howard
Easton Howard

Purify the soul, dreams are just a small trip into the subconscious, and a collection of the unconscious. It shows what's there, however it got there. Submit it to Christ.

Jaxson Davis
Jaxson Davis

Purify the soul
How? Fasting? I have been feeling attracted to those girls lately. I am the only person like that?

Alexander Sullivan
Alexander Sullivan

AHHHHHHHHHHHH I NEED TO CONFESS AND I TOOK COMMUNION THJNKING IT PROBABLY WASNT A MORTAL SIN BUT NOW I DONT KNOW I STILL THINK IT MIGHT NOT HAVE BEEN AHHHHHHHH

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Tyler Ortiz
Tyler Ortiz

It was.

Caleb Ross
Caleb Ross

going to confession tomorrow morning thank you.

Ayden Flores
Ayden Flores

Because I have high test
Testosterone plays a role. But once you normalize the testosterone levels by no fap and your thoughts become clearer by abstaining from porn and fapping, you will not experience this.
Yes, it is a sin. Those are basically still echoes of the addiction. You have to go through it. It will not completely disappear but it will get better.

Nicholas Garcia
Nicholas Garcia

Prayer, fasting, confession

Jackson Rivera
Jackson Rivera

It is a mortal sin. Just keep praying. Try Saint Maria Goretti. She kept herself pure.

Parker Diaz
Parker Diaz

How willing are priests to accommodate reconciliation outside of set times?
My parish has been doing reconciliation after saturday mass during lent but I have to work.

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Carson Stewart
Carson Stewart

My experience has been that you can call them and try to make arrangements. I'm in a spot right now where I have a similar problem, and did likewise.

Elijah Rogers
Elijah Rogers

i have high test
no you don't

Landon Walker
Landon Walker

It's only a mortal sin if you're deliberately looking at girls to get these impure thoughts.
If that's the case then yeah…

Aiden Young
Aiden Young

Made a 14 day streak no fap or porn but broke it falling into a porn hole. I had finally managed to deprogram most of the gross fetish shit and now I'm starting all over. On the bright side, at least this sin can be a reminder of how shameful that stuff is.

Jose Phillips
Jose Phillips

It happens so quick, you think it won't be too bad and you get fixed on how turned on you are
You finish and you fell like shit
Then you swear that you would never do it again, then a few hours happen

The only thing that has work for me is to keep myself occupied, work hard and get tired, that way I get to my bed and just sleep, I have gone 3 days like this. The problem is waking up early.

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Posting my waifu won't help

William Evans
William Evans

I've identified two main factors in my addiction: Suffering and boredom.

Zachary Garcia
Zachary Garcia

day 0 again

Wyatt Edwards
Wyatt Edwards

anytime you have an urge just immediately do as many push ups as you can. haven't cummed in forever and i'm starting to get big. you can do it too

Joseph Lee
Joseph Lee

same

Isaac Gutierrez
Isaac Gutierrez

Day 3 here.

Protip: Don't count the days. I just checked my browser history instead.

Aiden Richardson
Aiden Richardson

Not counting, but I estimate a month, maybe longer. Definitely the longest I've gone since I started years ago.

I think I'm going to have my first wet dream soon. I've been waking up around 4am for the past few nights with penis in hand going at it. Surprised I didn't break this morning. For the first time I experienced a true 'blue balls'. Ached for a few minutes after I woke up, but nothing unbearable.

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Jaxon Harris
Jaxon Harris

anyone notice any benefits with girls from nofap?

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Blake Bennett
Blake Bennett

Finding a gf has done a surprising amount of good towards killing my urge to fap. I think I'm about 3 weeks in and feeling pretty good.

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Jason Wright
Jason Wright

Today marks Day 90 for myself.

I'll give you all some advice. Anyone who claims wet dreams are beyond your control is lying. Wet dreams are a result of unhandled subconscious lust.

This is easily solved by spending some time every day to meditate. Pray the Lord's Prayer while you do this.

The next technique is optional as it will probably startle some of you. While meditating, start to hold your breath for 20+ seconds. As you do this, imagine the energy from your balls rising up your spinal column and moving into your brain. It becomes pure willpower.

Christopher Lee
Christopher Lee

Yes. Higher confidence combined with the genuine desire to get to know the girl makes me more successful when talking to them.
Also since I regained my self esteem I carry myself more confidently, the girls notice me more. Those two have been like the most obvious ones even after just 2 weeks. right now: week 9, it gets better only as much as I am growing more confident in myself thanks to trial/error.
The nofap works.

Christopher Wood
Christopher Wood

Have anyone noticed 'anormal' anything different after some time without fapping?

I relapsed this week, but after some certain time without fapping, I started having these strange visions before sleeping like there were visions - I was conscious of it and was very different from a dream. It even gave me directions for something I was worried about.

Related experiences?

Justin Sanders
Justin Sanders

I wasn't Christian growing up so I've had a life of sin and falling to temptation. I am a massive creep and pervert, I am doing nofap and doing quite well, especially after going to mass. But I still can't help but feel like a pervert and like I'm only pretending to be be any different.

Ayden Lopez
Ayden Lopez

watch porn 3-4 times a week
ejaculation cause panic attacks to happen up to a week after the fact
stop jerking it for over 4 weeks
now I have wet dreams every single night
life is mostly just a panic riddled fugue state at this point
What do.

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Aaron Rodriguez
Aaron Rodriguez

Just hang in there. I don't think the dreams can go on forever.

Jayden Ortiz
Jayden Ortiz

Careful when working that kundalini, some people tend to climax when peaking which could be considered a choice for masturbation which would defeat nofap.

Fake it till you make it. You know you are still that creep somewhere inside so accept that guilt. Just keep following his will and words eventually you will come to realise you are no longer pretending but actually being one of his humble faithful.

Jonathan Peterson
Jonathan Peterson

You have to hold on. I had like 4 wet dreams per week around days 30-60 or so.
Your brain has been damaged by watching porn. It cannot repair, especially the subconscious part, over night by you abstaining from it. It takes months to get you off it. Those dreams are a good sign - Devil has not succeeded in breaking your will during the day so he tries it through dreams hoping you will give up. Go through it. The dreams will eventually go away.
After 70+ days I have one wet dream a week at most, sometimes not even one. I cannot even recall the last time I had a strong urge to fap during the day. I do get aroused from time to time but the desire to relive it through masturbation seems to be gone.

Benjamin Morales
Benjamin Morales

*relieve

Xavier Bailey
Xavier Bailey

I always saw wet dreams as a biological necessity and a reward from God: we held tight (no pun intended) and our bodies are rewarded with a fresh new batch of spermatozoa.

Levi Martin
Levi Martin

was close breaking the streak last night, had the browser open
something stopped me
Thank you Lord, I have not stopped like this pretty much ever. Once I open the browser it's game over, thank you for your strength lord.

Juan Edwards
Juan Edwards

Thanks user, that puts my mind at ease.

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Lucas Davis
Lucas Davis

I'm at 21 months of no-fap, and in my experience you only need to get through the first few weeks. At my weakest, I am never tempted. It's absolutely effortless.

It was made effortless by a solemn vow to God with my whole self and soul – a decision in perpetuity: No Fap for life, not for a month, a year or a decade. I never doubted for a moment that I would succeed. Had it been something with the force of a New Year's resolution, I'd have surrendered mastery of my domain inside 3 days.

The first few weeks involved torturous self-denial. There were days and nights that I would go with nothing on my mind but sex, and I had a few bouts of insomnia. I would physically tremble from the build-up of sexual energy that I had hitherto been squandering for an hour or two every day from age 11. When that fever passed, I never felt so charged with life. I didn't need porn, and women were as walking works of art.

Without sex, I go three or four weeks before the pressure builds to the point where I - invariably - have a sexy dream with nocturnal emission, but that doesn't relieve the pressure much, since to be fully empty seems to require a lot of physical stimulation. (If you're in your teens or early twenties, that period might be a week or two.) At this point, it is certainly possible for me to mentally stimulate myself to release. It's a bit of a gray area, but I would only classify it as fapping if there were actual release. Repressing my mental imagery doesn't seem healthy, so I let it happen. I might google a bit of ankle or neck for 10 minutes, and that releases the pressure enough for me to get through the day. (Ejaculate is excreted, and usually leaks out after urination.)

I think to remain sane on no-fap you need a wife and the option of sex, otherwise your life will be one continual sexual emergency.

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Colton Green
Colton Green

Are you okay, user?
I might need to recalculate this thread. It seems that some anons have more unusual problems with lust.

Lincoln Long
Lincoln Long

have you tried asking your guardian angel to block nocturnal demonic oppression ?

it works.

Juan Adams
Juan Adams

Day 1. On a side note, the word "girl" is enough to make me horny now. Im almost 21 but feel like Im going thru puberty again.

Grayson Powell
Grayson Powell

I know that feel. I must get a gf now or it wont stop bothering me. I hope some romantic love stop my lust

Gavin Lopez
Gavin Lopez

i dont think God will allow me to have the cute, virgin gf that I want. Since I am such a lusty person I will no doubt try to do something causing me, or worse her, to sin.

Jayden Edwards
Jayden Edwards

Repressing my mental imagery doesn't seem healthy,
It is healthy, do it. Evil thoughts are the root of sins.
Matthew 5:28
But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Matthew 15:19
For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.
James 1:14-15
But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.
Colassians 3:5-6
Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. On account of these the wrath of God is coming.

Asher Jones
Asher Jones

3 weeks in and fell this morning, lads. Getting up again.

Luis Young
Luis Young

30 days in, and same boat.
When I climaxed it physically hurt and I felt no carnal pleasure from it at all though, not to mention the spiritual pain, so that's a good sign. I'm determined to last even longer this time. I've noticed this past week I was getting into the habit of deliberating looking at lewd photos, but not pleasuring my self, convincing myself it wasn't sinning. It's very clear now that was unhealthy and I was only lying to myself.

Ethan Johnson
Ethan Johnson

OR! You know that could happen and would do anything to prevent messing up such a wonderful gift and seek to busy yourself to keep occupied. Hobbies, job and self development skyrockets as you become a powerhouse of industry making her woozy wondering how she could have landed with a great guy.

Knowing that you wanted her and not just her body, she'd probably end up asking to marry you instead of vise versa.

Just a thought.

Dominic Rodriguez
Dominic Rodriguez

no fap AND no porn. at this rate you're basically fucked dude. just drop it all together

Austin Sanchez
Austin Sanchez

First day is always the worst one, NoFap since two days here

Adam Sanchez
Adam Sanchez

Not yet. Will try. Thanks

Levi Wood
Levi Wood

Eh, not much further myself…but like many said here, the first weeks are the worst ones.
But we do not rely on ourselves alone: our great luck.
Si Deus pro nobis, qui contra nos!

Isaac Rogers
Isaac Rogers

MEA CULPA
MEA CULPA
MEA MAXIMA CULPA

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Evan Flores
Evan Flores

I have failed once again.

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Jackson Thompson
Jackson Thompson

We're going to make it, guys! Stay close to Christ.

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Anthony Thompson
Anthony Thompson

My thoughts:
Quitting porn is a long, hard road. You will lose many times, but you need to carry on the struggle. Small victories are your primary goal.
Bringing yourself to delete this crap is your first fight. Then you need to adjust your lifestyle, so you won't have hormonal balance problems (serotonin n'shiet).
It is extremly important to tend to your body, mind and soul. This holy triad is your stronghold and you need to fortify your position constantly.
For me personally, it was: regular and extensive prayer, physical excersise, regular sleep, avoiding getting bored and frustrated, understanding the fatal consequences of porn in my life.
Purge anything that draws you to porn, don't visit sites, which are often depicting lewd content.
In short:
move away from the toxic waste dump
don't get near toxic areas
improve you immuno-system
realease your pent-up energy in more creative and constructive ways
never ever allow yourself to fall into near-vegetative state

Anyway I'm offering a prayer for your struggles and ask for your spiritual support. I think I'm achieving a second month without porn. The fact that I've never "mass debated" helps a lot.
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Brandon Jenkins
Brandon Jenkins

Day 39..

I wonder why I am doing this. I question myself constantly.
My life hasn't changed, in fact I feel a bit more unhappy.
Denying our very sexual nature, and denying myself, it makes me feel like a Buddhist and not Christian.
I might not cap, but I am still lustful in mind, I drink alcohol and basically might not be sinning as much but believe that if I had a gf, I would fornicate, so all of this, its for nothing if I sin in other ways.

Ayden Moore
Ayden Moore

Same here.

Gah, just broke done and gave in three times… I feel so disgusting. Had a nice week or so going to only have it ruined. I will be downgrading my phone to a dumbphone.

Kevin Lopez
Kevin Lopez

i have these dreams where i'm looking up porn and then i jerk off and i'm like fuck this sucks ;_; but then i wake up. feels bad man

Parker Murphy
Parker Murphy

We're not Buddhists. You're not supposed to destroy your passion, but to baptize it to the service of God, to offer it as a sacrifice to God.
The desire to masturbate or have intercourse should be transformed into the desire to have communion with God.
The wish to please oneself at all should be transformed into the wish to please others, and to please God (as there is no distinction).

Joseph Reed
Joseph Reed

I was having similar dreams a month ago.
Eventually those dreams go away.
Now it's like one wet dream a week or less. Basically it's about having sex with a woman every time. No weird porn dreams.
It was very frustrating at the time.

Evan Bell
Evan Bell

I find it hard to transform my desires. Is there anything more specific you can offer me, into words I can resonate with. I'm not fapping and doing what I'm supposed to, but I don't feel holy or graced by God or anything, I just feel like I'm missing out on something m

Gavin Parker
Gavin Parker

Failed this morning
WHY IS IT SO HARD FUCK YOU SATAN REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

James Davis
James Davis

just be yourself

Christian Lewis
Christian Lewis

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It's funny how a single link can change the way we see pornography and masturbation.

I urge anyone who wants to stop masturbating to read this book from start to finish. It's a PDF copy of what's on the website.

Adrian Garcia
Adrian Garcia

Go to church every time you can. Every service gives you a guideline both on what to believe and on what to do. Especially the Sunday liturgies, which are where the Eucharist is served, and thus the experience of the risen Christ.

Also, check out this prayr of St Isaac the Syrian:
stnektariosmonastery.org/prayers/A Prayer of St. Isaac the Syrian.pdf

Easton Clark
Easton Clark

Have a better copy.

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Hudson Bell
Hudson Bell

This is day one for me, lads. I'm done with this filth.

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Eli Ross
Eli Ross

Welcome to the journey.

Nathan Young
Nathan Young

the main reasons to fap for me

1. Internet

2. Weed

Robert Powell
Robert Powell

The biggest problem for me is the finality of it all. I mean I'm trying to quit but unlike other vices such as alcohol or smoking, I could quit them and have some more, moderately, in the future.
But with porn and fapping it's a stronger addiction, and it's absolute. Masturbation and porn is a sin, I have to never do it again otherwise I go to confession and can't recieve the eucharist.
The do or die thing makes it harder I feel.

Dylan Hill
Dylan Hill

Welcome to the pit, youve been here for a while, but only now realize it.
you need to climb to get out, and yes you will fall over and over again, breaking your back, but its the only way.

God will use the darkness to mold you by it. You will be born anew by it. You won't see the light until are a man.

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Bentley Martinez
Bentley Martinez

I am ok with this, but if I have to keep going to confession each time I fail and break my back, I am not sure I can do any of it. I am on day 40 but can't stop thinking of fapping. It feels like it's for nothing since I am gonna fail soon.

Isaiah Campbell
Isaiah Campbell

Stay strong.

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Gabriel Thompson
Gabriel Thompson

Had a massively improved January and February but struggling hugely this month. Have masturbated most days the last two weeks, sometimes more than once a day.

Justin Jackson
Justin Jackson

Neato, happy to find a thread like this. For the successful on this journey, what would you say are the best habits that took you through?

Isaiah Anderson
Isaiah Anderson

There is no success until we die, it is the constant struggle we will always endure and at points, fail. Personally though? Keeping busy is always a good option. Used to be jogging but when the wave urges were nonstop I had to stop that exercise due to pitching a tent all the time. Might have made ladies giggle but children play on the pathway so none of that!

These days I'm trying a new language as a hobby (russian). Whenever I get urges I now have a new plethora of words with which to berate myself with, seems to be working though; much easier to tell yourself not to be thinking about that stuff when your too busy thinking how to itterate what a debil you are for getting sidetracked again.

TL:DR keep busy.

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David Sullivan
David Sullivan

much easier to tell yourself not to be thinking about that stuff when your too busy thinking how to itterate what a debil you are for getting sidetracked again.

I find this mindset doesn't help, all it does is reinforce that I'm sinful and leads to a sprial of "well I'm a lustful sinner and I'll never not be, so might as well have a wank"

Easton Foster
Easton Foster

so might as well have a wank

So you'd knowingly give in perpetuating a defeatist mindset? Yes you most likely will fail, you are only mortal. Just don't wallow in self pity, get back up and try again but this time you'll try even harder.

Anthony Thomas
Anthony Thomas

Just don't wallow in self pity, get back up and try again but this time you'll try even harder.

I completely agree with this, and it agrees with what I was saying about not calling yourself a disgusting sinner etc all the time. It's actually been shown by psychological studies that beating yourself up and calling yourself worthless when caving to an addiction or having a failure of willpower is more likely to make you cave again in the future, it's not a useful tactic

Camden Clark
Camden Clark

Yeah when I used to smoke jerking off was awesome. But it’s really much worse for your brain (and future recovery) than watching porn/jerking off sober.

Wyatt Lee
Wyatt Lee

Talk with your priest. I’m sure if he barred you from communion until you stopped I’m sure you would get it together pretty quickly.

Blake Lee
Blake Lee

my thoughts during this absolutely demonic

this shit really destroys your brain

Eli Adams
Eli Adams

I was not talking about beating yourself into the dirt mate, just that being able to acknowledge the weakness is there. We are all sinners and only through the grace of our Lord can we come closer to "making it", knowing a weakness doesnt make it bad but serves as a reminder to what constant bad choices can lead to.

Brayden Adams
Brayden Adams

got in a car accident last sunday after mass. i have been too depressed and low energy to evne have sexual thoughts. im afraid of falling into mortal sin now more than ever because i dont have on-demand confession i can drive to and im afraid of dying suddenly after my car accident
…. i think im up to one week idk. im going strong.

Hudson Lee
Hudson Lee

you are barred from communion if you fap, you cant recieve communion until you confess

Christopher Morales
Christopher Morales

Fk me brother I'm with you. Always had a phobia with cars; Oh sure it can get you there faster and yes you could be the safest most cautious driver on the roads.

Well guess what? several months ago I was drving with my brother, literal, i refuse to drive, when WHAM side swiped by some poor girl in the side ( :( pray for her if you will, turns out it was daddys new car not insured ). Well as you might guess my stress and (unneeded reflexes) went through the roof.

Probably not related to nofap sorry but definately gonna pray for you to make it through. Only just getting to the stage where i see a car truin ga corner and don't physically tense up. Honestly the family is having shits and giggles about it but its not making it any esaier.

Stay strong mate, we can die at any moment. Just be ready to give Him a hug when you do get there. I'm praying for your saftey, not nofap tonight.

Drive safe.

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Julian Brown
Julian Brown

yeah i noticed my anxiety is going up when my friends and family drive me around. i hope there was no permanent damage. its a huge reminder that i need to be thankful im alive, that i can die at any moment, and that being in the state of grace is of utmost importance.

Connor Long
Connor Long

well if you keep confessing the same thing over and over

Jeremiah Murphy
Jeremiah Murphy

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Why did God make or allow a system that caters to evil? Why is the left-hand path so easy to follow and the path of God so hard? If it is that God only wants the few that can hold fast to His commandments, then wouldn't I better to follow my family and friends into hell? Will God simply cast away the thoughts of my mother burning in hell forever while I am comfortable in Heaven?

Dylan Allen
Dylan Allen

Is there a happy ending for rover

Gavin Turner
Gavin Turner

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This is really disappointing. Pathetic, I want so badly to believe that it's the CIA or leftLARPers posting this stupid cartoon shit, but I'm pretty sure at this point that it's actual neo-conservatives and Christians. No wonder so many refuse to take the upcoming generation of conservatives seriously. I thought I had escaped this indignity by coming here. Is there not anywhere to go where this kind of irreverent behavior is banned?

Xavier Rodriguez
Xavier Rodriguez

all of them are me btw

Nolan Rodriguez
Nolan Rodriguez

i failed nofap on Day 40 but I feel like I am improving, if I can go 40 days between fapping, it's an improvement over fapping every other day

frog cartoons are a sin

what happens if i do that?

Samuel Murphy
Samuel Murphy

STOP LIKING WHAT I DON'T LIKE

Bentley Morales
Bentley Morales

i read a story here where user keep confessing the same thing over and over again and his priest barred him from communion until he got it together

Landon Bailey
Landon Bailey

If that's what it means to be a Christian, then there's no point, it's just as shameful as athiesm, try standing in front of God with confidence and your arms full of manga and naruto dvds. What a poor ambassador you are for Christ, weeb heretic.

Lincoln Bailey
Lincoln Bailey

Hes right though, media in general isn't christian, but anime is distinctly lustful while western media at least mostly does it subliminally when not blatant.

Some of those posts are anons regretting that they. Banning them won't help.

try standing in front of God with confidence and your arms full of manga and naruto dvds. What a poor ambassador you are for Christ, weeb heretic.
Even if every post you linked is from a troll at the very least there is some seed of correctness being sown.

Matthew Garcia
Matthew Garcia

You could say the same about Richard Dawkins. Finding this childish shit here was so disappointing. I wanted to follow the right-hand path because I believed it would deter such weakness, but I was wrong. And people will see that garbage and associate it with Christians. I don't care if it's a 'chan-thing,' it's disgraceful and repulsive. These retards need to grow up, no ISIS member is into that shit, and too many of the 'crusaders' we desperately need to fight them off learned all of their world history from Hetalia and there fighting skills from Bleach.

Levi Morris
Levi Morris

bored bored bored bored bored, and nothing I do lightens the boredom. What do you do when you're desperately craving the kick that porn would give, but you know that's not an option? I'm trying to read, but I'm having a lot of trouble focusing but you probably figured that out by the post.

Oliver Rodriguez
Oliver Rodriguez

push ups, read, go for a walk, have a cig, etc etc LIERALLY ANYTHING
you must get anyway from the Internet when urges occur

Aiden Peterson
Aiden Peterson

Play an addictive game.
DF and CK2 can temporarily replace porn for a while for me, you'd be best doing vidya in moderation though. Damn it helps in a pinch, though.

Isaac Walker
Isaac Walker

I wanted to follow the right-hand path because I believed it would deter such weakness,
I'm glad you got out of that in one piece.
I don't care if it's a 'chan-thing,' it's disgraceful and repulsive
By Chan culture i mean it's popular medium on image boards, it's not a defending or excusing it. My only disagreement with what you posted is that Zig Forums should be open to everyone while keeping a stern moral hand. Banning anime will close off the opportunity for some to learn about it.

James Sanchez
James Sanchez

lmao I don’t even watch Chinese cartoons but seriously listen to yourself. Are you implying that one cannot be a Christian if they watch anime? Take the stick out of your eye user

Carson Lee
Carson Lee

me as well

Hunter Ramirez
Hunter Ramirez

Banning anime will close off the opportunity for some to learn about it.
I'm assuming by 'it' you mean Christianity, if anime-toting losers want to be here to learn about God, they can leave their carefully-cropped hentai jpgs at cuckchan. I wholeheartedly support not only banning anime on this board, but banning any kind of degeneracy nationwide. I don't care if it's coercion, egosyntonic perverts should not be allowed to destroy our countries from within with their culture of death.

Nicholas Nguyen
Nicholas Nguyen

Danger is past for now. Watched little brother play heroes of the storm, made salad, read some more. I wish I would have counted days since I relapsed last, it would have helped track when I hit the week mark (the week mark has always been the most difficult for me, bar none.)

Benjamin Clark
Benjamin Clark

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Prayer of St. Benedict "Begone Satan! Never temp me with your vanities! What you offer me is evil. Drink the poison yourself!"

Camden Nguyen
Camden Nguyen

You're right, but you're trying to force Christianity on people. Banning media doesn't always work, sometimes it calls more attention to it or gets people to be more organised about it, although banning the porn industry would save a lot of people.

Landon Rivera
Landon Rivera

well, loser, most of us here dissagree and there were more than just a few souls saved by the fact they can unite their immegeboard autism with the one true faith, God is at work here gathering his autistic children with a good heart and no matter how much you complain and cry and shout will change anything about that, 8ch isnt for epic cool crusaders who will defeat islam or be the embodiements of grown up virtue you so hope for.

normie get out.

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Jacob Harris
Jacob Harris

If you have to go to confession about it, then yes, you should be feeling the guilt and shame, you are a dirty sinner. At least until after the priest does the reconciliation.

Gavin Morales
Gavin Morales

8ch isnt for epic cool crusaders who will defeat islam or be the embodiements of grown up virtue you so hope for.

Thats where your wrong. If you were to go out into the street and start screaming about Islam you'd be shunned if not thrown into prison outright for (((hate speech))), if you dressed up in armour and started taking matters into your own hand, the media would spin it to favour hatred towards the true faith. Different times need different measures and here of all places, the faith gains strength bonding us all together and keeping us true.

In this dark age of politcal correctness, rampant degeneracy and moral decay we are the few trying to be better by our Lord. We are the ones who dream of glory days long past seeking to find them anew. So we post our memes we post on threads and occasionally someone will come across something that makes them "click" and another is saved and genuinely converts to Jesus. How many browse /cristchan/ because they saw a few threads on cuckchan or had a proper discussion on Zig Forums?

We are the crusaders now.

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Nathan Myers
Nathan Myers

thanks for the post brother, its exactly that mentality of attributed meaning to our lifes that keeps me going.

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Carson Hughes
Carson Hughes

lost after 7t days

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Christopher Murphy
Christopher Murphy

Don't worry homie, just start over.

Jace Harris
Jace Harris

I see, so Europe is definitely lost…

Dominic Gutierrez
Dominic Gutierrez

Good post brother.
Crusade posting is the new counter culture.
I always say this: Do not underestimate memes. They're a powerful propaganda to recruit young minds.
It's great to know you're not alone in this. That is what keeps me going. Even if we fail to succeed eventually we fall as our fathers did. With honor. There's nothing more disgusting than a man who dies on his knees praising the traitors.

Eli White
Eli White

I found out why I still fail; I found the pattern:
1) at work I get upset and people keep trying to take advantage of my “nice” nature;
2) because of that, I loose my patience and curse His name;
3) since it’s a deadly sin, I am filled with despair;
4) thus, since I’m already dead I allow myself to destroy my conscience even more with porn.

I’m gonna go to Hell no matter what…

Isaac Moore
Isaac Moore

You fail only because you see a crutch or pleasure in porn, when it is a poison that destroys your life (the sum of how you spent your time), mind, body, and soul. You'll only go to hell if you choose to reject God. Continue and see the nature of these things.

Logan Evans
Logan Evans

What’s the difference, if my soul is already damned to Hell as I keep cursing Hos name? I’m willing to change, but I fail and fail when it comes to God’s name anyway.

Justin Campbell
Justin Campbell

Day 75.
One small temptation today. After a really long flatline. Remember the huge numbers look pretty unreachable if you struggle with the first two weeks. If you can m ake it to 2-4 weeks it gets easier.
Most days I do not feel any temptation at all.

Cooper Watson
Cooper Watson

I fell down.

jerked today 6 times

Jack Flores
Jack Flores

You're essentially committing the same sin as Judas: thinking that your particular sins are unforgivable.

First off, get over yourself, you're not that special in your suffering. This thread is full of people who keep falling down and getting back up again.

Secondly, Jesus is Lord. He is the almighty God of the Universe. He can fix anybody. He can fix YOU.

Anthony Young
Anthony Young

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Nathan Brooks
Nathan Brooks

It is blaspheming the Holy Spirit to believe you can not be forgiven, and to judge (damn or say that you are sure of their judgement to hell) anyone including yourself to hell.

Bite your tongue and get back to it, go again.

Wyatt Cruz
Wyatt Cruz

Exactly, why should I care? I am just one soul among millions who are slowly sliding into Hell.
I prayed many many times to Him, but I keep saying suck blasphemous words.

Austin Johnson
Austin Johnson

Read "The Ladder of Divine Ascent."

More specifically, go to Step/Chapter 23a and 23b.

amazon.com/Ladder-Divine-Ascent-John-Climacus-ebook/dp/B06XMYTZ5R/ref=sr_1_1_twi_kin_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1521245096&sr=8-1&keywords=ladder of divine ascent

Benjamin Myers
Benjamin Myers

He ripped the arm off my beautiful christchan oc

Why

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Nicholas Roberts
Nicholas Roberts

I do not remember, your pic? sorry.

Gabriel Clark
Gabriel Clark

That's bad. But so what? Get up and fight this. You can make it. Arm yourself with iron will and prayer to defeat the devil.

Dylan Richardson
Dylan Richardson

I haven’t had a wet dream in 2 weeks, and my dick has been weak. Wtf is going on

Gavin Torres
Gavin Torres

LMAO how can you go on a rant like this and then post anime pics you fuckin mong

Liam Ortiz
Liam Ortiz

You did read it right?

Xavier Nguyen
Xavier Nguyen

Thanks

Kayden Powell
Kayden Powell

Temptation is starting to hit hard again after two weeks or so of going strong. Pray I might be granted strength.

Owen Cox
Owen Cox

This

Carter Cox
Carter Cox

So I had finished this book this user linked recently, and I've waited to verify it's claims.

All you who struggle and fall here, why have you not read this? I HAVE LITERALLY NOT HAD A SINGLE URGE OR TEMPTATION AND NEVER WILL AGAIN.

That entire sin of lust and PMO is now officially dead to me. And I know it is because before when I tried to stop by any other technique these periods would be the most filled with temptation and the most difficult (the days after stopping). Not one urge, not one thought, not one temptation, something happened. I feel like my brain was replaced.

Read it and weep with joy.

Truly no willpower, truly no withdrawal pangs, no promises to myself about anything, only a prayer to God for thanks for deliverance.

Joshua Ross
Joshua Ross

AND NEVER WILL AGAIN.
I assured that to myself too once and it didn't go well.

Levi Stewart
Levi Stewart

These past two confessions I feel my will strengthening. I think I'm back on track to curbing this disgusting evil indulgence. I went to Eucharistic adoration also. It's all helping

Nathan Taylor
Nathan Taylor

fug

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James Martin
James Martin

check out the whole book man, not even shilling

Wyatt Smith
Wyatt Smith

glad to hear that, but careful not to let pride take over…I had a very long streak, but then I made one mistake and I was back to square one. I am still back there, to be quite honest.

William Sanders
William Sanders

I'm a furry, I will not be able to remove that part of myself, but I want to quit porn and become a better Christian.
HOWEVER: I have very little hope I will be able to win, since I hate myself, I do not trust in God enough and in general I am very upset and full of resentfulness towards my denomination and all other Christians, for too much hypocrisy and "holier-than-thou" attitude keeps coming out of all of us, especially on online forums.
How and what should I do? Should I even try or just kill myself to avoid dragging this farce of a life any longer (which will anyway just displease God even more)?

Owen Miller
Owen Miller

Hey christian do you guys know of any porn website blocking programs?

Gabriel Lee
Gabriel Lee

see >>608541 >>608915

Jacob Morris
Jacob Morris

What truly bothered me on 8ch:
Infinite Masturbator ad
Hentai sex toys ad

If you want to remove them:
Get firefox extension uMatrix
disable softserve.8ch.net - image
save all temporary changes (the lock on the top)

here…done. You will not see the ad again.

Connor Richardson
Connor Richardson

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Internal bias lines the halls of my behavior, if my brain refuses to acknowledge that I am walking into fire, I could just burn.

Kevin Gutierrez
Kevin Gutierrez

I'm a furry,

No. Your fetish is NOT your identity. In fact that fetish is more than likely a product of your porn addiction. Defeat the porn addiction, and don't be surprised if your furriness goes away.

Read this book and hang in there.

Justin Howard
Justin Howard

you’re a larper

Anthony Lopez
Anthony Lopez

and youre a subverting jew who is trying to convince us that we are not important and that we should just give up alredy.

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Nicholas Turner
Nicholas Turner

Indeed it's not my identity, but it's part of who I am: I do not care about women enough to even think about getting a gf; all I want is to be able to be also a furry whilst avoiding lewdness.
I know other Christians who are also curries.

Anthony Morris
Anthony Morris

going to read now, ill update soon.

Lucas Fisher
Lucas Fisher

Also, i was abstaining fapping for a while and examined my consciousnes a little, and i came to the conclusion that i just really really really love and sympathize with the hentai weeb and western community (the likes of shadman and others) because i literally grew up with them, i was on sadpanda following and reading the newest doujins, starting to develope tastes and favourites when i was 14!

and another thing that kept me coming back over and over again is not the /d/eviant pornographic aspect but really just smug lolis, lovable squishy mommy gf's, cute monstergirls and everything inbetween giving me a sense of company and positive attention in forms of my autistic personal mental harem.

Anyone willing to give me some advise regarding my situation, maybe someone with a similar developement?

Jose Walker
Jose Walker

Anyone willing to give me some advise regarding my situation, maybe someone with a similar development?
I'm the kind of person that easily throws things away so I can't really sympathize even if I was in a similar situation. Your post reads like alien scrabble by now.
I know its a generic suggestion but, new hobby maybe?

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Michael White
Michael White

Philia is kind of love. Love is "wishing good to the subject". And philia is the kind of love that exist between friends, within nations or other societies. You feel philia to that community.
Now, love is act of will. So you just stop to have philia to them. But it will hurt. A lot. Such is force of a habit (or rather vice).
I had similiar expirence. What you absolutly have to do is to block all sources of it. You must radically cut of all the sources of arousal. Instal a websiteblockers on all your devices.

Also start to pray regually. Litugy of hours is great becuase it's chops down your day into three hours sections. Also, start to pray Rosary and meditate upon life of Christ by it. It will destroy all joy of masturabtion.

Matthew Reyes
Matthew Reyes

Indeed it's not my identity, but it's part of who I am

"It's not my Identity…. but it's my identity." (pic related)

I do not care about women enough to even think about getting a gf; all I want is to be able to be also a furry whilst avoiding lewdness.

Does not care about getting a gf

Just wants to stay wrapped up in fetishistic subculture "without lewdness."

Dude, these are prime symptoms of beating off too much. Read what I linked you to, and start fighting this thing.

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Adrian Collins
Adrian Collins

ask me how I know you’re from pol

Nicholas Flores
Nicholas Flores

tfw you've read this but still can't stop sexual fantasies to get into your head for a few seconds too long

Carson Phillips
Carson Phillips

go to site known for autistic-neet-weeb-manchildren
come to a thread full of people that can't stop fapping
mad that we're not ideal soldiers of God
what were you expecting, honestly?

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Jonathan Flores
Jonathan Flores

Christian curries.

I'm sure there are plenty of Indians who follow Christ.

Jaxson Collins
Jaxson Collins

typo

Aaanyway, back to day 0; maybe I just don't care about myself. I believe in God, other than that I hate all I am.

Asher Martin
Asher Martin

I'm the kind of person who stick to things even if they're detrimental to me.
You do need to find a good hobby. Put the faith first - the effort you put into this degeneracy put it instead into scripture study. Then find a good hobby - weight lifting, whatever.

Joseph Davis
Joseph Davis

Approaching day 80

Long flatline
break the lent in several ways
Start praying less
Reading the Bible less
Suddenly there came an urge. Luckily I was able to resist and resume regular prayer. i did not have any urge the whole lent so fatr This has shown me that basically the strict lent kept me close to Christ. That protected me from temptation. Once there was a minor path to my mind for the temptation the evil slipped there quickly.
Never underestimate the spiritual battle. Your streak is indeed an accomplishment of your will but you can't make it without God's help. Once you make way for pride you will eventually fail.
There's a reason why pride is an original sin.

Matthew Wright
Matthew Wright

Here are some delusions which have caused me a great amount of grief, and which must be done away with

1. I can’t give it porn, I love it too much. If I gave it up, I’d be missing out.
2. If I’m going to fap, I might as well look at porn.
3. This is it, I’m definitely never going to ever fap again! This time for real!
4. It’ll take a long time for me to truly give up porn, so I might as well keep this collection of porn until I’m mentally strong enough to get rid of it forever.
5. If I fap without porn now, that will take away my desire to look at porn.
6. I might as well fap, I’ve already looked at porn when I shouldn’t have.
7. I’m having trouble with my faith, might as well fap
8. I’m too weak, I’m inevitably going to fap to porn, trying to give it up is pointless

James Robinson
James Robinson

Just delete your collection. ALL OF IT. Took me awhile to do it, but one day it was like a slap in the face and I realised "wtf am I doing? Gotta get rid of this crap". Trust me just force that fapping hand over your folder, click it once then press delete. You'll feel better.

Do it!

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Oliver Foster
Oliver Foster

It’s already gone. I’ve fallen into the temptation of building porn collections many times, and just as many times I’ve deleted said collections. My thinking right now is that the only way I can defeat this addiction is by realising that porn is meaningless, a waste of time. Even the sin of masturbation in no way requires porn. So while I might fail, even in failure there is no good reason to look at porn. It’s like salting the wound.

Brandon Edwards
Brandon Edwards

I managed two and a half weeks. I was shooting for two days.
I couldn't have achieved it without the grace of the lord.
PRAISE BE TO GOD

Julian Russell
Julian Russell

Do not think separately: no fap vs no porn.

Go full no fap. To achieve that you should not edge, you should not view NSFW content. Those two are connected.
Sure you will fail many times. But this is the way to go. Eventually you will get there Shoot for the stars maybe you hit the moon. This is how you push this shit out of your life: going after a set goal. Firmly.

Let's say you first fail by fapping but you do not view porn>>>>great. you did no porn, fapped less. Now shoot for the longest streak you can manage.
Let's say you fail by watching porn and edging at most: Great, simply delete porn,disable it, do not go to NSFW sites.
A single failure is not that tragic. Tragic thing would be to quit because
trouble with faith
I'm too weak.

You're stronger than you think.

Xavier Kelly
Xavier Kelly

Thanks man

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Zachary Ramirez
Zachary Ramirez

than more you masturbate than more degenerate your tags become

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Jaxson Myers
Jaxson Myers

I wish Vatican released a list of acceptable fetishes(in marriage of course).

James Perez
James Perez

There are none.

Nolan Peterson
Nolan Peterson

Even high heels/stockings/other articles of clothing? Of course I know sodomy isn't allowed.

Ayden Scott
Ayden Scott

The marriage mysteries are taken with solemnity and deliberation, not at all any sort of passion. So this excludes all.

Xavier Gonzalez
Xavier Gonzalez

*deep sigh* if that’s how it must be…okay then.

Josiah Stewart
Josiah Stewart

*deep sigh*
This is wrong for a theological reason and a anonymous shitposter reason.

Mason Murphy
Mason Murphy

What can I say, I like my kinks

Samuel Cruz
Samuel Cruz

not at all any sort of passion
So we're supposed to be like robots? What the hell is the Song of Songs then?

Austin Mitchell
Austin Mitchell

health-science-spirit.com/karezza.htm

Tyler Wilson
Tyler Wilson

Attaining apatheia is not being a robot for a Christian. "Disinterested love" is one of the best terms to describe our end point (achievable now). When we love all people as God does to the point where it is a quality of ourselves and a state, that it is no longer a "special" thing, it just is what you are. Passions and out-of-control emotions (which is immodesty among other things) disrupt this, so we should avoid it.

Nolan Russell
Nolan Russell

disinterested love
What?

Anyway, explain to me why ultra vanilla stuff like high heels/stockings are supposedly sinful. I'm not talking about obviously evil stuff like sodomy/spitting/pissplay/beating-up-your-wife type stuff. I'm only talking about stuff that accentuates woman's beauty.

Bentley Nguyen
Bentley Nguyen

So my fapping usually starts with curiosity so yeah now I know how to tackle it

Isaiah Davis
Isaiah Davis

If your love is to the extent that it equally extends to all people at all times of your being, it is no longer an effort, or an interest, it is simply part of you. That is why the phrase I've heard, "disinterested love" works to describe that state.

And I'd consider it sinful because it's taking pleasure in a finite thing, especially something that isn't God. Eros (said as yearning) is meant to be attached to God, not a mortal that will inevitably die, inevitably sin, and is a constant affront and robber of His Created Glory (by sinning).

James Morris
James Morris

We’re allowed to take pleasure in finite things you Buddhist larper.
Whether it be our wives or a nice meal, life is to be enjoyed and loved. Stop treating God’s creations as if is dirty.

Hudson Stewart
Hudson Stewart

It has nothing to do with Buddhism, if you read monastic writings and the many Greek philosophies they are based on you see these things said by people actually intelligent. But you do you man.

Dominic Foster
Dominic Foster

I care what the Bible says, and nowhere does it say we aren’t allowed to enjoy anything in life because it’s finite.
Of course it is always best to strive towards the eternal love of God, but He also created this world knowing we seek pleasure and happiness in material things.
As long as our consumption of these things aren’t sinful they are perfectly fine.

Thomas Walker
Thomas Walker

How does confession work?
Can someone give me a quick rundown?
I haven't been since my first communion almost fifteen years ago.

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Jose Johnson
Jose Johnson

You can't take pleasure in your wife
Boi, what?

Proverbs 18:22 Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

Julian Morales
Julian Morales

wife
a thing

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Robert Green
Robert Green

Floor tiles
user please, I'm trying to get a streak going here

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Elijah Jenkins
Elijah Jenkins

ocf.org/OrthodoxPage/reading/st.mary.html

Jacob King
Jacob King

Your not that tile guy from a few years back on cuckchan are you?

Parker Lewis
Parker Lewis

That was a good video. I know how to to go about making a good confession but not sure about the procedure or formality of making a confession. Am I meant to say something like bless me father I have sinned then confess. Just don't want to embarrass myself. I just can't remember.

Aiden Rodriguez
Aiden Rodriguez

How come you assumed that instead of thinking "Oh maybe its a joke post"?

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Aaron Myers
Aaron Myers

I wish Nanachi to be my wife…

Ayden Reed
Ayden Reed

stop

William Smith
William Smith

I'm too deep down the rabbit hole (no pun intended) to go back.

Hudson Hill
Hudson Hill

Had nocturnal emissions in the middle of the night. I just remember I was masturbating in my dream and feeling really horrible that I just ruined all that good work. My willpower has eroded away these past few days, and I ended up nearly caving yesterday. I'll mark this up as a failure.

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Kayden Sanders
Kayden Sanders

Nocturnal emission is not no fap failure.
Unless you masturbated(not in dream though) you did not break the streak.

When you go no fap wet dreams happen. That's normal.

Matthew Gutierrez
Matthew Gutierrez

But I feel like it wouldn't have happened in the first place if I hadn't spent most of the day edging myself and thinking lewd stuff. That's my point.

Ryder Perez
Ryder Perez

Oh boy I had a nightmare where I was in a grotesque mountain filled with female body parts, and a woman raped me. Fortunately no ejaculation occurred…
It was sickening
Your dreams will become one of your most tormentor while you trap to stop fapping;

Jonathan Gutierrez
Jonathan Gutierrez

Didn't really assume, just asking for clarity.

Ian Rivera
Ian Rivera

Well if by edging you mean masturbation without ejaculation then I suppose that would count as a failure.

