THE RESPONSIBILITY IS YOURS As someone who is quite successful in finding a wife, seek to help my own sanity by keeping all the boohoo no-gf/waifu lamentations to one thread. You can't complain if you don't give it an honest try as anything is possible with God. I found my very own christ-chan, thank the Lord all the more for it, and seek to help you too.
SELF ESTEEM is not the pride of life, we can't ever love someone else if we can't love ourselves as children and representatives of Christ. >Get in shape. >>>/fit/ In relation to the above, you can't be a slob and expect to attract a 10/10, as its indicative of entitlement and egocentrism. A strong body requires a strong mind. Learn what your TDEE is, make a goal weight, learn to love skim milk, and make a fitness plan that includes light cardio, goblet squats, and romanian deadlifts at the absolute minimum. The person who God has for you will appreciate it, encourage it, and join you. Be confident in what the bible says, and what's expected of you. A good marriage minded Christian will quiz you to see if you are legitimate in your beliefs or are just desperate for companionship. If you're a bible scrub, start with the minimum of proverbs, ecclesiastes, and the New Testament. Even at just one chapter a day, this should take you about 10 months to complete. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Objectivity_(