Nathan Moore
Nathan Moore

Can confirm. I had terrible dreams a month ago. I never watched perversion porn. Mostly regular stuff - 'rough sex' at most. But if you go to NSFW boards you accidentally see pictures you do not want to see.
I think that was where my brain downloaded those gross things. Once I went no fap terrible dreams appeared they almost broke my will. Then they disappeared and now I am free.

Edging is a tough call. There was a time when I did not consider it to be a failure. One thing is sure: If you do the edging you're about to fail. Sooner or later your will is going to be broken anyway. If you edge your streak will eventually end because you will ejaculate at some point
Do not edge.

Tyler Bailey
Tyler Bailey

Failed today

I am so stressed and tired from studying all the time, its bores me so much , I think I need a life change.

What more, God has been off my mind.

Its not the end of the world cause I am getting alot better at this but goodness, Im spent

Lincoln Garcia
Lincoln Garcia

I failed for months, let's start all over again, brother!
Si Deus pro Nobis, quis Contra Nos?

Jace Lewis
Jace Lewis

Always get back up. or you end up like man I saw today.

Walking through a university (learning violin there) and theres some guy jerking himself off in public into a hat with some harlot walking around the audience, screeching about art or some shit trying to get them nude for some kind of "protest".

tfw she saw me and demanded I join in with the hatwanker.

Fk me mates. I was having such a nice day too.

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Dylan Perez
Dylan Perez

Walking down the street
Some hamplanet feminist sees me
Demands I strip down and fap into this hat for a protest
Threatens to call me a rapist if I don't comply
Pic related

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Wyatt Wilson
Wyatt Wilson

Trips of sad but true?

Kayden Diaz
Kayden Diaz

tbf she wasnt obese, more along "body modification". You know; hair dyed yet shaved in a non-euclidiean manner, very skimpy clothing and the piercings… oh the piercings.

Honestly if you came within 50m of her with a magnet she could charge you with assault

Zachary Jenkins
Zachary Jenkins

It amazes me the extent to which young leftists think being vulgar adds to their message.

Robert Garcia
Robert Garcia

THATS BULLSHIT BUT I BELIEVE IT

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Brandon Cox
Brandon Cox

Made it 6 days, then failed. It has become clear to me that my capacity for sin is very strong, but my willingness to justify it is disappearing fast. Maybe I will fail many more times, but I truly hope not and I can only pray that may faith will grow and God will be merciful.

Oliver Collins
Oliver Collins

How can I stop falling in love with girls I see online?

Leo Moore
Leo Moore

Just realise they would never love you, just the content of your wallet.
No MGTOW, but online girls are not good wife material.

Samuel Nguyen
Samuel Nguyen

Just play the game and don't get personal with people. Works for me 100%, took two different online relationships to realize it's a stupid and terrible idea every time.

Cameron Thomas
Cameron Thomas

Fapping is gay and if you've ever fapped in your life, your a homo.

Zachary Garcia
Zachary Garcia

read the book, it works. at least 18 days here. i have occasional urges but nothing serious. occasionally porn will pop up or something i used to be attracted to and i am physically repulsed, i look away and exit off. i urge you guys to read the whole thing if you are serious.

Jaxson Clark
Jaxson Clark

Meet girls IRL. If you constantly fall in love online it shows you do not have enough personal contact.

Christopher Powell
Christopher Powell

Shaved, dyed hair
Piercings

Trash. Would be better if she was obese but without modification. I mean…she's a feminist so I wouldn't care anyway.

Anthony Rivera
Anthony Rivera

Dropped the ball again this morning. I had a lot of trouble sleeping, and in the middle of the night while I was tossing and turning, I ended up caving. Almost seemed like nocturnal emissions, which is weird, but I won't go into details since it's vulgar.

Made it two weeks before caving, then three weeks before this time. Let's see if I can shoot for four.

Nathan Stewart
Nathan Stewart

sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home

Grayson White
Grayson White

I feel pretty good today. I went to confession and today I started praying like I used to I feel my will highly strengthened.
I have no idea why God seems to have chosen to grant me grace and welcome me back after mortally sinning at least once a week for a year but I want to continue.
Sorry about treating this as my personal blog.
Thought I'd share the importance of praying with you all. Don't ever lose hope or despair.
I love all of you, even the admins.

Pic unrelated, the banner of the Japanese Shimibara rebellion

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Isaiah Harris
Isaiah Harris

On day 4 or 5. Can't remember exactly. Sometimes it's very difficult just because chicks are so freaking hot. It's a nightly struggle not to rub the poison out of my system. I'm 33 and I still am just so constantly turned on at the thought of chicks. My imagination is extremely vivid and in 4k so I can just dream up my own pornos. But that man is not the man I want to be. I want to be a man I would look up to. I deleted the many gigs of porn of all my hard drives, which wasn't that tough and I don't miss it really.

Plus side, confidence is up. It's funny that I actually engage with people easier when on no fap. Women seem to pick up on it too that you're alphaing up and packed with seed. It is and is not an issue, since I won't settle for anything less than a Christian woman. Stay strong brothers. Good things must be earned.

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Kevin Mitchell
Kevin Mitchell

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John Cooper
John Cooper

What is the sexuality of a woman attracted to trannies (not traps)?

Christian Bell
Christian Bell

First day down. It's very impressive how it torments you during your workday and how much the habit tries to suck you back in at the end of your workday. Tough habit to shake, I still feel the subconscious pull. No regrets in not relapsing of course, spent my evening doing other things instead.
Oh, interestingly, I didn't relapse because I had a dream last night about kissing a girl. It was incredibly pleasant, and enough to keep me not relapsing because I would rather experience that irl than relapse. Dreams being what they are, I doubt I'll have it remembered tomorrow, so we'll see how things go. It's not the ideal way I would have chosen to stay clean, but I'll take what I can get starting out.
No advice to give, just checking in and keeping a pseudo-journal, I hear those are both important for going straight.

Hudson Miller
Hudson Miller

610887
I thought I made it last year...six months at least, got a gf in the meantime to kiss and hug and get to know, that I still have...

still relapsed back in november. Then i went another month. Can't make it a week now. Just relapsed again after 6 days.

I mean I know that it's better to live without the lust, but once you get back in the mire it's hard to get out again.

But we have no need to despair, we have a loving God who will welcome us back no matter what we've done and restore us.

Alexander Barnes
Alexander Barnes

cool chart

Brandon Reed
Brandon Reed

I do it again.

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Brody Rogers
Brody Rogers

Gents, working out makes me exceptionally horny, and makes me break. Any tips?

Henry White
Henry White

If you think chicks do not notice your boosted confidence, well think again. The girls do notice you're pumped with testosterone, your self-esteem improves. After 8 weeks or so few girls told me I look 'happpier' 'more confident' 'somehow changed' - that really lifts your spirits up

I won't settle for anything less than a Christian woman

This!
On no fap I finally feel like I actually deserve a nice christian girl.

Leo Jones
Leo Jones

When in doubt whether fapping is all right consult the Bible: Genesis chapter 38

Onan "spilled his seed [or semen] on the ground".
The next statement in the Bible says that Onan did evil and that God slew him.

I suppose you guys knew this is the origin of the word 'onanism'. I did not so I decided to share it in case there are more brainlets like me around here.

Elijah Rodriguez
Elijah Rodriguez

absolute brainlet, the sin was disobeying God, who commanded Onan to impregnate the woman.

Liam Foster
Liam Foster

that's cause your testosterone and health improve, your blood circulates better; just get more will power and discipline until you find a woman.

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Lucas Flores
Lucas Flores

praise be to God, I resisted a very strong urge to masturbate…but then the realization of how lonely and old I am growing hit me, and I was about in tears.
I have a friend of mine who could help me: his wife's cousin (22) is looking for a man, and she is interested in me (since she's Catholic and alone too). Thing is: she's Filipino, I'm Italian…what to do? I am conflicted…my uncle married a Vietnamese girl and they divorced a few years ago; I am also unsure about marrying outside my own ethnic group…

Eli Evans
Eli Evans

Same here, brother…get them gains for the Lord and ask Him to give you the strength to not give into temptation!

Tyler Reed
Tyler Reed

my uncle married a Vietnamese girl and they divorced a few years ago; I am also unsure about marrying outside my own ethnic group…
well your kids will look nothing like you, so it would be weird going out in public with them, specially if you have a daughter.
I wouldnt worry about the divorce thing, as long as you guys want similar things in life and are willing to work at the relationship. I would date her for a good year before settling down, takes time before you see someones real self

Elijah Baker
Elijah Baker

As sweet as some filipino girls can be, it is a bad idea. It is much easier and reliable to find a girl of your own ethnicity.

How many millions of girls are in Italy? Im sure you cN find one brother. Take your time and dont rush it

Levi Harris
Levi Harris

Thanks for the advices; I am just afraid of going insane: I'm 27 and I haven't been in a relationship in years.

Christian Garcia
Christian Garcia

If she is truly catholic. she won't divorce.

also, you being italian, i doubt having kids with a Filipino will make your children any more brown than they would become if you married within your ethnic group.

downside will be having to deal with your bitter hearted self hating Hapa kids.

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Jason Mitchell
Jason Mitchell

I think you have surpassed a threshold where you have to start renouncing to certain things. In this case, maybe the ethnic group.

Carson Taylor
Carson Taylor

also, you being italian, i doubt having kids with a Filipino will make your children any more brown than they would become if you married within your ethnic group.

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Dylan Butler
Dylan Butler

Daily reminder this is what happens when you fap

Luis Perry
Luis Perry

Listen to this guy. When we are desperate we make bad choices. True this girl might be the one set up for you but then again are you wanting to marry her to be together forever because you genuinly want to or do you just wish to get married to keep the near crippling doubts away? 28 anglo here and I know my reason would be the latter.

Will I ever marry? No clue. Would certainly like to but not going to sit in a puddle of self pity while waiting. Be patient stay strong.

Or if she is the girl, then good luck!

Anthony Watson
Anthony Watson

Can someone give me tl;dr of this shit. These self help books have no literary value and the structure of the core rules which could be summerized to a simple list is stretched over 250 pages of stoner's college essay tier word salad.

Angel Gomez
Angel Gomez

Daily reminder that Gibson had to water down this scene because in reality it would end up with bones visible.

Justin Reed
Justin Reed

My name is user and I'm addicted to masturbation.
Going to give this a go again. One week is my target. Time to take back control of my life.

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Nathan Ramirez
Nathan Ramirez

testicles are aching

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Logan Gomez
Logan Gomez

testicles are aching

Grayson Morales
Grayson Morales

Probably you're right…oh boy, I'm a mess.

Mason Robinson
Mason Robinson

Pray for me brethren. I have been trying for a long time but I just cant beat it. I know God can heal me. Pray that I will be strong and resist. Pove you guys and glory to God.

Ethan Green
Ethan Green

The whole point of these Allen Carr esque books is to read the whole thing. It is similar to a cognitive behavioral therapeutic program, using repetitive ideas to change ingrained behavior. It is not a list of dos and don'ts. Works really well for most people.

Caleb James
Caleb James

A pity our attention spans are getting shorter and shorter. Constant news articles, tweets and FB stuff is a constant distraction to people these days I'm not surprised wanted to skip it and just get to the spoilers.

Probably should get back to reading books again, you know the physical kind where you take one of the shelf and sniff it and get that nerdy high off of ancient dust. To be fair, have you ever been reading a book these days and someone bursts into the room shouting about some sort of new craze and to follow him to find out more? Or they take your book away and show ou a bunch of posters till you can have it back?

oh shit, forget fapping urges, reading just got a whole lot more exciting! Pray for me guys: I'm gonna READ A BOOK!

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Bentley Adams
Bentley Adams

no you have to read it. nobody’s going to hold your hand. if you want to be different change yourself.

Owen Campbell
Owen Campbell

God bless you lad. It has really helped me along with prayer and fasting.

Jack Ortiz
Jack Ortiz

Just want to say to all the anons in this thread, keep trying you will make it. Personally for me dismissing the thought and addressing it as not a part of me i.e. a thought from the devil helped me significantly. Do not let it linger and bite at you.

Oliver Lewis
Oliver Lewis

tomorrow is day 50 for me
been getting strong urges for the past 2 days
Just 40 more days until I start breaking the conditioning I've been through in regards to porn, right?

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Caleb Smith
Caleb Smith

stop coming to this board because it's a brain-drain
end up sinning more
why

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David Brooks
David Brooks

Stay strong brother in Christ.

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Ayden Gutierrez
Ayden Gutierrez

stop coming to this board because it's a brain-drain

Brain-drain? How?

Michael Flores
Michael Flores

The post quality has dropped significantly, like a good portion of Zig Forums.
Ever since some anons thought it was a good idea to advertise the board elsewhere, substituting quality for mass.

Luke Ortiz
Luke Ortiz

Steam now selling porn games
Throws them into my recommended queues
Youtube let's players playing porn games
All music videos are basically porn
Try to browse blue boards on any image board
People just make thinly veiled fap threads anyways
If blue board rules are enforced, bitter fapaddicted spammers raid the board with pornography
Even non-pornographic media is packed with skimpy outfits, sexual inuendos and promiscuity
Idle chat with coworkers during breaks inevitably leads to them talking about sex, women, or porn

It's all so tiring, so constant and from every angle.

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Jeremiah Sanders
Jeremiah Sanders

Steam now selling porn games
Is this for real? I haven't logged into my steam account for years now. Unbelievable…

Tyler Howard
Tyler Howard

49 days pissed away for nothing. Pray for me, brothers. I feel terrible. I'm even wondering if I'm dreaming right now, in hope that I'll wake up.

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Jack Carter
Jack Carter

Also girls wearing those tight yoga pants all the time even as day clothing and even at work, leaving nothing to the imagination. It's not about skin, it's about shape.

But that's all just a turn on at a basic ape level. Not enough modest Christian girls to fall deeply and meaningfully in love with. Wish it didn't have to be this way.

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Gabriel Russell
Gabriel Russell

We all fall from time to time, brother. It is in the midst of your failure that you can truly appreciate God's grace. For the Lord will never give up on you and you will do likewise.

For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

-2 Corinthians 12:10

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Colton Foster
Colton Foster

A sign of a downfall is obsession with sex, or so it seems.
Also, there was a streamer who played this one eroge? back before streaming was popular, and he used to make it really entertaining, as in, doing stupid voices (you never saw his face, mind), and he'd try to avoid the sex scenes. I don't know, I can't find him again, but it was a lot of fun. Couldn't watch him that much back then, because of poor internet.

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Anthony Williams
Anthony Williams

WHY AM I SO FREAKING WEAK? WHY CAN'T I GO MORE THAN A WEEK. WHY DID I FREAKING GIVE INTO TEMPTATION TODAY. GAHHHH

Benjamin Howard
Benjamin Howard

"25-year-old millennial reporting in.

I remember the precise moment when the POZ first gripped me by the short-and-curlies. My parents ponied up for high-speed internet just before Christmas of 2004. I had previously used the dial-up to jerk off to some tasteful Playboy nudes once or twice while the folks were asleep. This was thrilling and transgressive, and most Gen X-ers and even Boomers probably had a similar experience with adult magazines.

But the paradigm shifted with high-speed internet. Instantly, great vistas of gourmet degeneracy were at my nubby little teenage fingertips. It began with vanilla porn: simple boy-girl scenes that seem quaint in retrospect. This held my interest as I indulged a few times monthly at opportune moments. Until about age 17, I subsisted on this diet (even while fooling around with assorted girlfriends). I should have known something was wrong, though, when I immediately came home from getting tugged or blown by a girlfriend to load up some porn and have a session on the computer. Those milestone moments of real sexual discovery, the kinds of exchanges teenage boys of yore fantasized about months after the fact, served only as an appetizer to the main course: internet porn.

I can't overstate how easily a strapping young man's mind gets led down the primrose path of novelty. The discovery of each new niche leads to a deep-dive that lasts for months. First a young man realizes women can be sodomized, then it's a furious rush of anal videos. Then the focus shifts to fetishizing a certain body part: large buttocks, feet, natural breasts, fake breasts, chubby Buddha bellies, toned and sculpted abdomina, shaved genitalia, hirsute genitalia, back and forth in a feverish search for some new obsession.

Two years, three years down the tubes. Now the young man's 20, trying to find the most beautiful older MILFs and GILFs fornicating with much younger men. It starts with teacher/student scenes, with innocent and rote role-plays of power dynamics. It's deeply satisfying. Then he moves on to actual bondage and discipline, with cruel older women berating and punishing the young men. Then sexual apparatuses get involved. All the while the young man slings ropes and ropes of his seed into the air, only to wind up discarded in Kleenex.

The young man becomes insatiable by 21. Now there isn't even a hint of affection in the scenes he watches. Love, healthy emotion, and even pleasure itself are passe. He watches women burning men's chests with cigarettes and cigars. He yearns to hear new, inventive ways for these cruel women to humiliate the young men. On it spirals, the curious young id, into French curls of perversion and decadence. Whips. Chains. Anger. Raw frustration. Rage. Hate. Sex is now hate to him. Sex is just ugly, contemptible, shameful: a grim continent of disgusting Freudian urges. Why fight it? Keep going. Keep looking. Keep clicking. There's salvation, there's absolution out there somewhere.

Until one day the young man, alone in his onanistic filth and fluid, learns the master lesson of human sexuality. If he is wise, his heart and intuition will lead him there. That lesson is as follows: the sexual impulse is perverted if it is aimed at pleasure alone. There is no greater cause of human heartache than chasing pleasure for pleasure's sake. All the sexual impulses must be directed toward some higher purpose: strengthening a marital bond or forming a family. Any other avenue of sexuality hijacks the awesome power of your libido and makes a slave out of you.

I quit porn. I quit any kind of sexual titillation not involving a real, living woman I love and with whom I wish to raise a family.

I only wish I'd been given this prime directive more forcefully as a child.
"

Ayden Morales
Ayden Morales

I wanna say that might be ManlyBadassHero as that is like the only person who comes to mind but that is probably huge shot in the dark.

Gabriel Green
Gabriel Green

Caved again after exactly a week, and barely after Easter. And for the same reasons, too; I haven't been able to get any sleep all night. If I had gotten to sleep four hours ago as normal nothing would have ever happened and I might have made it a few more weeks, as I haven't had even the slightest temptation or urge in this past week. Lads, I am in need of prayer.

Colton Miller
Colton Miller

Kids as young as 11 are viewing porn these days. Just be happy you were old enough to see the problems that were there. I could go full /pol on this but for now, good job keep it up, we are here for you.

Jaxson Morgan
Jaxson Morgan

Sending prayers

Samuel Carter
Samuel Carter

4 days and I have blown it again

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Luis Long
Luis Long

Christ is risen !
I was received in to the Church on Saturday night. Since then (Saturday) I didn't do the deed because for the following reason: Although the baptism would've erased the sin - or after I could confess to get "rid of it", I think of it like this:
I receive the Holy Eucharist with my hands. Do I seriously want to "defile" the very hands that I receive the Lord Himself with and defile the most holy Sacrifice that He made for us ? The obvious answer is no. Although it were only 3 days now, this is something incredible as I was actually severely addicted to pornography and masturbation.

Hopefully this line of thought will be helpful for one or the other of you as well.

Wyatt Cox
Wyatt Cox

I've resolved to make it this time, for life. It's been over 3 days and I've had success dismantling my warped perception of things (I have had several deviant fetishes that I naively entertained and permitted even before the first time I masturbated. I actually hadn't really fapped to the point of climax until my late teens, but the sin of lust was still there. I have been wholly addicted ever since that first time I "went too far") and have been trying to direct my thoughts before or while they occur. The temptation hasn't truly started yet, but I am being proactive in avoiding it, though a few fleeting moments of weakness have happened.
The longest I've ever made it since after the first break was one month. This time, however, the only temporal goal I have is ~3 months as just a guide on the process, but I want to escape this sin forever. I am praying for my sake, but included in the sake of all of you, and those that aren't among us that deal with this. May we all become closer to God and better fulfill His purposes.

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Chase Russell
Chase Russell

It's getting bad… I just miss my girlfriend, man. Sometimes I think about her again, and it makes me aroused.

Logan Perry
Logan Perry

Christ has risen!

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Josiah Phillips
Josiah Phillips

Mark 11:24
Therefore I say unto you, What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them.
<have faith friends

Henry Collins
Henry Collins

Well, brethren… I am almost one week in; since I know most of my temptations come from the internet, I am going to abandon it for a while, thus this board too. Please pray for me, I will keep you all in my prayers.
God bless!

Angel Davis
Angel Davis

nofap already 7 days.

feel freedom

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Mason Morris
Mason Morris

from now on i will
pray every day
listen to thoughts to will myself to be disciplined
align myself with the highest good
work in the presence of family and fellow students
READ THE FUCKING BOOK
work at my desk
remember the four last things
remember how he suffered for us on the cross
immediately look at holy images
listen to my conscience

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Ryder Williams
Ryder Williams

Implying that's not what you're supposed to do with your sexual urge - to find a wife and have kids instead of throwing your seed on the ground
Implying
Calls someone else a brainlet

Wew lad. You're not too bright are you.

Noah Cook
Noah Cook

Not enough praying, confessing and low will power.

Work on these

Michael Miller
Michael Miller

Swearing
Darn son.

Jackson Ramirez
Jackson Ramirez

The reason he was killed was because he was commanded by God to continue his brother's family and tried to shirk this duty. I'm not disagreeing with masturbation being a sin but it's very, very clear in context that his direct defiance is what got him killed.

Lincoln Lewis
Lincoln Lewis

I haven't fapped in months and it's awesome. I have no urge or desire to.

Christopher Howard
Christopher Howard

Bröthers, my bääls are aböut to explöde.
Thankfully, I have MMA class in an hour, I will lose energy that way. Create healthy hobbies, friends. They will help you a lot.

Stay strong.

Brayden Price
Brayden Price

Help me I feel like a slave to porn and don't even know if i believe in Christ atm please pray for me

Connor Brooks
Connor Brooks

I used to be like you. Be strong and I will pray for you.

Dominic Allen
Dominic Allen

it means alot thanks user

Parker Russell
Parker Russell

A recommendation for you: when you're in that state where your heart is too torched to feel God's love for you, you have to think you're 100% alone in this fight. (you're not, of course, you've just blasted yourself beyond feeling Good anymore) Give it a go. I used to be relapsing twice a day steady, now I'm on to three days clean with no sign of relapse. Call it the ubermensch path, just you and the Devil. For my part, I envisioned myself sprinting into the fight with a "kill me if you can" attitude. Today, unbidden, I imagined lightning molding itself around my blades.
It may or may not help you, but it's one heck of a ride for me.

Kayden Walker
Kayden Walker

his direct defiance is what got him killed.

I did not claim otherwise. The obvious message of this text is that you should use your sexuality to marry a woman and have kids…not jerk off in a corner to some degenerate pictures. Masturbation makes this a lot more difficult so there's a reason why it's a grave sin.
So what's your point here exactly? I'm sorry but your strawmanning while larping as big brain nibba is quite pathetic.

Furthermore try to use a search engine to see that this is the origin of the word 'onanism'.
You know..there's a reason for that.

Gabriel Cook
Gabriel Cook

Day 88 complete.

Stay strong lads

Levi Diaz
Levi Diaz

Hmm, interesting advice, not sure what to make of it but thanks. When I put the effort in I can abstain from temptation for 5, 6 7 maybe more days. But I always slip up. It has been this way continuously for what will be 5 years come summer, and I would have been consuming porn and jacking off for maybe 17 years now. It's just I go through peaks and troughs of trying to stop and recently I have barely been trying, only on the surface and have been incredibly weak and pretty much always giving into temptation. I also haven't been praying or reading my bible recently, and am confused as to whether and what I believe atm and feel like I need more understanding of other faiths before I can actually reject them for Christ. It's just because I've been engaging with it so much recently I feel helpless like I'm slipping into old territory where I view porn as (and it feels like) a literal drug that I get high on (as I pretty much do get this effect from lots of porn that contains horrible things that trigger me that I devour in my depraved moments /sessions). It consumes most if not all of my free time, I feel like I've broke my dick, my balls and the pipes that connect them from jerking so hard so often, I get wrist strains, I go to bed late and them cant sleep and miss work because I've been up binging on porn all night (or if I get the courage to go in I look like a zombie whose been up all night on porn and am a shell of my former self with a head that feels like it's imploding from a lack of sleep). I'm desperate but the reality is there are options that I haven't taken action on yet, like utilising a browser blocker, significantly limit Internet usage (I'm also addicted to Internet and particularly always trying to catch up with everything on here - which no offence o us anons but is so fruitless and pointless compared to what I could be spending doing with that time like improving myself and taking action - even eating properly going to bed early and keeping my room tidy (inb4 j peterson fanboi, ive been cleaning my room since i was little) and hygiene OK, that would be a start). So all is not lost and there is still hope. I also have friends which I am thankful for and potentially have Christ too, so I have a lot more than some people have. I'll pray for you all.

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Ayden Richardson
Ayden Richardson

I did not claim otherwise. The obvious message of this text is that you should use your sexuality to marry a woman and have kids…not jerk off in a corner to some degenerate pictures
No, his defiance that was worthy of immediate culling was not continuing his brother's lineage despite explicit direction to so. I am not disagreeing in any way that masturbation or lust of the eyes are both sins.
strawmanning
larping
Explain. Don't throw out words like this at random.
Furthermore try to use a search engine to see that this is the origin of the word 'onanism'.
You know..there's a reason for that.
I am aware of the popularity and consolidation of your opinion, that does not change my disagreement with you. Our opinions on the matter both indicate the same course of action as proper, at least for unmarried men – as I assume we both are.

It's been nearly a week now, I've not been tempted greatly. I've only had one erection that wasn't morning wood and was more than 25% and it was probably not even quite 50%. Whenever I feel tempted I remind myself of the life with God I want, and that my immorality cannot coexist with the life I need. I want to make it for good this time, to stop playing the harlot with my desires.

Cameron Jackson
Cameron Jackson

Daily reminder this is what happens when you fap

And don't any of you even dare to say it's not like this.

But He was wounded for our transgressions,
He was bruised for our iniquities;
The chastisement for our peace was upon Him,
And by His stripes we are healed.
Isaiah 53:5

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Camden Howard
Camden Howard

Let us consider one has been a porn addict for ten solid years, jerking off basically daily for the entire decade, so it the habit is deeply ingrained. However, throughout Lent one cuts it down to once a week, then since the beginning of Holy Week one remains chaste. Three questions:

1) Is witnessing pornographic content without masturbating and choosing not to revisit it a grave or mortal sin?

2) Is typing a porn site's URL into the address bar but not actually visiting it a grave or mortal sin?

3) Is witnessing pornographic images whilst browsing for other content online a grave or mortal sin?

William Clark
William Clark

1) Is witnessing pornographic content without masturbating and choosing not to revisit it a grave or mortal sin?
Seeing pornographic content by accident is of course not a sin, unless you feel aroused, in which case it is most definitely a grave sin. Staring at pornographic content for arousal at all is no different from masturbating to it.

2) Is typing a porn site's URL into the address bar but not actually visiting it a grave or mortal sin?
Why would you even do that? You're just tempting yourself. It's not a grave sin since you don't carry it to its purpose, but it's just stupid and still a sin. Don't do it.

3) Is witnessing pornographic images whilst browsing for other content online a grave or mortal sin?
Depends. Do you get aroused or not?

Jordan Campbell
Jordan Campbell

Yes, the arousal occurred. I will confess either today or tomorrow. Thank you.

Austin Gray
Austin Gray

You're welcome.
Avoid pornographic content, especially if you can't help but feel arousal.
Pray the Jesus Prayer, or a Rosary chaplet, or read a chapter of the Gospel, whenever you feel tempted.

Jason Phillips
Jason Phillips

We have to watch the CP in order to figure out who's in it. Otherwise, you're deleting evidence.

Jackson Rivera
Jackson Rivera

The more you write the more I get the feeling you're just baiting or you desperately look for a dispute.
I've already explained.
He chose to waste the seed. He chose not to continue the lineage despite being ordered to do so. Yes, he was punished for that - for disobeying. That does not imply anyone else doing the same will be punished in the same manner as he was…if that's what you think I am implying - I am not.
However the analogy is when a guy sits at home, jerks off to pixels, does not go out to even talk to girls. He throws the seed on the floor just as Onan did. It does not matter he actually had sex with the woman. He wastes the seed.
I am not saying God will kill people who masturbate.. I am saying this is a good analogy and that's why the word onanism exists - that is a fact, look it up big brain nibba.
I am aware of the popularity and consolidation of your opinion, that does not change my disagreement with you.
That's the strawman. I say 'this is the origin'>>>Yeah it is the origin but you're brainlet because I disagree. kek.
impregnate a woman, do not waste the seed
Lol he was not punished for wasting seed on purpose he was punished for disobeying God.
Are you serious? This is why I call you larping as big brain nibba… making assumptions about things I did not write down, agreeing on most things…well except:
Man you just cannot draw any analogy from that why do you do that. Why did other people did so??? Just why do you even point it out????
Why do you care so much about me pointing that out? lol

Don't throw out words like this at random.
Tell me which part of you being triggered by my post is not a useless strawman serving nothing and larping and I'll gladly take back my accusation.
Show me where I wrote 'fapping killed him'or something of the sort to justify your 'disagreement' - on whatever you think we disagree.

that does not change my disagreement with you
What exactly is the disagreement? All I said was a plain fact about the origin of the word onanism. And that it is so because you can draw this conclusion from the story - and people did.

Lucas Scott
Lucas Scott

the sin was disobeying God, who commanded Onan to impregnate the woman.

Show me where exactly I denied that. Quote me.

his direct defiance is what got him killed.
Show me where I claimed that it was not the defiance that got him killed. Quote me on that again

All right either you're baiting or you're just slow.
I was not talking about why he was killed at all. I was talking about origin of the word….because the story does point in th 'fapping is bad' direction
You chime in making assumptions without actually reading my posts, throw insults and then 'Oh no why do you call me a larper?????'

Noah Allen
Noah Allen

lost again

Anthony Hill
Anthony Hill

Failed after about 2 weeks

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Levi Cooper
Levi Cooper

Have to give it another go, mates. It's in you, you can break this. Story time again: I've posted ITT under same ID before, so you can look them up. Today, this morning in fact, I started edging about as hard as you can edge, twice. BUT, I just refused, mentally and physically to finish the dirty deed (meaning everything was switched off and the pants were zipped back up.) Then I went to work, came back, very exhausting day, and filthy, so I was in the tub WITH THE LAPTOP but didn't even want to relapse, although I went through all the mechanisms to do so, minus the touching of myself. Could barely view the pornography, in fact, couldn't really stand it. (There's a bit of waifuism in this story, a good portion of my total lack of interest in relapsing consisted of "the waifu doesn't deserve this nonsense." Wonders of actually good writing. Also did my workouts all for her after washing up and getting out of the tub.) Anyways, the long and short of this little blogpost are that my post from earlier here works, because it gives you one deuce of a momentum boost. YOU DON'T WANT TO LOSE. The idea of losing is repugnant in every sense of the word. Obviously I recommend total avoidance of all porn and masturbation. I won't be going back to "test the theory," as it were, I'm counting this as an example of getting lucky as deuce because I played with fire three times in one day and didn't get scorched.

Luke Davis
Luke Davis

I'm on day 69 and the withdrawal symptoms are kicking in hard for a couple of days. While I was able to abstain from lewd thoughts and looking at the many women in their whorish clothes walking the streets, I cannot restrain myself in most instances now. Back to browsing this shitty board more frequently and being less productive overall. Also, in the last two evenings, when I was taking a walk, there were always tears in my eyes and couldn't control it; my thoughts were depressing too. Taking walks - especially in the early spring - is a most-do for me but I cannot show my face in public with teary eyes. Has anyone else the same symptoms? Maybe the teary eyes also come from the sum of realizations how fucked up and degenerate our once Christian civilization has become - really makes me think lately.

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Jaxson Morales
Jaxson Morales

shitty board
This board has helped many, many people find God. Have some respect.

Luke Rogers
Luke Rogers

I have no doubt that even a whore house has helped people find God, that doesn't mean it's worthy of respect.

Ian Harris
Ian Harris

Have some respect
Who? The Vatican 2 pro-Israel Catholicuck mods who turn this board into reddit/cuckchan because they cannot stop jerking off each other in their shitty discord-server?

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Carter Jackson
Carter Jackson

Would you mind elaborating?

Ian Cruz
Ian Cruz

I'M FUCKING DONE
I WILL TAKE ENTIRE CONTROL OVER MY BODY AND I WILL CRUSH THIS SIN WITH FULL POWER
AAAAARGHHHHH HELP ME BRATHAS LEAD ME YOUR PRAYERS FULL OF ENERGY
I FEEL I CAN FINALLY DO IT

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John Foster
John Foster

Would you mind elaborating?
Yes, I do mind because a look at what is legit and gets deleted on this board, and their degenerate Discord-server, and ridiculous justifications are self-evident.

Jack Ramirez
Jack Ramirez

I'm sorry if I came off as strong, but I don't frequent this board all that much, so I don't know what you're talking about in all honesty. Can you expound on those points you mentioned?

Charles Ward
Charles Ward

On day 8 now…things are looking good.

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James Campbell
James Campbell

Pardon, I thought you were deliberately oblivious about it. I'm pretty tired to elaborate on it but I give you a tl;dr:
several Zig Forums boards flooded by redditors, cuckchanners and leftypol-degenerates
Zig Forums gets affected
mods could do a better job at purging but prevail somewhat
after the wave of invaders mods suddenly deleted posts and thread that don't break any rules
mods jerking each other off on the discords
female discord admin and probably female(s) as mods here because
<they delete all the good threads/posts, which would be seen as controversial by your average Churchianity dipshit
don't tolerate anything about the Jewish Question and force you to post it in the "pol-thread", because enmity because Jews and Christian goes against the Zionist Christian narrative that the mods follow
And most importantly:
disabled flags that show denominations

Jason Collins
Jason Collins

Forgot pic related

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Bentley Wood
Bentley Wood

I will admit, as a Catholic I do see some other Catholics are somewhat ignorant of some things, such as that Catholic in the image. I am on the discord however, but I don't see any female mods there.

Juan Nguyen
Juan Nguyen

Tbh /pol helped me accept Jesus and that could DEFINATLEY be called a shitty board. Either way, every now and then I help out cuckchans Zig Forums threads.

Was anyone there to witness the Easter period? Never less than 7 "hurr durr christcuck" threads at a time. The shilling that weekend was just phenomenal!

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Wyatt Ward
Wyatt Ward

So, I don't know if this will help anyone. Been trying for ages. I kept praying to God to cure me of this. Prayed a bunch of different ways, different times finally…

whenever I start to type in a bad web address or start looking at stuff the Jesus Prayer pops into my head. So, I say it, over and over until the temptation pass. It's been working amazingly well because it forces into my consciousness what I'm doing.

Also, the more I listen to the command to repeat the prayer, the stronger the command is at the next instance, making it easier to comply the next time. This makes temptation short-lived and derails it over and over.

I mean, how can you look at porn while reciting the Jesus Prayer? I tried… Everything just wilted and I clicked out, like I should have.

I finally realized the problem is, when I went to sin, I hid from God. Why do that? God forgives us? So, instead, I pray out loud while I begin sinning. As soon as my hand's on my cock, while I pray, I feel immense guilt and finally realize what the heck I'm doing and stop.

I refuse to stop praying, and that has helped me overcome the constant urge to sin. No matter what the urge, I will steadfastly pray aloud the whole time I'm engaging it for God to stop me and protect me from my dumbass self (specifically, by saying the Jesus Prayer in Greek since it makes me think about each word but whatever brings each of us closer to God helps).

Don't know if it'll help anyone else but it's helping me tons. Pray continually- I read that scripture but never got it until now.

Nolan Sanders
Nolan Sanders

Do it for God's sake, not your own good; sorry man, but we are truly worthless scum in too many ways, and only through our adoption as God's children we can achieve something in life; yet, it's gonna be a long and painful journey there, for indeed His burden is light compared to the one which the world would push on our shoulders, but it's not an easy yoke, for temptations all around us at all times in this society.
In spite of that, or to be more precise, because of this bigger challenge of a society actively denying and fighting against God, we ought to give ourselves up to Him and do our best; we will fail over and over, but we must learn from our falls and try to do better next time. Not out of merely human and earthly "motivations", but due to true love, the love which brought god to come into the flesh and die for us on a cross.

Justin Peterson
Justin Peterson

His burden is light compared to the one which the world would push on our shoulders
The love which brought god to come into the flesh and die for us on a cross

Mate there are no doubt millions of christians who would happily be crucified to save humanity, who would egearly give up their lives to "save" everyone. Yet Jesus was the one, the one who gave up everything for us (knowing we are least deserving of it) as son of God. Yet still knows now that fedora tipping neckbeards still mock him, all for our sins.

He had THE hardest burden too bear and we all, will always be found wanting.

Matthew Hughes
Matthew Hughes

Ultimately, it's for everyones' sakes. What is good for God is good for me and my family. I don't understand how your point applied to my post but it isn't wrong.

Isaiah Cooper
Isaiah Cooper

8 days. Still no urges. Eucharist and prayer did the job.

Oh Lord of Hosts, be with us, for we have no other help in times of adversity but thee, oh Lord of Hosts be with us!

Tyler Sanders
Tyler Sanders

Reminder to pray to Saint Michael if you have urges, I feel it works wonders and usually just saying the prayer distracts me from what gave me the urges in the first place.

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Ayden Cox
Ayden Cox

(((They))) put those ads there on purpose.

Jaxon Morris
Jaxon Morris

pray to Saint Michael
No

Levi Collins
Levi Collins

Haha, prottie spotted.

Ayden Kelly
Ayden Kelly

be that one fag that gets panic attacks from wanking
gave into temptation yesterday
mfw going through today
JUST

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Parker Murphy
Parker Murphy

Guys, I'm getting to my wits end. With frustrating regularity I'm having nocturnal emissions, and before you reply know that I've cut down my liquid intake before bed, stopped wearing certain pajamas that I've noticed these events happen more often when I wear, and I've even started wearing my boxers on backwards because many emissions were caused by slipping through that accursed hole in the front (at least, I think that may have been the cause of stimulation). Nothing seem to work effectively. I just passed the 4 month mark of no fap/porn, if that's important. Help!
I will try this, and this too

Julian Walker
Julian Walker

Have both spiritual and temporal motivations in mind. It is not only abuse of God's gift to you (yes, sexuality is a gift) but also clouds your mind and impedes your work.

Pray a lot for purity *every day*. You need to keep fighting. It is hard, but works and so much worth it.

Tyler Bailey
Tyler Bailey

Yeah guys thanks for the tips but im just too weak, im not gonna make it, ever. How long has it been? 7 years? Im just too degenerate. To hell, it seems. Please be better human beings, you others. And thanks for the tips.

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Connor Collins
Connor Collins

11 days. These last two days have been hard, really. I feel very strong urges.
I feel the way I'm dealing with them is wrong (Essentially what's keeping me from doing it isn't because it's sinful, but because I don't want to confess this same sin for the third time), but at least I'm not doing it (Only once I had reached this far).
Pray for me, brothers, please.

Christopher Wood
Christopher Wood

Paul of Tarsus.

Fanatical literal Pharisee who literally butchered and imprisoned Christians by the truckload.

Christ saved him.

King David.

Committed literal physical adultery with another man's wife and then literally murdered said wife's husband in a desperate pathetic attempt to hide his sin.

Christ saved him.

Judges, Kings and people of Isreal

Literally turn away from God and keep sliding into idolatry and what is right in their own hearts, again and again and again no matter how many times God reveals himself through miracles and prophecies and punishes them by delivering them into the hands of their enemies.

Christ keeps saving them again and again and again, no matter how many times this happens. Revelations reveals that the 144,000 is going to be Christ redeeming the Jews even after the crucifixion and their centuries long foray into Babylonian Tamudism and countless evils against the human race.

You.

Faps to interwebz porn for a few years.

<Aw man guyz, I'm sorry. I'm just too far gone. There is just no way God can help me. I'm doomed I tellz ya. DOOOOOOOOMED!!!!!

C'mon now.

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Anthony Jenkins
Anthony Jenkins

a fantastic post , God is great

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Juan Reed
Juan Reed

Don’t know why, yet lately I’ve ruined a lot of good streaks out of boredom/desire to hurt myself and God. Went back into old habits which have been source of awful things and sins in the past.
I ordered a few books on how to better oneself in the everyday battle for sainthood, let’s hope God will help me out in this.

Xavier Ortiz
Xavier Ortiz

Im not saying i couldnt be saved. Its just that i have rejected Him for 7 years now. Im afraid i cant change this course and at some point of my life i realise theres more time spent with this degeneracy than without. How could i keep committing the same sin for years and years and all this time knowing its adultery and still expect to get to Heaven? Matt. 7:21 and so on. Thanks for the encouragement and sorry that i sound overly dramatic but i dont have my hopes too up.

Jaxson Bailey
Jaxson Bailey

Brilliant post. Sometimes whenever I'm feeling blackpilled about my own sin, I just remember that if I have faith then surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord for ever. Christ promised that whoever believes in him shall have ever-lasting life, who am I to call him a liar?

Lincoln Turner
Lincoln Turner

Its just that i have rejected Him for 7 years now.
7 years
Still feels like he's doomed because he fapped alot…

Dude….

I rejected him….

FOR 15+ years!

During those 15+ years I was:

A literal Asatru/neopagan LARPER leading my own literal kindred. Guilty of LITERAL IDOLATRY and DEVIL WORSHIP and leading others away from Christ. I even was even active on Zig Forums /asatru/ and ran the pdf library.

Regularly to semi-regularly got high/tripped off of marijuana, cough syrup, morning glory seeds, motion sickness pills, ecstasy, alcohol.

Masturbated to ever increasingly degenerate porn every day for HOURS a day.

Wasted countless hours in sloth on video games and anime.

Hung out in a circle of degenerate hippies, hipsters, punks, homosexuals, crossdressers and other various members of the far-left.

God has literally turned me life around in just 1 YEAR of being back with him.

Sorry son, but you're going to have to step up your "hopeless reprobate" pity story.

And you know what?

Even if, by some act of God you manage to top me, you're still not hopeless and God still loves you and will take you back and turn your life around..

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Jonathan Evans
Jonathan Evans

God has literally turned me life around in just 1 YEAR of being back with him.

And people keep wondering if its worth it lol, welcome back btw.

Does anyone else have "saving one of (((them)))" on their bucket list or is that just me?

Evan Mitchell
Evan Mitchell

saving everyone is on my bucket list

Leo Flores
Leo Flores

what the fuck? no wonder this board is reddit now

Christopher Watson
Christopher Watson

I can only go a few days without fapping before my balls hurt. Wat do?

Carson Ortiz
Carson Ortiz

Endure the pain. Also stop looking at lewd images whatsoever. Yes anime images count.

Anthony Edwards
Anthony Edwards

DAY 0 AGAIN

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Ryder Walker
Ryder Walker

I haven't read the PDF all the way through but the claim that it'll cure your PMO-addiction is more believeable the farther you get into the book. Thank you to the user who first posted it here.

Oh yeah that thread was a clusterfugg :D of numale. I'm glad that it got spread around a little bit after I made that.

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Aiden Martinez
Aiden Martinez

women are not equal to men
Subordinant yet equal is this so hard to understand?

Easton Richardson
Easton Richardson

Okay okay I'll try. Does it help if i count my progression? If so, its my day 2 going and i think my record is day 14, on 15th i relapsed. It was right after a failure i wrote that first post so i was still quite down but maybe it will work this time

Kayden Brooks
Kayden Brooks

Why won't god provide me with a girlfriend?

Brody Baker
Brody Baker

Two options: 1) God calls you to something else; 2) maybe God already sent her in your life but you did not take the opportunity and let her slide by.
Don’t give up and keep your eyes peeled.

Julian Hill
Julian Hill

How petty and self-centered can you be, its up to you to attract a woman, not God.
Better yourself, be closer to the better you. God gave you potential, so grow.

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Christian Mitchell
Christian Mitchell

Does looking at porn just as bad as masturbating to it?

Jason Hernandez
Jason Hernandez

Yes: looking at porn can lead you to masturbation, gives you a distorted idea of beauty and sexual intercourse, isolates you and causes all kind of chemical unbalances in your brain. And, above all, it's the Devil's iconography. Stay away from it, man.

Matthew Davis
Matthew Davis

Stupid Question So is masturbating to straight porn just as bad as masturbating to Gay porn in God eyes?

Matthew Jackson
Matthew Jackson

In God's eyes, there is no difference

Bentley Scott
Bentley Scott

So does Jesus love us all or only the people who do no fap? If I'm committing the lustful mortal sin of lewd thoughts and fapping does that throw me in with the serial murders?

Carson Powell
Carson Powell

Why do I feel more guilt than?

Nicholas Rogers
Nicholas Rogers

Wait till you continue down the spiral. It'll be traps and fembois and before you realise it you are jerking it off to gay furry porn trying to sate an unending hunger that becomes more and more depraved.

Just avoid it. No porn, no guilt.

Landon Johnson
Landon Johnson

does fapping make me as bad as serial murders?

I wouldn't go THAT far. Depends on wether or not Dante was right about Hell, but your punishment wouldn't nearly be as bad as a serial murderer.

Because you know it's wrong…and I think you suffer from SSA. Seek help friendo. Imo, the best way to curb a porn addiction would be to forgo your internet connection. Take at least 4 weeks off from the Internet and maybe practice some Spiritual exercises to grow closer to God. (Pic related)

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Zachary Collins
Zachary Collins

You’re right, I feel like I’m getting more depraved at the moment and probably going to fall into those categories if I continue

Jacob Ortiz
Jacob Ortiz

Yer will try

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Jonathan Murphy
Jonathan Murphy

Welp. I've suceeded at 70+ days nofap streak, but now I fap almost daily.

I've quit smoking, I've quit drinking, did a big diet, but quitting fapping is literally harder than those three.

May lord have mercy on me

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Nicholas Long
Nicholas Long

Can confirm. After much porn usage seeing revealing women did nothing to me, when in my younger days just slightly immodest clothing was provocative.

It was not impotence going on, but porn addiction.

Dominic White
Dominic White

that missed opportunity feel

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Caleb Edwards
Caleb Edwards

Just went 5 days. Wanted to winnie the pooh everything that moved.

Luckily, I just got a medal of Maximilian Kolbe, who is the patron of addicts, so hopefully his intercession will help in future.

This actually helped me massively in getting off of it for so long (I didn't actually consciously go no fap): youtube.com/watch?v=ihWxOtHilQ4

Julian Peterson
Julian Peterson

I failed again.

Is there a decent way to combat urges?
Like, I know staying busy and stuff helps but really eliminating urges would really help.

This.

After a month of Nofap, walking down the streets and seeing girls in hotpants can be very…err, troubling.

Xavier Martinez
Xavier Martinez

Mate jogging is always a trouble now. Very hard to concentrate on running when too busy trying not to "spearhead" down the track.

Thing is I'm not sure how to feel about this. On one hand it may be true and I have missed out, but on the other hand, had it been maybe years ago then I would never have been the man required to make it work to begin with.

Lucas Brooks
Lucas Brooks

day 36, 37 maybe. for holy week i didn't use any of my sites, just read theology stuff. i really don't know what happened to me, but the images/random porn that used to trigger me really has no effect. haven't had a wet dream in maybe a week. still dead dick, sucks. still have to finish the hackbook as well. God bless you all

Sebastian Adams
Sebastian Adams

All will go according to God's plan for you regardless; period. Trust him.

Lucas Reed
Lucas Reed

didn't count but it's around 5th day, my previous lasted for around 7 days

nice pic

started reading it on saturday
the temptation has been going down ever since

make sure you're not projecting
the book says there are no withdrawal pains
blue balls is a myth

really makes you think
and i worried that wishing my life away, binge fapping, reckless driving, trying to keep up with my buddies' drinking, and destroying my relationships with anxiety and desperation, spending couple of years not knowing how to properly prepare for confession was enough to keep me in hell forever

good advice
some time ago we started to do this prayer at the end of almost every mass and everything seems to be getting better

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Hunter Perez
Hunter Perez

St. Mary of Egypt really needs a lot more love in this thread.

She is literally the saint of chastity, dealing with the struggles and temptations of lust and the flesh, and against demons.

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Christian Hernandez
Christian Hernandez

Now that I have some data on how long I can keep up a nofap streak, and about how many days on average I'm confident I can get past my previous longest streak of 20 days. Having a habit tracker app helps me a lot. I'll pray for you all. :)

Hunter Bell
Hunter Bell

Asians are so /fa/

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William Sullivan
William Sullivan

Careful how much data you are keeping lol.

Family/freinds walk in room and see mountains of graphs, pictures, motivational buzzwords; promtley freak out thinking you're some flatearth tier nutter.

In a panic you try to scream the truth at them: "IT STOPS ME FROM WANKING!"

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Ryder Kelly
Ryder Kelly

Any fellow brothers who are cursed with a foot fetish here? Spring is finally getting started here and I have started to see signs of sandals and flip-flops about. Truly a troubling time.

Charles Perez
Charles Perez

Keep your head up m8… literally

Liam Lewis
Liam Lewis

Subordinant yet equal is this so hard to understand?
They aren't equal to men in any way. Women were, are and always will be below men.

Noah Price
Noah Price

spot the muslim

Hudson Harris
Hudson Harris

For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief.

Michael Thompson
Michael Thompson

you're kidding right?

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Andrew Evans
Andrew Evans

Where exactly have you got this idea from? Men and women are equal, not the same, but equal.

This is why woman was made from man, instead of dirt like all other creatures.

Juan Cook
Juan Cook

I totally agree. I quit smoking, but quitting fapping has been almost impossible for me. I can only go at most a few days at a time before breaking down again.

Michael Martinez
Michael Martinez

Take heart and look at it this way: you have successfully conquered that one vice and you will eventually do the same for this sexual one. How many times did you stumble when trying to quit smoking? Drinking? Reflect and you will see that there were times that you gave in, or that you struggled immensely against urges. You guys can do it!

Anthony Miller
Anthony Miller

spot the prot

Jack Lopez
Jack Lopez

Nice try, Achmed, but every Christian (across all denoms) knows women are subordinate but equal. Only filthy mudslimes treat their women like they are lesser beings.

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Hunter Perez
Hunter Perez

spend hour and a half staying up looking at porn
snap out of trance and come straight here
Feels bad to think I would've gone longer if I wasn't so tired. Keep me in your prayers, anons.

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Colton Lee
Colton Lee

spend hour and a half staying up looking at porn
snap out of trance and come straight here
I know that feel fellow Christanon, I no longer have porn addiction by the Grace of God and I definetly don't miss that, but it took work to get here. The Bible says, faith without works is dead. You need to flex that willpower muscle of yours and flee from sin. You know how God told Cain that sin is crouching at the door, and that he must overcome it? Well, Cain let sin get the better of him, and he's paying for it in hell. Don't let that happen to you.

Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone will come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul? Or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" (Matthew 16:24-26)

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Luis Jenkins
Luis Jenkins

knows women are subordinate but equal
That doesn't make any sense, but nice try with the mental gymnastics. It is a sad reality that actual Christians are thought of those mudslimes when they actually hold on to biblical values and the perfect law of God. Women are more than happy to be submissive helpers to their husbands, only because your brain has been infected with the pozz doesn't change it.

Aiden James
Aiden James

when they (muslims) actually hold on to biblical values and the perfect law of God.

Musdlime confirmed, begone THOT no one will believe your lies.

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Hudson Roberts
Hudson Roberts

when they actually hold on to biblical values and the perfect law of God.

tfw the Taqiyya goes badly and everyone sees your true mudslime colors

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Brayden Powell
Brayden Powell

when incel larper meets actual Christians

Alexander Gutierrez
Alexander Gutierrez

spend hours watching porn today
in place of studying
in place of going outside and socializing
even skipped 2 meals
JUST winnie the pooh MY LIFE UP

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Adam Morales
Adam Morales

I think I should've worded myself better. What I meant is that Christians that abide by the Law they are compared to or though of as mudslimes.

Cooper Walker
Cooper Walker

Now it is day 80 and I am going to explode. Yesterday, I watched porn for the first time in weeks and felt utterly disgusted by it, but after watching I got an extreme surge in my libido and have a sexual rage for almost 20 hours now. While not thinking of masturbating, I seriously consider to fornicate as soon as I get the chance.

Despite that, all the productive habits I tried to acquire I neglected. Barely writing applications, learning guitar, reading the Bible - I started to read it daily again, but not 20 pages daily because it is too tiring -, not keeping with the things up to date that interest me, completely stopped excercising and barely eating because I don't feel hungry. The only positive is that I socialize way more often than I used to, but use it as an excuse to waste my time.

Does anyone of you have any kind of advice on this matter? Feeling like if this rage isn't going to stop I am going to do something very stupid.

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Noah Wright
Noah Wright

how do we recover from earth shattering relapses like this ?

Im at the point where the rabbithole sucked me so hard in i started compulsively fetishizing diabolic porn addiction humaliation meta porn.

How can i confess to having masturbated to devilworship shit for 2 months straight since my last confession, having the rest of my life consumed by any vice immaginable on top of it. Started reading into occult garbage, was being a prick toward my peers, disrespect parents. I will burn so hard for this.

Im so far gone.

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Mason Lopez
Mason Lopez

I'm in the same spot, brother; just feeling like giving up.
But at the same time, I know how this displeases God; if I will do it, it's not for me but for Him.

Aaron Young
Aaron Young

That's Satan trying to trick you into giving up, and your own sinful nature trying to find any excuse not to fully accept God's grace. I know that feeling, I've felt it very much today, but we simply can't give in. We can't let our sin define us, it has no power if we trust fully in God.

Juan Perry
Juan Perry

The only way to cure it is to kill your internet connection, friend (that means computer, vidya, and smarty phone). It will be tough (most drug withdrawals are) but with God you can pull through.

I believe in you.

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Levi Allen
Levi Allen

Sounds tough, I'll pray for you. Also, how do you spend most of your time? Do you have a job/school?

Parker Nelson
Parker Nelson

Use that rage to lift.

Sebastian Nguyen
Sebastian Nguyen

Thanks man.
Also, how do you spend most of your time?
I spent most of my time going for walks, browsing the internet, or talking to friends and acquaintances. Sometimes reading the Bible, but when I become melancholy I can barely concentrate enough to read it.

Do you have a job/school?
Yeah, I have a job which I do only on two up to three days a week but only a couple hours a day. And I am currently a college student but don't plan to continue and search for other alternatives and am sending application after application but I only receive rejections or silence. I only visit the lectures which I am interested in, which is only one. It is very certain that my problem is mainly that I am a) not properly occupied, b) socially frustrated because I am too autistic to make any lasting friendships and c) incredibly sexually frustrated because I cannot attract a woman since I am very blunt and have as good as no finesse on how to talk and treat women delicately - it is even more frustrating because I know I look good and am a very loving man, but the infinite layers of defense walls and cynicism make me only repulsive from the get-go. Since I am too retarded (or too slow) to actually come up with solutions for all the (social) problems I have, it makes me so frustrated and sad that I'd rather an hero than withstand the decade long psychological torture I have to endure.

Did and considering to join a fight club as well, but it won't fill out my time out and the women in the gym (or fight club) kill me inside.

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Zachary Wood
Zachary Wood

Matthew 18: 21-22:

21 Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? 22 Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.

God's standards for us mere mortals is to be infinitely forgiving of one another. Imagine how forgiving our all perfect and all merciful and just God is towards you in comparison.

Jaxon Lewis
Jaxon Lewis

You guys might find this silly, but it's been working for me:

I always use a red "I BELIEVE IN JESUS" wristband on my left wrist. Whenever I feel the urge to fap, I look at my wrist and I remember Christ died a horrible death for our sins and I resist the urge.

I haven't fapped in 20 days, my personal record.

Brody Wright
Brody Wright

a few days ago i fell back massively into the sin [of masturbation] and I spent about 4 hours or so doing so
during that at one point I think that I was looking at loli or something
I don't think I've done such thing in a long while and I feel awful about it and never intend to do it again

how do I confess it? Is it alright to just say that I committed the sin of masturbation while looking at particularly bad material?
It was only for a short time that I was looking at it

Austin Brown
Austin Brown

Sounds like a great idea. I'll try it out.

Dylan Reyes
Dylan Reyes

Has anyone purchased or been part of a group that did the Conquer Series? Is it worth it at all?

Adam Scott
Adam Scott

I meant to add to this. I took their SAST test and got a score of 13. I feel like total rock bottom right now.
conquerseries.com/sast/

William Powell
William Powell

tfw scored 14

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Luke Bell
Luke Bell

How many levels of sexual depravity r u on?
<13/14
tha's nothin watch this
scores 17

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Thomas Gonzalez
Thomas Gonzalez

Scored 12
Just…

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Oliver Robinson
Oliver Robinson

tfw also scored 14

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Mason Nguyen
Mason Nguyen

successfully overcome masturbation habits, but still wrestle with fairly normal lust for my age
masturbation was only big problem, have quit porn too
still get 11

…rly makes u think

Wyatt Johnson
Wyatt Johnson

Back at week 1. Well, at least I'm now grateful for intense inner and outer conflict with other stuff. I kind of slipped last night and tried looking for 4k direct download sites (as a "challenge", and because my work internet is also extremely fast- big temptation), but after finding that and noticing the depth of how terrible I feel, I realized it's not going to help anything. If I can avoid exposing myself to porn/nsfw stuff out of overconfidence, I should be ok for now.

Scored 11.

To be honest I really dislike for this sort of approach and attitude. The last thing that will help is additional stress, strain and guilt. How can you constantly flagellate yourself and expect things to get better? Pressure and fear make you break before you bend- when you need to "bend" to resist things better in those critical moments when you're on the verge of failure.

Stop feeling bad guys- you're all fine as people. Sexual problems are things you pick up. They never existed when you were a kid and don't usually exist in your sleep. I've hit a 12 month streak twice so I know what I'm talking about

Jacob Sullivan
Jacob Sullivan

This might need to be its own thread but should i feel bad for even fapping? If the Lord has not provided me with a woman/wife i need some release. I understand the sin of pornography but if i dont jerk it at least once a week i am having wet dreams. And they are way more annoying than just having a quick pull to kill the lust.

That feel when God has not provided me with a wife.

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Christopher Martinez
Christopher Martinez

should i feel bad for even fapping?
◄ Matthew 5:28 ►
but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

I too commit this sin, but let's not fool ourselves by questioning whether it's bad or not. My high school taught us that it was good and natural but that was because they hadn't known God's word concerning the matter. I don't know how to masturbate to anything that doesn't resemble the female figure, but even if you could do that it would be better to stop masturbating entirely as opposed to taking different doses of it.

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Camden Anderson
Camden Anderson

Yeah I'm pretty sure they're just trying to sell something. I wouldn't take it too seriously.

Camden Kelly
Camden Kelly

1.5 weeks of nofap
go outside
meet a friend
walk her home
stand next to her home
totally not awkward silence
tryhard not to kiss her
suddenly feel it coming
something drips into my underwear
she's still staring to the side
try to keep it cool, ask what's on her mind
something complicated
displays some concern about my last message to her
i tell her daijobu, then there's some more silence, then i said something like
see you on sunday and go back home

lol wtf is happening to me
is it normal to be leaking after a little excitement after a short period of nofap?

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Cameron Barnes
Cameron Barnes

This. I scored 6 out of 45 and they said I was an addict.

Jacob Lee
Jacob Lee

is it normal to be leaking after a little excitement after a short period of nofap?
Yes, and it is even worse when you have a date and hold hands together because you won't be able to contain your erection and leaking. Remember, your testosterone is running rampant and the coming summer and the many women in the whorish clothing won't make it easier, this is why I recommend you to wear spacious pants and keep your hands in your pockets at all times.

Nathan Wood
Nathan Wood

When you look you wake up the beast again, suffer through it and it will go away.

Lincoln Davis
Lincoln Davis

Hello, do you guys have any general tips and resources? Ever since coming to faith I've been trying to stop, but I haven't been able to go for over a week without masturbating so far… Prayers would be great, too.

Lucas Myers
Lucas Myers

What helped me was making a vow to God, and only He knows what might happen to me if I break it, and the fear of me never wanting it to know keeps me from not doing this grave sin.

Austin Howard
Austin Howard

read this

Chase Parker
Chase Parker

not sure if I should fap once a month to something like glamour because my wet dreams are absolutely vile since I was a degenerate porn addict

I dunno, it kind of feels like killing two birds with one stone. Train myself back onto the pure female form without being given over to degenerate fantasies in my sleep. If these dreams keep up I don't see the point in not fapping.

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Benjamin Thompson
Benjamin Thompson

Yes
gotta admit it was slightly uncomfortable
i assume it'll go away

whorish clothing
doesn't happen where i live
also seeing women doesn't cause my erection as much as that feeling of intimacy

hold hands together
tbh this never happened to me

fap once a month
the helpbook says it makes it worse
why not quit entirely?

Ryan Walker
Ryan Walker

why not quit entirely

for the reasons enclosed in the very post you just responded to

Nolan Moore
Nolan Moore

HOLY HELL PEOPLE, FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS IN THE BOOK AND ESCAPE THE ADDICTION TOTALLY.

I'm editing it currently to fix grammar issues, but my God, if after reading it you have even one struggle, you didn't read it. READ AGAIN, AND FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS.

Joseph Gonzalez
Joseph Gonzalez

what does the book say about controlling your dreams?

Jaxson Torres
Jaxson Torres

Meditate on the Passion of Our Lord, that will fix your thoughts, but they were created by the first visit to porn and drilled in by each subsequent visit, watching more porn and masturbating while destroying your nerves and not allowing your brain to repair will not help.

Bentley Sullivan
Bentley Sullivan

For starters, dreaming isn't a sin but masturbating is.

Samuel Gutierrez
Samuel Gutierrez

My thought/dream life has been so impure lately that I have found it unthinkable to do anything religious lest it should be blasphemed in the process. So I feel pretty screwed right now. Who knew that every day life could be so perilous.

Brayden Jackson
Brayden Jackson

That's pretty much exactly wrong. The sin of masturbation is lustful thought; there is no verse that specifically says "don't pull on it". This sin, if anything, is arguably more intense in a dream setting.

Evan Baker
Evan Baker

I have found it unthinkable to do anything religious lest it should be blasphemed in the process
Other than the Eucharist, why would you care?

But I like praying when I feel completely pure and stuff
The idealized person that never sins who is trying to pray is not you. Admitting you're a sinner includes telling God what you did.

What verse are you pulling? The one where Jesus Christ is talking about fantasizing about women? Cute, but its not conscious unless you're having a lucid dream of the sort.
You know better than trusting something telling you to masturbate either way, since you're biased.

Jaxson Parker
Jaxson Parker

Well, hey at least I'm taking this seriously. Its admittedly a quandary but I don't think its as simple as having gay dreams and then acting like I didn't do anything even though its my own thought process.

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Tyler Brown
Tyler Brown

Its my own thought process
Good point. I suppose I can suggest turning off most of your brain by using the back muscle in order to prevent having dreams, then using the central plexus to wake up when you want.

Evan Walker
Evan Walker

I used to feel like that, do it anyway. Force yourself to pray, think on religious things through the blasphemy. The Lord knows where your heart is in it, and how your mind has been hijacked. You must make the attempt and suffer through what your thoughts will do (but do NOT engage them, either trying to remove them or feeding them, you'll find it easy to do that eventually), and pray and meditate on the Lord despite that.

Lincoln Campbell
Lincoln Campbell

The sin of masturbation is lustful thought

no, that'd be more characterized has having an impure heart. otherwise, everyone is guilty of masturbation under your definition.

Joseph Howard
Joseph Howard

And by your logic, masturbation may as well not be a sin at all.

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Jeremiah Ramirez
Jeremiah Ramirez

…and where do you get this idea? Having an impure heart is a sin; only the pure-hearted can see God.

Masturbation is a mortal sin, but I assume you're a protestant who makes no distinction.

David Morales
David Morales

I thought the same about you when you tried to say sexual dreams were not sinful. Not every sin requires you to put all your heart and mind into it. Its not called the narrow way for nothing. Nonetheless, the sin of masturbation is complex and certainly isn't limited to its mere mechanical presentation.

Jeremiah Brown
Jeremiah Brown

We have IDs you know.
For reference what denomination are you?

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Christopher White
Christopher White

Orthodox fren

Xavier Peterson
Xavier Peterson

Go ask your priest about it.

James Moore
James Moore

i assume it'll go away
It won't. Wait until you have the urge to fornicate rape when you get around 60 days or so. Not trying to discourage you, but prepare you for what is to come. In my case, after 40 days, serious withdrawal symptoms kicked in, during that time I recommend you to not watch nor think anything lewd at all, believe me, I was there and gave into this temptation and porn is the bigger evil compared to masturbation.

Noah Smith
Noah Smith

Nice try, Achmed
Subordinate but equal

This does not make sense at all. If you say two things are different they can no longer be equal.
Just because people will call you names…just like you do here….that does not mean universal equality is a thing. You pull mental gymnastics hoping people will not call you names…then you go calling anyone that does not pull the same mental gymnastics as you as 'Achmed'.
Sad.
Guess what. Your cucked 'subordinate but equal' will be attacked the same way as 'not equal' anyway. It will be attacked ven though it makes no sense at all.

Matthew Sanders
Matthew Sanders

This does not make sense at all. If you say two things are different they can no longer be equal.
If I generate 50$ every week and you generate 100$ every two weeks we are different?

Jaxson Fisher
Jaxson Fisher

(checked)
All are equal under God. But our Lord commands us to give ourselves unto God, for He is the center of our universe. He also commands us as men to live life for our wifes, for we are the center of their universe. They put trust in us because we put our trust in God. God doesn't want us to cheat on our spouse (polygamy is cheating with serious mental gymnastics).

Carson Russell
Carson Russell

Did he just try to use shekels without context as a form of argument?

Camden James
Camden James

tfw nearly 3 months

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Joshua Ramirez
Joshua Ramirez

this discussion is pointless and is using the language of the enemy. It doesn't matter if men and women are "equal", whatever that's supposed to mean. All that matters is that women stay at home, take care of children and stay faithful and supportive of their husband. That's how they are pleasing to God. Whether or not they are "equal" in the humanist sense is irrelevant.

Xavier Mitchell
Xavier Mitchell

months in but I keep opening spoilered images in this website even if I know they're going to be lewd so it doesn't mean anything
other communities feel alien to me or are lewd too
No better time to quit the internet than now.

Lucas Brooks
Lucas Brooks

keep opening spoilered images in this website even if I know they're going to be lewd
just so you know, doing that and browsing certain boards can be putting yourself in a near occasion of sin, which is a sin itself

Adam Kelly
Adam Kelly

had a lewd wet dream last night, but it seemed like a temptation for me to go back to fapping which I won't

Camden Ramirez
Camden Ramirez

Just realized that tomorrow will be one week. This is the longest streak I have ever had. If I can make it a month then it will give me a ton of optimism.

John Garcia
John Garcia

A month's not as hard as it may seem, you'll make it brah

Zachary Hernandez
Zachary Hernandez

the worst part of nofap is the 999999% increase in wet dreams
I've never had one until I began nofap

Kayden Miller
Kayden Miller

Nah, these days a woman should have a source of income. High physical activity is good too

Thomas Russell
Thomas Russell

So when do I get the confidence boost? In day 7 and feel the same as usual

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Jose Peterson
Jose Peterson

these days a woman should have a source of income.
1 Timothy 5:14
I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. Until it becomes the norm for women not to that then ye shall go to college and only have 2 kids.

Christopher Cook
Christopher Cook

same

Cooper Gray
Cooper Gray

nocturnal emissions
I have them every second day now, what do? (21st day of nofap)

Evan Rogers
Evan Rogers

Nothing if you aren't being visited by succubi. Its just a biological process if you're not having sexual dreams.

Hudson White
Hudson White

being visited by succubi
T-those aren't real are they?
Well, I did have a naughty dream and because of that I ejaculated. Although I don't really have any problems with nofap, i.e sexual thoughts, urges to masturbate etc.

Zachary Lewis
Zachary Lewis

So, i just don't get it. It's just this one vice i can't seem to get under control i've started studying the bible, reading apologetic's, lost a ton of weight, but when it comes to this one sin for me in this area. I just can't seem to shake it. I'll make it maybe about 4 -5 days tops. Today, is my first day ima be heading out to an orthodox serbian chruch in my area to see how they do things, and ask the priest there question. But any advice is welcome. Next pride this one vice never goes away.

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Gabriel Ward
Gabriel Ward

Demons are real, but I doubt specific cultural ones are. I've heard it described on a more (imo) believable level is that they insert urges or temptations in front of you.

id personally argue succubi are people trying to externalize their own passions, for instance, i get absolutely wretched women i wouldn't really want to be with in my wet dreams, but are somehow irresistible in the dream.

Nathan Lewis
Nathan Lewis

have you confessed it? with full description of the grip it has on you?

Ian Moore
Ian Moore

No, i've come from a protestant background so the idea of confession is foreign to me, but i'll talk to the priest and see what he says. And report back if i can.

Jacob Barnes
Jacob Barnes

Watch if you haven't, you're suppose to use the energy to do something else, if you're avoiding fapping, evade porn because it goes together with fapping. Remove all porn/lewd material from your life.

Demons are real
They also are casted out by Jesus. Also everyone gets nocturnal emissions.

Brody Butler
Brody Butler

i get absolutely wretched women i wouldn't really want to be with in my wet dreams, but are somehow irresistible in the dream.
That's exactly what happened to me in the dream. She was despicable but seductive.

Jackson Miller
Jackson Miller

to me, it's more a feature of Original Sin than a demon trying to animorph to seduce you or something

David Thomas
David Thomas

So i ran into a video of Louis C.K. and a some obvious actor playing a christian woman. Do yourself a favor, and don't watch the actual sketch since the article i'm linking summarizes it. Also it's Louis C.K., a comedy network, some beautiful woman actor playing a Christians against masturbation, and you can guess what is going to happen. You can tell right away shes just some creepy actor who is enjoying dressing up like a christian.

The part i want to show you is how this christian "joke" became a more insightful than it intended to be.

archive.fo/n461W
thefederalist.com/2017/11/17/christians-masturbation-spokeswoman-old-louis-c-k-video-now-seems-surprisingly-insightful/
In 2017
Louis C.K. has been dominating the sexual harassment news for the past week, after five women came forward in a New York Times story accusing the comedian of sexual harassment and misconduct. According to the accounts, Louis C.K.’s misbehavior came in the form of asking to, or simply proceeding to, masturbate in front of women who often were less prominent colleagues.
Since the story broke, TV and film execs have halted all of Louis C.K.’s works in progress, of which there were many. C.K.’s agent Dave Becky, who is thought to have helped cover up accusations, has been under fire; and C.K. himself has admitted “these accusations are true,” offering a public apology, which has continued to receive scrutiny.

in 2011
At one point, when Louis C.K. says he finds all this funny, Ellen replies, “That’s what’s so sad. That you don’t know the darkness that you’re living.” “No, I know the darkness,” C.K. replies. “You don’t have to live this way,” Ellen says with evangelistic fervor. “There is a life of joy and passion waiting for you, if you just stop hurting yourself.”
“How can you tell people not to masturbate?” Louie says, frustrated. “It’s like telling people not to breathe; it’s not fair.” “Have you ever tried?” Ellen pursues. And on goes the conversation, where it becomes more and more evident that Louie is addicted to a behavior that ultimately brings him only more loneliness and darkness.
Now that we know Louie’s masturbating habit led to grave sexual misconduct, the grim warnings of the faux anti-masturbation spokeswoman sound all the less laughable.

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Alexander Roberts
Alexander Roberts

Not everyone realises theres somthing thats needs tending to. Those with intestines full of worms might say "i feel ok" but wont know until its too late.

Jaxon Evans
Jaxon Evans

I don’t know why, but I masturbated to gay porn for the first time I will admit I have a serious porn problem, please pray for me, I feel like absolute shit that’s going to burn in hell for all eternity and I don’t want to for my porn addiction so please pray for me

Jack Martin
Jack Martin

Whoa mate. YOU FKED UP. You know it and we know it. Just focus on that moment. Why did did you check out that area in the first place? What thoughts led you to get there in the first place?

Take a breath and relax. You broke. We all do. Maybe pray to Him and find out why you looked at the porn at all.

Remember: It is literal blasphemy to think he wont forgive you for this failure. Stay meek, say sorry, and work towards finding out why you were there in the first place.

We all suck one way or another. Just know we at least are trying to help each other get back on track. You are NEVER alone.

Think on that.

Caleb Adams
Caleb Adams

So did you apparently. We put a word filter SPECIFICALLY so people would stop swearing and you avoid it?

John Powell
John Powell

which one did I bypass?

Parker Nguyen
Parker Nguyen

I don't really need to point it out, do I? I mean, what swear word did you include in your post?

637392
That just means you're going to hell for X instead of Y.

David Morales
David Morales

what the fuсk lmao this is what happens when you have female mods

Hudson Stewart
Hudson Stewart

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Isaac Smith
Isaac Smith

No offense but you sound like a hedonist.

Juan Morris
Juan Morris

winnie the pooh
Shit
Nigger
Faggot
Ass
Cunt
Bitch
Bastard
test

Hudson Cook
Hudson Cook

Why does fick translate to winnie the pooh?

Nolan Miller
Nolan Miller

remove all lewd things
Problem is, even when I do (not the other user, but same problem), it comes back.
watch someone play Rome: Total War
growth rate
suddenly imagine random people having sex
get aroused
porn
fap

Oliver Hill
Oliver Hill

orgasms still mess up my hormones
mood and brain chemistry usually go back to normal after a week long pit of depression and anxiety
nearing day 7
excited to be able to enjoy life again
have nocturnal emission
have thinly veiled panic attack at Sunday service
speaking and social skills obliterated
physical energy sapped
appetite is non-existent
time going by in a blur
JUST

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Jackson Nelson
Jackson Nelson

The body also absorbs back unused semen, and you get the nutrients back.

Charles Martinez
Charles Martinez

this is why isn't it funny lol thanks mods you're so funny XD
no seriously this is retarded.

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Charles Torres
Charles Torres

nocturnal emission
I never had these until I took 5-hour energy and ended up with temporary anxiety.
I think they're gone again, but I keep my belt off just in case while sleeping. And, don't sleep on your belly.
I don't mind a filter, I just think it should be something else.

Ethan Hill
Ethan Hill

feel free to delete this super loud webm from your computer any time

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Michael Reyes
Michael Reyes

God doesn't put us into temptation.
To say women are below men is something you take a pride in. God didn't tempt you to that pride. Women are equal, unless you think God judges men with affirmitive action.

Lincoln Long
Lincoln Long

It couldn't convey an iota of the raw anger I feel if it doesn't do damage to your speakers/ear drums. :^)

Isaiah James
Isaiah James

Hey dude I have a most christian idea
If I can't use this one swear word I will use every other one
Take that, mods.

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Logan Cooper
Logan Cooper

Okey doke Satan

Joseph Collins
Joseph Collins

Ear freindly version.

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Nolan Thomas
Nolan Thomas

Women are equal
Equal implies that they're the same. Women are different and have different roles than men.

Eli Mitchell
Eli Mitchell

yes hello is it bad if i absentmindedly touch myself? or if i wake up with a morning wood and touch but not really with the intent of masutrbation nor with lustful thoughts, just the habit? is that a mortal sin? venial? i wanna try stopping this but ive been doing okay on nofap.

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Jayden Bailey
Jayden Bailey

Just over 30 days now lads, if I make it to Saturday I'll have set a new record streak.

Wyatt Cook
Wyatt Cook

how did you get that number, i only got 1

Angel Perez
Angel Perez

Restarting.

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Jose Reyes
Jose Reyes

I got a 10, but I feel like the results may be skewed a bit since there are questions on there that I didn't know how to answer properly; the questionnaire forces a y/n answer even on things I've never done. Particularly on the ones relevant to more deviant activities. I look at porn on my computer sometimes, I'm not some rampaging sex fiend.

Noah Flores
Noah Flores

If you only got a 1, you should be telling us your secrets.

Tyler Perez
Tyler Perez

Good luck, user. You've gone farther than I ever have.

Landon Rogers
Landon Rogers

Oh God, i dont know how start this AGAIN, my will is very fragile and i cant make strong advances in this, i fall very fast, i get a confesion months ago and i fall in one week of getting my confession,

God. I have insulted you a lot, i dont know how start.

But tomorrow, tomorrow i will not do it.

God im horrible :(

Carter Torres
Carter Torres

Cheer up. Just try again.

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Jacob Murphy
Jacob Murphy

fuсk

Kayden Parker
Kayden Parker

wtf? it didn't work for me. is this like that triforce thing on 4chan?

Daniel Edwards
Daniel Edwards

God never gives up on us, neither should we.

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Grayson Barnes
Grayson Barnes

Finally found the courage to start again, I am very much in a dark place at the moment…lot of bad habits and bad kinks, but I am already 3 days in from a routine of three acts of masturbation per day and a sort of hatred for myself which was not healthy and only dragged me down.
There’s even a girl from my past who could come back into my life (even just as a friend, that would help: she was an earnest Christian gal, aware of her issues), so I really am putting all myself into this and soon I’ll go to the sacrament of Reconciliation.
Please, keep me in your prayers, I will do the same with you guys.
God bless you!

Connor Garcia
Connor Garcia

Pray that my no fap is successful this time. Been trying to stay away from porn and other degeneracy.

Nolan Hill
Nolan Hill

On day 10. When do I get the superpowers?

Ethan Gray
Ethan Gray

imagine the people cheering you on..

WOOOOOOOO you go mate! Go get clean, then go get her!

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Jace Myers
Jace Myers

pro tip:

when I'm receiving the assault of lewd thoughts, I say to myself "demons out". Then they cease.

works pretty well for the moment..

John Hill
John Hill

doing it for the power not the freedom
Weak!

Christopher Flores
Christopher Flores

doing it for the power not the freedom

Jacob Johnson
Jacob Johnson

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Nolan Murphy
Nolan Murphy

If you're committed to total celibacy as I am then I recommend taking very hot baths. It will decimate your sperm count.

Ryan Russell
Ryan Russell

Well, you are going to get the powers after more or less 3 to 4 months of detachment from porn and masturbation.

Wyatt Peterson
Wyatt Peterson

if you are celibate why does the sperm count even matter, they are not going anywhere.
sperm count affects libido in any way?

Jaxson Baker
Jaxson Baker

anyway the point would be to conquer the libido through mental resolve, using tricks beats the purpose of trying to achieve mind over matter.

Sebastian Wilson
Sebastian Wilson

Ok guys day 5 here
Does the pain do away if i ignore it?

Dominic Foster
Dominic Foster

quick tip:
-if you are about to lose to the urge like there is nothing you can do and the flesh is completely dominating your will, leave home and go for a walk.

-for emergency only.
If you are about to fail and there is no other way, fap without porn.
You will still sin, you will still feel terrible but the grasp of porn on you will grow weaker and weaker over time, thus removing one major source of impure thoughts.
If you can remove porn entirely, forever, from your life, the no fap struggle will be so much easier.
(I'm not advocating sin, I'm just saying it is limiting damage to your mind. Morally speaking it's just as sinful and wrong)

Adrian Campbell
Adrian Campbell

to mitigate nocturnal emissions and mind over matter is just some Nietzsche bs. The point is I'm not going to start having children in the end times which is something Jesus spoke against. All other forms of sexual expression are sin. I'll take whatever tricks I can to suppress lust.

John Davis
John Davis

I disagree. Fapping to imagination can be hazardous because your mind will wander possibly back to your worst proclivities. I've decided if I do eventually break down I'm looking at some models just to give myself something natural to focus on.

Brody Bell
Brody Bell

along with many other dark and devient fetishes, I am literally in (spiritual not kinky) bondage as a slave to a very intense and awful form of porn that's seemingly crept into the mainstream stuff while still having elements that could be considered fringe. If it isn't explicitly embedded in the videos in the first place, there are very strong undertones of rape, degrdeation, extreme objectification and dehumanisation of and violence against beautiful women and girls in these videos. It's at least distinct from vanilla vids which sit alongside them in terms of prominance on the tube sites and it is seemingly becoming more acceptable to watch and be aroused by this sort of stuff. The saddest thing is that women and girls are now growing up watching porn, seeing this kind of stuff which is forming their sexuality and by extension their view of the world and will be if not already wanting to conform to these twisted and perverted forms of sex and arousal. Not all girls I'm sure but a lot more than it used to be. This is great as a man if you're a hedonist who is able to block out his conscience, pretend God doesn't exist and that there isn't a proper God-given order for the nature of sex, but I know that's a dead end with the worst fate. The nature of the sexuality and violence in these vids and it's grip on me is seemingly demonic. I feel like a total slave to it and can't seem to stop because of how deep in I am. I end up skipping work for it, skipping quality time with friends, letting people down over arrangements and deadlines again and again.

Henry Foster
Henry Foster

Convinced a friend to stop fapping today.
I made the world a little better.

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Jaxon Jenkins
Jaxon Jenkins

Hm, really makes you think.

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Michael Foster
Michael Foster

bonus keke

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Levi Bailey
Levi Bailey

Is that real?

Jace Walker
Jace Walker

I recently got banned for a fairly common intentional misspelling of a wordfilter phrase.
The post was from nearly a month ago, I believe before the filter was even in effect, at least I didn't know about it.

Anthony Lewis
Anthony Lewis

Two days. I only lasted two Winnie darn Poohing days again. Guys, I need some serious help. I put these barriers up, but when I get horny nothing stops me from tearing them down. I hate this.

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Grayson James
Grayson James

I would suggest no touching your dick at all while sitting at the computer. Unless you are at the computer in the nude or without pants, you have a least one barrier to prevent a relapse. As soon you feel your hand moving to your pants, immediately get up and go outside. Get air and get moving. Stay outside for at least 10 minutes until the urge disappears. I know, easier said than done.

Aiden Cox
Aiden Cox

I suggest you try to avoid the internet generally, but when you get horny just read the gospel and pray.

Samuel Miller
Samuel Miller

you can do it, with Him; you can fail, you can cry and be tempted to quit, but you can start again. I failed many times, now I am doing a bit better: took me "only" four months, but now I am giving my best and I'll do it for Him.

Easton Powell
Easton Powell

13 weeks

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Bentley Baker
Bentley Baker

Cut off your internet.

Desperate times call for desperate measures

Dominic Wilson
Dominic Wilson

Hi guys. No matter how many times you fall, God loves you and so do I. Just remember:
==READ THE BOOK==
Stay humble and rely on God's strength to carry you and not your own.
LOVE.
Pray, fast, and give alms.
Also I know not everyone here is Cathlodox but confession really does help and IS biblical. I'll leave you with a quotation from James 5: KJV for all my Baptist friends :)
7 Be patient therefore, brethren, unto the coming of the Lord. Behold, the husbandman waiteth for the precious fruit of the earth, and hath long patience for it, until he receive the early and latter rain.
8 Be ye also patient; stablish your hearts: for the coming of the Lord draweth nigh.
9 Grudge not one against another, brethren, lest ye be condemned: behold, the judge standeth before the door.
10 Take, my brethren, the prophets, who have spoken in the name of the Lord, for an example of suffering affliction, and of patience.
11 Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy.
12 But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath: but let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation.
13 Is any among you afflicted? let him pray. Is any merry? let him sing psalms.
14 Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord:
15 And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.
16 Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
17 Elias was a man subject to like passions as we are, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain: and it rained not on the earth by the space of three years and six months.
18 And he prayed again, and the heaven gave rain, and the earth brought forth her fruit.
19 Brethren, if any of you do err from the truth, and one convert him;
20 Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins.

Don't give up guys, IT DOES GET BETTER. I'm praying for all of you.

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Blake Campbell
Blake Campbell

So when do the urges usually hit? On day 14 and haven't had really any desire to relapse but I also don't feel any more confident or anything. Also I would do it almost every other day for multiple hours, so me getting this far seems like a miracle.

Charles Hernandez
Charles Hernandez

(chacked)
me getting this far seems like a miracle.
It is, I usually started getting the urge as soon as I made the decision.

Brandon Rivera
Brandon Rivera

yeah, i'm still perma-banned from this board, used to be my favorite place on the whole internet. i even made 3 of the banners still used today. feels bad to see this board turn into such trash.

Justin Rodriguez
Justin Rodriguez

may God bless you richly lad

Landon Nguyen
Landon Nguyen

O Holy Martyr Ephraim, look with compassion upon my distress and, as thou didst deliver the young man from his cruel addiction, so also pray for me that our Lord and Saviour, for Whom thou didst witness unto death, may deliver my soul from captivity to Satan. For I am in cruel bondage and suffering because of my weakness and sinfulness. Beseech our merciful Lord that, as He didst lead the Hebrews forth from slavery in Egypt and called His people out of Babylon, as He delivered the youth from the demon, and freed the daughter of the Canaanite woman, and healed the woman taken in adultery and restored the Samaritan woman, that He may also set me free and deliver me from the demon of addiction***. I confess that I have fallen into this evil through my own slothfulness and weakness, but have mercy and pray for me, O saint and martyr of God.

A short prayer to be said continually by one who is struggling with addiction to drugs or alcohol***:
O Lord, Jesus Christ, through the prayers of Thy Holy Martyr Ephraim, have mercy on me and deliver me from this cruel bondage.

***Note: that this could potentially be changed based on whatever one’s specific need might be, e.g. depression, disease, passion, etc.

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Ryan James
Ryan James

“Are you a sinner? Do not become discouraged, and come to Church to put forward repentance. Have you sinned? Then tell God, ‘I have sinned.’ What manner of toil is this, what prescribed course of life, what affliction? What manner of difficulty is it to make one statement, ‘I have sinned’? Perhaps if you do not call yourself a sinner, you do not have the devil as an accuser? Anticipate this and snatch the honor away from him, because it is his purpose to accuse. Therefore, why do you not prevent him, and why do you not tell your sin and wipe it out, since you know that you have such an accuser who cannot remain silent? Have you sinned? Come to Church. Tell God, ‘I have sinned.’ I do not demand anything else of you than this. Holy Scripture states, ‘Be the first one to tell of your transgressions, so you may be justified.’ Admit the sin to annul it. This requires neither labor nor a circuit of words, nor monetary expenditure, nor anything else whatsoever such as these. Say one word, think carefully about the sin and say, ‘I have sinned.'”

+ St. John Chrysostom, On Repentance and Almsgiving, Homily 2

Levi Ward
Levi Ward

Simply beautiful…I am Catholic, but I do not shy away from admiring the Eastern Church.
Day 7 for me, please pray I'll be able to see a priest soon, for I need to speak to him about the many fears and sins which have led me far away from Him.

Hunter Stewart
Hunter Stewart

14
I just want to end my life. I know I've had a problem for years, I didn't need some test to confirm it. I write smut online because it seemed like the only intimate relationship I have with people, and they really like it, because I'm exceptionally good at it. Now I'm entangled by implicit obligations. I have 0 self worth to begin with, porn and writing was and is self medication for depression and anxiety, and it's held me back from getting better for years. I've tried to stop a few times but I just gave in because it seemed like my only comfort. Very often I write smut even when I don't have a mood just because I want someone to tell me "well done." Of course this is pathetic, and when I try to stop, some part of me ALWAYS whispers "this is all you are good for, you will never escape, never have a girlfriend or anything" and I have no response. My life HAS totally stagnated for the past seven years. I cry out to God occasionally but my will isn't there. I resent God and I don't know how to stop that either, if He didn't exist then I could just kill myself and not have to deal with anything anymore.

Matthew Parker
Matthew Parker

You could talk to the mods in meta, maybe they can revoke it, it's a harsh ban.

Ryan Howard
Ryan Howard

Quitting smoking is easier than quitting fapping because society isn't constantly shoving cigarettes in your face 24/7. Blaming society is usually gay, but it makes living virtuously far more difficult than it ought to be.

Noah Morales
Noah Morales

Day 112
Still a faggot

Easton Thompson
Easton Thompson

Nothing wrong with having to bear a cross in life…just avoid committing sins of sodomy and live a good Christian life.

Evan White
Evan White

Again day one, ehh… its just too hard, but couple weeks ago I managed to get it to 6 days!
Actually that seems like a very cool idea but you know… some neets here are sitting at their pc at like 2am

Kevin Hill
Kevin Hill

OI! READ THIS ,M8S

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Robert Taylor
Robert Taylor

good lad

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Carter Morales
Carter Morales

I would say quitting fapping is more difficult just on the basis that you can fap at a moment's notice but to smoke you at least need to buy the cigarettes. You don't even need to load up porn to fap. In fact, you can literally do it in your sleep, which is horrifying.

Easton Watson
Easton Watson

In fact, you can literally do it in your sleep, which is horrifying.
wet dreams arent fapping the occur automatically

Jacob Cruz
Jacob Cruz

we've been over this

Carter James
Carter James

For crying out loud. If there is going to be that much effort into making a massive wall of text, can they at least proof read the thing first? It even repeats a whole paragraph, not to compound the message but just from copy/paste.

Other than that, fun read.

Colton Rodriguez
Colton Rodriguez

sadly I gave in to it after 2 days of resisting. Instantly I felt exhausted, irritable, and that I let the Lord and Mother Mary down. This is it, I've had it. I'm done failing. I can literally feel the difference, its night and day. I need to do this for Him.

Caleb Perez
Caleb Perez

You need to build up willpower, willpower is like a muscle, the more you flex it, the stronger it will become. I also ran into a very similar temptation recently (thanks to an image from this board, but the mods cleaned it up), but I managed to overcome it through sheer willpower, however this took time for my willpower to develop and won't happen overnight. I say this not to discourage you, but to encourage you so you may persist, because I came to this point through persistence.

One technique to use is when you're about to fall into temptation, take some time off immediately and breath. Flee from sin. Breath until the thought passes, you can also do this for other temptations like compulsion to surf the internet, etc. In fact, on my work computer I have blocked many websites in the hosts file because out of compulsion I would check those websites but after about a month of blocking the sites I have stopped and can visit these sites on a predefined time slot. You need to do a similar thing with your addiction.

tl;dr willpower is a muscle, exercise it by breathing/meditation, also meditate by reading God's Word

Hudson Reyes
Hudson Reyes

Prjoects help too. Take a moment and think about things that you have been meaning to get to but never got around to it. Need to paint the house? Or start that novel you thought about? Well put it on the list. Then when you get the urge, stop what your doing, get up, look at your list and get to it.

If successful then not only have you avoided fapping which you already know will make you feel like crap after, but you have now accomplised something of substance which in turn will help give that "positive reinforcement" feeling, helping you to keep going.

Currently using "learn Violin" myself, much to the neighbors displeasure.

Oliver Gomez
Oliver Gomez

Does fap without ejaculating count as fap or can I still count from the day I've started?

Bentley Young
Bentley Young

It absolutely counts. Confess and repent, also your focus should be on pleasing God, not stroking your ego with numbers

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Juan Nguyen
Juan Nguyen

I'll be honest, it only ever happens when I have my phone with me in bed or the bathroom. I'm going to stop bringing it around me, and I'll have a photo of Christ as my wallpaper to remind me to do it for Him. I've got a lot to do, so thank you for the advice. I'll focus on work

Nicholas Stewart
Nicholas Stewart

Dont cut me down, youre confusing the guy.
Its impossible to stop semen drainage at night

Liam Gray
Liam Gray

I am finally ready to break the addiction one and for all tonight, after I rest this day. There will be a final session, just to view the torture once more, and then rest (I have relieved myself of the illusions of enjoying it at all, and I truly hate it). I have been getting ready for this day since October 23rd of 2017, trying every method and preparing myself, thoroughly understanding the porn addiction trap, and now it's finally time. Pray for me brothers, because this is it. It's kind of like learning to ride a bike, you fail a lot at first then you're doing it without effort. I'm making this post and writing in my journal to solidify this event in my life, May 1st 2018 (a day for the glory of my Mother according to Spirit) will be my first day of actual purity and freedom.

GOALS:
1) Never to look at porn, erotic graphics, or any such degeneracy (or media that contains it) ever again if avoidable. I will not watch TV (already don't), watch music videos, listen to music if I can help it, etc. "I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me." (Psalm 101:3)
2) To never again be trapped by anything base and be attached to it mentally as this, to the point where I nearly kill myself multiple times or abandon God. "Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." (Phil 4:8)
3) Never to get married, or have a girlfriend, or any sort of relationship, even possibly never having a female friend. I have sinned too much over these years of my life (the majority of my short less than 2 decade life I have been addicted or involved in this degeneracy, and I must repay) with that kind of thing, and I refuse to be debased further by marrying. I can never say I am pure, but I can say I am virginal in my account to the Lord. I can't think of myself marrying after this, so I am giving that to the Lord entirely. ''"For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it." (Matthew 19:12)

In addition to these simple goals (I have prepared for them already, and it's easy now), I have set myself a life path, and prepared my days for at least the next decade. I suggest all of you do the same, because having a vision and a path through this living hell that is being in this fallen world makes everything fall in line easily. Attached are some books to assist anyone who would read them, and God bless.

PS: Please read the Kreutzer Sonata and apply it to your being, it helps. And yes all of these books directly help in one way or another with getting out of this addiction and this filthy hole that is PMO.

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James Sanchez
James Sanchez

Equal implies that they're the same
you realize how stupid you sound?

Nathan Morales
Nathan Morales

I take hot baths. Haven't jejaculated in over a month so far.

Ethan Taylor
Ethan Taylor

Mfw I failed after almost 10 days
Mfw I didn't really want to fap
I'm noticing a pattern of staying up late and then succumbing.
I got the feeling that if I can skip staying up past 12 this would be a lot easier.

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Noah Evans
Noah Evans

I have sleeping pattern troubles too, but there's ways to fix it.
Sleep with your curtain or blind open if you're on the equator facing side of the house, or the east side. The sun will wake you up in the morning. If I don't do this I sleep for 4-6 extra hours.

Get up and eat. have breakfast, this helps your body set your clock.
Just don't stay up past 12. Don't. Getting up earlier, AND setting your body clock with the Sun will help with that too because you'll get tired properly.

Logan Ramirez
Logan Ramirez

It is sin Christanon. God reads the heart. I know you say this because purging this seems insurmountable, but truly I tell you that anything is possible in the Name of Jesus Christ. We are praying for you, keep trying.

Ian Wilson
Ian Wilson

Read these verses a few days ago:

You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds;
Ephesians 4:22-23

Reminded me that, not only are these desires sinful, they are also deceitful. If the temptation to watch porn and fap was honest about what it delivers, it would not be nearly so tempting.
Keeping this in mind has helped me.

Day 17. Please pray for me.

Michael Lee
Michael Lee

Finally managed to break through the 90 day mark. Unfortunately I didn't manage to abstain from porn. From now on I will live on monk mode and only break it once I am married to my future wife.

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Xavier Fisher
Xavier Fisher

Was the pic accurate? Are you superman now?

Jaxon Scott
Jaxon Scott

Is there a way to masturbate to nothing? I just don't want to have sexual dreams and it feels inevitable this many days in. Can I like focus on a picture of something nonsexual and thereby not sin?

Luis Johnson
Luis Johnson

not doing it for the spiritual gainz
man, please…

the issue is not just what you think (sexual or not), but the act in itself.

Thomas White
Thomas White

Its not though. Is your Bible in Vietnamese or something?

Leo Moore
Leo Moore

Kind of. I found out that the bigger evil is porn; in the first weeks there was a slight temptation to masturbate but then vanished. The temptation of looking at porn, phantasizing about and looking at women who dress whorish is what made me mentally weak as soon as I gave into those sins, but when I managed to abstain from them it strenghened my mind.

What I noticed is that women give me more attention than usual and are easier attracted to me from the get-go, I feel more confident, am less socially autistic even when I feel like shit, do not focus on sex as much as I used to and can perceive (most) women as actual human beings again. Additionally, I become easily motivated even when I think I don't feel like it and feel great stimulation when excercising and working hard.

All in all, I got some gains, mate. My lethargy and pathetic whining about things became less frequent the more I abstained. I am still going and plan to never masturbate nor looking at porn again; the only urges I wanted to lay hand on myself was when I felt strongly melancholic or frustrated, since I noticed that, masturbation is nothing but a compensation mechanism for shortcomings and things I cannot change (in the moment).

With that said, stay strong, anons. There is no excuse to give into temptation, especially in a time where sex and other kinds of hedonism are running rampant on a global scale like never before. We, as Christians, need to be a role model for those who seek Him - even those who don't know yet that they seek Him - through our deeds. Tell our brothers and sisters in Christ about the dangers of pornography and masturbation, even your secular friends, because this is one issue that brings great discord between the sexes, which ought not to be.

Even Apostle Paul did what he hated (sin) even though he genuinely wanted to do what he loved and preached, as he says in Romans 7:15-18:
For I do not understand what I am doing, because I do not practice what I want to do, but I do what I hate. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree with the law that it is good. So now I am no longer the one doing it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my flesh. For the desire to do what is good is with me, but there is no ability to do it.

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Matthew Cruz
Matthew Cruz

day 0 again. But I beat my last streak by over triple.

Proverbs 24:16
For a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again: but the wicked shall fall into mischief.

Cooper Sullivan
Cooper Sullivan

The popularity of this thread is disheartening. The penis is just the miniboss. How are we going to take on this badboy if we're already being defeated by our genitals?

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Connor Williams
Connor Williams

Imagine how far worse off the World is, they aren't even aware of the dangers of pornography is doing to their brains. They are so ignorant and neck-deep in their sins. Also imagine the advent of AR/VR technology combined with pornography. I fear for the next generation of men that have to battle against this.
t. porn and masturbation free for 4 years by the GRACE OF GOD

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Matthew Hernandez
Matthew Hernandez

My point is if we can't overcome lust then what hope do we have against pride?

Luis Garcia
Luis Garcia

JESUS is our only hope!
I have written these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God. This is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. (1 John 5:13-14)

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Camden Young
Camden Young

Yeah, I've spent time with Christians in Discords and it seems to me, based off of the Discords, that the average Christian that happens to a member of these online communities is actually younger than 20 years old. I don't think you need to be disheartened because I think if a poll was run for this board, you'd find most people are not in their early 20s but rather, their late teens.

Jason Davis
Jason Davis

Yeah that's probably true. If younger people are turning to Christ and seeking his help in the fight against pornography and other sins then that's great to hear. As a 27 year old I wish I'd sought out Christ much earlier.

Henry Rivera
Henry Rivera

I think I am slowly rewiring my brain. I used count the days… now I just live. I am not celebrating as I have already failed in the past but something feels different.
Peace be with you.

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Jace Gutierrez
Jace Gutierrez

28 but got there in the end

High five bro!

Nolan Davis
Nolan Davis

How are we going to take on this badboy if we're already being defeated by our genitals?

Arm yourself with iron will and prayer. Defeating this addiction is essential for you.
God needs you at your best.
Your people need you at your best.

No matter how many times you fall remember you're much stronger than you think. All you need to do is to repent and rediscover the strength inside you.
Good luck lads.

Nathan Rodriguez
Nathan Rodriguez

It helps me alot to see images that explain masturbation/porns negative effects on you.

If anyone has those I'd be grateful. Day 4 here.

Jacob Phillips
Jacob Phillips

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Brody Cooper
Brody Cooper

This what happens when you fap.

Camden Diaz
Camden Diaz

Military grade pornography
Israel

Kind of a bad sign when you can guess the country before reading the article…

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Luis Howard
Luis Howard

I have fornicated. Can I post about it here?
I have had to tell the girl about how it's a sin and that we cannot do it again. I proposed we keep dating but without the lewd sinful stuff but she doesn't seem interested. It makes me sad because she now thinks I am lying and that I don't find her attractive or just wanted to use her sexually, furthermore she is the only girl who ever made me feel manly and wanted, but then again sin attracts by kindling our egocentrism and pride.
It just sucks right now, I feel really bad about all of this. At least I have not watched porn or masturbated in about three weeks so there's a silver lining.

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Dominic Nelson
Dominic Nelson

You just have to make that the ultimate line in the sand. Either she agrees to wait until marriage or there's no hope for that relationship. Good on you for having the willpower to tell her the truth user. Keep up the nofap/noporn as well. If you enjoyed fornicating, just think how much more you'd enjoy having sex with your future wife. Easier said then done of course, but a good wife is still possible to find.

Levi Richardson
Levi Richardson

Kind of in a similar situation. I'm planning on going to church with my girlfriend and read the Bible together. I guess you gotta be a man and take the (spiritual) lead when it comes to women. If she doesn't agree and puts up resistance, then it's time to move on.

I'm at an age now where I'm comfortable dying alone. I know I type this out and it doesn't affect me right now, but of course it does affect me after I shut off my laptop, and if I do potentially end up alone down the road. However, the Bible says that as an unmarried man, you can do more for the Kingdom of God and to serve God in a greater capacity, and that is a huge blessing. I see that we are living in the Days of Noah, where men and women are giving into marriage. I am guilty of this as well, as are all of us in this thread. Think about it, you fornicate with a girlfriend, you're giving into marriage. If you masturbate, you're also giving into marriage because you're abusing your own body instead of giving to your spouse in marriage. It really is tough, but this is the time that we are living in. Thankfully, God is long-suffering and if we humble ourselves and cry out to God, then He will hear from Heaven and forgive us of our sins. However, I think all of us will suffer to some degree punishment and consequences as God judges everybody else around us who are unrepentant and God-haters. (Reference: 2 Chronicles).

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Kevin Bailey
Kevin Bailey

Got almost half a month clean of everything; out of pure hatred for myself (and God?) I masturbated. Didn't even feel good, just headache and disgust.
At times I wish God would just turn His back on me and let me die; I can't even feel sorry nor care anymore. I am just tired.

Gabriel Jenkins
Gabriel Jenkins

One of these is correct, the other two are out of context a bit. You should not seek to please the flesh means you should not seek only your own enjoyment. And the words about adultery are true, but adultery only applies when you are with another.

Still the only one that applies is that you body is a temple and you should care for it. Pure and simple, you should do it for that reason and that reason alone, not for fear, but for the Love of God.

Sebastian Gray
Sebastian Gray

I find it difficult not to fap every now and again. I mean, I have no girlfriend, no wife. Plus, what makes you so special, OP? You've NEVER fapped off? You never sin anymore? Wtf dude. God isn't as concerned with guys jacking off as He is with their hearts themselves.

Michael Thomas
Michael Thomas

i find it difficult to eat healthy
because i don't have time to cook and don't know any recipes
what makes YOU so special, anyway, trying to be healthy?
you don't ever eat fast food?
God isn't as concerned with gluttons as He is with their hearts
If self-sacrifice for your faith isn't your cup of tea, have you tried humanism?

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Dylan Russell
Dylan Russell

I am just tired.

Just keep going, It'll end one day but at least try to help others along the way.

Oh and stay out of /pol…

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Kayden Bennett
Kayden Bennett

Stop trying to justify your sin. Took me 1.5 years of constant prayer and repeated failure to learn how to not fap and quit porn. If a undisciplined NEET like me can do it, so can you.

I'd like to add, as soon as I quit PMO, I realized I can pretty much quit ANYTHING, so I quit sugar shortly thereafter and I'm now centering my life around lots of discipline and getting rid of the rest of my bad habits. The amount of discipline one gains after quitting PMO is insane.

Carter Young
Carter Young

If she wants to keep fornicating then you have to realize that she's not attracted to the holy spirit or holy men. Run away before she drags you back into hell. It's not worth sacrificing eternity for a brief lapse of pleasure.

she is the only girl who ever made me feel manly and wanted

Please don't think she's the only one capable of this, she is not, and furthemore the more you resist impulse the more of a man you become, the greater your chances of attracting holy women, granted they're not many these days, but that is never a reason to commit sin. As Christians our ways will not be popular and we should accept that.

Anthony Moore
Anthony Moore

Well fellas, it's been a little over two months for me, thought I'd share my experiences and tips in hopes that I can help anyone else.
1. I went on a week long holiday where I couldn't jerk off, which put me off to a good start.
2. I found a good Christian girl I was really into, that helped, made me want to be a better person. Didn't work out though, she moved away (now I'm getting those lonely feels and urges again, it's getting difficult, but I'm hanging in there).
3. Avoid alcohol, I haven't given it up, but whenever I do drink, I notice I do start getting urges.
4. Go have a shower if you're getting urges at night. Personally, I can't go to sleep after jerking off unless I've washed up properly so if I've had a shower, I don't want to go shower again.
5. Leave your bedroom door open, unless you don't have housemates, you're not going to jerk off with your door wide open, if you do, you're a braver man than I.
6. Avoid provocative material, just scroll past it, it's one flick of the mouse wheel and it's gone, don't let yourself be tempted by porn sites or any other provocative sites, blogs or image boards or whatever. Go play a vidya game or binge watch a show. Better yet, do that study you've been putting off.

Good luck fellow Christanons, may God be with you.

Andrew Reyes
Andrew Reyes

2 weeks. Restarting.

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Adam Foster
Adam Foster

God doesn't care about murderers, it's okay to murder once in a while.

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Nathaniel Rodriguez
Nathaniel Rodriguez

<God doesn't care about murderers, it's okay to murder once in a while.
matthew 12:37
For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
exodus 2:11-12
And it came to pass in those days, when Moses was grown, that he went out unto his brethren, and looked on their burdens: and he spied an Egyptian smiting an Hebrew, one of his brethren.
And he looked this way and that way, and when he saw that there was no man, he slew the Egyptian, and hid him in the sand.
hebrews 11:23-27
By faith Moses, when he was born, was hid three months of his parents, because they saw he was a proper child; and they were not afraid of the king's commandment.
By faith Moses, when he was come to years, refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter;
Choosing rather to suffer affliction with the people of God, than to enjoy the pleasures of sin for a season;
Esteeming the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures in Egypt: for he had respect unto the recompence of the reward.
By faith he forsook Egypt, not fearing the wrath of the king: for he endured, as seeing him who is invisible.

Joseph Edwards
Joseph Edwards

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Angel Taylor
Angel Taylor

I haven't fapped for almost 5 weeks now. I came dangerously close today, though. Caught myself edging.

Justin Martinez
Justin Martinez

a month and a 1/4 into nofap
waked up this morning horny as a dog
welp

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Ryan White
Ryan White

3 months and a week not masturbating
relapsing since Saturday
When I managed to come to the 3 month mark I thought I would never masturbate again. Let me tell you guys, don't deceive yourselves nor let anyone deceive you. I am a hypocrite for giving you advice, yet I hope anyone of you won't become too conceited as I became when you come very far.

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Nicholas Rodriguez
Nicholas Rodriguez

Relapsed heavily last night after a week-and-a-half
Triggered from my messed-up life and fears of never having a good romantic relationship
Not an excuse to sin though
Just messing-up even further
Had several weird stream-of-consciousness dreams last night
One stood out:
<Drove a truck into a someone's (whom dream me was familiar with apparently) bottom-story bathroom.
<Pretty good bathroom as well
<Truck sprouts a toilet
<I proceed to use the toilet
<After that, truck falls apart revealing a severely messed-up bathroom, and not just from stuff you get from using it
<Owner of said bathroom and her children come home
<"Dang it"
<Beg for mercy and promise to clean-up everything in the midst of cleaning-up what seems to be uncleanable
<Owner smiles and sweetly and calmly tells me to not fret and that she'll clean everything up, while some of the children start cleaning
<Keep begging her that I will clean the mess. She smiles again and says essentially "No, you won't."
She then kindly let's me go on my way. How I got back my non-Euclidean truck I'll never know this side of Heaven
Wake-up
Realize that God will clean my life, which I don't even own, with the help of my brothers and sisters despite my own failings and making look far worse than a heavy-set guy who ate a ton of Taco Bell and then immediately suffers from gastroenteritis.
God is faithful even when we are faithfulness. God and His Grace are good. Hallelujah!
youtube.com/watch?v=9V3_vymvBvk

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Jayden Cox
Jayden Cox

try getting a hobby that takes up your free time or gets you out of the house.
even playing video games is a good alternative if it takes your mind of sinful stuff.

also every man should lift weights, it'll get you tired and out of the mood

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Jacob Hughes
Jacob Hughes

Please pray for me, I relapsed after my Wife and I got back from our week vacation…. I was doing good, I hadn't fapped for two weeks… but the day we got back home, and I was alone, the urges came back.

I really did feel amazing before then, the feeling of energy, and the boost in confidence, and high motivation. I don't want to keep on relapsing Anons…

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Aaron Young
Aaron Young

has wife
faps
tigger what the Winnie the Pooh is your Winnie the Poohing problem?

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Jaxson Scott
Jaxson Scott

We're happily married, but I've relapsed after we got married and nothing has really changed since my nugga. It's very shameful, I am aware.

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Ian James
Ian James

She kept saying that it's only because I am not attracted to her and it's only an excuse. She told me "we can't meet this weekend, I want to remain alone", I answered that if that's what she wants I would respect it. She told me she is going to kill herself and deleted me from all her social media. I am scared as winnie the pooh now, I don't know what to do.

Logan Gray
Logan Gray

nevermind, she unblocked me but said she never wants to hear from me again

Carson Williams
Carson Williams

Have you told your wife?

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Jonathan Ward
Jonathan Ward

Mfw relapsed after about a week
Mfw relapsed on Ascension

The only good thing about this is that I now definitely know that being awake after 12am is very VERY dangerous.
I think going to sleep before that will help immensely.

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Julian Adams
Julian Adams

It's great that you're learning, every little bit counts! It took me years of trying before I began my current successful run, I know you can to it too.

Nathaniel Long
Nathaniel Long

I went 31days and relapsed, I just cant stop getting boners and stuff that shouldnt even arouse me is making me pop, just today I was looking at large bore african safari rifles and boom boner. Im trying to abstain but do they ever stop?

Jace Roberts
Jace Roberts

just today I was looking at large bore african safari rifles and boom boner
I know exactly why you got excited by that, I feel the same way. The trick is not to give in when you get an erection, it's a natural thing that will always happen, even if you never saw another woman for the rest of your life. So what you need to do is, literally, keep your hands out of your pants. It will be difficult, but just because the rifle is ready to fire doesn't mean you have to pull the trigger.

Ryan Baker
Ryan Baker

Well, why don't you just have sex with your wife instead?

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Lincoln Myers
Lincoln Myers

Hey guys, weird story here. I was doing my statics exam on Tuesday (I'm a Civil Engineering student), and I haven't masturbated for around a month or so. During the exam, time was almost up, as we had around a minute or so left. I was still answering the final question and I was rushing. For some reason I had an orgasm, semen and everything while I was writing down the answers. Does anyone know why? I wasn't excited or aroused or anything. I felt a tingling sensation in left thigh just before I has the orgasm. It's never happened to me before on its own, without arousal or anything like that, and it has especially never happened to me while I was in the middle of the exam. I am laughing while typing this because it seems funny to me that it would happen in that situation. Anyone know why?

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Ryan Smith
Ryan Smith

I'm glad you found a career field that you love.

Luke Murphy
Luke Murphy

Did you get caught or anything of the sort?

Lincoln Diaz
Lincoln Diaz

lol just wait until dynamics kid

Leo Diaz
Leo Diaz

Reminds me of this story.
Are you taking any supplements or are you just really into your studies?

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Joseph Murphy
Joseph Murphy

it's essentially an act of adultery

Matthew Gray
Matthew Gray

These temptations just wont go away man. The hentai is always on the back of my mind. Someone help

Jackson Thomas
Jackson Thomas

Day one, again.
It is too hard for me ;_;
tfw have to suffer in eternal pain because my hand just moves itself
Ehhh…

Jose Adams
Jose Adams

Is chastity cage the way to go?

Bentley Stewart
Bentley Stewart

They never quite go away, in my experience it was only during periods of very pious life, when I went to Church every day and prayed the rosary etc..

But temptations in themselves aren't bad, they can often be a good sign (you're doing well so demons are trying harder to break you) and actively rejecting them helps you grow in virtue and eventually resistance. If you can't stop thinking about them then do something with your time that requires your focus, like exercising, running etc

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Jason Foster
Jason Foster

you're doing well so demons are trying harder to break you

Almost perfection. A big porblem I have is going to church, wanting to have a more in-depth talk about this stuff, yet I'm still (been to 4 churches so far) told where "don't worry. you believe in Christ and thus immune."

I'm sorry but BS; just because we finally accept our Lord into our heart does not mean that we wont be attacked by the foul thoughts and temptations the devil assails us with, if not MORE so because wer're that bit closer to making Him smile.

Being a Christian will never be easy. But few would say that trying to follow his will is hard. The evil will tempt us always. Again and again until we fall… again. The only thing we CAN do is be humble, say sorry and try standing up… again.

Would you rather see Him come to you, in a puddle of mud hearing a slew of excuses? Or fearfully approach Him with bloodied knees and crawl to Him and say "Sorry I'm so late"

Just get back up and keep going.

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Owen Bennett
Owen Bennett

1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.

Take responsibility for your actions, learn something from every failure and keep trying!

Luke Taylor
Luke Taylor

tfw have to suffer in eternal pain because my hand just moves itself
unironically believing work salvation

Anthony Miller
Anthony Miller

This is christian board you dumb atheifag

Hunter Wilson
Hunter Wilson

Wew… almost fapped ;_;

Adrian Williams
Adrian Williams

I think he was reffering to belief in salvation through works alone.

I could be mistaken

Jack Gray
Jack Gray

months since last fap
can't stop thinking about this
even somewhat erotic pictures make me want to fap
so close to just giving in
pls help

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Zachary Nguyen
Zachary Nguyen

Push the button:

emergency.nofap.com

Blake Lopez
Blake Lopez

The only supplement I take is the Omega-3 fish oil pill.
Nah dude.
I know, user. I know.

Lol.

Sebastian King
Sebastian King

what does it do?

Brayden Jackson
Brayden Jackson

sends you a cute virgin gal to marry.

sigh… a man can wish.

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Zachary Hill
Zachary Hill

Today was my last failure.
I wwnt for a solid year or so but today I failed. No more.

Luis Jones
Luis Jones

7 days then 2 days and just failed again.

At least without porn.

For lots of reasons that aren't entirely negative I'm considering a life of celibacy but I just don't know how to get there.

Ethan Garcia
Ethan Garcia

Well anons, I've hit rock bottom when it comes to this sin. This happened last night. After watching porn "just a little bit", I was overcome by really strong lust and perversion. I started feeling really angry at God, and I cursed him, rejected his existence, blasphemed him in my mind. In a rage I tore up this nice little card that I got when I was a baby reminding me that God loves me. After doing this I kept looking at porn for some time and was filled with self-righteousness. But gradually it dawned on me what a pathetic, vile, cowardly thing I had done. Now a day later, I feel faith once again, but I realize that I have committed an abominable sin. I can only hope that this is not blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. Anons, please pray for me if you can, and don't watch porn. Just don't. Never underestimate the vile things you can willingly do when you're mesmerized by that trash. Lord Jesus have mercy on me.

Angel Diaz
Angel Diaz

Going to confession would really help you, it seems you're in a bad state and I wouldn't risk doing something worse if I were you.

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Connor Lopez
Connor Lopez

Going to confession would really help you

I need to get baptized tbh. I need the help of the sacraments. I'm planning on becoming Catholic but I've sinfullly delayed the process due to my lust and sloth.

it seems you're in a bad state

No doubt about it. I feel a lot better than I did last night, but I'm aware of the terrible thing that I've done. I need God's grace to get out of this state. Porn absolutely has to go. It's been my unwillingness to give up my addiction to porn which has caused this situation.

I wouldn't risk doing something worse if I were you

For sure, I'm absolutely horrified that I did what I did. I'm shocked because even though I've sinned in all sorts of terrible ways in the past, I've never felt this sort of brief rage towards God. I think I gave in so fully to my porn addiction that I chose to do something that could potentially cut me off from God forever. I'm hoping and praying that I'm not bound to be a reprobate. I DEFINITELY don't want to even get close to that level of internal sin ever again. Externally my actions were nothing special when it comes to sin, but what was going through my mind was complete evil.

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Justin Rogers
Justin Rogers

GET BAPTIZED GET BAPTIZED GET BAPTIZED
I'd managed to stop masturbation for 8-9 months before being baptized and good Lord, getting it done sooner would have made it significantly easier.
It seems to have heavily bolstered my conscience (to the point that rounding up the hours on my timesheets at work gives me a gut feeling of dread for actively lying) such that I sincerely have no wish at all to masturbate, along with the more corporeal fact that I would have to admit such an act to my priest serving as extra deterrent. My priest is a jolly ~60 year old Irishman. Imagine trying to confess such a thing to your surrogate grandfather.
I absolutely do not want to find out if I can.

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Robert Wilson
Robert Wilson

Good to hear user and thanks for the advice.

Robert Brown
Robert Brown

when in confession should you confess to the specifics of what you have fapped to?
I've watched some messed up shit in the past, I still struggle but at least it's relatively vanilla now.

Liam Walker
Liam Walker

You realised it was wrong and genuinely feel remorse and wish to come back. I don't think you blasphemed the Holy Spirit. But It's definately clear that something is very wrong if you got angry that much at what you knew is true.

Carter Gonzalez
Carter Gonzalez

Thanks for the encouragement. You are right, something has definitely been wrong with how I've been living as a Christian. I think I've given so much power to porn in my life, that at a very weak moment, I was so annoyed at the prospect of having to give it all up that I actively tried to give up on God instead through blasphemy.

Josiah Ross
Josiah Ross

I lasted four days before failing again ._.

I hope this time I'll be able to do better, and hopefully stop committing this sin for good

Landon Smith
Landon Smith

8th day today, please pray for me bros, and I'll pray for you.

Lucas Scott
Lucas Scott

go one week
have wet dream
hormones still winnie'd up
have panic attacks and no appetite as a result
Such is life in BOGworld.

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Adrian Ortiz
Adrian Ortiz

68

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Cooper Morris
Cooper Morris

Fellas,
Not too long ago I came across a pdf booklet (a bit over a hundred pages if I recall correctly) on quitting pmo. Unfortunately, I have been unable to find it. If any of you know what I'm talking about I would very much appreciate a link.
Cheers.

Dylan Hughes
Dylan Hughes

you mean this?

sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home

there's a pdf download on the chapter at the bottom labeled download

Kevin Hall
Kevin Hall

have faith and strong will and you will do better with each time

Christian Jones
Christian Jones

I feel I may be too far gone.
Every time I get the urges, they completely take over, even though I keep telling myself it's wrong.
My thoughts are completely taken over by lewd thoughts.

Nolan Lee
Nolan Lee

Looks like its time to get rid of your Internet

Luke Moore
Luke Moore

Relapsed this morning after six days… Immediately disgusted with myself afterwards.
Pray for me bros I need to beat this demonic addiction.

James Stewart
James Stewart

You need to say this to priest. Confession.
Basically all blasphemy comes from pride. Pride is the very root of it. thinking you do not need sacraments/help from God - pride. Thinking you're not worth to be forgiven until you 'go clean' - pride.

Meanwhile all that God asks of us is to come back and repent. The Father waits for prodigal son. He's glad to see him. Devil always tries to convince the prodigal son:
You have to become rich before you come back
You don't need to come back
etc.

Aaron Phillips
Aaron Phillips

Relapsed yesterday.

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Luke Roberts
Luke Roberts

This image aroused me
Better post it here
I mean I don't feel aroused or anything but man, foresight.

Carson Perry
Carson Perry

I am in the same boat.
have a verse
Galatians 5:1 “For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.”

Blake Gonzalez
Blake Gonzalez

After mastering nofap, I want to try zero-release. All kinds of emissions are considered failure. I've tried it last year, with a record of 24 days max. It felt like a truly heroic struggle, you've no idea what happens to your body.

first week: high probability of erotic dreams as well as possibility of doing a hands-free fap
second week: high probability of nocturnal emissions WITHOUT erotic dreams
around the 18th-20th days: dreamless nocturnal emissions are GUARANTEED unless you actively exercise your WILLPOWER WHILE SLEEPING and unconscious
past the 20th day: same as above, at the 20th day the mind becomes 'Instinctively Religious' accompanied by a feeling of being 'in the company of GOD'. It's a truly unique sensation that you cannot otherwise feel without doing no-emission for 20 days

I'm trying to go at it again but I can't seem to last 5-6 days without an erotic dream bringing to an emission.
Does anyone have any tips regarding how to face no-release? My target is to hold it for 40 days like Jesus did in the desert.

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Bentley Cooper
Bentley Cooper

I don't know man. I'm past a month and for some reason I don't feel the presence of God like I used to the first time I did no fap.

Charles White
Charles White

Not talking about just no fap. Zero release. Keep the semen in your balls and start counting the days.
You'll notice you lose it after only 3-4 days whereas you thought you only had a release once a month with no fap.

Try counting the days, I dare you. You'll be surprised.

Juan White
Juan White

Not talking about just no fap. Zero release
Oh so I can masturbate but not finish. That makes some sense, sure.
Seriously though what's the point of this challenge? Exercise your willpower while sleeping?

Eli Walker
Eli Walker

Even if you don't touch your peepee you will have a nocturnal release after 4 days. The challenge is to avoid having a nocturnal emission without laying a finger on your dick for the entire period and see how far you can go.

Caleb Bell
Caleb Bell

What's the point? I don't think that's healthy

Zachary Scott
Zachary Scott

This is silly. You cannot seriously expect people to try to control themselves while they're unconscious. I just pray that my night will be emission-free. But such an event is not a sin, it is beyond control.

Julian Scott
Julian Scott

I just pray that my night will be emission-free
That's what I've been doing and it works pretty good. My last emission was a month ago.

Eli Young
Eli Young

One hundred and three days and I am back to where I started. Pray for me, sinner.

Jordan Collins
Jordan Collins

nocturnal emissions are inevitable. Sperm sooner or later dies and nocturnal emissions are the way the body gets rid of it to make place for new sperm.

Jordan Moore
Jordan Moore

Confess,
I got baptized recently and found if I did not confess, id imeditly fall into worse sin, (strip clubs, and "massages")

Bentley Evans
Bentley Evans

Thank you brother. You definitely hit the nail on the head.

Daniel Robinson
Daniel Robinson

Never ever tell your wife. Tell God and the priest or pastor but not your wife

Owen Lewis
Owen Lewis

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Cameron Moore
Cameron Moore

Holy smokes, this sounds like it could be me writing this. Met a conservative Baptist girl in a Christian Facebook group online, learned she lived a few miles away but was off at college in Michigan. We messaged every day for three months until Christmas when she was back home.

There were warning signs - she would send slightly risque pics on Snapchat or would wear slightly revealing clothing on Facetime.

I took her out to the chinese buffet at the mall after church, we walked around, went back to her car to put the shopping bags in, climbed into the van to get warm because it was cold, hopped in the back because she wanted to show me what she had gotten her parents, and then things just kinda progressed from there. I felt pretty rock solid until then, so failing then, without much time to even think, shook me up afterwards.

I went to her and apologized (she was silent), said I was going to make amends with my elders at my church and discuss it from there - she flipped her lid, said I had used her, didn't find myself sexually attracted to her, and am now trying to ruin her reputation and make her lose her scholarship. She blocked me, then unblocked me a day later and told me to never talk to her again.

It was a difficult and humbling time for me. My accountability partners were shocked, and they essentially told me to not consider dating another girl until I've spent some serious time being discipled/in counseling.

She did call me a few weeks later crying - I had to be kind but firm. It broke my heart, because I really did love her, but there's too many character problems there to consider restarting a relationship.

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Elijah Fisher
Elijah Fisher

But ideally even blatantly sexual images should not cause us to falter and clearly that user was just trying to express his weakness.

Aiden Butler
Aiden Butler

Erotic dreams are failure but emitting without lust is just basic bodily functioning. No more sinful than defacating.

Kayden Clark
Kayden Clark

You know I used to be extremely guilty for being a sex addict and frequent procurer of prostitutes, but I've seen that 90% of christian men are addicted to porn and masturbation. The reason I haven't watched porn or masturbated in years is because I've been trying to put my winnie in the pooh of every girl I come across.

As far as we know all sins are equal(?) so I don't really feel bad anymore knowing you guys are as bad as me but my guilty pleasure is approx 10x better.

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Cooper Cooper
Cooper Cooper

hey just popping in to say I pay for sex, that is all

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Kayden Hall
Kayden Hall

being an unrepentant fornicator

"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." (Hebrews 13:4)

"Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." (1 Corinthians 6:15-20)

"They that are of a froward heart are abomination to the LORD: but such as are upright in their way are his delight." (Proverbs 11:20)

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Jordan Carter
Jordan Carter

As far as we know all sins are equal
Webm related.
my guilty pleasure is approx 10x better.
And no, it's winnie the poohing not, so repent

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William Howard
William Howard

As far as we know all sins are equal(?) so I don't really feel bad anymore
1) other peoples' sins don't make yours any less bad
2) actively trying to sin is worse than actively trying not to but falling occasionally
t.fornicator

Very similar situation to mine. Difference is mine wasn't very religious (part of our dates was me trying to clear her doubts and convert her), and I proposed her to keep going with the relationship with abstinence from sex but she wanted none of it.
It was particularly hard for me because she was the first girl who made me feel manly and strong, while former gfs humiliated me, cheated on me, etc. but following Christ is more important than my pride about being a man.

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Joshua Wright
Joshua Wright

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Chase Morales
Chase Morales

Awesome
Thanks, mate.

Henry Morris
Henry Morris

23 days in. Then again, I'm taking 'head' medication that lowers my libido quite a lot. Now I'm dropping the medication (I was on 50mg, now on 25mg - this is a microdose considering regular doses are 200mg) and can feel a libido surge. I don't feel like watching porn at all, though, and I can control my urges.
I'm not a /pol/ type, but I went with the narrative of, if you watch porn, Israel wins. And that helped a lot.

Ryder Adams
Ryder Adams

Drop the meds, eat fatty (+40% fat) cheese instead.

Carson Parker
Carson Parker

youtube.com/watch?v=DpvLPmv2FeY&t=207s

Daily reminder that Judgment Day is very real and that NOTHING will go unpunished. We can't be lukewarm about this people. I can't believe the amount of indifference to the severity of this sin in this thread. Masturbation sends people to hell.

From Dies Irae…
For now before the Judge severe
all hidden things must plain appear;
no crime can pass unpunished here.
O what shall I, so guilty plead?
and who for me will intercede?
when even Saints shall comfort need?

The reason we're not afraid of hell anymore is because we live in an age where things are generally safe. We have good health care, there's meds for almost everything, most of us don't need to go to war, etc. My point is, we're not familiar with what it means to die. To die means to be judged. I tell all of you unrepentant masturbators will go to hell, that's guaranteed.

In the dark ages people had more fear for God and we should too. Not just fear but sense of compassion for the Lord also. Christ didn't walk the Via Dolorosa for nothing, yet most of us go about our daily lives as if it wasn't a big deal. What would Mary the Mother of God think about a half hearted attitude towards the sins that her Son had to die for? And what would His Father think?

I am a sinner like you people and we all need to get serious about Christ

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Luke Hill
Luke Hill

72

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Ryder Edwards
Ryder Edwards

Day 98 bros, I pray for you all.

Thomas Rivera
Thomas Rivera

14 days of no wet dreams
I signed up for a swim tournament,started composing music,asked 2 groups out,got invited to soccer, and strangers start to greet me.
Im happy i have super-powers !

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Liam Reyes
Liam Reyes

Reaching 140 days line soon. So far the best streak for me.
Superpowers
Just what you are. Porn and masturbation keeps you subdued. The greatest thing about "superpowers" -it's actually just you. I literally can no longer imagine masturbating, having low self esteem I used to have,lack confidence, lack energy.
Jonesing
The urges become less severe, less often. After 30 days or so.
Wet dreams
Were pretty common until day 90. At one time devil tortured me with a series of perverse dreams. That was even worse than daytime jonesing since you can't control it.
Did confession help?
It did. Go confess. Once you rebuild your relationship with Christ you're ready to change your ways.
Prayer, confession, scripture study, church attendance. I cannot stress this enough. I used to make the 'I can handle this/ I come back when I'm clean" mistake. It never worked.

Last thing:
I noticed that I no longer get sexual fantasies when seeing random girls. Only when I see a girl that looks very good I get the ideas. Also if I like the girl as a person and she's cute, I get the fantasies randomly during the day. It has a positive effect since it compels me to talk to her/ask her out..eventually.
That being said, I still enjoy seeing other beautiful women…just not getting aroused by each one, just the 'right ones' for me.

Sorry for a long post. Thought I'd share my experience. Perhaps someone will find some of it useful.
Good luck lads.
God Bless.

Jeremiah Morales
Jeremiah Morales

I haven't fapped in at least a month but I still feel guilty because the idea of fapping doesn't disgust me.

Connor Hill
Connor Hill

masturbation sends people to hell
So you believe in a works based salvation then?

Robert King
Robert King

haven't fapped in over a year and a half

Cameron Lee
Cameron Lee

That was even worse than daytime jonesing since you can't control it.

Have you condered training yourself to be lucid during dreams?

Christopher Cook
Christopher Cook

Is listening to erotic audio bad?

Day 52 and I'm starting to get tempted

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Tyler Hernandez
Tyler Hernandez

yes

Dylan Barnes
Dylan Barnes

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Jose Sullivan
Jose Sullivan

I'm starting to worry about how it's going for me… any short term advice?

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Christopher Gonzalez
Christopher Gonzalez

constantly blast this
youtube.com/watch?v=4RLpKTA4FAU&t=41s

Benjamin Ward
Benjamin Ward

one more damn wet dream

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Sebastian Rodriguez
Sebastian Rodriguez

I'm with you on that, I had YET ANOTHER one this morning. It seems I can't go a week.

Zachary Lopez
Zachary Lopez

One of the hardest things to believe about God is how He has infinite forgiveness.
From a human perspective, it sounds so impossible to continually forgive someone that keeps misusing something you give them, and on that, they continue to mess up and misuse the things you give them.
I'm glad we live under such a forgiving God.

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Jeremiah Barnes
Jeremiah Barnes

I'm getting better at resisting porn and masturbation with it, bit by bit; but I've encountered a new stubborn obstacle. As I continue on longer into a streak and the tension begins predictably mounting, it will start interrupting my sleep. Nearly every single time I've failed in the past few months has been due to this.

I'll keep waking up in the middle of the night and I'll start playing with myself, muster up every ounce of strength I have to throw the temptation off, and doze off back to sleep only to repeat the same thing half-an-hour later. I notice it's also never paired with wet dreams or anything; I rarely get those. But once this starts, I usually find it difficult to make it through the night, partly out of lust but mostly out of fear that I won't be able to sleep because of it. There's very little I can do to prevent it. I'm alone, in the dark, in a half-conscious state, without much to distract me without completely disturbing my sleep cycles; the Enemy has found one of my most vulnerable points to attack me at.

Noah Cruz
Noah Cruz

Where do I find this test now

Adrian Morales
Adrian Morales

Correct me if I'm wrong, but wet dreams technically isn't sin since it is your body self-regulating itself (as opposed to masturbation which you are willfully partaking in lust and abusing your body, lovers of flesh). That said, you can abuse it by instigating wet dreams and partaking in lustful thoughts, but I've had it happen spontaneously or without me knowing about it until I fully woke up.
When a man has an emission of semen, he must bathe his whole body with water, and he will be unclean till evening. Any clothing or leather that has semen on it must be washed with water, and it will be unclean till evening. (Leviticus 15:16-17)

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Robert Campbell
Robert Campbell

the Enemy has found one of my most vulnerable points to attack me at.
Recite a Psalm or read the Bible/pray. 3am is known as the devil hour (as opposed to 3pm which is the Lord's hour), so I wouldn't be surprised if that's around the time you're being attacked. I know this is easier said than done however as I've been there and know exactly what you're going through, I have no better advice other than, either you get through this yourself or you do it with God disciplining you.
Then Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me." (Matthew 16:24)

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Connor Gomez
Connor Gomez

Day 26 here. Repeatedly failed around the day 15 mark in the past because my urges would get so bad that I would go onto Tinder of all things and arrange meetups with girls. Thankfully I never actually met with any of them but that is because I would always broke my streak to remove the desire.

That's all behind me now thankfully as I have completely deleted my account and I'm finding things much easier. I must be currently going through a flatline or whatever because I'm finding it all quite easy at the moment. I've started to learn classical guitar also as a more productive way to spend my free time.

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Ryder Long
Ryder Long

Here.

So I've just failed. I M'd until the edge but did not O.
It was so… intoxicating. It's like I got into a trance and my mind got shut down and I was almost out of control. Just after a couple of minutes I quickly closed the internet browser and went to lie down in my bed.

Should I count this as a relapse? No P was envolved either. (It was a freaking K-Pop dance. I need to seriously get rid of the internet.)

Please pray for me.

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Joseph Wood
Joseph Wood

avoid girlgroups and follow boyband K-pop groups,they can be wholesome and fun

Zachary Reyes
Zachary Reyes

Stay away from masturbation for 2 weeks
Eat mostly raw fresh vegetables - Sprouts are amazing
Exercise every other day
No alcohol
Feel no hunger
Sleep is better than ever
Energy levels are at the most highest its ever been
Not spending whole days distracted by stuff like video games/masturbation
Realize I don't usually focus on anything else besides the distractions
Just sit aimlessly all day

Proverbs 29:18 Where there is no vision, the people perish

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James Murphy
James Murphy

wtf is wrong with you, why would you ever watch kpop, realise that the act of rationalising something as dumb as that could only be done in fringe online circles in 2018. you are a winnie the pooh loser if you watch kpop

Gavin Foster
Gavin Foster

This

Lust is the sin we're worried about here. It's just that most people here aren't exactly Chads, or have to good fortune to be involved in a Christian identity, so the way people act out lust is masturbation, generally using porn as an aid, or in your case erotic material centered around music. Indulging in erotic material is a sin. That's to say, erotic material is whatever YOU find to be erotic, not exactly what may be considered conventionally erotic.

Repent. One sin is too many.

Noah Scott
Noah Scott

finally sit down and pray to God about fapping
tell Him I want to make a change but I need some help summoning the fortitude to break 5+ years of habit
feel calm and apt to be ready for the day
almost break my wrist at work
can barely hold anything with my right hand, let alone firmly grasp it

God works in mysterious ways.

Liam Murphy
Liam Murphy

Praise! now THATS a message you can't miss mate!

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Jaxson Russell
Jaxson Russell

have problem with porn for a long time, since middle school
many times tried to quit but couldnt
after a long time of not even trying to quit, I decide I really should after reading the Pilgrims Progress
delete everything
goes good for a couple of days but then the temptations start again when Im caught off guard (thought I had won)
i know the external hard drive isnt actually deleted, its just marked ready to be overwritten, this causes a lot of temptation
as I type this the external hard drive has a program wiping it
Overall while I have been relapsing a lot, I still haven't given up, where usually I would have within a matter of a day or two. I have much more resolve now, by Gods grace. The last half week has been terrible, but I think this weekend is going to be good. More like how it was a few weeks ago when I originally mustered the courage to do what I should have done before.

Galatians 6:7-9
7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.

9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.

John Russell
John Russell

Stay strong fellow brothers and sisters in Christ !

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Robert Roberts
Robert Roberts

Have you condered training yourself to be lucid during dreams?
I'm sorry I do not get what you mean here.

There were very few 'lucid dreams'. Most of them were regular dreams.
What I mean here is that at that time wet dreams were very frustrating for me. I watched only mainstream porn. 'Rough sex' were the most extreme thing I watched …ever. Then some dreams involved gay porn and some worse things. Obviously the internet is infested with the stuff…you see a picture,it gets stuck in your subconsciousness and then it appears. It was just devil getting more and more desperate. The more awful dreams came the more determined I become to avoid the relapse.
Eventually the dreams went away just like they came. I haven't had them ever since.
I mean perverse dreams. Even now I get wet dreams. The body regulates itself, it's beyond your control. But now the dreams involve a beautiful woman. They're never perverse.

Adrian Bell
Adrian Bell

Will pray
Stay strong brother
One you purge the passions and distractions you've got your hands free to do what you're supposed to do - work on self improvement - physical, mental and spiritual.., find a woman…
It's just that most people here aren't exactly Chads
True. But nofap will help us become Chads.

Praying for all anons here. God is with us brothers.

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Julian Hill
Julian Hill

relapsed again, please pray for me brothers.

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Connor Richardson
Connor Richardson

The only good thing about this heat is how much it kills my libido. I feel sticky, dirty, and like I'm suffocating, and the few times temptation has gotten the better of me, it feels just plain awful. I can't really work up the motivation to do it anymore. If this continues into the summer, it's possible I can just sweat this crap out.

Alexander Brown
Alexander Brown

Are there any good Christian discords? It's always good to have brothers to talk to

Jonathan Barnes
Jonathan Barnes

our board has one

Aaron Roberts
Aaron Roberts

It's a catholic only discord though

Camden Gray
Camden Gray

Failed
Okay no, new tactic.
Anons, please pray for me.

Chase White
Chase White

Does anyone have any decent studies on negative effects? I'm getting a lot more blowback from someone than I had expected and they're giving me the "I'll only listen if you're more qualified than my doctor who says it's fine" excuse.

Nathan Allen
Nathan Allen

Here's a classic:

yourbrainonporn.com

Logan Rodriguez
Logan Rodriguez

you really shouldn't use discord
spyware.neocities.org/articles/discord.html

Luke Gomez
Luke Gomez

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Jaxson Gray
Jaxson Gray

Gave in to a low-tier temptation after a strong, blessed 2 months. At least I made it through the end of the Easter season, though sin is sin. Humbled again. Picked myself right back up. Will pray for you all.

John Phillips
John Phillips

If it might assure you, even if it's just a bit, not all info they get is requested by governments, nor do they look at everything.
It would be almost impossible to monitor everyone who uses it, and old info probably gets deleted too.
Doesn't remove the fact that it's still Facebook-tier spyware.

Grayson Morris
Grayson Morris

I should really stop using my computer.

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Liam Wright
Liam Wright

Friends, by God's blessing I have made it 6 months without committing this sin. Surrender fully to the Lord and you will see success too.

Joseph Robinson
Joseph Robinson

O Lord I have sinned… Again… ;_;

Justin Parker
Justin Parker

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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Michael Carter
Michael Carter

I pray for you all that you may find the wisdom to go out in public whenever your wiener goes up, so the public shaming shall smite thine libido unless thou art an exhibitionist then you're boned.

Robert Nguyen
Robert Nguyen

Showing your boner in public
What.

Xavier Howard
Xavier Howard

That's the idea.
Do you want to be the guy that goes out with an erection?
The moment you feel your dick moving you go out the door.

Elijah Hill
Elijah Hill

Relapsed after 30 days. I'm not sure how much progress I've lost since it's definitely not back to square one neurologically. The edgy underage f*ckwads at /nofap/ that LARP as Stoic Romans don't even try to give an answer to my doubt.

Eli Scott
Eli Scott

DAY 40 reporting in. You're not a christian if you're not no fap.

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Landon White
Landon White

What's wrong with /nofap/??

Owen Green
Owen Green

Not much, the threads to kill your libido are great, but there's too many LARPers of people that I assume are like the ones that just found out about Nietzsche and won't shut the winnie the pooh up about the Ubermensch despite not knowing the concept.

Basically I assume that most posters are likely to be underage and with a black/white mentality that just got into self-improvement.

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Kayden White
Kayden White

For context, those are responses to the user that created this thread

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Andrew Wilson
Andrew Wilson

Used to go there like a year ago, it was full of brainlets and even lewd stuff that wouldn't get deleted. Wouldn't recommend it

Jacob Powell
Jacob Powell

Thought it was a new board, there's even some guy larping as a woman

Carter Gray
Carter Gray

oldest post is 3 years

Jordan Lopez
Jordan Lopez

Oh wow. Only boards I visit in this site are…well I think Zig Forums is the only one I visit. Not even /pdfs/ or /lit/, might not be a bad idea but there's not much else that's worth much here.

Angel Wright
Angel Wright

Stop masturbating for a few months
It comes back and I'm ALSO not feeling guilty when I do it
Well.

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Tyler Scott
Tyler Scott

I am on day 43 of no fap. Are wet dreams a myth? I'm 21 and still have not had one. Where does all my pudding go ?

John Clark
John Clark

They're definitely not, you must just be lucky. Things have calmed a bit for me, but I used to have them near weekly between days 40-150.

Luis Young
Luis Young

Am I? Now I want to get married all the time but, I go to a liberal college in California..

Parker Rogers
Parker Rogers

At this very moment 797,151 Americans are masturbating
repent.

5 months done. Dropping in to point out the "nofaptards are pathetic" shills that hijack every nofap thread/discussion.
What is the root?
Evil.
The fallen one - the devil - wants to drag you down. Once he's fallen nobody should aspire to anything greater. If you're happy with fapping 4 times a day, why do you need to shill about it to people who obviously are not happy about being in such a state? All those shills just show how miserable they are.
Since I lack the willpower to do it/am too lazy to do it then nobody should make it.

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Blake Kelly
Blake Kelly

86

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Juan Collins
Juan Collins

What's going on with that poor doggo?

Isaiah Collins
Isaiah Collins

semen retention

Justin Cox
Justin Cox

he's just bulking that's all

Matthew Miller
Matthew Miller

Funny coincidence, I'm at 186. Keep it up my man.

John Sanchez
John Sanchez

may God bless you richly lad

Austin Morgan
Austin Morgan

Is watching an ASMR performed by good looking women bad? Asking for a friend

Michael Sanchez
Michael Sanchez

As a point of reference, if it is something that would otherwise tempt you to fap or lust after someone, then flee it.

AMSR is trash anyway, but if you think it will make you thirsty too, avoid.

Aaron Lewis
Aaron Lewis

Made it six days before failing. Knew it was stupid, knew it would be better to avoid, but I used the excuse that "these urges are distracting me from my work, better just to give in and get chaste when I'm less stressed out". Of course I knew that was just a petty excuse, but I gave in anyway. Nevertheless, I've been feeling more motivated and more faithful recently. No more porn from this point onwards. If I succumb to the temptation to fap in future, I will not add porn to the mix. I know I can't go back to my old addiction, the very idea is absurd, so even an inability to control my lust can't justify porn use. The feeling of being without porn always makes it seem like such a big deal, but once I actually look at the stuff I mostly feel disappointing. This is what I disobeyed God for? No more excuses. No more porn in 2018, no more porn till I die. Fapping will be harder to defeat, and I know I can only defeat it if I can first overcome the mental hurdle of giving up porn. I will need to rely 100% on God's help to overcome this problem. Laziness and disorganization also have made me much weaker and less able to fight against this sin. As I said earlier, my main excuse for sinning today was the fact that I've got too much work to do, but I've only got too much work to do because I should have done it earlier.

Elijah Powell
Elijah Powell

Depends whether you're aroused by it or not. I've enjoyed ASMR in the past but it's the non-sexualised and unintentional stuff that I like.

Justin Carter
Justin Carter

I had same problem earlier with getting distracted from school but when I started avoiding all sexual images I didn't really get distracted at all any more. Day 46 of no fap.

Oliver Myers
Oliver Myers

Going to confession tomorrow, I relapsed brothers. Will pray the Rosary today for everyone who's struggling with this sin, especially you brothers.

Leo Cooper
Leo Cooper

Yeah I know that my porn addiction only makes things more difficult in the long run. I could have given up porn completely ages ago, and if I had I'd be better off today. Congrats on Day 46!

Caleb Jackson
Caleb Jackson

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WHAT HAVE I DONE

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James Reyes
James Reyes

rubbed your meat, get over it and go to confession you drama queen

Lucas Jackson
Lucas Jackson

It doesn't make me want to masturbate its just tapping two objects together but honestly I fled it just because it was giving me bad vibes and because the actual ASMR community was just around the corner.
You're making me feel like I overdid it.

Liam Watson
Liam Watson

I am considering converting to orthodox soon. Do people actually tell their preist every time they rub their meat? if I convert will I have to tell the priest that I jerked off like a year ago?

Jose Hall
Jose Hall

The first time you should mention it, but unlike the Catholics we don't need to go every week, or multiple times a month. As my priest said, treat it a bit like a doctor visit. You should go a number of times during the year, and certainly if a great need arises. My priest also said that if you tell him the same sins repeatedly then you have more work to do, so hopefully you only have to confess to it once, the first time!

Jayden Wilson
Jayden Wilson

Become Catholic, and yes, you should tell your priest every time you sin
but unlike the Catholics we don't need to go every week, or multiple times a month
fake news
You should go to Confession whenever you do mortal sin, other than that it's only required you go at least twice a year (before Christmas and Easter)

Brody Gomez
Brody Gomez

Having a special law that people must visit at least twice a year
Okay who did that
Who was the madman that didn't go to to Confession for a year?

Gabriel Robinson
Gabriel Robinson

Dam talking to an old dude in a beard about wacking my meat sounds kind of terrifying to be honest. You've done that a lot ?

Gavin King
Gavin King

My friends, recently after some time in the darkness, is listened to the call of Jesus once more, since then praying and going to church, I have felt exponentially better.
Attempting nofap thou was really a whole other best, ive been faping conpulsively for some years and I really didnt knew how much it would be hard to stop.
I went to faping multiple times a day to being able to stand 7 days in less then a month.
I cant help thou, to feel extremely remorse every time I do it, I dont want to but sometimes im just too weak, I feel like Im abusing Gods grace since I know about his infinity lovable nature and I tear up every time I pray.
Do any of you have some words or verses of the Bible for that? I dont want to sin, but I know Im too weak not to and sining is the worst :(

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Kevin Kelly
Kevin Kelly

just keep doing it less and less. I did it once a week, then every 10 days and now I am on day 46, stay in public a lot too.

Samuel Reed
Samuel Reed

Staying in public helps but im in a really hard school that requires studying alot so its hard not to be indoors.
From now on I will try to study in the student's room when I can

Leo Jones
Leo Jones

I'm a 3rd year engineering student and I study in public all day basically at my university, and again I haven't fapped in 46 days so it's working to some extent. Only time NO FAP distracts you from school is if you're looking at photos of women and lusting and then your mind gets cloudy, at least that's what I've experienced personally.

Ayden Cruz
Ayden Cruz

Hey, I want to know if any of you guys are going through the same thing. A few weeks ago, I met this really nice girl that liked. I really didn’t have any perverted thoughts about her, but how much I liked her. Now a few days ago, I realized that how much I loved her, and how the very thought of her gives me intense emotions. These emotions and thoughts about her are nothing but pure. After that, I completely lost all will to touch myself. Sure I have urges, but they’re very light. Anytime I look at a woman or something impure, I might have a slight urge or thought, but it quickly goes away. Then she comes into my mind again. Ever since, I feel as if I’m becoming a better Christian. Not only that, but I feel as if God has plans for us together. In short, because of love I feel no strong urge anymore. Anyone have something similar?

Anthony Ramirez
Anthony Ramirez

Well its not that it distracts me from school no, its just that I have to be in my room alone most of the time

Ayden Phillips
Ayden Phillips

Why can't you study in public area?

Isaac Martin
Isaac Martin

Well its just that I cant be on public literaly all times
Also part of my work involves using tools that cant be used in public

Levi Thompson
Levi Thompson

tfw fapped this evening
I gotta be more aware of what triggers me. I was just looking for fitness advice on /fit / but there's so many girls posted there and it just spiraled out of control until I found myself on /gif/. I knew I shouldn't have but I did it anyway. I wish I could block images or something

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Lucas Flores
Lucas Flores

(checked)
You need to identify your triggers and get rid of them. Learn how to use the /etc/hosts file (or hosts file if you're on Windows).

Christian Wright
Christian Wright

our /fit/ or 4/fit? Because our /fit/ is alright in that manner, but 4chan's is pretty much /s/ lite so I'd avoid it

Michael Adams
Michael Adams

Getting /fit and downing onions everyday while taking fertility supps is nofap hardmode.

Its quite liberating/fun being mega horny yet able to control the urges.

day 24

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Daniel Phillips
Daniel Phillips

onions
My nibba, I've also been trying to eat an onion a day/ every other day in some form lately. Made my own spaghetti sauce and put like 2 big onions in it.

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Jackson Scott
Jackson Scott

downing onions everyday
Tell me more about this meme

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Matthew Hall
Matthew Hall

How have you not come across the power of ONIONS!?

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Landon Rogers
Landon Rogers

Download fast image blocker

Easton Wright
Easton Wright

Feels like the whole day has been a test. One that I failed at the last moment.

I have been dealing with a lot of very serious changes in my life and I have been drinking more than usual, which has helped me stay away from harder drugs but seems to fuel the lust in my heart.

I am lonely all the time, almost 30 with no wife or gf prospects. I go out and all I think about is finding a wife but I am convinced the Lord is not providing until I conquer my lustful heart.

Which seems to be creating a loop in my mind. I prayed for help, denied those who mocked me, and in my dreams I was tested with images of porn, and a "wife" who was a porn actress who I inevitably succumbed to in a dream. It took only a moment and when I realized my wicked choice, I awoke a failure just before the dawn.

It felt like I had deliberately chosen this, despite it being a dream. Like, the lust in my unconscious heart overpowered my choices to abstain.

While a dream, it felt a sin. The succubus would call for me to consent for others to "assist her", almost mockingly.

It was terrifying and strange and I have prayed twice upon awakening. I fear my heart is being greatly targeted. My loneliness seems to be a conduit for this.

I do not want this and I do not want to be targeted by demons just because i am crawling out of a very dark hole.

Jose Roberts
Jose Roberts

I adjusted my underwear in a way that ticklede on purpose
Does it count?

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Alexander Taylor
Alexander Taylor

what do you think lamb

David Ross
David Ross

I have no idea maybe

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Jason Wright
Jason Wright

Did you stop, or did you continue playing pocket pool until the end result happened?

Dylan Watson
Dylan Watson

Repent either way. Even if it was an innocent tickle God will like that you're so ready to confess to Him

Juan Ward
Juan Ward

I stoped as soon as I realised what I did

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Zachary Martin
Zachary Martin

Sounds like tough poopoo to be honest. Don't think too much about the dream thing, I've dealth with the same crap… I'd rather not get graphical with the description, but let's just say it was very degenerate and it felt like I was willingly submitting to it. Needles to say I also felt sinful, but I talked to some people about this and some say that in a way, it's a good sign because the evil forces notice that you're actually struggling rather than just giving in, so they're trying harder to break you.

Honestly none of us are strong enough to deal with this by ourselves. This year I've managed to abstain from these sins for 4 months, then fell for a short period of time and went back and it's been 2 months since. But it's only in small part thanks to my own strenght, the best thing you can do is surrender to God and get spernatural help. Go to Confession and take Communion frequently, this is literally the best thing you can do and this advice is given far too rarely in this thread. This IS the one weird trick that will help you beat any sin and I can personally attest to this.

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Gavin White
Gavin White

Please someone answer

Ayden Parker
Ayden Parker

To be quite frank, your experience sounds really rare and extraordinary, so don't be surprised if there is either no one else here who relates, or very few. Consider yourself blessed and be thankful to Almighty God.

Nolan Foster
Nolan Foster

Maybe give a nice prayer for as I know the kind of feeling both of you have and this guy really could some of the good feels you have now.

How much do you drink these days btw, I used to have a bad patch so I'm curious to how far in you are. Like is it just "more drunk" or actual al/ck/ levels?

Mason Gutierrez
Mason Gutierrez

Posting from another PC, and I ended up failing after not being able to let it go out of my mind. It's really horrible. Not drinking tonight.

I am coming off of more drug use that I am not proud of. I have been clean for about a month and a half now. Sometimes I don't drink, other times I can drink a lot. 7 drinks within two hours or so.

Harder drug tolerance makes it impossible to "black out" but it helps turn my mind off.

My mother has been amazing in helping me, but I have been isolated. The cult of the alt right pretty much ruined my life and put a mark on my name which I see as a basic death sentence. There is bad stuff going on in those circles, and they are keen on keeping people in dependence to them. Literal Satanists.

A lot of this is mostly because my dopamine levels have been all sorts of fried. I am trying my best, but it's a lot of massive change all at once.

I am doing my best, and I hate this. I feel like I am just going from one sin to the next. I go out and there are TONS of women all over, but I have some mental block on just having a conversation with them.

I 100% believe it is the LORD preventing my heart from being able to connect to another until I am out of all of this, and this seems to be time I could use affection and a human connection more than any, so I can only assume I am in the middle of a massive test.

The way I see it, the fapping issue is a lesser demon I am battling, however it is still very depressing losing the battle after a month and a half of abstinence.

There are certain kinds of spiritual battles you should not ask to partake in unless you are truly ready to see how dark the abyss of Satan can be.

Ryan Perez
Ryan Perez

Thank you user. I do sometimes feel that this is the lord redeeming me for my past sins

Elijah Gonzalez
Elijah Gonzalez

I will dedicate some of my time for a prayer.

Eli Ross
Eli Ross

Going nofap since beginning of january
The urges go away for a long time, they seem to be gone
2 days ago - confession, feeling great
1 day ago - meet a nice girl(modestly dressed though)
can't stop sinning in your thoughts by all sorts of fantasies ever since but resisting the temptation to relapse.

It's almost as if my brain now produced erotic images all of sudden half of the daytime after all those months of peace. Should go confess again soon probably.
Feels bad.

Mason Ross
Mason Ross

sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home/preface

This book is useful

Evan Davis
Evan Davis

avoid nsfw at all costs.
I am going strong for months. There were few times I got tempted to 'just look here and there' - /s/
Just download the nice clothed girls thread.
never a good idea. At best you'll end up sinning in thoughts, at worst you'll relapse.
Yeah I can relate to this very well. Happened to me with few girls. It is how I establish whether I ask a girl out If there's this feeling I go ahead and ask her out even if the chances are low. You're attracted to her appearance but at the same time there's something else. You like both the external and the internal not merely considering her to be attractive piece of flesh. I've never experienced this feeling until I went no fap. Perhaps this is what falling in love is without being over-sexualized and horny all the time from jerking off…who knows.
Strong post.
Nobody can do it by himself. Get out there, confess, go to communion, pray. I thank God every day for making me strong enough to resist for this whole year. I would not make more than 2 weeks by my sheer willpower.
i experienced bad dreams around days 40-60 too. Once I pushed through they went away. I don't think Lord prevents you from connecting to someone tbh. I think the sinful state of mind and the effects of porn make it so. It takes some time to quit fapping and porn..not just to prevent a relapse but also to change the way of thinking when you get to the point that porn and thots disgust you. Then some time to develop conversation skills and gain confidence in yourself again. The first fuels the second, the second fuels the third, the third fuels the second and so on. I am currently at gaining some confidence in myself so it really feels like an uphill battle. I do know one thing: I would not be fighting this battle if I did not reject fapping/porn completely - that is to say that I would still 'consider relapsing to be an option'. I feel like I make a rapid progress but I have a long way to go. I tend to be very uncertain about myself.
My advice for you: Make it a point to go at least 6 months no fap. No edging, no nsfw. Nothing whatever comes to your mind. Do it for Christ without expecting immediate fruits of your actions. Simply stand because it is the right thing to do. Do the same with the drug use. As you do this you're on a right path and eventually you will reach the target. The devil knows this so he will present all sorts of dreams and wickedness. Just repent, pray and withstand the fire. He will give it up once you prove you don't consider relapsing to be an option no matter what he presents. Remember…the more you succeed the more desperately demons will try to get your hopes down. The best thing you can do is to stand still and hold the line because the victory is probably near. If they demoralize you, they win by bluffing.
Also make it a point to talk to women. First the women you already know, then expand your comfort zone. Work on that even now to destroy 'the mental block' It's probably just a lack of confidence in yourself. I am sure you got this. God will give you the strength you need. I will pray for your success user.

Isaiah Myers
Isaiah Myers

Its rather distressing to see how the idea of "love" has been corrupted, people expecting that their love will be some immense emotional "high" or everything has to be as intense and romantic as like some film; its no wonder why so called marriages are easy to tear down these days if it was based on fleeting emotions. When people talk about Gods love, do they think the Lord is tripping out in heaven or something?

Whatever happened to real trust? What ever happened to the idea of true commitment? You know, the "We are stuck on an island and you ate my leg but I'll still stick with you through this anyway" kind.

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James Ross
James Ross

Day 50 of no fap here. It's wierdly hard today hopfully I'll be OK.

Juan Mitchell
Juan Mitchell

a cool thing i learned is that when you have really strong urges it is literally a demon inside of you dying and the urge is its last attempt to stay alive. think of the demon as a parasite and sin is its food. so whenever i get an urge i realize that im in a 1v1 faceoff with some shitty pathetic demon and it makes it way easier to overcome it.

Kayden Hughes
Kayden Hughes

be day 4
struggling with alot of emotional and spiritual stuff lately
been having more anxiety (not from nofap though)
watch porn and relapse
mind bombarded with otherworldy demonic images and voices
lasts for an hour
don't mess around with this stuff guys

Colton Gray
Colton Gray

I relapsed at Day 65. Don't let your guard down.

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Chase Brown
Chase Brown

Dam, now I'm scared. On day 51…

Cooper Hernandez
Cooper Hernandez

Have you ever paused and considered what constitutes the basic’ ladies who excite lust in you? A bundle of bones, flesh, blood, urine, faecal matter, pus, perspiration, phlegm and other dirt! Will you allow such a bundle to become the master of your thoughts? Will you exchange your birthright of eternal peace and happiness for such a fleeting, filthy mess of pottage? Shame on you! Were your will, your reason and your discrimination given to you only for such an inglorious end? Have you not heard and seen that physical beauty is only skin-deep and at the mercy of every passing accident, illness and year?

Poets have exaggerated the beauty of ladies. They are misguided persons who put young men on the wrong path. Descriptions like "damsels with bewitching eyes", "face like the moon", "rosy cheeks and honeyed lips" are false and imaginary. Where is the beauty in the dead body, in old women, in sick ladies? Where is the beauty when a lady is infuriated? You are aware of this and yet you cling to their bodies! Are you not confirmed fools! This is due to the force of Maya. How mysterious is the power of Maya and Moha! The beauty of a woman is false, artificial and decaying. Real beauty is undecaying and eternal. The Atman is the source of all beauties. His beauty is everlasting and undecaying. It is ornaments, silken clothing with fanciful borders, dressing of the hair with golden hairpins, flowers, application of powder to their faces, lipstick to the lips and unguent to their eyes that lend a temporary decoration and artificial glittering to the women. Deprive them of their face powders, their ornaments and gaudy dress, and ask them to wear a simple white cloth without any border. Where is the beauty now? The beauty of the skin is a delusion only.

Wyatt Young
Wyatt Young

Wow, this is such a good post. It really puts things into perspecti-
This is due to the force of Maya
Huh? Isn't that a Buddhist thing? Naw, this is Zig Forums, surely, I'm just misgui-
the power of Maya and Moha
The Atman
Why? Why would you post that here, fully aware of the fact that it does not belong here?

Jackson Barnes
Jackson Barnes

When the urges come at you just pray… then listen to some Byzantine chants or something like that.

You
You can't
You can't fap
You can't fap and
You can't fap and pray
You can't fap and pray at
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You can't fap and pray at the same time.
You can't fap and pray at the same
You can't fap and pray at the
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exactly.

Caleb Ortiz
Caleb Ortiz

Poets have exaggerated the beauty of ladies
Well not all of them. You cannot separate body from soul. That's the first thing. When you do it you just lust after 'a bundle of bones' If it's a pornstar you probably would not be attracted to her soul.
Just posting this to say there's nothing wrong to appreciate beauty of women - especially if you like who she is as a person. That's not the same thing as lusting after them.

Alexander Howard
Alexander Howard

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David Martin
David Martin

I've heard that demons have some presence or control over your flesh so pray and gaze upon the face of Christ with your eyes to have them also see their defeat and flee from you.

Kayden Sanders
Kayden Sanders

Last night i went to bed wanting to give in very bad but fought the urge, woke up today feeling like i had to puke and i could tell it was a masturbation withdrawl, after rolling around in agony for a while i gave in. Im so ashamed at myself, the martyrs went through so much pain for our lord and I cant handle a bit of sickness. I do not know how to combat this withdrawl pain. Also i have a habit of indulging in the sin one time doesnt do it for me I still feel horny (and like puking) people go to hell for this sin I want to be free of it so bad but the withdrawls are so horrible i dont know how to combat them.

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Cooper Davis
Cooper Davis

Fear not, user, keep trying, keep praying. Work your resistance like a muscle, you will get there, just be glad that God has already planted the seed in you to begin his work of cleansing you, that is why these things disturb you so much already, as they never belonged to who you really are, you WILL make it as long as you never give up and remember to call and rely on him to clean you.

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Ayden Allen
Ayden Allen

I've fallen short in the glory of God. Please forgive me.

But I think I've made a breakthrough on how to stop fapping.
Of course you want to avoid porn like it doesn't exist, but even causal memes show too much ankle for innocent eyes.
What you want to practice is how to dissociate between you and the person you're observing-just don't think much about her/him and it's helps to accept that you're not going to do anything to her/him anyways since you're a devoted Christian. Also controlling your breathing rate tend to beneficial, although it's not that effective, but it's better than nothing. If anything immoral pops into your head, distract yourself until the thought is forgotten.

Camden Jackson
Camden Jackson

easy mode: turn off your computer for a week, don't go on the internet, hide your phone as well.

Jaxson Sanchez
Jaxson Sanchez

i tried to quit for 5 years, only seriously for the past 2, and it's only in the past couple of months have i made progress.

Joseph Morris
Joseph Morris

That a good practical method, but it's too temporary and doesn't help once you got a glimpse of exposed elbows

Jason Jones
Jason Jones

I am physically repulsed by myself and I feel dead inside. This has been the third time in one week, I've showered myself in divine influence and I prayed for over an hour consecutively last night, hoping to at least escape this hellish malaise. And still I sin, just as I thought I had gotten somewhere. It is so insanely tiring, after having poured so much emotion and good will into an act of perfect contrition, and to throw it all away upon the slightest sign of absentmindedness and wear. How do I even react to this

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Benjamin Taylor
Benjamin Taylor

I always relapse when I have to study for a long time and my brain get tired while my body is fresh and active but I HAD ENOUGH! I made k9 password random generated, put on leechblock and an another porn blocker. if I still relapse, I will do a one month no computer this summer. I'm so weak brother please pray for me

Thomas Price
Thomas Price

7 times in one day
Still have the urge for another

Does this urge never die down? Even for just a few hours? The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak and slightly bruised at this point

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Brayden Ramirez
Brayden Ramirez

7 times in one day
user I…

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Carson Perez
Carson Perez

Came here to ask a question much like this. Good to see others are also experiencing it. However, when we are emotionally intimate (I talk about my problems, she about hers, and we give each other advice and support) I find myself leaking precum, leading to, so far, the most intense blueballs I've experienced. YET, I have much less urge to masturbate than before our relationship and even feel some fundamental disgust towards it.

Jeremiah Scott
Jeremiah Scott

Instead of no fapping, just force yourself to fap for 8 hours every day until your damn dicks have fallen off.

A high initial investment of time but saves infinite future fretting over the habit.
If you don't manage to fap for 8 hours then you must flaggelate yourself unironically.

Mortify your flesh in one way or another.

Alternatively, only fap if you at least notify one woman (that is not related to you) about it.
As in, you can only get off if a woman (or a man if you're a woman, I guess) knows that you are doing that.
At least you'll seek out women that way instead of just jerking your gerkin while tears of shame roll down your faces.

It will still be adultery in a way, but its one step closer to not being a total trainwreck.

John Diaz
John Diaz

Why do I get the feeling 90% of this thread is <16 year old, hormone factories?

Ryan Ross
Ryan Ross

Nice idea. I don't have a problem with internet though. My issue is that i go outside and the streets are flooded with gorgeous women dressed in skirts. Although I purged fapping I literally can't go even 2 days without sinning by embracing lustful thoughts.
have you tried praying when the urges come?
7 times a day
That has to hurt physically
The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.
Actually the spirit controls the flesh. At least that's the ideal. 7 times a day means flesh is in the charge, not spirit. You can purge this addiction just strengthen your spirit and will.

Hunter Jackson
Hunter Jackson

Just posting this to say there's nothing wrong to appreciate beauty of women - especially if you like who she is as a person. That's not the same thing as lusting after them.
Where do you draw the line though?

Connor Taylor
Connor Taylor

Imagine yourself trying to put out a fire by dousing it with gasoline and then asking yourself why isn't the fire being put out? It's pretty much that.

Sating human desire only increases it in the end. Hence why Paul tells us to be content no matter the situation and why Ecclesiastes tells us that everything is "chasing after the wind".

But I feel you bro, I was there at one point, those are truly terrible days. But at least you have the knowledge that you need to escape it just as I had (now approaching 2 years of nofap). Just keep failing on your escape until one day you break free from that prison just as I had. God will listen to your petitions so make prayer your routine and perfection your goal. Never ever give up.

Jose Morgan
Jose Morgan

I am so stupid.

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Jaxon Reyes
Jaxon Reyes

I just copy-pasted it.necaise pf tje anti-fap effect.
i didnt bother to edit it.
what if all women are ugly but we all like them anyways?

Alexander Morgan
Alexander Morgan

Three weeks and I failed. Is there something I can take to kill my sex drive?

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Blake White
Blake White

It's been over four months for me now. I only relapsed once prior when I really started "nofap." If you guys haven't, go to confession every time you relapse. It'll sober you to how bad your addiction is and you'll have the opportunity to talk to your spiritual father for guidance. Pornography and masturbation are truly the most deadly addictions of our times, you can overcome it.

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Bentley Bennett
Bentley Bennett

A few hours away from 6 days without porn or masturbation. Almost looked at porn but managed to nip the urge in the bud. My earlier proclamations about never looking at porn again earlier in the thread were premature, as I fapped to porn a freaking day or so after saying that, nevertheless on this attempt I hope at least to get much further than I have before, and aim towards that goal of never again fapping or using porn. The more time spend free from both porn and masturbation the more I get used to celibacy. I will also say that avoiding that "just one peek" or "just one more fap" mentality is essential. If you can't justify using porn or fapping, then don't. If we are Christians, then we can't justify such sins.

Liam Garcia
Liam Garcia

Why are so many people so emotionally wounded, confused and in distress? It's one of the core reasons why I cannot have meaningful relationships, and I turn the Christian love I should pour onto others into this lust and wrong desires…how to cure it? How to pray for this gushing tear inside of us to get healed?

Christian Robinson
Christian Robinson

Almost looked at porn but managed to nip the urge in the bud.
Yep, keep nipping that urge in the bud and eventually there won't be any buds to nip. That's all it really boils down to.

Read above.

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Nathaniel Miller
Nathaniel Miller

All too true. Porn addiction turns you into a pathetic husk of a man. But it doesn't have to be that way.

Isaiah Barnes
Isaiah Barnes

yes I have, but when the thoughts roll in any sense or reason goes out the door, "i've gotta calm down first, then i'll pray" and before long i'm already touching myself thinking that'll be it, etc.

Anthony Ramirez
Anthony Ramirez

Confession and Eucharist.

Evan James
Evan James

I often wake up after about an hours sleep at night with almost supernatural urges. I find it impossible to not fap when I do. The thought of not fapping rarely even enters my mind when this happens. It's like I'm on autopilot.

Josiah Roberts
Josiah Roberts

Relapse after a bit more than a week 2 days ago
Just fapped that once, nothing since
Mfw

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Cameron Davis
Cameron Davis

Do you pray? I managed to conquer fapping in October 2014 with praying and haven't fapped once since then, at least while awake. I only orgasmed when I had a wet dream while sleeping face down because I rubbed my body against the bed. Now I am always careful and sleep face up to not repeat it.

TL;DR prayer helps a lot.

Brody Bailey
Brody Bailey

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Jace Hill
Jace Hill

forgot the last time I fapped even though it was just 3 or 4 days ago
Uh oh

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Xavier Johnson
Xavier Johnson

look down and realise you were fapping all along!

(Plot twist music)

Carson Myers
Carson Myers

Relapsed… Last time I got to day 65 and now I only managed to hold 10 days.
Pray for me.

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Blake Long
Blake Long

I've had a nearly two week streak and last night I had a dream that I relapsed and viewed quite a bit of porn. It wasn't a wet dream and I could find no evidence it actually happened, so what does this mean?

Benjamin Jones
Benjamin Jones

It got a reminder yesterday that sometimes it's our worst sins that bring us to god with the most remorse and thus unites us with him closer. I was looking at hentai yesterday and I found some nasty crap i don't even wanna describe but let's just say it was unflappable, and afterward, I prayed the rosary like 3 times. Remember, no matter how far you fall, God is infinitely merciful and will forgive you if you come to him earnestly with a broken spirit also confession is a must if you are Apostolic. is right in saying that the preast is like your doctor. If he's a good preist, he will be concerned but loving in his admonition and will talk you through what to do

god bless you brothers and possible sisters in Christ! Satan will not win! (pic related. remember that our first ancestors were chastized by god for their sin, but he still loved them and provided them with clothing in the wilderness.)

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Austin Johnson
Austin Johnson

Nothing. Just your brain gets back the ideas about the old ways.

Blake Cooper
Blake Cooper

I held out for 40 days and failed about a week ago and have not been able to regain control over myself.

Serious depression and isolation is making this so much worse. I try to go out and talk to people, but everyone is winnie the poohed up anymore. Everyone has succumbed to the propaganda of modernity, and no one seems to have a soul anymore.

Evan Gonzalez
Evan Gonzalez

Here we go again.
We're all gonna make it bras.
Something weird I found is that I don't feel like fapping after talking with girls. I'm weakest when I've been pent up inside all day.

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Charles Jackson
Charles Jackson

Keep trying my friend and don't stop praying! 40 days is great and shows you're well on your way to defeating this sin.

Nathaniel Rogers
Nathaniel Rogers

Day 160.

Landon Nelson
Landon Nelson

That's something I've been thinking about. I don't have anything to replace writing smut. And that means I'm trying to tyrannise myself into just not doing it. Perhaps, user, we should start some sort of chatroom so we can have better conversations instead. Not talking about nofap, but other things, including the bible. Some place we can go to make a habit out of talking to people instead of porn.

Alexander Phillips
Alexander Phillips

Don't write smut. Especially if you plan to post it online. Otherwise you're helping to indulge others in their misdeeds.

Carson Lee
Carson Lee

Meant to quote

Evan Hall
Evan Hall

Get to 120 days
Think I've won
Relapse
Now i cant go more than a week
Never be idle in your fight, this is a constant battle

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Jack Myers
Jack Myers

I'm on the same boat, user.

You never know when the temptations will attack. Never let your guard down.

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Connor Williams
Connor Williams

Rejecting Hugs

There's a girl at my workplace that hugged me. Each time she hugs me, I pop a boner. The first time she hugged me, I didn't expect a boner although I must admit that hugging a girl gives me an opportunity to touch one so I was happy.
The second time though, she hugged me extra tight and talked into my neck which felt really, really sexual to me. I mean, it wasn't (trust me, I'm literally a 250lb neckbeard) but it felt like it. I popped an even harder boner and applied less resistance to it.

In the future, due to my sensitivity, should I reject physical intimacy with female friends when they offer it? I mean, there's no way it's not a mortal sin. Rejecting hugs just because you find them sexual however seems ridiculous. I guess, if possible, I'd like to know if there are others that either are or were in this particular boat. Thoughts?

Xavier Hall
Xavier Hall

I'm not in this boat but I think it's not bad. If anything, it's a normal reaction. It shows your sexuality isn't winnie the poohed.

Christian Wilson
Christian Wilson

Non-Inspired Version

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Cooper Morales
Cooper Morales

No, quite contrarily, I think it suggests precisely that my sexuality is winnie the poohed. How many men get boners from merely hugging a woman? How many men eagerly hug women, knowing they'll get a boner from it? A friendly hug shouldn't be something one finds arousing. I honestly think it would be better for me to pay to see a prostitute and literally pay her for an hour to lay down with me so we can hug and keep having hug sessions until I'm no longer so sensitive to it.

Benjamin Nelson
Benjamin Nelson

day 163. Seems like we're just a day apart. Quite a ride isn't it?

James Brooks
James Brooks

I have never fapped (jerked off with my hand) in my life.

recently I have sinned greatly not just against god but my self and have simulated sex and dry humping my pillows out of anger at myself and life and giving into sin as a result and also my growing sexual frustration and loneliness being built up.

I have done this twice and these are the only times I've ever somewhat "pleased" my flesh and I am highly disappointed at doing so.

How can I get rid of tempting thoughts, how can I stop having sexual dreams and how do I get rid of this pent up sexual frustration that stems mainly from loneliness?

Dylan Flores
Dylan Flores

sleep on your back, throw out the pillow bro

Angel Edwards
Angel Edwards

Best strike yet 10 days without faping
Have wet dream
Sleep until late not going to church
Jerks off
;-; please God give me strength I do not want to sin but old wounds take time to heal by far the hardest thing I ever tried

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Oliver Garcia
Oliver Garcia

i have finally become a volcel instead of an incel-lets us celebrate this shift!
from now on i only abstain because i want to,not because i dont have a choice.

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Brandon Cruz
Brandon Cruz

how can I stop having sexual dreams
I pray for my Guardian Angel before sleeping. It works every time.

Brayden Lee
Brayden Lee

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Dylan Barnes
Dylan Barnes

Made it to 10 full days without masturbating or looking at porn. Then on Sunday night I started feeling very weak and weary, and the temptation to look at porn hit me hard. I watched and downloaded porn for a number of hours, making all sorts of excuses, knowing that I should stop, but I just kept looking. I didn't want to fap, but the blue balls started to get really bad and so I ended up giving in. Then of course it became quickly apparent how pointless that all was. Giving this another shot. Got to remember that porn is the real enemy here. Any time I deliberately search out porn, it's as bad as masturbating, because that's what it leads to. If anything, it's worse.

Ian Ortiz
Ian Ortiz

Pray lads. Pray and pray and pray.

It's a hard road but there is a light at the end of thr tunnel. You're all doing well and God is happy that you're trying.

David Reyes
David Reyes

You need to deny a thot before you're volcel lad.

Jonathan Bell
Jonathan Bell

This. Porn is devil's imagery. Any association with it is associating with the devil himself. I had a severe crisis yesterday. It started slowly. feeling lonely, thinking about the girl I am going to ask out. Then I just watched few photos of beautiful girls online…before I knew it I browsed /gif/ and /s/. Blue balls, urges the whole day after half an hour. Luckily I did not fail nofap. But I sinned by thoughts a lot the whole day long and the thoughts will hunt me now for days along with the urges. It pains me I betrayed God and need to confess soon. This is why you should never let your guard down. it does not matter if you did 10 days or 160 like me. Once you allow the poison into your mind and your soul it eats you from the inside.
All nsfw is a devil's instrument to break you down and you should not view it in any form. Once you go down that path you will eventually fail.

Ryder Ortiz
Ryder Ortiz

Yeah I know, but I need something ELSE to do.

William Thomas
William Thomas

HERE IT GOES HERE IT GOES HERE IT GOES HERE IT GOES AGAIN

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Nathaniel Davis
Nathaniel Davis

OK I really don't know what to do anymore.

I have beaten fapping and porn in the day. I see things sometimes, but it's easy to ignore. I rarely think about PMO and it's easy to move past it and not do it. During the day. Then I go to sleep and I wake up an hour later roughly and all I can think about is fapping and I always give in. My penis doesn't even get that hard during the day if I get a boner. It's almost unnatural.

I don't know how to stop waking up. I don't do it on purpose I just wake up with a boner and immediately go fap. I pray right before bed too and ask for the strength to resist, or to just sleep and not wake up and it keeps happening anyway.

Parker Jackson
Parker Jackson

It is another one of your walls to overcome. Everybody has their own to overcome too. Hold fast and make it past that limit of yours.

Noah Brooks
Noah Brooks

wake up from wet dream
feel just as terrible as if I did it while awake

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Lucas Cook
Lucas Cook

Well you didn't choose to do it, and didn't go through the usual routines you do when you decide to actually PMO, nor did you watch porn as it was all in your head, so despite whatever you feel, it's certainly not as bad as the real thing. So that's something good at least.

Grayson Hernandez
Grayson Hernandez

I'm nearly 2 years into Nofap and I still get these, waking up shortly after you go to sleep extremely aroused. I typically can press on and ignored them but I don't think people early in nofap will be good at this.

IMO in such case, just get up and do a small chore, go to the bathroom, eat a small snack – do some brief chore until the erection/arousal goes away, brush your teeth, wash your face, etc. But whatever you do, do NOT go on the internet. Just finish a small task and then go back to sleep.

Nicholas Lee
Nicholas Lee

Whenever you go through a massive session of looking at stuff, remember that there is still recovery in pulling yourself out of the abyss. IF you don't M or P, then looking at P gets a lot less temping over time, this is how I did it.

So anons, even if you look and have looked for hours, you can still refine yourself by pulling yourself out of the filth, now imagine if you can do that over and over again as you train yourself that you will not get ANY reward for looking at P.

Early in nofap I kept looking but I did not M or P, eventually it got to the point where looking no longer really interested me THAT MUCH. However, there is still some dopamine rush associated with peeking even to this day of my nofap streak (495 days) which I'm guessing will stick with me for the rest of my life, so at the end of the day P needs to be completely ignored. But for those of you who look, just remember that pulling yourself out of the filth is a good exercise of resilience that will only get stronger, so anons don't feel too bad when you look – just pull yourself out – over and over again and peeking will become less appealing.

Joseph Adams
Joseph Adams

What the winnie the pooh is wrong with me?

Since I relapsed 2 weeks ago, after 2 months of nofap, I can't get back on track. Every 2nd day I find myself looking at good looking women and before I know it I start touch myself and proceed to full masturbation.

After climax I completely hate myself. I feel so ashamed that I don't want to even think about praying and asking for forgiveness. I feel ungrateful and pathetic.

Just kill me.

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Lincoln Parker
Lincoln Parker

There is only one option left…gif related

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Ian Peterson
Ian Peterson

that I don't want to even think about praying and asking for forgiveness
PRAY
DO IT

Matthew Jenkins
Matthew Jenkins

I don't want to even think about praying and asking for forgiveness. I feel ungrateful and pathetic.
Satan tricked you once already, don't let him trick you immediately again.

Cooper Reyes
Cooper Reyes

People don't understand love=/=infatuation=/=lust, Greek has multiple terms denoting different kinds of love that are important to separate.

People unable to understand the sanctity of marriage is a great problem too.

Logan Perry
Logan Perry

Why do we keep failing?
Are the people who're perfectly able to resist the urges without faltering already born with the blessing of celibacy and raised with the right teachings?
Have our souls been made weaker than the urges in our mortal upbringing, beyond our control? Does committing the act even once already prove that we are already doomed for our imperfect will?

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Aaron Cox
Aaron Cox

already told you: Confession and Eucharist

Sebastian Ward
Sebastian Ward

it gets easier as you go further out.

Christian Wilson
Christian Wilson

Go pray. Confess. Start again. Do not let satan trick you into giving up.
By socializing and by keeping yourself busy you have less time for doing this stuff. Try that. You'll reach the point when fapping will be a terrible think because it will drain all your energy to work out and to socialize. Y

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Ryan Wood
Ryan Wood

Yes.

Kevin Lewis
Kevin Lewis

Failure is the first step to success, It took me nearly 2 years to get on my current streak, for some people it will take even longer, some shorter. Just keep at it with the full weight of your heart in supplication towards the Almighty.

Make prayer your default mode of thinking, even this takes some time to happen. All these things just require a radical lifestyle change that can't simply happen overnight, it's a painful process where you will be tempted over and over again along the way, which is why persistence is so important no matter how many times you stumble.

Be patient with yourself, God is faithful and will answer your prayers, but take this struggle as your '40 years wandering in the desert' before you reach the promised land. At one point most of us thought there was nothing wrong with PMO, now we have to undo the damage caused by our ignorance, being tempted is the price we pay for our ignorance but rejecting that temptation is how God will know we've truly had a change of heart.

But just give the process some time and be patient with yourself.

Caleb Jackson
Caleb Jackson

why does this keep happening to me

i really need a girlfriend gosh

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Ryan Nguyen
Ryan Nguyen

Why do we keep failing?
Because this world is just rotten, but only by ridding ourselves form this rot first will we be able to go out and genocide those who have instigated it.
May we win and God be with us.

Evan Cox
Evan Cox

Does anybody have a link to the book?

Jacob Brown
Jacob Brown

You mean this one?

Kayden Taylor
Kayden Taylor

Yes! Thanks lad!

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Ryder Garcia
Ryder Garcia

Ask St. Mary of Egypt to pray for you guys

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Alexander Rodriguez
Alexander Rodriguez

why cant i just pray when i get urges! why am i doing this to myself!

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Brandon Jackson
Brandon Jackson

tfw no St. Mary of Egypt mommy gf

Justin Richardson
Justin Richardson

SIGNORE GESÙ CHRISTO, FIGLIO DI DIO, ABBI PIETA DI ME, PECCATORE

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Tyler Morgan
Tyler Morgan

AAAAAHHHHH
got to the point I've done it twice today

Well, my peepee became sore so I can't do much now. I guess it's a good thing.

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Michael Powell
Michael Powell

Tfw realizing revisiting these threads is part of the reason why many of you relapse since it keeps your focus on fapping and not something productive

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Asher Russell
Asher Russell

That's why i suggested a group where we can do stuff that's not just talking about this. give each other things to focus on. Hell, we could study the bible. I'm on day 1 again. (1 day nofap). Last night I prayed and read the bible and I feel now like there's somehow new hope.

Elijah Wilson
Elijah Wilson

Since we're imperfect mortals who tumble time and time again and can only be saved by the grace of God, is it fine to continue carrying out Christian duties and repent/confess the sin when you're old and not too far from the end?

Asher Gutierrez
Asher Gutierrez

Firstly you have no idea when you would die, second many deathbed confessions are notoriously poor and in ineffective bc of weakness and delirium, and third you wouldn't even be able to take communion without sacrilidge if you didn't confess first. God's loves you more than to let you putrify yourself without his graces your whole life, specifically those of the sacraments. Take their aid and love him with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength. If you want a simple means of maintaining purity, I recommend the three hail mary's devotion.

Juan Howard
Juan Howard

It's cheating.

Gavin Miller
Gavin Miller

CHRISTO
CH
capra

Isaac Perry
Isaac Perry

CHRISTO
CH
PIETA
A
capra

Gavin Russell
Gavin Russell

I hate to break it to you, but having a girlfriend doesn't make it any easier.

Ayden Ortiz
Ayden Ortiz

Matthew 20:1-16 describes the exact scenario you are painting:

9 “The workers who were hired about five in the afternoon came and each received a denarius. 10 So when those came who were hired first, they expected to receive more. But each one of them also received a denarius. 11 When they received it, they began to grumble against the landowner. 12 ‘These who were hired last worked only one hour,’ they said, ‘and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.’

13 “But he answered one of them, ‘I am not being unfair to you, friend. Didn’t you agree to work for a denarius? 14 Take your pay and go. I want to give the one who was hired last the same as I gave you. 15 Don’t I have the right to do what I want with my own money? Or are you envious because I am generous?’

16 “So the last will be first, and the first will be last.”

(Matthew 20:1-16 is not long so it's worth reading its entire context)

God's grace is sufficient even if you repent at the end of your life. What matters is that your repentance is genuine, this is also not a pass for Christians to have a 'license to sin' any heart that willingly gives itself unto evil is going to have hard time repenting, but yes you're fine if you genuinely repent with all your heart.

Charles Hernandez
Charles Hernandez

Ohh che cavolo ::DDDDD

Adrian Price
Adrian Price

There are people are grumbling about being given this chance in the first place.

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Zachary Roberts
Zachary Roberts

You got it backwards. First get rid of this, then find a girlfriend. Trust me it will be much easier for both of you.
This is the path you have to take on your own.

Isaac Evans
Isaac Evans

Broke nofap at 5 months. feeling tired and sick. guilty. why did i do this? :(

Brody Foster
Brody Foster

No fap does not work. No fap can't work.
Here is what happens as you stop fapping,
Your brain becomes more sensitive to dopamine. Your testosterone rises.
These too factors keep increasing your urge to fap until you fap.
The way to get rid of these urges is to starve yourself, but as soon as you get enough food, the urge to fap will be waiting for you.
So do not do no fap because it does not work.
DO try to minimize the amount of fapping that you do. Make a fap schedule that you can handle. And make it a really quick fap. As you get better at minimizing your fapping, make the schedule stricter.

Ryan Bell
Ryan Bell

not sinning is impossible
🤔

Isaiah Turner
Isaiah Turner

I have a somewhat odd question, and if I come across as trying to bend the rules of what God wants from us, but I mean this question in all sincerity. Does masturbating to things that are either unrealistic or, in some ways, impossible still mean that one commits sin? I do not mean unlikely scenarios, but I mean things like monster girls or art of impossible figures.If this is odd, I apologize, but I feel I need to ask.

Oliver Wright
Oliver Wright

Hey, go take the anti-sex pills they give released child molesters if you don't want to fap.

You'll probably be feminized from it, though.

Jordan Scott
Jordan Scott

Also, I don't get where fapping is considered a sin. Source?

Jayden Nguyen
Jayden Nguyen

Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.

Jackson Adams
Jackson Adams

speak for yourself. i'm 109 days in. seeing thots irl/random porn disgusts me

Ryder Peterson
Ryder Peterson

This.
The only thing making me fap is pr0n, and not a real urge.

Aiden Reyes
Aiden Reyes

I am too weak to stop so nobody should do it.
Man, urges are normal in the withdrawal phase. That passes. If you dislike living in the sin then take your cross and follow Christ without justifying your own weakness. If you're satisfied with things as they are why even come here? To demoralize guys who struggle?
I'm past day 170 and most urges are gone. It's possible to purge this.

Jeremiah Brooks
Jeremiah Brooks

Also I want to thank you guys.
Few months ago I had urges so I started browsing /gif/. Luckily some of you posted agnus dei webm there so I just wasn't able to go on. I listened to the music and closed the devil's den after that.
Thanks.

Eli Hill
Eli Hill

Very retarded. Think before you spout dumb shit next time.
Musterbation is fornication with yourself.

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Logan Martin
Logan Martin

Is it normal to have the urge to ask every normal looking cute girl I see? I also some voice in my head telling me to marry them

Kayden Miller
Kayden Miller

Sounds like an urge to marry someone misdirected onto anyone who is visually attractive. You should spend some time looking for the right one.

Nathan Anderson
Nathan Anderson

socializing and working on not being a sperg is good, just don't waste too much time on whores

Tyler Brown
Tyler Brown

thats healthy behaviour for a high-T normie.
be careful not to depress yourself if they turn you down tho.

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Christopher Morales
Christopher Morales

How do I learn to trust God entirely and stop trying to control everything?

I've come to understand I need to be completely humble and rely entirely on God to win this struggle.
If I sin I feel terrible, I pray, God forgives and gives me a little bit of grace.
Then things improve for a few days (7 to 40 days), I feel very good, confident, I trust my abilities, I think I'm strong enough and I can handle it.
Then in a subtle way overconfidence lead me into a trap and I fall. God allows this fall to happen because I was trying to rely on my strenght alone.

How do I keep the humbleness and repentance I experience after sin when everything is going fine? How do I avoid relaxation and lowering the guard?

Jonathan Collins
Jonathan Collins

FINALLY, FRICKIN' FINALLY, after all these "uuuughh I can't do it :(" I'm finally doing it, day zero almost passed, seems it's a lot easier when you just don't think about it too much, feels good to finally be free
THANK YOU GOD!, THANK YOU ALL!! THANK YOU!!! AMEN.

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Kevin Russell
Kevin Russell

Guys it's been almost a year since my last fap. But lately I've been felling some urges that I quickly repress. For now my lazyness covers up for it plus the fact that I wouldn't be able to receive eucharisty on Sunday but I'm afraid someday I'll crack. What should I do? And pray for me btw.

Lucas Diaz
Lucas Diaz

wew, losing a year old NoFap would be a huge loss, try to occupy yourself with something, also don't think about it too much, it's easier to do NoFap when you're not thinking about NoFap (lulz), and fapping in general

Gavin Jones
Gavin Jones

(once again) DAY 130

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Aaron Rivera
Aaron Rivera

You have to attain nepsis.

Zachary Reyes
Zachary Reyes

aaaaand dropped, well… shit.

Ayden Cruz
Ayden Cruz

pride commith before the fall

Jason Robinson
Jason Robinson

Sorry to tell you this, but if you're here to brag about it, you're definitely not "doing it". I think that's one thing most here don't understand. Counting the days like most do is not being free from addiction. That why you have people that haven't done it since one year but still struggle.

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Adrian Parker
Adrian Parker

Done nofap twice. First time I scored 32 days. Second time I messed up with 27 days.
Recently I do it only twice a week and even then just for the "release" so the whole desire wouldn't peck at my brain. Not proud of it either.
Might be able to stop it entirely and go priest-mode for life. Or else get a wife…

Zachary Reyes
Zachary Reyes

By realizing that the success is not just thanks to your will but that God is your strength.
Got nofap? great. Work on other flaws then. Work on eliminating lustful thoughts, searching for wife.
There's nothing wrong with tracking your progress. It's not good to brag about 'hey, I got x days' but there's nothing wrong with counting your days. After purging the addiction you still know approximately how many days you got on your hands but you no longer care about the exact number.
You're at the beginning of the journey. 2 times a month ….that's a very good start. You're on the right path don't give it up.

Angel Jenkins
Angel Jenkins

but if I won't count the days, how I know how long I've been free

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Noah Cruz
Noah Cruz

wet dream about wanking
wake up not knowing if I actually did it or not
What a nightmare

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David Mitchell
David Mitchell

Yeah I had that today too ;_;

Logan Reyes
Logan Reyes

Keep fighting anons. I had the exact same shit when I started years ago. Strenghten your faith in God and eventually the practice itself will become a thing of disgust.
No more dreams, no more desire.

Brody Bell
Brody Bell

I'm sorry Zig Forums, but I must contest.

The Bible never condemns solo masturbation. Hell, it doesn't even mention it once. This is the closest it ever got to talking about masturbation:
"Now if a man has a seminal emission, he shall bathe all his body in water and be unclean until evening. As for any garment or any leather on which there is seminal emission, it shall be washed with water and be unclean until evening." (Leviticus 15:16-17)
It doesn't say having an ejaculation is sinful. It just makes you ceremonially unclean.
Uncleanliness is sin!
It's talking about married couples!
Wrong. It has separate verses specifically for that:
"If a man lies with a woman so that there is a seminal emission, they shall both bathe in water and be unclean until evening. When a woman has a discharge, if her discharge in her body is blood, she shall continue in her menstrual impurity for seven days; and whoever touches her shall be unclean until evening." (Leviticus 15:18-19)
A woman who has a period becomes unclean. Did she sin? No, because God designed women that way.
A married couple who has sex where an emission happens become unclean. Did they sin? No, it's married sex.
It's talking about nocturnal emissions!
Wrong. Those are covered here:
"If there is among you any man who is unclean because of a nocturnal emission, then he must go outside the camp; he may not reenter the camp." (Deuteronomy 23:10)
A man who has a nocturnal emission (which is something incredibly rare to happen, mind you) becomes unclean. Did it say that it happens when he's asleep? No, so it may also apply when he is awake. Unless you have some sort of health disorder, you don't have emissions when you're awake. Therefore, this also covers emissions caused by masturbation. Is having an emission sin? No, because uncleanliness is not sin, as shown in Leviticus. There's no condemnation. That's how much of a non-issue it is to God.
But Onan!
Onan was punished for disobeying God's command, not for spilling his seed.

Kayden Taylor
Kayden Taylor

But Clement/Martin Luther/John Calvin/John Wesley/Tertullian said it's sin to waste your seed!
The Bible says married couples can do whatever they want in bed, be it for making a baby or not, and that it's not only okay but also encouraged for them to enjoy the pleasures of sex. If it's not a sin to spill seed in married sex, then it isn't a sin at all.
"Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. 16 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. 17 Let them be only thine own, and not strangers’ with thee. Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. 19 Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love. And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?" (Proverbs 15:15-20)
If the Bible is okay with couples engaging through masturbation (for both spouses even), why would spilling seed be a sin? Back then, it was believed that sperm was the only factor in human reproduction and the sperm was regarded as humans in miniature. Hence spilling it out was tantamount to abortion as well as a waste of a precious element. Furthermore, sperm cells not ejected from the body simply die after a few weeks anyway, and they are continuously replaced. That pretty much invalidates that argument.
Masturbation makes you prone to being lustful!
Then why does masturbating so much more effective to kill off lust than not doing it? Abstaining from it will only make lustful thoughts grow, and cause intense suffering because it's gonna be on your mind when you go out and all hell can break loose from there. Fapping makes you placid, reserved and non-lustful in the end, and thus much safer.
The Church's tradition said it's a sin because it promotes self-indulging and makes people not want to marry!
A person's decision to find a spouse is independent of masturbation. There are countless people who, despite masturbating, still evade fornication and seek a spouse; a lot of them Christians too, and that didn't ruin their faith and/or marriage. Hell, even priests do it to rid themselves of lust.
Masturbation is lust of the flesh!
If it is lustful, it is certainly no more lustful than the fleshly lust a married man feels for his lawful wife, which is permitted.

Carter Jackson
Carter Jackson

But masturbation is caused by sinful thoughts!
If it is sinful, why is it the one "sin" that people struggle with the most? Why does it force people to literally count the days they've gone without "falling" into it? Murder is a sin, but you don't see anyone struggling not to kill someone, "made it to 10 days without stabbing someone", "aw dammit guys I relapsed and broke someone's neck again" or anything of the sort, do you? Perhaps because masturbation is not a sin, but a natural drive God gave us on purpose? Repressing it sounds more sinful than doing it because you're actively rejecting God has blessed you with, which is your sexuality. Lack of libido is reserved to those who would be priests. If masturbation were to be forbidden on the basis of "impure thoughts", then you would need to prohibit all advertising, because advertising can leads to "impure thoughts" of material greed.
It's still a sin because even if the Bible didn't say anything about it, these people/tradition did!
"If you have died with Christ to the elementary principles of the world, why, as if you were living in the world, do you submit yourself to decrees, such as, “Do not handle, do not taste, do not touch!” (which all refer to things destined to perish with use)—in accordance with the commandments and teachings of men? These are matters which have, to be sure, the appearance of wisdom in self-made religion and self-abasement and severe treatment of the body, but are of no value against fleshly indulgence." (Colossians 2:20-23)
"But in vain they do worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men." (Matthew 15:9)
"Howbeit in vain do they worship me, teaching for doctrines the commandments of men." (Mark 7:7)
We must reject man-made rules because they are of absolutely NO value against sin. Actually, when we invent man-made rules of righteousness which God has not declared, we actually serve the enemy instead. Declaring a man-made rule to be God's is to lie about God. Are you following the Word of the Lord or the traditions of men?

Asher James
Asher James

"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." (Matthew 5:27-28)
This verse is mistranslated. In the original Greek, the word used for "woman" in this verse is "gynaika", which actually means WIFE, as in a woman who is married to another man, not just ANY woman. Secondly, the word used for "lust" in this verse has a stronger meaning than what is taught. "Lust" isn't a word that's exclusive to sexual things, but a neutral word that can be used for anything. Its real meaning for lust, ESPECIALLY in the Bible is "an intense desire to have something for oneself." Paul explains what the word stands for here:
"What shall we say then? Is the law sin? God forbid. Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet." (Romans 7:7)
According to him, lust encompasses covetousness. Covetousness in the Bible is the “thought” sin which proceeds many other “action” sins, like theft, murder, adultery and fornication. The intent is more strongly marked in the Greek than in English. It's not a passing glance, not even the momentary impulse, but the continued gaze by which the impulse is deliberately cherished till it becomes actual passion. To covet another man's WIFE the desire to TAKE his WIFE and make your own - a desire that goes beyond getting horny, as you would get when lookint at porn.
Getting horny because you saw erotic art doesn't mean you actually lust (covet) to go have sex with the woman depicted in said art. If that were the true meaning of the teachings against lust in the bible, if you are "aroused" by the sight of food and I even imagine how good that food would be to eat that, you'd be automatically doomed for gluttony, even though actual gluttony would be desiring to go and steal that food. To covet it. Same thing goes for looking at a cool car and wondering how fun it'd be to drive it; it isn't the same as actually stealing it for yourself, i.e. coveting it, because covetousness in the Bible is the thought which makes you actually commit the sin (theft, murder, adultery and fornication) because the desire is continuous, unlike some random temporary fantasy to rub off to.

Gabriel Harris
Gabriel Harris

Does looking at porn give you a strong, lasting desire to make the woman in the picture your WIFE, to the point of thinking about being with her even after you've fapped? Or does it just turn you on for a while, as it would any normal man? If it's the latter, it's not coveting.
Yes it is!
It isn't. Covetousness can be part of lust, but lust is NOT always covetousness. It's not vice-versa, as the Bible also dictates that it's perfectly fine to lust after your own wife, thus making lust independent of covetousness, and by extension making it not sin:
"Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love." (Proverbs 5:18-19)
In short, Jesus was just elaborating on the 9th Commandment: Do not COVET your neighbor's WIFE. Desiring a woman who is NOT MARRIED is okay (as long don't fornicate with her before marriage), because that's how you find a wife of your own.
biblehub.com/commentaries/matthew/5-28.htm
biblehub.com/interlinear/matthew/5-28.htm

Kevin Clark
Kevin Clark

"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies." (1 Corinthians 6:15-20)
Any passages referring to sexual immorality do not apply to masturbation, as anything "sexual" requires more than one person to be considered so. That's the whole point of the word "sex" and its derivatives, and why it doesn't equal solo masturbation. The sexual immorality Paul speaks of in this passage refers to ACTUALLY engaging in some sort of fornication with someone who is not your wife, and being "bought with price" means that you were lured into having sex outside of marriage. Fornication actually means "voluntary SEXUAL INTERCOURSE between TWO unmarried persons or TWO persons not married to each other." You can't "fornicate" with yourself, unless you're willing to admit you can winnie the pooh yourself.
But it's lust! They're the same thing!
No. Sex outside of marriage is adultery. Adultery is covetous sin, as it drives you to winnie the pooh someone else outside of marriage. Who are you commiting adultery with when you masturbate? Yourself?
But porn is included! If they had porn back in Jesus' time, they would call it sin!
Except that both Greece and Rome were literally drenched in porn in those times. Hell, go look up the sort of stuff they found at Pompeii. There was no shortage of moments of opportunity to rule porn out, but it was never done.
But porn is still sin because it's based on the word "porneia!"
The Greek word porneia originally referred to whoredom, i.e. promiscuity. Casual sex with other people. Can you have sex with an erotic picture/drawing? No. Are pieces of paper people? No.
Porn is still sin even if they had no specific term for it!
The Bible has no specific term for bestiality, but it still called it "sex with animals". The Bible had no specific term for homosexuality, but it still called it "to lie with another of the same sex". It had no word for incest, but it still called it "have sexual relations with a close relative". But it sure had a word for "SEX outside of marriage". It could have very well denounce pornography as "sexual imagery/representation", but it never did.

Xavier Bell
Xavier Bell

But you're not your own! God gave you your body!
Consider this:
"Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ." (II Corinthians 10:5)
This verse explains that we should cast down ideas that go against the teachings of God (bestiality, homosexuality, adultery, incest, fornication, rape) because he did not design us for this. Now:
"Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." (Philippians 4:8)
This verse tells us that we can think about whatever is true, right and lovely; in summation, things God approves of and deems right for us. It is stated in Genesis that the Lord created sexuality between a man and a woman (whose bodies belong to him) as a good thing that is to be cherished. That would mean that depictions of human sexuality as God intended (heterosexual and non-degenerate) are a good thing to imagine, as they are right.
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. (1 Corinthians 10:13)
but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
"A" way indicates more than one possible way, other than praying.
If it's so bad, why do societies that allow porn experience a larger reduction in sex crimes? Porn is a very efficient “way to escape” the temptation of extra-marital sex because you can use it to put out the fire of lust before it grows into the actual sin that is covetousness.

Christian Martin
Christian Martin

"Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life." (Galatians 6:8)
God made us sexual beings for a reason. What he actually doesn't want us to do is employ our sexuality in a sinful way (bestiality, homosexuality, adultery, incest, fornication, rape), which he was VERY CLEAR about, going to such lengths as to detail just how sinful each one of them are. If He were against masturbation and porn, He would have said it plain and simple. He would also not let us fall victim to health ailments such as prostatic congestion or epididymal hypertension because of chastity.
But eroticism is still sin! The Bible has nothing like that!
Song of Solomon.
It's an allegory!
According to what? Tradition? As in not the Word of God?
It strays you away from God! Masturbation opens doors to sins!
If rubbing your meat for a little while every now and again is enough to make you forsake the Lord, be carried away to covet and commit actual sin, then the problem is bigger than fapping - it's your weak faith in Him. Addiction and idolatry are still sins though, so moderation must be kept so masturbation won't take control of your life. You know how He gave us food but told us not to be gluttons? Same deal.
"For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving;" (1 Timothy 4:4)
The simple fact is that private solo masturbation is permitted. And if we reject it as a sin, when it is not, we go against the will of God, Who gave it to us as a gift for our benefit and enjoyment. If God didn't make life with struggles we can't conquer, and fapping is impossible to conquer due to being part of our human nature, then maybe it's not a sin. He didn't make us to suffer on the world to this degree.

I'm not saying people should start fapping without abandon, but NoFap's only real purpose is to build your self-restraint and discipline, and there nothing wrong with that. Bottom line is: Fapping is not a sin.

inb4 banned
Do what you must, but remember Matthew 10:16-25. Are you a student of the Word of the Lord, or a fearful slave to the teachings of men?

Ryder James
Ryder James

And before anyone says I'm doing wrong in basing myself 100% on the Bible, Martin Luther also did, and he was persecuted for it.

Nicholas Carter
Nicholas Carter

HOLY SHIT KYS YOU winnie the pooh PROT
Sexual laws are so winnie the pooh restrictive but they would allow masturbation why? Why the winnie the pooh masturbation gives sexual pleasure? Because it is a sexual act God winnie the pooh retard.
Do you think that any Saint after convertion did it?
I bet you don't even think about it. Like every winnie the pooh prot in this gay earth you interpretate the Bible in the way which maximizes your earthly happiness.

Christian Jenkins
Christian Jenkins

Why the winnie the pooh masturbation gives sexual pleasure?
It gives you pleasure, but it's not inherently sexual because you're not having sex with someone else.
Is the good feeling you get when you eat something always gluttony?
Of course getting addicted to the happiness of the flesh is bad but it doesn't mean we are to live in complete misery.
You interpreted the Bible
By that logic everyone does you winnie the pooh idiot.

Carson Howard
Carson Howard

Do you think that any Saint after conversion did it?
No, but Saints are few among people.

Look it's not in the Bible and some words from 19th century dictionaries translate key words wrongly
<YOU INTERPRETED IT
<By the way it's not in the Bible, but it's still not okay

Asher Garcia
Asher Garcia

In what winnie the pooh dictionary says the sexual something requires two persons? Nice mental gymnastics.
You interpreted the Bible
By that logic everyone does you winnie the pooh idiot.
Read again faggot. "interpretate the Bible in the way which *maximizes your earthly happiness*."

Parker Edwards
Parker Edwards

In what winnie the pooh dictionary says the sexual something requires two persons?
How about the dictionaries of biblical meanings, dumbass? Specifically for the actual word used for sexual immorality in the bible, which is "porneia":
blueletterbible.org/lang/lexicon/lexicon.cfm?t=kjv&strongs=g4202
biblehub.com/greek/4202.htm
I pointed out the mistakes of modern dictionaries in relation to the Bible for a reason. So much for "interpreting" it, huh?

Evan Torres
Evan Torres

So what winnie the pooh retard?
Have you actually read it? Do you know the 10 commandments? Have you read Paul? Wtv suits you kid if it makes you feel bad since you can't control yourself. I pity you.

Nolan Taylor
Nolan Taylor

MOOOOOOOOOOODS

Ban that autist please.

Luke Bell
Luke Bell

Have you actually read it?
Yeah, and it has mistranslations from greek/hebrew.
Do you know the 10 commandments?
I have. Didn't see any "thou shalt not masturbate" in there. Do YOU know it?
Have you read Paul?
Yeah I read what he said in this specific matter.
"Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral (fornicators), nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God."
— 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 (ESV)
So what winnie the pooh retard?
So you have no argument?

Nathan Adams
Nathan Adams

I'm gonna talk to you like if you were 5.
Just use common sense:
19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 1 Corinthians 6:19
If my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit would God approve that I profanated His place by flapping furiously burning with lust? (inb4 I don't feel lust when flapping. We are all men and you don't fool anyone with that)
8 Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8
Will you deny that masturbation isn't for the pleasure of your flesh?
And to conclude
27 You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:27-28
Every time you fap you think about a woman either irl or on your computer so you are committing adultery thus violating one of God's commandments.
From what I can see you're still on the denial phase. We all have been on that boat.

Brayden Howard
Brayden Howard

Fornication is a sin.
Masturbation is a form of fornication.
Therefore Masturbation is a sin.

End of discussion.

Henry Cox
Henry Cox

I'm gonna talk to you like you're retarded. That is, how everyone must talk to you.
If my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit would God approve that I profaned His place by flapping furiously burning with lust? (inb4 I don't feel lust when flapping. We are all men and you don't fool anyone with that)
Profananate? Where are you getting this from? The things that profanate His place (us) is already clearly stated. You know what else is clearly stated? This:
“All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.” – I Corinthians 6:12 (KJV)
What thing soever I command you, observe to do it: thou shalt not add thereto, nor diminish from it. (Deuteronomy 12:32)
Do what God commands, don't do what he doesn't command. Did he command anyone not to masturbate? No.
Will you deny that masturbation isn't for the pleasure of your flesh?
I may rejoice in how God made me by appreciating my sexuality, which He Himself said is GOOD.
Pleasure of the flesh is to desire to ATTAIN the flesh of another, not to appreciate your own.
And to conclude
You're an absolute retard, because I literally just showed you, twice, that the adultery Jesus talks about in Matthew 5:27-28 is of another man's WIFE, as shown in the original Greek.
Here, try finding anything pertaining masturbation in this:
4the10.net/home.htm
You absolute idiot.

See

Liam Robinson
Liam Robinson

I mean, for winnie the pooh's sake, look:

"Then some Pharisees and teachers of the law came to Jesus from Jerusalem and asked, 2 “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don’t wash their hands before they eat!” Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? (Matthew 15:1-3)
Jesus himself warns not to appeal to winnie the pooh man-made tradition in the face of God and his direct commands. God doesn't beat around the bush with his commands. If it's not there, it's not His word.

Ryan Sanchez
Ryan Sanchez

That's some hardcore denial. I do hope that deep inside you know that you are wrong. By your logic pedophilia isn't a sin because it isn't condemned explycitly on the Bible so winnie the pooh it as long you're married with the child who cares amirite?

I assume that you are fully conscious that you are twisting the word of God to justify your degenerate habit and at the same time going against the Church. Repent before it's too late.

Justin Davis
Justin Davis

By your logic pedophilia isn't a sin because it isn't condemned explycitly on the Bible
Yes it is, you winnie the pooh retard. In fact, Jesus gives one of the most brutal penalties for child offenders.
But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. (Matthew 18:6)
You STILL have no argument. Not only that, you're talking against the direct command of the Lord himself. He told you not to add to/twist His Words.
The heathen here, is you.

Grayson Allen
Grayson Allen

And before you play faggotry and say "offense" doesn't mean anything sexual, read this:
biblehub.com/greek/4624.htm
a. to entice to sin (Luth. ärgern, i. e. arg, bös machen): τινα, Matthew 5:29 (); f; Mark 9:42f, 45, 47; Luke 17:2; 1 Corinthians 8:13; passive Latinoffendor (A. V. to be offended), Vulg.scandalizor, Peshitto lSK []: Romans 14:21 (R G L Tr text); 2 Corinthians 11:29 (R. V. is made to stumble; cf. Winers Grammar, 153 (145)).

Sebastian Phillips
Sebastian Phillips

goes against the teaching of the church
calls other people heathens
Just
Btw applying your retarded logic how come the body of a child be offended if they (imagine) loved each other as most pedis claim? Why does sex in that case is an offense against the child (assuming they're somehow married like in middle Eastern countries) and masturbation isn't an offence to the Holy Spirit?

Connor Anderson
Connor Anderson

And btw if you do believe that offence means sexual things as well then offences to the Holy Spirit include sexual ones for example masturbation.

Noah Moore
Noah Moore

goes against the teaching of the church
What church? The same church that's being run by heathens who tolerate gays, and even marry them? Or maybe the Vatican, which endorses LGBT pronouns?
Why does sex in that case is an offense against the child
Because having sex with a child is an offense, you mongrel. They're specifically called "innocent little ones" who are most deserving of the Kingdom in Matthew 18:1-14.
(assuming they're somehow married like in middle Eastern countries)
You have to be either a muslim or an autist to even consider writing this.
offences to the Holy Spirit include sexual ones for example masturbation
And it is written that masturbation is an offense of any kind where in the Bible?

Gavin Russell
Gavin Russell

And if we are to apply YOUR retarded logic, the Bible clearly shows offending children to be a sin worthy of grave punishment, and yet you're opposing this clearly written, undeniable fact. Are you a pedophile or something?

Ian Long
Ian Long

goes against the teaching of the church
You mean this "Church"?

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Anthony Parker
Anthony Parker

What church? The same church that's being run by heathens who tolerate gays, and even marry them? Or maybe the Vatican, which endorses LGBT pronouns?

Are you kidding or are you just dumb?
The Church rejects fags and gender theory. In fact the Vatican is the only country in the world that doesn't agree with the UN directive of sexual orientation freedom and pronouns
Kys illiterate winnie the pooh

Josiah Wilson
Josiah Wilson

The Church rejects fags and gender theory.
Nice try you winnie the pooh faggot.
independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/vatican-lgbt-gay-religious-acceptance-pope-francis-trans-lesbian-a8408286.html

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Noah Bailey
Noah Bailey

Mfw I had the same dream on the same evening

Satan is working extra hours it seems.

Elijah Wilson
Elijah Wilson

Pray for me bros. I've been struggling real hard to even get a few days.

Juan Edwards
Juan Edwards

That winnie the pooh poster

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Joseph Rivera
Joseph Rivera

tfw you get to heaven and find out fapping was meant to be treated like drinking.

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Eli Richardson
Eli Richardson

no, no….we should keep these posts: screen-cap them all and write a good response.

Jeremiah Lopez
Jeremiah Lopez

Agreed. This isn't a reddit tier echochamber.

Most will disagree with that TL:DR, but it does contain points and sources from the Bible for backup. As such it should at least be taken seriously and given a genuine chance for someone to consider it then provide a rebutal for it, instead of REEEing at it at face value like some sort of cottonwooled spastic.

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Joshua Price
Joshua Price

How?

Austin Wilson
Austin Wilson

He does have a lot of valid points though

Julian Cook
Julian Cook

t. 9804be

Caleb Gonzalez
Caleb Gonzalez

Nah I usually just lurk most of the time.
Still have my nofap streak going tho

Parker Bennett
Parker Bennett

Do you want to inherit the kingdom of God or do you want to rub your penis?

Jacob Ramirez
Jacob Ramirez

This. Banning should be for obvious trolling

Chase Hernandez
Chase Hernandez

I really need some prayers guys, it's not going great…

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Cooper Lee
Cooper Lee

from pol
Everytime you masturbate, you are worshiping satan, and satan was the first faggot to ever exist, so yeah, instead of worshiping a literal fag, pray for his eternal death and with it the death of your vices that make you like him, open your eyes and see your lust as the poison it is, remember, the impulse to have sex is natural and God given, directing it to anything that doesn't procure new life is abhorrent and perverse, realize this once and for all, what you want is a family, not an orgasm.
if that was too "out there" for you just remember, faggots/serial killers/liberal twats/soy bugmen/et al. sorts of mentally handicapped dipshits are typically porn addicts and compulsive masturbators/nymphomaniacs…what I mean is, direct that anger and drive to your betterment, if you share traits with the dregs of society you are not in a good place
There is always desire to be something more within human. Usually it manifest itself trough materialistic ways, sexual ways, trough drugs or parenthood example. It is endless chasing, rat-race that leads nowhere but keeps you busy trough own creation that people calls as life.
We can't remember our time as toddlers because we didn't exist in that time. We had no identity. Only when years has gone while we gathered data from our environment we created identity. When we have our identity, we decide what matters to us. Then we experience impulsive feelings when things didn't go as we wanted.
We are piece of life that creates own image and plays it (Genesis 1:27 So God created man in His own image). We get so tangled to our own creation that it can kill us and bring us into hell. We think that something or someone causes our misery even when we alone create everything within.
We have all this mysterious desire to do something, be something more. It usually manifest itself trough sexual ways, materialistic ways, trough parenthood, dating, drugs, games, food, alcohol.. you name it. Trough that it leads nowhere, it keeps us happy for a moment and then we need more. So where we are now? We are piece of life that want to experience bigger part of it. Trough physical ways it finds not that part and when that need to expand finds no expression we create this pain within. So what to do? This is what meditation is all about. We wan't to think nothing, be nothing because that is just the data we gathered from the physical and created self from it. When we learn to be still, just be as piece of life, something start to happen that seems to expand you into everywhere. It seems to that consciousness, awareness is the basic that exist and everything else it is manifest of it.
I think that what ((they)) wan't is to bind us more and more into physical, sins, into that rat-race i wrote about above, so that we wouldn't learn or even think about this.

Xavier Watson
Xavier Watson

Please elaborate with those passages from Paul, I have two concerns:
First is “You are not your own.” So who am I?
Second, how far does pleasing the flesh go? As in indulging, or does intense body building count as well? Legitimately wondering

Gabriel Peterson
Gabriel Peterson

Brothers, this is what it looks like when Satan enters our midst. Ignore this attempt to lead you astray.
But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ. For if someone comes to you and preaches a Jesus other than the Jesus we preached, or if you receive a different spirit from the Spirit you received, or a different gospel from the one you accepted, you put up with it easily enough. (2 Corinthians 11: 3-4)

Jesus answered, “See to it that no one deceives you. For many will come in My name, claiming, ‘I am the Christ,’ and will deceive many. (Matthew 24: 4-5)

Nathan Lewis
Nathan Lewis

Can you explain ehy he's wrong?

Elijah White
Elijah White

Well his first error is embracing the statement that since:
X is a natural thing
X is ok

Hatred which can lead to murder is also a natural thing. Our natural state is not inherently pure, we have sinful inclinations because of the fall.

Repressing it sounds more sinful than doing it because you're actively rejecting God has blessed you with…

Implication that X is a blessing and not a result of the fall.

Then why does masturbating so much more effective to kill off lust than not doing it?

You could argue that fornication also kills off lust, but never satisfies it. Even in masturbation the next day you need "another hit". Intense suffering may occur if you forcibly abstain and God doesn't bring you a wife, but that should be a trial to struggle through, not an excuse that the cause of the suffering is suddenly righteous to engage in.

If it is sinful why is it one "sin" that people struggle with the most?

Not an argument. Not as many people struggle with bank robbery compared to being hateful to a coworker but that doesn't justify either. This is another form of the "everyone's doing it so it must be ok"

The logic would have to work backwards effectively saying that humanity is struggling because of Satan to not engage in masturbation. This literally puts God as pro-masturbation and Satan as anti-masturbation if you carry it to it's conclusions honestly. Honestly the rest of his logic is drivel so I'll take a different method to engage it.

He argues rightly that lust is "an intense desire to have something for oneself" which is fairly accurate. The problem lies in the banal nature of porn. His example is effectively if you find food someone else has and covet it, the passion grows and you find yourself stealing it. In porn's case you have the desire to have sex with that particular woman but instead find pleasure in a 2d recorded mockery of her actual presence. If we're going to say that the thought proceeds it until it becomes passion then we can also say porn is like taking a picture of the food on the table and instilling in yourself a passion that if you only had the food you'd be fulfilled. We can rightly say the spirit of the law is violated in a manner so banal and primitive that it's almost comical. If the failure of covetousness is the sprouting of sinful passions then the real sin is the burning desire for something that isn't yours, not necessarily the physical action you would take to apprehend it.

Remember he's not arguing that porn is a neutral thing but in fact a RIGHT thing to do. The fact of the matter is you almost have to say God provides porn as a way of escape under his logic because we live in a society where it's freely available. Were it not, how many of us would simply be tempted to go down to a brothel instead?

This is a huge "silent sin" in current Christianity.

I think the reason what he's saying feels so enticing is because if we can simply say natural = good than we can finally be free from the burden of struggling with this sin. But the ramifications for saying that are essentially an inverse of the Bible where Satan is trying to keep everyone celibate and God is doing the opposite outside of marriage.

It's laughable and demonic, and if you truly search inside yourself and the Bible you will know your conscience does not haunt you on this issue without good reason.

To all those suffering through it do not give up hope and relent to fiendish logic that would make God the perpetrator of wickedness and allow Satan to dress up as an angel of light.

I say this not to judge those struggling as I myself do, because it is not a holiness under man's law that we seek to emulate but that of the life of Jesus Christ through our sanctification. And we will fail but grace be to God that his mercy is abundant and that Christ's righteousness covers us.

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Easton Williams
Easton Williams

sexual immorality is a sin. just fuсk off really if you think otherwise. if this is too hard for you to control your body for this short period of life here then you need to find a new religion.

Oliver Watson
Oliver Watson

Nothing in that statement had any shred of Christianity in it.

Justin Peterson
Justin Peterson

sexual immorality is a sin.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
just fuсk off really if you think otherwise.
Of these things put them in remembrance, charging them before the Lord that they strive not about words to no profit, but to the subverting of the hearers.
if this is too hard for you to control your body for this short period of life here then you need to find a new religion.
For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them.

Josiah Mitchell
Josiah Mitchell

and a little bonus for you bud:
But avoid foolish questions, and genealogies, and contentions, and strivings about the law; for they are unprofitable and vain.
cheers, God bless

Leo Morgan
Leo Morgan

Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.

But in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to articulate a defense to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But respond with gentleness and respect…

If you can tell me that original statement was made with the grace of Christ behind it then I'll abstain. But you can't because there was no grace in your speech. Were we all called to neglect the grace given to us and instead pass wrathful judgment, on any lurker that happens to be passing by?

Were you engaging with the person above trying to prove masturbation is right then you may have cause for strong rebuke, but you are not, and should consider being kinder.

Isaac Phillips
Isaac Phillips

Alright Fellas, who's ready to either begin or continue for the new month ahead of us.

Its the Lord's Day tomorrow and its also the first day of the next month, halfway through the year. Regardless of the day we should always be trying to quit but it might help to have this "clean slate".

I just went to confession and mass for the first time in awhile today and I'm feeling confident I can quit this time, who's with me?

Logan Roberts
Logan Roberts

look bud i really can't stand to see snakes trying to lead my people astray and put perverted (educated and "logical") ideas into their minds. yes, i am rightly angry at scum who think so lightly of sin, and those who encourage it.

Joseph Harris
Joseph Harris

A Special Prayer of Intercession to St. Ephraim of Nea Makri, the Newly-revealed Hieromartyr and Wonderworker
(from the proskenetarion of the saint at The Canadian Orthodox Monastery of All Saints of North America)
O Holy Martyr Ephraim, look with compassion upon my distress and, as thou didst deliver the young man from his cruel addiction, so also pray for me that our Lord and Saviour, for Whom thou didst witness unto death, may deliver my soul from captivity to Satan. For I am in cruel bondage and suffering because of my weakness and sinfulness. Beseech our merciful Lord that, as He didst lead the Hebrews forth from slavery in Egypt and called His people out of Babylon, as He delivered the youth from the demon, and freed the daughter of the Canaanite woman, and healed the woman taken in adultery and restored the Samaritan woman, that He may also set me free and deliver me from the demon of addiction***. I confess that I have fallen into this evil through my own slothfulness and weakness, but have mercy and pray for me, 0 saint and martyr of God.

A short prayer to be said continually by one who is struggling with addiction to drugs or alcohol***:
O Lord, Jesus Christ, through the prayers of Thy Holy Martyr Ephraim, have mercy on me and deliver me from this cruel bondage.
(source)

***Note: that this could potentially be changed based on whatever one's specific need might be, e.g. depression, disease, passion, etc.

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Nathan Miller
Nathan Miller

praying for you bud

Sebastian Diaz
Sebastian Diaz

You can do it user, I'm with you. These next 6 months will fly by, fap free, in no time!

Christopher Wood
Christopher Wood

Thanks will be praying for all fellow nofap attempters, here and generally.

There's such a thing as righteous indignation, I didn't bother reading the whole thing, but if someone is seriously coming in here using casuistic arguments to be pro-degeneracy I think it warrants a stern response

Thanks, god-willing we all will be

Owen Robinson
Owen Robinson

Not that this is me, but is it ok to have sex with your wife not for the purpose of procreation? What if there’s already life? What if she didn’t get pregnant? What if you have plans to have kids and aren’t using contraceptives!

Thomas Scott
Thomas Scott

From the Catholic perspective I think you just go at it until you know she's pregnant, then stop until she gives birth and recovers, then repeat.

A lot of protestants believe you can have sex with your wife for pleasure.

I don't really know what Orthodox think, never looked it up.

Ryan Wood
Ryan Wood

Tell you what. You stop touching your dick for a month and I'll complete a Dry July.

Deal?

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Cameron Sanchez
Cameron Sanchez

Hold on brothers. With God on our side, no tot or wench will break our wills to God's Grace and His Heaven.

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Noah Davis
Noah Davis

Well, I haven’t been able to stop masturbating per we, but I was able to finally give up trans porn. One say, I couldn’t help but feel grossed out by what I was doing. Deleted all of my porn in one day.

Joseph Moore
Joseph Moore

was able to finally give up trans porn
I couldn’t help but feel grossed out by what I was doing. Deleted all of my porn in one day.
That is progress, keep going at it with all your strength, and you will be able to stop for good. You are addicted for XX (that is two digits) years I surmise, it will TAKE TIME to undo it. Stay strong, my brother.

Tyler Thomas
Tyler Thomas

It’s a start. The reason you liked it in the first place was because you needed a better high. Maybe what you can do is work backwards, from the disgusting filth all the way back to vanilla, then from vanilla you’re done for good. At least then whenever you get thoughts in your head you won’t think “now what if she had a dick and got gangraped by 3 horses while I watched?”

Asher Jones
Asher Jones

Let's do it

Aiden Parker
Aiden Parker

You know what's hardest about all this? When you do not covet 3D, living women, but art, and even then, nothing illegal. The worst I would go is DeviantArt (which is a mix of genuine art and NSFW art) or a booru, which is kinda like an imageboard but only for posting topic-related stuff. None of it had actual people in it, but I still fapped. I haven't for a solid week now, and although I keep wanting to, the most I do is type in an artists name, realize what I'm doing and close out and go back to either this board or studying. I realize that our bodies are the temples of Christ, so I have not completely relapsed, but the art I like which, while not illegal, with or without fictional people, is definitely off-putting would mean that, as I understand, I will not covet another woman, or that I cannot do harm upon another person.

It has definitely made me rethink part of my life, at least.

Noah Sullivan
Noah Sullivan

it's all the same to God lad

Jayden Evans
Jayden Evans

Hence why I am finding it difficult. Things to do is not a hard thing to find. Studying, going to the library, jogging, it's all possible. I just know that the things I like, unlike pornography with actual people, definitely harm no one except myself, really.

It really is hard for me to identify with all this. It's going to be a struggle, for sure.

Adam Wright
Adam Wright

Is there any good blocker/filter software for Android?

Evan Smith
Evan Smith

Block Site supposedly works on Android. Use it on my PC and it helps out a major lot.

Levi Harris
Levi Harris

They also don't allow nofap talk.

Brandon Sanders
Brandon Sanders

What day is it?
3? 5?
I lost count after so many failures
But I feel confident now, I haven't prayed at all but tonight I will pray,so the temptations go away
I have noticed that masturbation and porn will affect your mind into constantly thinking in vile ideas
And that it's a self feeding circle of lust
Pray for me my brothers,for I will pray for you.

Hunter Collins
Hunter Collins

Wait. I can't have relations with my wife if she is pregnant?
Lmao another reason to go celibate

Kayden Evans
Kayden Evans

play a single-player action game
adrenaline gives me a boner
drive a car
the vibrations give me a boner
move my peepee when I want to aim properly
I get a boner

Help me lord.

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Kevin Watson
Kevin Watson

Is it getting the boner, or the urge to touch it thats the problem you're having?

Isaac Richardson
Isaac Richardson

J'aime celui la. Trop de gens ont appris à prendre plaisir à eux-mêmes et ont abandonné toute tentative de charme. Ils préfèrent se cacher plutôt que de faire face au jugement des autres. Si vous les empêchez de se masturber, les gens qui ont appris à prendre plaisir en eux-mêmes récolteront les bénéfices de leur personnalité. Les émissions abondantes des désespérés ne trouveront pas ce qu'ils cherchent. Au lieu de cela, la propagation de cette idée gaspillera le temps et l'énergie de personnes qui auraient autrement pu trouver des compagnons décents, faisant beaucoup pour empêcher les gens d'être envoyés sur cette terre misérable d'en haut. Il est seulement triste qu'il n'y ait aucun moyen de répandre cette idée parmi les personnes autres que les chrétiens.

Pensez-vous que nous avons été ciblés pour un impact disparate par quelqu'un avec un logiciel d'analyse? Je suppose que ça ne vaut pas la peine de s'inquiéter. Si nos cultures sont détruites par leurs dirigeants, cela doit être fait dans le plan de Dieu. L'Église elle-même n'est-elle pas une histoire d'opposition à la masturbation? La volonté de l'Église ne pouvait sûrement pas être falsifiée ou errante. Sûrement il doit y avoir quelque chose de sacré pour la protection de Dieu.

Julian Wilson
Julian Wilson

This is how I see things: you have the choice between masturbating or praying to get the sinful thoughts and feels out of your head. Most of the time I chose to masturbate. For the most part that's because I'm a lazy faggot, but I also fear that if my prayers don't "work", I might lose confidence in God. And I know the thoughts won't go away because they are natural.
I tried noporn but it doesn't work, I always come back to watching porn after a while. I know I must become ultra-disciplined and overcome this bs.
I also have to deal with a girl that is rejecting me, which is making me feel insecure af and wanting to masturbate.
I know the ultimate answer to avoid porn is to change your life around and get married, and I'm working on that, but I don't want to masturbate until I get there, I want to stop right now.
Sorry for the blog. Any advice is welcome.

Pourquoi tu postes en français?

Anthony Taylor
Anthony Taylor

The reason you liked it in the first place was because you needed a better high
Das it mane. I think the novelty is slowly wearing off.

Jack King
Jack King

Yeah the idea is you only ever have sex with the explicit end of reproduction. It leads to a significantly happier lifestyle, people can't control themselves, especially when it comes to sex.

Think of it like you are celibate before marriage and after you're done having kids. And basically during marriage as well, everything else is just a bonus. There's more to life than sex, carnal pleasures nail us to the body and drag us down to hell.

Carter Garcia
Carter Garcia

What does it mean to be a 'good person?'

In my area, everyone says Roman Catholics are strict and force people into guilt trips, which may be why so many of them went elsewhere. I get the impression that part of it is the possibility that people don't want to go to every mass being told they have sinned (even if it's true, I will admit that being told how much of a sinner I was the moment I was born can make me feel like God is accepting a failure that is attempting redemption and not someone who made the choice to sin), and part of it is that, at least around here, it has become fairly laid-back in terms of following the bible and His teachings. Not to say people are sinning for the sake of sinning, but I know plenty of religious people who talk about strip clubs and wishing some people would just fall off the face of the Earth.

I told one person about how I am attempting to more closely follow Roman Catholicism, and when I told her I was worried about doing something that would cause me to sin or to not go to Heaven, she said 'I think you are a good person, and as long as you are a good person, you will go to Heaven.'

It made me think. I fapped for a long, long time. I was angry for a long, long time. Angry at people, mostly. I tried to focus that anger to be productive, but I was still angry. One day I just stopped being angry. I'm doing my best to turn around and am going back to church on Sundays. It lead me to a thought, though. Does someone who fits the label 'a good person' just go to Heaven? Maybe purgatory, but Heaven? I could donate all my money to charities, help as many people as possible, and generally be as selfless as possible, but if I were to partake in fapping, I would be condemned.

It does not make me question my faith, but it does make me question if I am a good person.

Sebastian Bailey
Sebastian Bailey

I think everybody will go to heaven eventually, but not before spending some time in purgatory or something. People might say this is "too easy" and that you can be a degenerate on earth and just repent later, but the truth is not everybody will be willing to actually repent, even if this means going to hell.

As for your question about being a good person or not, I think it is irrelevant. You should always question yourself and try to get closer to God, no matter how "good" you already are.

I disagree with this. A priest once told me that God designed us to enjoy sex, so it's natural to enjoy it. The meaning of chastity is not to have sex only for reproduction purpose, but to have sex with the goal of giving yourself to your partner, and of pleasing him/her. This means you shouldn't seek sexual intercourse for your own pleasure, but for the pleasure of your partner. If both do this, it is the best sex you can ever have and God is ok with it!

Isaac Robinson
Isaac Robinson

It's just weird reflecting on it. I would help people if they asked, I'd take family members places and I save up most of my money, only spending it on a few video games, building my own computer and some food for the family if someone could not cook. Someone could say I was being greedy by spending money on video games, but I try to be selfless if someone asks. I ask if someone needs help, but if they say no, I do not try to force it.

But because I did sinful things (adultery with masturbation, or buying entertainment instead of donating to a charity, or even donating time instead of playing games) I feel like it nullifies the good things I did.

Maybe that's why religion fell out of favor. Not necessarily the inability to be selfless (that plays a part in it, in some cases), but that the good things one does is nullified by the bad things one does.

Adam Bennett
Adam Bennett

having a boner is bad
I don’t think that’s the point of NoFap. It’s what you do with your boner that counts

Jayden Phillips
Jayden Phillips

Thanks, guys. I think living with other people also helps. I recently moved out of my apartment and into my parents’ house. I’m a cheap ass, so I’m sleeping in the living room. Obviously, I can’t just whip my dick out in the living room, so I’ve been forced not to. If I jack off in the bathroom, that would be a bit suspicious.

I think it’s too dangerous when anyone becomes too comfortable and has too much convenience. This set back will probably help me kick the habit for good.

Logan Brown
Logan Brown

It's not all bad. I used to be the over the top hatefull /pol type, but only a few weeks ago I suddenly remembered i had a "large" reserve of cash hidden back when i was prepping for when the shit hit the fan. So not only do I know try to help others, but suddenly have a perfect amount with which to do so.

Makes me wonder if its the "good deed" good, or "good heart" good thats important. Given whats happened to me over these years, I'd lean towards the latter. So I wouldnt sweat it too much, unless your just a culture Christian doing the rounds, but given , I'd say you are a good guy but just as confused as the rest of us.

Day 5, you still there buddy?

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Hudson Sanders
Hudson Sanders

sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home
bookofpook.neocities.org/
tke.org/files/file/The_48_Laws_of_Power.pdf
ignore the occasional normie/pagan ideas, but these are great resources for starting life. never stop praying and fasting

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Juan Wright
Juan Wright

I failed friend, pray for me
Been having a rough week, fluctuating between doubt and trying to keep going.

Keep on going without me, I'm starting over even though I failed once today, can't let it get me down. I'll keep praying for you, you can make it.

William Martinez
William Martinez

So what is the source of that text? It may sound dumb for me to ask for a source, but I am seeing a lot of things that are meant to connect that simply do not for me.

Benjamin Jones
Benjamin Jones

Richard Baxter wrote a most excellent treatise against sexual immorality. Oh Christian, don’t usurp the superiority of the spiritual and intellectual appetites for some beastly lust.

Joshua Lewis
Joshua Lewis

Going for a full week without. More than halfway through, though it is not easy, I'm going to cross the line and reach my goal.

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Asher Morgan
Asher Morgan

2016: 1 month
2017: 3 months
2018: ∞

I'm ready.

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Nolan Smith
Nolan Smith

If you think it will help, sure, St. Paul states that it is good for a man not to touch a woman.

Mason Anderson
Mason Anderson

I agree that masturbation is bad. But I don't see anything explicitly forbidding it in the bible. Maybe they used a different term. Definitely minimize masturbation.

ANYWAY, NO FAP IS A POOR SOLUTION!
Here is an actual biblical solution to masturbation:
How to Control Lust
hooktube.com/watch?v=mmRVLDhrbuE

Islam views are interesting:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Islam_and_masturbation

Charles Sanchez
Charles Sanchez

But I don't see anything explicitly forbidding it in the bible. Maybe they used a different term. Definitely minimize masturbation
Intentionally throwing your sperm in the toilet is stupid, it's like a farmer throwing his prize seeds away. You should be chaste until marriage, simple.

Masturbation invariably involves lust. Lust is a sin, adultery in the heart. And will lead you down a slippery slope.

Islam views are interesting:
No they aren't, Islamic views are irrelevant and incoherent and each school has a different position depending on what hadiths they prefer. Garbage.

Alexander Bennett
Alexander Bennett

How to Fight Addiction in a Pornographic Culture

Charles Barnes
Charles Barnes

Intentionally throwing your sperm in the toilet is stupid, it's like a farmer throwing his prize seeds away. You should be chaste until marriage, simple.

Masturbation invariably involves lust. Lust is a sin, adultery in the heart. And will lead you down a slippery slope.

I agree. So work to minimize the amount of masturbation.

Islamic views are irrelevant and incoherent and each school has a different position depending on what hadiths they prefer. Garbage.

Do Christians have a consistent view about masturbation? Or does each denomination have their own views that do not all integrate with each other?

Eli Rogers
Eli Rogers

I think no fap is missing the point. And ignoring what your are really suppose to be doing, finding a wife, which is better than obsessing on how long it has been since you last touched yourself and driving yourself to grief over it.
1minute video
How to Control Lust
hooktube.com/watch?v=mmRVLDhrbuE

Jacob Evans
Jacob Evans

denomination have their own views that do not all integrate with each other?
Traditional Christians denominations agree its a sin
Orthodox and Catholic agree its a sin.
Lust is a sin, even looking at a woman with lust is adultery in your heart.
Masturbation entails some lust and misuse of your sexual faculty, since it's aims are selfish not loving and not procreative.

Connor Russell
Connor Russell

obsessing with being chaste and avoiding lust and avoiding porno
that's a good obsession. go for it.

Alexander Edwards
Alexander Edwards

I'm starting to see that no fap is something people focus on so that they can safely avoid finding a wife.

Noah Howard
Noah Howard

if you want a wife you should fap now and then
no. stop trying to rationalize sin.
nofap is the default position, it frees your time and gives you more motivation to socialize.

Eli Turner
Eli Turner

If you are fapping from time to time and can't seem to quit, then that might be god telling you to go find a wife.

Joseph Bell
Joseph Bell

God doesn't make you sin lad

Dylan Murphy
Dylan Murphy

You should not feel ashamed that you fapped.
You should be ashamed that you haven't found a wife as god commands.
God said be fruitful and multiply. He didn't say, NO FAP!
In fact, NO FAP invites satan to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. So how about you FOCUS ON SOLVING THE PROBLEM FOR GOOD.

1 Corinthians 7:7-9 ESV / 62 helpful votes
But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another. To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

1 Corinthians 10:13 ESV / 12 helpful votes
No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

Bentley Long
Bentley Long

How does someone find a wife if they're a loser who jerks off all day?

I get what you're getting at here and ideally everyone would do this, but in the absence of a wife nofap is the only option, especially nowadays when its difficult to find one.
(Also I'm not the guy you were talking to)

We should learn self control regardless of whether or not we want a wife

Jaxson Moore
Jaxson Moore

Guys I had an idea today to go on porn discords and start drawing people out of them into a recovery/support group server. Most will probably just join and leave soon after but if we could help even a handful of people quit it'd be worth it. It would also help me channel my energy into helping others rather than focusing on porn.

I'm unsure whether to make it explicitly Christian or whether I should just keep it more open to anyone. Anyone interested in doing this with me?

Jack Bailey
Jack Bailey

**>How does someone find a wife if they're a loser who jerks off all day?
Start reducing the amount of jerking off by fasting and exercising. Learn a skill that may make you money. Find or create a career.
You don't have to not fap at all to find time to prepare yourself for a wife. In fact, waiting for you to have no fap levels of sexual desire and then looking for a wife makes less sense. You could just be eunuch then.**

William White
William White

Hello Satan. How have you been?

Jace Sanders
Jace Sanders

Btw you should never fap in any situation. Either if you find a wife or not.
The devil of course will tempt you but with God's help you will win.
Or just because the devil will tempt me if I stop fapping I should commit a sin? What kind of logic is that?

James Rogers
James Rogers

The devil of course will tempt you but with God's help you will win.
That has not been my experience.
Or just because the devil will tempt me if I stop fapping I should commit a sin? >What kind of logic is that?
If you are fapping from time to time and can't seem to quit, then that might be time to go find a wife.

Jacob Bell
Jacob Bell

If you are fapping from time to time and can't seem to quit, then that might be time to go find a wife.
First of all you should fap never. Better dying than to sin.
Secondly yes it is a symptom you need a wife, because it's better to marry than to sin if it helps you not to sin, although it's dangerous to say that since you can't stop fapping it's a sign you need a wife. Just stop. God would never make us sin. We sin because of our fallen nature and that's something we can avoid with more or less difficulty. When God created you he made you capable to resist sin. God isn't evil to make a human being who is incapable of escaping sin.

Christopher Jones
Christopher Jones

Thank you for these. Reading the first link. If it proves to be the miracle cure it claims to be will come back and report.

The demons feeding on life force and sperm shakra power crap sets off my witch alarms but that first one is harmless. No mojo hoodo or heresy of any kind so far.

John Kelly
John Kelly

Stop being a sin and lust-driven beast. Telling people that no fap is not a good solution negates all of your statements about masturbation being bad.

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Jackson Scott
Jackson Scott

thirsty virgin tries to justify his fapping problems
just cause you have a wife doesn't mean you'll stop looking at porn or fapping forever.

In fact, NO FAP invites satan to tempt you
This is what Muslims actually believe

Nicholas Howard
Nicholas Howard

Posting random conference of fire. One of Fr. Ripperger's best, especially toward the end. youtube.com/watch?v=8NPXTV4yJ18

Lincoln Torres
Lincoln Torres

And now I'm getting very close. My mind is going 'it's only cartoons user, no one is being hurt' and my soul is going 'don't do it, I'm telling you.'

Help.

Carter Price
Carter Price

no one is being hurt
No one but you. Would God want that?

Christian Brown
Christian Brown

Serious question, how does it hurt me? I want something to focus on when I get urges.

Blake Bell
Blake Bell

Your body is a temple for the Holy Spirit and if you defile it, it will leave. You may be struggling with your urges but God wouldn't give you a challenge that you can't overcome. Pray for tenacity, and change your environment until the habit goes away. Many people have succeeded and you can be one of them.

Lucas Hughes
Lucas Hughes

I'm going to seize the opporunity and plug this Christian nofap server
discord.gg/vqyEPw

Ryan Ramirez
Ryan Ramirez

What's the point of a discord server for nofap? Try posting on reddit next time

Easton Clark
Easton Clark

Spiritually, but also physically. There is plenty of evidence for porn being harmful to your brain. You should look this up, also this channel has a lot of videos about it youtube.com/channel/UClh4JeqYB1QN6f1h_bzmEng/videos

Dylan Long
Dylan Long

it's bad, look it up yourself

Thanks for the link, but really? You could cite a source at least, brother.

Carter Ramirez
Carter Ramirez

There are many things, among which God and His Commandments are first, of course. But other than that and because we're all weak, let this be your motivation to quit porn. And when you can quit porn, you can quit playing with yourself entirely.

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Xavier Baker
Xavier Baker

Mate, a few days ago you told me you gave up when you said you'd go for a month with me. Now you're happily trying to get others to venture into corrupting areas when yourself fell so easily?

Did you even TRY this month?

Anthony Gomez
Anthony Gomez

Dammit, I just fapped and I know exactly why.

I start wanting to masturbate if I get nervous. How the heck do I keep from being nervous?

I need to start going to confessional ASAP. And maybe start using a fidget spinner to distract me.

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Isaac Sanchez
Isaac Sanchez

If you do it for stress relief you need to recognize that and either move yourself to another environment or find a different way to relieve stress. It's just a habit and it'll go away. When I'm stressed I still get urges but it's under control now

Ayden Lopez
Ayden Lopez

How do I start thinking about myself?
I haven't fapped in a while. I went on vacation and did it, but that was after four days, then I got back and did it, then 6 days, then another 6, and now I think I'm passed 6 but honestly I don't even care, I got lucky and just haven't had the feeling/time to. From here I'm not worried, however I can't stop thinking about women. Literally any woman that catches my eye, I was even looking at pictures of my cousin lately because she posted them.
I'm trying not to commit adultery, but it's so hard to. Honestly I can't stop thinking about it. I feel like shit, every moment I feel like things would be better if I had a girlfriend. I'm doing fine with school, I'm doing fine with work, I have plenty of friends, and by next year I plan to pack up and leave the country, but no matter what I just can't focus on myself. All I can think about is what it'd be like if I just had sex with some girl. I just don't want to, but I have these carnal desires, I can't stand it, after all these years I just can't stand it.
Please, any advice would help, I don't know what to do. I thought I was addicted to masturbation, but maybe it's something else, I don't know, all I want is to focus on me. However, that's probably just so I can ignore women, then by ignoring them I'd get them, it's just constantly on my mind it's such a hindrance to everything else, please help me.

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Dominic Watson
Dominic Watson

Never mind the 6 day streak, longest is a week. Hopefully this means I can go further, but winnie the pooh me I'm weak

Jose Ross
Jose Ross

Kill those thoughts like the devil. Know that you are better than your desires and you must never give into them. The start is always hard, but if you practice nofap to you best abilities, there will come a time when you will be able to quit it altogether.

Blake Taylor
Blake Taylor

You're looking at it wrong. Wanting to bone a girl isn't sinful in itself, that's how you make children and god kinda told us to do that.
Use that desire as a motivation to find a gf>wife, don't beat yourself up over it. And don't stick it in before you're at least engaged

Kevin Howard
Kevin Howard

I suppose you're right. No, you know what, you are right; I feel like a lot of people who have issues like mine have them because they're just self-loathing people. If you recognize that you are better than your desires, then you can overcome them, you're right
Thank you, realizing it is the first step though, I've still got a ways to go

Samuel Sanchez
Samuel Sanchez

Sure do. Carry that cross, user. It will be very hard at times, easier at other times, but in the end you know yourself it will be worth it. Good luck and God bless.

John Myers
John Myers

sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home

I gotta come clean: this book was a big let down. It's basically a repackaging of the old "If you know the psychological/subtextual reason why you engage in an addiction, you'll just magically stop!" myth. I also fell for it's "you can masturbate all you want until you finish this book, and then by the end, you wont want to masturbate anymore!" garbage. Until this book, I had gotten to the point where I was at least lasting 14 days at a time. I followed the books advice and let loose, and went right back to 1, 2, 3, or 4 or 5 days at the most before cracking, and doing it multiple times in one day again too. Only recently, after going back to basics have I gotten my old endurance back.

It's also annoying how it shoehorns smoking addiction recovery on masturbation. Like when it describes one's first experience with masturbation as initially disgusting and repulsive. That description makes sense with smoking (especially since I threw up after smoking two cigs in a row for the first time back in the day) but makes no sense with masturbation in regards to my first experience. To be quite brutally honest, my first time engaging in masturbation as a kidd was enrapturerous experience, and I wanted to do it again and again (I was completely ignorant of the horrifying baggage to come, and was even encouraged by my Christian parents who had been brainwashed by mainstream society into believing it was just a normal healthy part of growing up.)

I've come to terms with the fact that my addiction has two dimensions: 1 - There is a part of me that is still afraid of/lacks faith in God to be able to carry me through the withdrawals. and 2 - No matter how many times the book tries to spin it, the cold hard fact of the matter is that masturbation is pleasurable and a release (albeit a temporary one with longer term consequences.) What's most especially wicked about this problem is that right after giving in, I'll be able to resist urges, due to the pain and shame being fresh on my mind, but after awhile, the urge comes again, and enough of the memory of the pain and shame have passed that the pleasure becomes enticing again.

Even knowing all of this full well, it is a struggle, a cross to bear. Not something you can just think yourself out of "Easy Peazy."

Camden Thompson
Camden Thompson

DAMMIT I DIDN'T EVEN LAST A DAY AAAAAAAAA

Ian Cruz
Ian Cruz

I've had many dreams like that. I wake up still not knowing whether it actually happened or whether it was a dream.

Wyatt Price
Wyatt Price

Your body is a temple for the Holy Spirit and if you defile it, it will leave.
it will leave

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Carson Howard
Carson Howard

I failed the book also, but I refrained from talking about it here since I didn't want to discourage anyone.

Juan Gutierrez
Juan Gutierrez

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Brayden Davis
Brayden Davis

was going good for a while
get home and suddenly lose all willpower
fapped to THAT again

Would I be better off to God if he were to smite me right now?

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Joseph White
Joseph White

still stuck here
day is easy then i wake up at night and fap to some really winnie the poohed up shit

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Grayson Moore
Grayson Moore

If your right hand makes you stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; for it is better for you to lose one of the parts of your body, than for your whole body to go into hell.
if you REALLY wanted to be free then you already would be. trust Him

Dominic Harris
Dominic Harris

125

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Jaxson Thomas
Jaxson Thomas

Another failure. I'm so sick of this sin.

Grayson Williams
Grayson Williams

Keep fighting user. Once you realize that you can't defeat it on your own no matter what, then will you truly beat it. Pray to God for aid and he will deliver.

Michael Cox
Michael Cox

I think I lasted two days. Lord forgive me, I plan on going to confession this weekend. I might wear a rosary on my wrist so I know NOT to do it.

Caleb Lopez
Caleb Lopez

14th day now. Just overcame two days of intense urges, looking good!
Other way around. It shows you that your temptations aren't unique and that you can overcome them.

Ryan Bailey
Ryan Bailey

28 days here. Even when i see lewd images ( randomly throughout the internet , i don't search for them ), it has no effect on me. I thank God for helping me get this far.

Nolan Carter
Nolan Carter

Reminder to learn from your mistakes and analyze what chain reaction makes it happen.

Joseph Davis
Joseph Davis

Does reading fanfiction count as pornography?

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Nathaniel Perez
Nathaniel Perez

Really, really wanted to give in this morning. It was like I was burning sitting there in my chair. My mind started mapping out exactly what I was going to do and how I was going to do it etc. But I held fast, told myself I was seeking a lesser pleasure rather than the greater pleasure of following Christ. I prayed the Jesus prayer until it began to subside, then I stopped and it started coming back. So I just sat there and kept saying it and finally it fled away.

I decided to channel the excess energy in a different way, so I left the house to go read a book I've been trying to finish for ages at the local cafe. I also texted a girl from an Orthodox group I'm in on campus, planning to ask her out. Normally would not have the courage to do this, but it feels like the best way to redirect this desire in a positive way. I'm not even that anxious about whether or not she says yes, just asking will feel like an accomplishment.

The feeling of overcoming such a strong temptation by God's grace, trust me, it's way better than the few seconds of pleasure tainted with shame and guilt that you will receive when you give in. Pray for me, I will be praying for you all. hold strong brothers.

Christian Gonzalez
Christian Gonzalez

Fapping isn't a sin. It isn't mentioned anywhere in the Bible. People who insist masturbation is forbidden are the same type of people who insist alcohol is forbidden. Just because the Bible states getting drunk is a sin doesn't mean you can't enjoy a beer and just because it says sexual immorality is a sin doesn't mean you can't enjoy a fap.

Kevin Diaz
Kevin Diaz

False equivalence, here we go!

Levi Wilson
Levi Wilson

Why are you defending sodomizing yourself? It's literally an unnatural and grotesque thing to do, going out getting a prostitute is at least masculine and preferable to having such little control over yourself that you need to perform what is literally a reproductive act outside of a woman.
I say this as someone whos currently struggling with it, but I will never internally compromise in my head that it's okay or natural.
Alcohol I don't drink either but I can see both sides of the argument

Ethan Rivera
Ethan Rivera

Just fapped to trans porn again last night after 3 days of no fap. This lust is powerful and addictive. Keep me in your prayers, guys.

Leo Torres
Leo Torres

You can do this, user. Keep fighting on. Know that if you fail, God will always love you and help you. The lust, you may never defeat it at all, but you must never stop fighting.
Here's an advice for you. Never fap to trans porn. Neither blow, anal, gay, lesbian, hentai, 3d, any of that degenerate garbage. It sounds weird, but if you do do it, at least keep to the "traditional mating ritual" sex.
Keep fighting user, you can do it.

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Gabriel Moore
Gabriel Moore

Here's an advice for you. Never fap to trans porn. Neither blow, anal, gay, lesbian, hentai, 3d, any of that degenerate garbage
I'll try. The vanilla stuff doesn't interest me that much. The only women I like are the muscular type. yeah, I'm a degenerate queer. I'm working on not being one, though.

I seriously think that sodomy (oral, anal, masturbation) is addictive. It must be the sterile and self-centered nature of the act that so inflames the flesh. Regular sex at least possesses the chance to produce life, so the act isn't merely about me.

Josiah Nelson
Josiah Nelson

The problem is, that I hate humans so much, I wont be in paradise anyway, not at all, since I am one with the devils my brothers.

Cameron Long
Cameron Long

Oh hi, Bender

Adrian Miller
Adrian Miller

Day 7 here, I watch degenerate stuff as well

the recurring problem I've had is that the longer I go the more I crave the ultra-degenerate stuff, and I think part of how we get slammed so hard by it is by trying to quit we make ourselves increasingly vulnerable to worse stuff.

What I decided to do is practice a mild asceticism, I've been doing the ketogenic diet with intermittent fasting and i locked up some of my devices except this iPad. It's something I've been doing on my own on and off anyways but it really hit me that it might be a solution yesterday when another guy posted that he did it to quit several vices.
I'm about to basically lock myself up and do nothing but exercise, read and maybe drive around or walk my dog a bit. I've already totally eliminated games, television and that stuff from my life but I'm going to do no YouTube, no Internet, no music, no warm showering etc. Obviously not everyone can cut out everything, like if you have to work or something (I'm home from college being a pseudo-neet) so anyone who tries this should just cut down as much as they can.

By depriving my brain of pleasure I think it might help to rebuild healthy pleasure pathways in the future. If anybody's interested in the original post about the guy who did it it's one of the photos in the second or third post down on the /fascist/ /sig/ thread (I don't normally go there I was just bored yesterday)

So yeah, I'm posting this here in case any of you want to try it with me, and ill post results in a week or two or however long I do it

Asher Peterson
Asher Peterson

Just deleted my porn stash, as well as deleting my password, so that I can't log in to my account. I still feel like garbage, but I realized that I can't totally mortify the deeds of the flesh by myself or completely. This time, I won't fall into despair! As long as I'm alive, I have a chance to sanctify my life. Thanks for your helpful words, user!

Bentley Turner
Bentley Turner

Welcome! Yeah that's excellent, I deleted mine as well when I started last week. You're going to feel awful, I haven't even kicked it up yet and I've already had severe doubts and bouts of intense despair. Just remind yourself it's from your brain being deprived of dopamine.
Also if it's at all possible try to put distance between you and the devices, at the very least whatever you normally use, this has helped me tremendously

Good luck to you and everyone else here

Lincoln Green
Lincoln Green

I've already totally eliminated games, television and that stuff from my life
I find games helping in the sense that they offer entertainment and distraction.

Daniel Myers
Daniel Myers

Op I can't do NoFap, nothing can beat my severe OCD and i have no willpower from years of being a worthless leech on society.

I'm now considering surgery to give myself erectile dysfunction, the logic being if I can't get an erection I won't fap, hopefully it will save my life and soul.

t. chronic 20-30 a day masturbator

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Liam Hill
Liam Hill

I agree, being an atheist i see nothing wrong with it morally as it doesn't hurt anyone. The problem with it is that masturbation is a form of self harm that causes depression and anhedonia. Making your hollow and meaningless. I've been masturbating since the age of 11 every single day and recently it's got to the point where I regularly top 20.

I have no friends, no job and no ambitions nor purpose and hopes for the future, I feel like a golem devoid of free will. All I do is browse discord and fap to hentai (Which I regularly run out of due to the sheer consumption of it), everything I do is a chore, there is no joy or happiness in my life. The only pleasure I experience comes from fapping and i hate it because it has no meaning. I spend my time trapped in elaborate degenerate fantasies that everyday slip further from god.

Hedonism is a pit lined with lube, you try to crawl out only to slip back in. It is an utterly repulsive and pathetic way to live your life, I am a failed human.

Easton Robinson
Easton Robinson

Anime is a sin
What are you? A fu¢king Muslim??

Leo Butler
Leo Butler

I used to be
morbidly obese
gamed for whatever free time I had
drank multiple packs of soda a day
watched tv while I gamed all day

Now Im none of/do none of those things and my only problem left is porn.

The problem is a sort of learned helplessness, you should start with low hanging fruit. I suggest stopping eating fast food and soda if you do that, exercising 3 times a week and cutting back on tv (try switching to podcasts). If these are things you do regularly this will be hard enough on its own and once you do it (which you can) you will be a little bit stronger
That's how I did it, it really is just a mindset and gradual process. You have to learn to deconstruct despair and helplessness when it comes and obviously the goals (and religion/Jesus is obviously key to that)

Good luck, I'd recommend not even bothering quitting porn yet, start by building willpower and you'll get there

Jack Sanders
Jack Sanders

Man I excercse every day doing low rep high weight to increase testosterone and regularly go for walks, I've cut plastic out of my diet to reduce artificial estrogen intake and i don't even play vidya or watch TV.

My only problem now is masturbation, which I cannot seem to stop.

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Jaxson Clark
Jaxson Clark

I'm at about a week for the first time in probably months because I've been on vacation with my family. I feel pretty good, and I think now that I'm past a week it should be a bit easier moving forward. But I'm keeping my guard up. I noticed today when we were walking around downtown I caught myself checking out attractive girls and tried to not let my lust take root.

Easton Walker
Easton Walker

At least it means your body is looking for that wife now.

Well make sure you take the occasional zinc/folic acid combo, or else you are just jerking your T-levels into (insert thing here), not to much or too often though or you'll poison yourself.

As for the estrogen you want to tackle. I'm telling you: ONIONS! It's not a meme and after 2 weeks you'll be feeling so "manly" again that you'll want to shag anything that moves (just keep those urges under control though.)

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Kayden Fisher
Kayden Fisher

Your handling of your sexuality is just like investing money. Watching porn/fapping to pixels is throwing it all away. It damages your body. It damages your soul. Sleeping around gives you more pleasure but leaves nothing in return in the long run.
Saving it for your wife, having kids pays off. First you get all the masculine energy to better yourself and find the wife. Then you channel it into having kids - the future of your people. Hookup/fapping is just sterile hedonism that leads to nothing. It just leaves you empty inside.
I consider this every time I am in temptation. It works for me along with the knowledge that I would commit a grave sin.
Every time you abstain from Lust you do it for Christ, your future wife, your kids, yourself and for your nation.

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Alexander Green
Alexander Green

At least it means your body is looking for that wife now.
It really is. I'm 20, a few of my friends have been getting engaged recently and it's making me want to find that special someone so badly. But I'm patient, I know the Lord will provide.

Luke Morales
Luke Morales

Day 6. I'm feeling strong. For the first time ever I am *disgusted* by my addiction and see it for what it is: degeneracy and weakness.

Luis Butler
Luis Butler

I don't know where to post this so I guess here is best. I don't know what to do about my life. I've been depressed and suicidal since I became a conscious human being, my default state is to run away from pain, disappointment, or really anything and just quit and want to die. The only thing that really gets me out of that is my addictions which are food and fapping (abd to some extent alcohol and fighting) and that's only gotten worse since the last time I even talked with a believer in person was four years ago
I'm questioning myself a lot and wondering if I'm even saved at all. I think about my poor habits a lot and how to fix them like I know I should, but my only motivation is to find a wife, but every other factor screams I'll never have a wife because of how shattered I am mentally, physically, etc
Then I think it's what God wants me to do and it's my cross, but I look forward at a long life alone resisting the only pleasure I've really ever known to reach what? Life eternal
Then I think about how much I want to die and have always wanted to cease being and never have been born.
And I approach the issue of not knowing where I stand spiritually (would God let one of His own go insane?)
I can't seem to find that beginning spot to try and get better, all I've ever wanted was a wife, but nothing within me or outside of me says that will happen because of how much work it takes and it already takes too much work to live in the horrid state I do, let alone something respectable
I'm so sick of reality, why was I even born

Isaiah Morgan
Isaiah Morgan

The only thing that really gets me out of that is my addictions which are food and fapping
I doubt that fapping will make you happy. It gives one a short term satisfaction but leaves you empty and depressed. Fueling this addiction is not a way out. It's how you stay inside the horror hole.
I am a great sinner
Great sinners have great potential. Greater than you think. Your passion is just hijacked to do bad things now. You do have great potential to turn the wheels around the other way and then with all your passion live for Christ. You were born because God has plans with you. You going through this phase is probably a part of his schemes also. I've never been suicidal but I think your depression stems from nihilism. I've been nihilist for a long time even though I still believed in God so I know the feel. To start anew I recommend concentrating on nofap. To succeed you will need to repent, go to confession, attend church and to arm yourself with iron will. Also work on eliminating the rest of your addictions in similar manner but you should set goals for one of them primarily - preferably the nofap. It's not about finding the way to get back to Christ. Christ is the Way, he's still with you. He waits for the return of prodigal son and he greets him with all his love. My point is that it's not about 'fixing yourself' and then going to church and then looking for wife. The only way anything can change is repairing the relationship with Christ by confession, prayer, attending church, sacraments. Not saying it will be an easy path but it's definitely the path to walk.
Start with praying regularly - morning, evening. Go confess and channel your energy into working out to get rid of the urges to fap.

Jason Thomas
Jason Thomas

Daily reminder to never slacken in your dedication. Each day you resist the temptation you are closer to God.
Also your ancestors are watching. Think about the heroes you admire, about your grandparents and make them proud by standing the ground firmly against the wickedness of modern world. Surely they are already proud you make the effort to combat the evil since they see what you've been born into.

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Christopher Sanders
Christopher Sanders

Day one (1)
This time I'm going to make it, for good.

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Blake Sanders
Blake Sanders

8 Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Galatians 6:8

Reaping destruction means to cut it down and make it your own and benefit. If you are seeding the spirit, which is in you, you will cut down and harvest eternal life. It seems like everyone who is abstinate is a giant asshole.

Did anyone here even read songs?

Luis Allen
Luis Allen

No fap is the work of the Antichrist. If God didn't want you touching yourself he wouldn't have put your hands hanging right near your genitals. You'd have little hands like a t-rex.

Christian Miller
Christian Miller

Try reversing the saying.
Whoever reaps to please their flesh, from the flesh will sow destruction; whoever reaps the Spirit to please, from the Spirit will sow eternal life. Galatians 6:8

Does that sound right? No it doesn't

Sebastian Wood
Sebastian Wood

Getting God's help would be the best help against stopping this, getting saved and sanctified would greatly increase your success rate.

Isaac Reyes
Isaac Reyes

I'm telling you: ONIONS! It's not a meme
Actually, yes it is. Just eat more meat, vegetables, and exercise.

Chase Adams
Chase Adams

Ackchyually

As someone whos been testing himself while doing this as first hand experience and with second hand testimonies from a few others. Also have a mate in endocrinology currently replicating the Iranian results.

Yes, a good diet and exercise is important as is a healthy sleep schedule. However the effects of onions on not just T-levels but also estrogens is something observable and not just some tide-pod tier meme.
Please give citations why you think otherwise, or I'll just assume you work for soy.

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Charles Allen
Charles Allen

Please give citations
The burden of proof is on you and other oniontards. Remember that the two studies that oniontards always bring up were done on lab rats (ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/24302558, ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19384830)

Are you a lab rat? If not, then you can't say that there is solid evidence for onions being a magic T pill. We need to conduct studies on humans to get more accurate data.

b-but I did it and it works! And it works for others as well!
Not evidence. Anecdotes don't mean shit.

or I'll just assume you work for soy
What does soy have to do with this discussion?

Aiden James
Aiden James

Please help me anons.

Believe me when i say this (I have no reason nor any gain from lying over the internet) but in all 21 years of my life Ive never fapped, until recently a month or so ago all my pent up sexual frustration and depression made me desperate and cave in for the first time ever and I started banging my pillow to relieve myself. First time I ever came that wasn't a wet dream. Although it initially felt "good", I was overcame with immense regret, especially since I'd held my own for all my life till then. Now it's become somewhat a habit occasionally and I don't know why I do it nor do I feel happy doing it only disappointed and ashamed and each time just more and more disgusted with myself.

I wanted to ask, if anyone could share some advice. Possibly some books/videos to improve myself and be happier and to help me cut this degeneracy out of my life.

Posted this somewhere else but posting here since here would also be more relevant. Brothers please pray for me and pray that people who truly embody the light of Christ will come into my life and change me.

Charles Gutierrez
Charles Gutierrez

I think I read the exact same thing elsewhere, did you post on /fit/ or something?

Anyway, I first masturbated when I was 19 so I know how you feel. Since then I've been watching porn and masturbating non stop. I am now 24 and on my 19th day of noporn, my longest streak since I started. It just sucks man, we shouldn't discover our sexuality like this, but that's how it is in our twisted world. Now, the thing with masturbation is: you give it an inch, it takes a foot. What I mean is even the smallest impure thought will always try to amplify itself up to the point of masturbating. You just need to cut it out entirely. I said I'm on noporn but even this isn't good enough, masturbating to your own thoughts means you let them flow into you, and then it becomes even harder to hold it.

My current mindset is:
1) masturbation is a sin, so you should go to a priest and confess everytime you do it. The fact that it's a sin should also be the FIRST reason you do nofap.
2) your sexual energy and frustration should be channeled into finding a wife. You may think you're still young, but finding a wife means you need to sort yourself out and become worthy of a woman, and it takes time (probably years). Use your energy to become a better person and ultimately find a wife.
3) I assume you're a virgin like me. Stop being ashamed of it, and take the decision to remain virgin until marriage. Stop giving a f*ck about the woman around you, your goal is to find a wife, not some stupid whore to have sex with. This has helped me a lot, now I don't look at women telling myself "god damn it I'll never tap that" anymore, and it relieves a lot of the frustration.

I hope this helps. Please tell me if you think I'm wrong about anything.

Hudson Perez
Hudson Perez

Its funny how everybody is overcame with immense regret when they first touch themselves. The guilt when you first lie or steal is nothing compared to that. And they say they will never do it again but it feels so good, and they continue to do it soon after the emotions are set aside. Its like how nearly everyone has that dream of suddenly realizing they're naked in public. I believe masturbation and fornication marks the death of innocence in a unsanctified manner, which is why it produces such a strong emotion response. Its the spirit withering in pain.

Justin Jones
Justin Jones

And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.
- Luke 9:23

Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?
- Romans 6:16

There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.
- 1 Corinthians 10:13

Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin;
That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.
- 1 Peter 4:1-2

He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.
- John 14:21

It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
- Hebrews 10:31

But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
1 John 1:7

For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day.
For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory;
- 2 Corinthians 4:16-17

Sebastian Rivera
Sebastian Rivera

youtu.be/4jiM7kSkK1k
youtu.be/AS3qrvKanug

Chase Morgan
Chase Morgan

yeah I posted on /fit/ . Are you the user who suggested bible?

Also sadly I don't have a priest or anything these days. I haven't been to church in quite a bit.

I want to find a wife, but these days especially this soctiet and generation are terrible and finding a good woman seems near impossible.

Yes I'm a virgin but I worried that won't last long with my current mindset and well as the females I currently talk to. I'm honestly not and never have been ashamed of being a virgin, what I'm worried is losing that bit of purity I have left.

Thank you for the words and telling me about your situation. I appreciate it user

I somewhat agree with this, once you take a bite from the apple, there's no going back.

I'll check these thanks

Jace Johnson
Jace Johnson

21 years
That's great user. You should be really proud. I do not remember my first time. But I guess I fapped for about 6 years at total. Sometimes more,sometimes less. Still it drilled a great hole in my soul. Anyway it made me go full pushback on this degeneracy. I still feel the fire I lit when I decided to quit…the dedication only strengthens over the time even though it's been more than a year now. I feel something died inside of me - the innocence. I know I'll never get it back but I want to be worthy of my future wife so literally almost everything I do is to improve myself spiritually and physically. I sincerely hope God will have mercy on me and I am trying to make up those years as well as I am able. Enough about my not so interesting background.
Currently I am on about 200 days no fap - my longest streak so far although I had good runs before also. When I used my sheer willpower without asking God for help I wasn't doing bad at all but eventually I relapsed every time because devil always managed to break me. No matter how strong your will is, you need God's help.
My advice:
Prayer
Simple fact: You can't pray and stroke your genitals. One activity will eventually eliminate the other. Prayer is you being with God. When you pray regularly satan has very little possibilities to access your backdoor - your pride, your lust - and use them against you. Set a solid prayer schedule (morning and evening is a minimum, whenever you're having the urges also consider praying..)
Confession
Each time you fail go confess. I can't stress this enough. I was doing 2-4 weeks before I swallowed my pride and confessed. You literally feel the strength from the Lord. You may go there many times but each time you'll get stronger. I was wary to go there it took a lot of courage to do it so I always neglected it until eventually I just felt like I had to go confess and it freed my soul.
Holy communion, church attendance
Along with the prayer and confession this strengthens your relationship with Christ.
Scripture reading
Helps a lot.
Icon/cross
Having an icon and cross in my room helped me even before praying regularly.
Avoid NSFW like plague.
Before you know it you're there and you're fapping. Mere watching nsfw content gives you the same dopamine rush just to a lesser extent. Avoid all nsfw boards, other stuff online that would put you in danger. NEVER justify "just looking at it". Just looking at it is letting satan tempt you. Also it is a sin even if you just look at those videos.
Hobbies, socialize
Guys tend to fap when they get bored/when they got too much energy/when they're depressed. If you work out, do sports, do some work then you have less energy and less desire to fap. Do sports, read books, go outside, etc. Tire yourself until you won't even think about fapping. Channel the energy the right way.
IRL friends
If you have IRL friends who are into nofap then talk with them about your progress. It's a great encouragement for a guy to know he's not alone in this struggle.

All right those are the things that helped me move on. I could probably go on and write more but I think this is more than sufficient. I stress the prayer and the confession again. When I get the urges I always think about how I was doing when I fapped. Low confidence, weak posture, weak voice, unable to attract a girl, constantly unhappy. I completely changed for the better and I just don't want to go back into the hellhole so I keep the line because I know the few seconds of high are not worth it. Also I think about what my future wife would think of me doing such things. There are many motivations you just need to find what motivation works for you.
Good luck user.

Wyatt Robinson
Wyatt Robinson

It's another day of what the winnie the pooh is wrong with me

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Angel Russell
Angel Russell

I want to tell everyone ITT like I did some weeks ago already:
Pray the Rosary every day. Pray it fully - all sets of mysteries. The Rosary and impurity cannot exist at the same time with and in a person so to speak and God will grant you the Grace to overcome your addiction.

I was severely addicted to porn and masturbation for over 1.5 decades. By praying the Rosary daily and receiving the holy Sacraments regularly, God helped me beat it in less than half a year. I'm completely free for almost 6 weeks now, I have no urge to watch porn anymore and when I am aroused, I can just wave it aside. I acknowledge it as something God made me with in order to procreate but I don't waste that energy by sinning anymore. And when I can do it with the help of God and God through me - literally the most weak-willed person on earth - then I am 101% sure that you can make it easily.

The Rosary. And when you feel an urge, pray one decade and then focus yourself on other things. Play an instrument, go for a walk/jog, do a training session, read a book - just physically do something else than sitting somewhere and being aroused.

I also want to you take this prayer with you - a prayer (or similar to that) promoted by 12-steps programs (AA and the like). A prayer that you can also say in moments of "distraction". You can say it directly to the Lord or ask (a) saint(s) to pray with and for you. I'll just post the "direct" version:
Lord, I am in dire need right now. I beg you, give me the serenity to endure the things that I am not able to change - the courage to change the things I am able to change - and the wisdom to distinguish one from the other. Thy will, not mine, be done. Amen.

Benjamin Morales
Benjamin Morales

I gave in today.

Please condemn me. I deserve nothing but rebuke and shame.

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Jaxon Taylor
Jaxon Taylor

Starting again, I'll go to confession the day after tomorrow…I'll give my best and pray more. I don't pray enough and fill my life with good healthy activities to improve my faith and my life. All things which are gifts from God and that I'm wasting.

Joshua Adams
Joshua Adams

I think going on Nofap was pretty good for me and helped to highlight why I did it to begin with. Boredom, Loneliness and Idleness.

I've managed to change my life and get rid of those three for the most part. I cut myself away from many things which triggered those and i'm planning on converting all that energy away by going to the gym more.

Aiden Mitchell
Aiden Mitchell

Are you a lab rat?
WE ARE ALL LAB RATS OF THE DEVIL UNTIL WE REPENT
Also onion and garlic are the best vegetables in existence so whatever the effect always eat them in abundance

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Joseph Reyes
Joseph Reyes

Had gone for around 20 days without masturbating- the longest I've gotten since I started- I began to pride myself too much on my newfound temperance instead of praising God for giving me strength. I fapped 3 times today and feel awful, guilty and tired. Let this be a lesson for myself and anyone else– don't become prideful of your abstinence regardless if it's for 20 days or 200, pride will always come before a fall

Jose Thomas
Jose Thomas

Failed again, pray for me bros.

Zachary Reed
Zachary Reed

wet dreams won't stop coming
The heck am I supposed to do about this?

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Lincoln Ramirez
Lincoln Ramirez

That's why you shouldn't count days.

David Howard
David Howard

Wet dreams, fortunately, aren't sin. Your body is most likely still adjusting to NoFap, it'll adjust eventually.

Jason Stewart
Jason Stewart

It's still gross.

Ryder Perez
Ryder Perez

I’ve done a lot of thinking about this over the past few years. This year I gave up masturbation for lent, admittedly not the best to give up, but regardless I did that for over a month then got right back to it, nearly weekly. Then as time went on I was more on and off, and I did more reflecting. This summer I’ve been limiting myself a lot. The first few weeks I lost hard, but then I got better. Typically it would only go a week, but then it got to 8 days, then 9, then from there I decided I had to double it. And I did it, I got to 18 tonight, and while I’m not proud to have done what I did, I am glad my mentality is changing. I’ll admit, it wasn’t a moment of weakness, i wasn’t week at all, I knew exactly what I was doing. But now I’ve got to go at least a month, 36 days but I won’t count. I hope this was the last time, I hope that in a months time I won’t even be thinking about it. Wish me luck, but don’t waste prayer. I am a sinner, and I’ve accepted it; clearly there’s something wrong with me, and I’ve got to face that. This is just one more challenge before I can face God again

Luke Sullivan
Luke Sullivan

You have to endure it. Eventually they will become scarce. It's not a sin so you shouldn't worry about it too much.

Ian Wilson
Ian Wilson

Keep it up, fam.

Jaxon Wright
Jaxon Wright

7 months not a slave.
still going strong.

Jackson Morris
Jackson Morris

The worst thing you can do when you fail is beat yourself over it.
Take a cold shower, pray and stand up. You can do it.

Carter Cook
Carter Cook

This. Screw your loss. Keep fighting, user.

Nicholas Gonzalez
Nicholas Gonzalez

What’s crazy is that I thought the urge to fap would disappear when I got married. Three years into my marriage and it hasn’t. I thought that having someone I could have sex with whenever I wanted would quench my sex drive, but now I start fantasizing about other women I see throughout my day. I hate it and it’s opened my eyes to the cheating problem many men have. Guard your hearts gents, it doesn’t get easier with age or with a wife.

Dominic Jackson
Dominic Jackson

I'm having the worst weeks of my life. I'm masturbating more than once per day and my mind is full of unclean thoughts. And all of this after I had an amazing weeks experimenting the presence of God everyday and having a intimate relationship with Him… but I gave in to one temptation and now I'm trapped.
Please brothers, pray for me! I'm desperate.

Oliver Roberts
Oliver Roberts

successfully stop fapping and cumming
still edge every once in a while
This nofap stuff is an uphill battle

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Sebastian Morgan
Sebastian Morgan

pmo'd again, pray for me

Mason Cruz
Mason Cruz

Prayed for you lads. I find that despair is the biggest motivator for fapping, at least for me. Knowing that with God we can achieve remarkable feats, including getting rid of a serious porn addiction, is something we should never forget.

Kayden Ramirez
Kayden Ramirez

Here brother. Get the healing touch of transcendence from music.
I know that feel. Although I did not relapse I have not managed to restore my schedule as I had during the lent. I never felt so close to God as I felt during the lent. Those days were probably the most happy days I have had in the last few years. Falling from it feels terrible anyway. It feels like going through the desert without any end, sinning in my thoughts. I will pray for your success user.
Get off your knees and stand up to the vice. You don't deserve condemnation at all.

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Grayson Mitchell
Grayson Mitchell

This track is special for me. Months ago I was about to break nofap browsing /gif/ but someone posted this among porn vids with "repent". It shone among the dirt as nothing else. I was so ashamed I gave in and went on that site….Eventually I closed the dirt and just gave thanks to God.

David Rodriguez
David Rodriguez

Once i have a wife, can i have sex with her involving contraception?

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Thomas Green
Thomas Green

No.

Jose Howard
Jose Howard

If you mean you're able to pull out in time, then maybe?

Jason Lopez
Jason Lopez

nofap for 14 months
still get wet dreams like mad
actually get wet dreams 4 days in a row and it's started to seriously affect my thought process
haven't actually masturbated yet but begun lurking on boards I said I'd stop using
Send help.
Satan knows how to twist the thumbscrews really well.

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Jaxon Jackson
Jaxon Jackson

nofap for 14 months
This alone should prove you're more capable than most of us here, user. If you fall, so be it. It is not a mortal sin. Do not wreck yourself needlessly.
If you really have to do it, do it in the bathroom in like 5 min. with your eyes closed or something and never thing of it again for as long as you can.

Tyler Roberts
Tyler Roberts

Why is this so difficult to quit? I had a good streak going and just relapsed again.
It literally starts to consume every thought the longer I go without.

Thomas Peterson
Thomas Peterson

You don't break an addiction by feeding it. Sorry, but that is terrible advice.

Btw, you don't stop masturbation by fighting it like a warrior and trying to "conquer" it. Stopping masturbation is a grace and requires you to stop it on a spiritual level. Stopping it on a physical level is impossible and actually laughable. Most people want to stop masturbation for prideful or lustful motives (e.g. boasting of stopping or encouraging themselves to have real sex or making themselves more sexually attractive). Again. These motivations are NOT spiritual. They are just as fleshy as masturbation itself.

As a Catholic, I also received extremely poor advice from priests in the confessional. The real advice I got was from God after prayer, and that advice was tailor made for me only, and would not apply to others. Pray with a sincere heart. God can figure out your lies, dissimulations, and nonsense.

Kayden Johnson
Kayden Johnson

Stopping masturbation is a grace and requires you to stop it on a spiritual level
Can I use special fairy dust too?

Carter Foster
Carter Foster

No, but seriously how retarded do you think you sound?

Daniel Clark
Daniel Clark

What I meant to say is that you have no idea what kind of an addiction it is. For many guys juts being able to say no to porn is had enough, hell, some have a very hard time getting away from blowjobs, anal, hentai and all other degenerate stuff.
I have literally never heard of someone just deciding to quit and never doing it. Ever. Everyone eventually breaks down and gives in. Key is not to eat yourself over your failure, but learning from it for the future.
As for your rambling about spiritual warfare, everything is spiritual warfare. But to say to just be a fatalist on the physical level is outright stupid. The rest is just pure basic Christian doctrine. Worth repeating, but it is not enough in this kind of long fight.

Hunter Sanchez
Hunter Sanchez

NoFap is not just state of body. It is a state of mind. Body and soul are one complex. First the soul must be healed, then the body heals itself. To break this your state of mind has to change radically. It is a spiritual battle first of all. I mean anyone can stop fapping right now. If your brain does not decide to perform the act you won't do it.. See the right way is through getting your mind above it. Reading scripture, praying when you're being tempted.
It is difficult to quit because our minds are rotten by the exposure to pornography so the adjusting takes pretty long. Even after that you're not free . You have to watch yourself. Once an addict, always an addict, just abstaining from the drug.
In other words: The ride never ends./

Nathaniel Edwards
Nathaniel Edwards

I'm going soon enough to be two months free. It feels honestly wonderful. The hardest time to resist is when I wake up with morning wood and my reason hasn't fully asserted itself. I am dreadfully afraid of failing again because the very image of masturbation just looks so very self-degrading by now.

Things that have greatly helped me were focusing on study and work, regularly going to church, and, ironically enough, not thinking about not fapping. Video games were surprisingly helpful as well.

Whenever I got the urge, I often prayed and it stopped.

Good luck to all of you in your struggles.

Dylan Reed
Dylan Reed

Feeling the presence of God is amazing, everything is so joyful, i could be do a labor job and be enjoying myself, with this bizarre joy and peace. Not to mention the unbelievable blessings that God gives me.

I can only feel the presence of God when i repent from sin, I could keep repenting from masturbation and porn (any media that excites sexually me) over and over, till i finally get it right. Would God be okay with this, as long as i'm sincerely trying to overcome this?

What is the point of a gf/wife if i can't use her? it seems like Christianity makes women pointless.

I wish i could find more polite ways to ask these awful questions, sorry if i sound ungrateful.

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Jaxson Fisher
Jaxson Fisher

I can only feel the presence of God when i repent from sin, I could keep repenting from masturbation and porn (any media that excites sexually me) over and over, till i finally get it right. Would God be okay with this, as long as i'm sincerely trying to overcome this?

No. You are not defeating sin by committing sin.
If you repent, but then, return to the sin, then your repentance was not true to begin with.

What is the point of a gf/wife if i can't use her? it seems like Christianity makes women pointless.

The Christian concession (opposite to the Mosaic concession of the Jews, which was divorce) is that we are freely able to indulge in lustful relations with our wives, as long as we are open to pro-creation.

Eli Lee
Eli Lee

No. You are not defeating sin by committing sin.
If you repent, but then, return to the sin, then your repentance was not true to begin with.
Understood, i'm not defending sin, but it's impossible to be free of sin, everyone lies, everyone lusts, how can we keep God close to us when we physically cannot stop sinning? Do Christians just keep God as long as they can till the next time they lose him?

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Kayden Thompson
Kayden Thompson

christian server

discord gg/Xw4V7Jb

Charles Stewart
Charles Stewart

Mfw failed out of sheer boredom
Mfw I'm starting to lose it

LORD JESUS CHRIST SON OF GOD HAVE MERCY ON ME A SINNER

Jacob Young
Jacob Young

Do Christians just keep God as long as they can till the next time they lose him?
100% this.

Ryan Williams
Ryan Williams

relapsed TWICE today
had 100+ days streak
Really hard to not hate myself for this

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Brayden Ortiz
Brayden Ortiz

==Pro tip:== water fasting + cold showers

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Owen Cruz
Owen Cruz

Pro tip: water fasting + cold showers

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Hunter Rodriguez
Hunter Rodriguez

I know that feel bro I need to go to confession and get myself back on track.

Michael Foster
Michael Foster

Going to go with .
Rode through it. Back to normal.
I've messed up my sleep schedule badly and my exercise routine. Need to get back into the swing after surgery.
I was under the impression that fornication with oneself was mortal sin. I'm inclined to believe that still.

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Wyatt Richardson
Wyatt Richardson

Anyone tried the method here? mychainsaregone.org/ It takes a few times, but I did it. It truly gives freedom.

Note: It is entirely contrary to EVERY method you have ever used before. From fasting, cold showers, eye bouncing, thought controlling, willpower, and anything else. It simply implants in your head a worldview where you can't look at porn anymore, or are not aroused by it, but saddened.

Liam Bailey
Liam Bailey

day 4 of nofap
can't remember the last time i went 3 full days without fapping prior to this
roommate leaves the house
temptation stronger than ever
"i'll only look at a few pics"
"i'll only touch myself a little bit"
"i'll only sit while touching myself a lot, because i've never managed to ejaculate while sitting"
minutes later, feel myself edging
regret immediately hits at that point
make a mess of myself, my clothes, and my surroundings
in the end, i got no satisfaction out of it and it felt like the most useless and depraved act ever
Daily reminder not to give an inch to temptation… There's a nice girl at my church I talk to often. She can get pretty lonely, so she often messages me and we text back and forth for hours on end, even in the middle of the night. While she doesn't realize it, that's a big help in keeping my mind off that filth. I should've messaged her to got a conversation going the second my mind went astray.

Christopher Scott
Christopher Scott

Clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature. (Romans 13:14)

Brody Foster
Brody Foster

If wanking is a mortal sin, then nearly every single man in the western world is never going to be saved.
I'm under the idea that holding on to lust is more harming than the 'act' itself. And that the act of fornication itself depends on how you go about it. Reminded me of this meme over to the left.
As for the spiritual part I still say it's more important to get yourself physically able to resist the urge since everything else is already a spiritual battle.

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Ayden King
Ayden King

You should release it user~

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Noah Watson
Noah Watson

*releases*

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Jackson Thompson
Jackson Thompson

Depart, satan.

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Colton Gonzalez
Colton Gonzalez

Be me
Try to be more positive, tell my friend to shoot me a book from the bible as we head home from hanging
Tells me to read Romans 1-5
Read it before bed (was a tough read)
Literally feel amazing throughout the week afterwards, like full of energy and like a new person
Hadn't gotten a single urge to watch porn or masturbate
As the week ends, get into serious argument with foreign gril i was talking to, break off everything
Situation throws my mood to the gutter but at the same time I'm glad because she was drawing me closer to sin and eventually one day premarital sex
After that, my urges come back and my my low mood and self hatred hits at full force
Relapse day after day

What the hell is wrong with me, I don't know how to get out of this rut or find people who will bring me closer to God.

Also has anyone ever experienced that feeling after reading the Bible?

Robert Brooks
Robert Brooks

To sin while cleansed of sin is hard because you are closer to God and thus more aware of sin with each sin noticeably hurting you. The more you sin the more numb you become towards sin and thus it is easier to sin without even realizing.

Logan Walker
Logan Walker

If wanking is a mortal sin, then nearly every single man in the western world is never going to be saved.
I mean… yes? Ever heard about the doctrine of the fewness of the saved? Christ warned us that narrow is the way, and few are the chosen.

Jack Cox
Jack Cox

Luke 13:24 Strive to enter in by the narrow door: for many, I say unto you, shall seek to enter in, and shall not be able.

Proverbs 21:25 The desire of the slothful kills him; for his hands refuse to labor.

Adam Williams
Adam Williams

Yes, I have experienced this before. Not anymore, because I now know it is merely a trick of the devil. He will use an emotional situation to draw you back into many sins, when really, our default emotional outlet should be God Himself. "Cast your anxieties on Him before He cares for you". I have ranted at God, written Him angry letters, and so on. He can take it, He already knows how you feel. Doing that will strengthen your relationship with Him.

Easton Sanders
Easton Sanders

Once again I have become prideful in my meagre success, so I will warn those in this thread to stay humble with their journey and to always be on guard.

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Austin Butler
Austin Butler

Stop counting days

Christopher Bennett
Christopher Bennett

Honestly, the one thing I have found that has consistently gotten me through urge attacks/waves/withdrawals is being cut off from being able to perform the act. Whether it being on a trip with relatives and staying at a hotel, or having family visit and spend time with at home, I am able to ride out the urges by not being able to be alone with a computer for an extended period of time.

If you find yourself undergoing an urge attack, and are alone and by a computer, there is a good chance that it's not a matter of if, but when you will give in. So get out of there until the urges pass. Go out into the living room to do some work instead of your bedroom. Get around others. Go for a drive. Go see a movie. Do whatever within reason in order to keep yourself from being alone with a computer for an extended period of time when an urge comes upon you. Eventually you will find the urges will pass, until the next time when you must repeat the process again.

The last time I stopped counting days was when I fell the hardest. So no thank you good sir.

Daniel Reed
Daniel Reed

Counting never did me any good. Are you going to count for the rest of your life? It's not a contest. You're looking at it like a goal, "I can't give in because I'm on a record" when you should be looking at it like a fact, "I won't give in because I don't do this anymore."

Nathan Wilson
Nathan Wilson

I'm about 4 months with out fapping. Only recently I've caught myself looking at porn. I stop myself without relapsing, but I know that even looking at porn on its own is sinful and degenerate. I know if I keep that kind of garbage up the I'll break at one point. I don't want it to come to that. I want to get myself back under control.
Just wanted to get that off my chest. Wish me luck.

Cooper Scott
Cooper Scott

Good luck user and may God help you.

Continue to do what your future self will thank you for.

Christopher Gonzalez
Christopher Gonzalez

Scripture itself compares the beatitude of salvation to a race.

Aaron Harris
Aaron Harris

Stop masturbating
realize all the other ways you’re messing up

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Samuel Hall
Samuel Hall

but it's an improvement, no?

Jaxon Baker
Jaxon Baker

I'd say it's one of the reasons people (sub)consciously fall back to porn and fapping.

Oliver Smith
Oliver Smith

Sup guys
Been fapping since I was 14. I'm 26 now. I don't even know how to stop, it comes naturally like eating. Pray for me

Jacob Ramirez
Jacob Ramirez

What the hell is wrong with me?

Xavier Lewis
Xavier Lewis

mychainsaregone.org/

Benjamin Ortiz
Benjamin Ortiz

Partially through reading this. I'm withholding doing an Irish jig til I read all of it, but I've got to admit: this is very promising. There was a point were I was afraid that it was going to be just another variation of the "easy peazy" book, but to my pleasant surprise, it's much MUCH different.

Time will tell, but right now, I'm feeling truly optimistic about this fight for the first time in a long time. God willing, this could be the answer.

Jack Wood
Jack Wood

start to fall into temptation again and edge like crazy
usual nonsense excuses in my head pops up trying to fool me into thinking I won't fall completely
keep getting dragged further and further in
remember all the times I've failed in this way before
temptations persist
think about Jesus
think about all the suffering the lad went through for our sins, while I'm sitting here sinning away anyways
suddenly come back to my senses and realize what I'm doing
temptations fade away

Thanks again, Jesus.
I can not begin to express truly how weak I am to this particular demon. I've literally never had the willpower to break away from this degeneracy on my own. No matter what I try, faith is the only thing that's ever been able break me away from it. I have to stay vigilant and maintain my faith. I've been careless and skipped my morning prayers today, and I think this evil has been slowly building up since.
Always be praying, folks. Always keep your mind on God. It's the only thing that will ever work for sure.

Robert Kelly
Robert Kelly

Are you honestly telling the that the Lord will condemn you to fire for having difficulty quitting wanking?
You poor sods. You're probably even worse off than the poor wanker.

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Julian Jenkins
Julian Jenkins

Not on that alone. But getting your sins burned away in purgatory for wanking doesn't sound to fun.

Joshua Evans
Joshua Evans

After a lifetime of struggle it might actually seem worth it.
But I think I'm pulling too many legs here because I'm having trouble with it too.
I'm down to 1 time a week now. Going to go for 2 times a month and skip November.

Luis Turner
Luis Turner

This. Once you cease fapping you see how much work on your self-improvement needs to be done that you just don't want to relapse because you'd lose that energy.
I don't even know how to stop
Iron will, determination and prayer.

Elijah Sanders
Elijah Sanders

user, it's a sexual impurity, and the sexually impure shall not inherit Heaven.

Think of this, hasn't man always been able to masturbate? Why hasn't it been condemned before? I'll tell you why. Because it was rare, if you wanted to get your rocks off, you went to a prostitute. Pornography has completely changed our nature, masturbation was considered an impure rarity.

Colton Perez
Colton Perez

iron will

"Iron will" has never helped me. Seriously, I'm at my strongest when I completely give up and just pray to Christ and Mary (a wonderful intercessor for purity) to help me. Less will, more grace.

William Jackson
William Jackson

What man has the power to overcome the choking grasp of pornography then?
Some user above pointed out it being more of a spiritual warfare thing which I doubted at first, but the more I consider, I think the more he may be right.
Iron will is super rare these days too.

Kevin Baker
Kevin Baker

Anyone who changes their view about the body to be God's view about it. As soon as you do that, Satan will leave tempting you with it, because his only power over the Christian is lies. Temptations are lies packaged delightfully, we give into them based on lies, and so on. If you destroy the lie surrounding one sin, he IMMEDIATELY leaves it and goes on to another one. I've personally experienced this. It's like sudden freedom. The freedom feels truly free, I can see a pretty woman and not be remotely tempted, I don't have to hide from pools or such, sexual advertisements don't faze me, or anything. Get rid of the lies, and then you'll be free from this sin. "And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall set you free" ~ Our Lord

Austin Bailey
Austin Bailey

Bros, I've been struggling recently with nofap, I'll get one or two days, maybe three without porn. I've been feeling a strong temptation tonight, but I'm gonna fight it.
This was nice to read, thanks.

Liam Phillips
Liam Phillips

What man has the power to overcome the choking grasp of pornography then?

Man bestowed with the unmerited grace of God.

Sebastian Morgan
Sebastian Morgan

Yet we are all bestowed by his Holy Spirit, our soul desperate to imitate it, to protect it and nurture it. Yet we are all guilty of sin, every last one. And those of us poor fornicators, our pleasure being the displeasure of God, we who are tied down by our own weakness and inability to use God's freely given grace, what are we to do? Should we tear our clothes in anger and pisseth against the wall crumbling down on us? And why not? Why should we not give in to hate for fornication? Hate is a sin too, but a sin less, if not one easier to handle. For if hate can defeat fornication, we would all choose hate in the hope that victorious hate would cease our suffering, willing to let us go, unlike fornication's tight grasp. And would not God be pleased that by a lesser sin we would remove a greater one? For in the end all sin in nothing in the presence of God.

Dominic Bell
Dominic Bell

Ok generally I made some improvements and in the past year I have been able to go 1-3 months each time before failing. But now I want to go on forever.

One thing I noticed is that I'm not really tempted by the act of fapping itself anymore, but by the porn. This has been going on for months, it used to be the opposite before. I'm doing my best to resist temptations anytime they appear, and will also improve my spiritual life in other ways, but does anyone have any other advice on what else I can do against this particular temptation (porn)?

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Angel Davis
Angel Davis

blah blah blah

And Jesus said: Neither will I condemn thee. Go, and now sin no more.

You cannot defeat sin with more sin. Quit masturbating, quit fornicating. Start praying.

Brayden Hughes
Brayden Hughes

You need to take steps to completely exorcise it from you life. If its thots on social media, block them. Unfollow all accounts that share, retweet, or post porn, suggestive images, and the like. If its entire websites then consider installing porn blockers or simply try to exercise your own willpower not to visit them; prayer is essential for this! Whenever you get the urge to visit a site, say a short prayer, the Jesus prayer has worked literal wonders for me.
Consider limiting your time on your devices too, or restrict yourself just to playing games or watching movies so that you won't be tempted to visit any porn sites.
But again, most importantly, you must pray!

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Landon Perez
Landon Perez

Thanks for advice, prayer is always good.

Also with porn it doesn't work like that for me. I don't use social media a lot, and I'm not exposed to porn and suggestive images regurarily.
My problem is thoughts, sometimes they're hard to silence instantly and over time it keeps building up. I don't let them grow into fantasies but sometimes I'm off guard and some images slip in before I can shut them off. These things, in addition to the occasional thoughts like "maybe it's not that bad of a sin? maybe I'll just indulge for a while and then go back?" can build up over time, if I'm not vigilant enough and eventually bring me over the edge and into sin.
Despite reading a lot about porn and it's effect + even watching podcasts on it I can't bring myself to be "disgusted" by it or deny that it is pleasant.

But I know that it's sinful and willingly choose to reject it. Each time I try to drop it forever, always deleting anything I might have saved and deleting history, but usually I fail eventually. This time I hope to go on forever without it and I'm pretty confident about success, but I'm still looking for any ways to help me.

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Landon Brown
Landon Brown

also I use the Jesus Prayer a lot, all the time

Jonathan Harris
Jonathan Harris

AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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Levi Morris
Levi Morris

One thing I would suggest is that you also stop studying the effects of porn academically as you are now. You know its bad, isn't that enough? Now, to be fair, I don't know if that will help you, but my thinking is that you should remove all thoughts of porn from your mind.
I completely understand not being disgusted by it, I'm in the same boat as you with that. Also, occasionally, I'll get a big urge to watch it because we all love seeing women, but what I do in those moments is actually shake my head and pray the Jesus Prayer as mentioned. If I'm alone I'll even shout at myself in order to get the thought out of my head.
Have you talked to your priest about your struggle to get rid of the stuff for good? He may have some suggestions, or even simply talking to a man face-to-face may help you.

Owen Jones
Owen Jones

One thing I would suggest is that you also stop studying the effects of porn academically as you are now. You know its bad, isn't that enough? Now, to be fair, I don't know if that will help you, but my thinking is that you should remove all thoughts of porn from your mind.
Well yeah, that's where I'm at. I did that stuff about a year ago, now I'm mostly trying not to think about it.

Have you talked to your priest about your struggle to get rid of the stuff for good? He may have some suggestions, or even simply talking to a man face-to-face may help you.
I did talk about it once during confession and the priest did give me advice but it wasn't anything I haven't heard before. Might try this again with a different priest.

Cooper Anderson
Cooper Anderson

Welp. After a solid month of being fap-free, I gave in, brothers….And then AGAIN within the span of HOURS after heartily confessing to God privately and being contrite of heart. I call that the second "wave" of temptation that follows shortly after a fall. Getting back on the wagon and confessing Saturday or Sunday. Pray for me and I will you.

Alexander Torres
Alexander Torres

All is well. EVEN STILL God will forgive if only you ask, He knows your state and how deep into the habit you are. Never mind how great your sin is, focus instead on how much greater was Christ's sacrifice for you and many.

Carson Ortiz
Carson Ortiz

Done.
Fight me.

Lucas Fisher
Lucas Fisher

Is it a sin tho? Like i need scripture. We're not talking about porn. Help im struggling bros.

Bentley Gray
Bentley Gray

read the OP

Caleb Morgan
Caleb Morgan

It's a sin. Some call it a mortal sin, fools that they are. But in it the greatest sin is not to combat it. Endgame is getting a wife and, excuse my ghetto, 'pump' out children.
If you can't do that for whatever reason, celibacy is the only way, maybe even eunuchry.
Above all, let it not one sin dismay you, but fight them all at the spiritual level even if it takes your entire life doing it.

Jayden Wilson
Jayden Wilson

Some call it a mortal sin
It is a mortal sin, as are all sins of impurity.
fools that they are
Matthew 5:22

Elijah Bailey
Elijah Bailey

Welp, washed out after a week. Back to the drawing board.

After reading all the main articles and blog posts (still have to work my way through some side linked articles and the comments) I think the site makes some very excellent points about the porn-prudery concept of the human body being a fuel for pornography. However, there's one very fatal flaw in this concept: Even though I know that the human body is not inherently sexual and lewd, the fact is, it can be made so/presented in such a way. When I feel the urge, I don't seek out classy nudes and topless sunbathers: I seek out the human body presented in a blatantly pornified fashion, along with kinky fetishistic stuff.

As such, I must recant my previous statement. At it's core it really is just another variation of the "figure out the subconscious psychological/cultural reason for your addiction, and you'll just magically stop!" myth.

Easy Peazy: "Once you figure out the masturbation isn't really pleasurable, that you don't need porn, that it's really just you staving off withdrawal/urges and that these aren't that bad in the first place, and that you can just make a decision to stop, you'll just magically stop!"

My Chains Are Gone: "Once you figure out that the human body is not inherently sexual and lewd, and that men being aroused visually is a myth and that people are really aroused relationally, you'll just magically stop!"

To be quite frank, while I agree that the nude human body is beautiful and mad in the image of God, the concept of there being no sexual dimension to the nude human body whatsoever, is a stretch (even in a healthy, relational sexual relationship in the context of marriage, I find it hard to believe that husbands and wives achieve no arousal from each other's nude bodies whatsoever), otherwise pornography wouldn't have any fuel to run on in the first place. More specifically, "Song of Songs" mentions breasts a little too often for me to completely buy the "no sexual aspect to breasts at all!" argument.

Also, there were some cringey articles on the site, including one in particular that makes me doubt the efficacy of the program. The article on "Porn proof your kids by making your family a bunch of nudists!" really made me feel queasy. But their articles on "Masturbation without lust is possible!" was a full-blown record scratch moment for me. (vid related)

Are their chains really gone? Or have they just achieved, at best, prelest through porn free, so-called "lust free" masturbation?

Bentley Reyes
Bentley Reyes

It's not a mortal sin, you dingus. And read the entire chapter before quoting something.

Nathan Carter
Nathan Carter

It's not a mortal sin
Yes, it is.
you dingus
Matthew 5:22

Anthony Johnson
Anthony Johnson

Are you honestly telling the that the Lord will condemn you to fire for having difficulty quitting wanking?
And Christ told us it is better to cut off the hand that causes you to sin than to have your whole body thrown into the lake of fire. I think I'm going to do side with Jesus on this issue, not you.

Christopher Green
Christopher Green

Look that’s all cool and stuff but porn was created by (((them))) to subdue and make men weak and complacent. It’s a tool that they used to keep you grounded. Half of the worlds problems will be gone in a minute of all the porn in the world disappeared immediately, men will start being men again which is direct their attention towards building and other creative endeavours.

Samuel Perry
Samuel Perry

Just hit around 30 days, crazy urges every day but its worth it

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Hudson Hill
Hudson Hill

220+ days
Now I get weak urges only when I feel lonesome, in need of a woman to love. Realizing fapping would make me just more miserable and that it would make seeking the woman worse I feel no desire to masturbate.
I've already decided that the next time I'll use my genitals for sexual purposes will be the wedding night with my future wife.
Now I'll just pray I'll make it.

Jordan Reyes
Jordan Reyes

It's not. Doofus.

Connor Russell
Connor Russell

That moment you realize that porn was created so we could get hooked on it and have difficulties finding a wife but even then if you find one you cannot directly marry them because you got to study for a job until your mid 20s so certain (((people))) can profit from it

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Matthew Edwards
Matthew Edwards

5 days without fapping, had avoided porn for five days but then I gave in. Watched a lot of porn, knowing all the while that what I was doing wasn't just sinful, it was really dumb and pointless. Downloaded a whole bunch of porn, got blue balls, was on the verge of jerking off to completion and then decided against the whole thing. Stopped fapping and deleted all the porn I'd downloaded. Now I'm wishing I hadn't done all that porn watching, and my balls hurt really bad, but I'm glad that I at least didn't cum. Gotta keep going, gotta stop justifying this sin.

Christian Kelly
Christian Kelly

NEVER fall back and 'take a peek' at porn even if you don't intend to do the evil mortal sin that will send you to hell forever without remission.
It always makes it worse and feels near as bad as if you'd had done it.

Matthew Evans
Matthew Evans

Guys stop being such weak asses seriously. Every time you succumb you lose a bit of self respect, stay strong my brothers. Collectively we can all defeat and lose this satanic habit that shackles us down and makes us be lesser versions of ourselves. Take out all your pent up sexual frustration and convert it into energy in the gym. Focus on becoming the best person you can be. Deus Vult!

Landon Reed
Landon Reed

It may sound weird, but it is better to give the energy to God. And not doing it in the way of "I'll go do works of mercy or volunteer or pray and fast a lot" but in the way of "God, I am terribly aroused, I desire sex in this moment, and you know it, help me through this." Reliance on God even in the most embarrassing and humiliating situations brings you to the point where He'll just deliver you from the addiction. It is shameful, but can you be ashamed before your God? He knows anyway. No need in hiding it from Him. Talk to Him about it, write letters to Him (something I do every single day, and it is insanely helpful in EVERYTHING), anything. Be direct about it. Don't try it on your own. Then, He will make you the best person He wants you to be (and it will bring you to heights you didn't think even possible).

Matthew Lopez
Matthew Lopez

this

Caleb Powell
Caleb Powell

When I realized this my anger fueled my will to quit once for all. As you say it;s just the first step because you can't just have kids unless you have some kind of job.
In other words if you want to rebel against the modern world you need to be sound and strong on many levels. Thankfully God is with us Anons.

Joshua Nelson
Joshua Nelson

Can't you read OP's post ?

anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

This ends the debate to nofap's legitimateness.

Lincoln Moore
Lincoln Moore

Last night I watched a video mocking discord servers for there gay/trap threads or whatever. It was a good laugh until the creator played a bit of hypo porn or whatever so the viewer could understand the weirdness of it. As soon as I figured out what it was a I turned the audio off. But i knew that as i was just going to bed I was gonna have a wet dream or something. I should have stayed up a bit longer to fill my head with something else. I prayed , went to bed. and yeah sure enough wet dream, but it was odd. I felt awake , only half asleep , and often I can resist it when im in that state. It takes me a we while to break out of dream but i often get there. But this time I was stuck at the thought of this women came at me.

which leads to my question. was this a succubus? Or am i just over thinking things. I was right annoyed because I KNEW it was gonna happen. maybe thats what lead to it , by anxiety.

dunno

also, is this a relapse?

Isaac Williams
Isaac Williams

You're overthinking it. Literally doesn't matter what it was. Just keep fighting and don't bust yourself for failing, because everyone fails in this fight now and then in the beginning. Pray in moments of weakness.

Samuel Garcia
Samuel Garcia

I gave in again. I'm almost hesitant to ask for forgiveness again because I feel like I'm taking God's mercy for granted.

Jonathan Fisher
Jonathan Fisher

Ask in honestly wounded heart and you will be forgiven. Fight harder. Make your failing worth it by getting back up and doing better.

Brody Nguyen
Brody Nguyen

was this a succubus?
Yes.

Lincoln Parker
Lincoln Parker

Porn is a shackles that binds you to sin, destroys your healthy libido, self esteem and makes you a liar both to yourself and others. There's literally nothing positive to gain from your addiction. Even the momentary rushes of dopamine and endorphins are just a sensory experience that serve no useful purpose at all. You're poisoning yourself with porn.

The price of freedom is to let go of the chain. Be free, my brothers. Choose to be free.

Logan Howard
Logan Howard

also, is this a relapse?
Relapse presumes willingness

Lucas Perez
Lucas Perez

Or lack of will thereof.

Hunter Sanchez
Hunter Sanchez

was too tired/lazy to say my prayers before bed
had the most horrible dream about relapsing
Really makest thou think

Robert Cook
Robert Cook

Whats the point of No Fap when if you don't release you just end up cumming in your sl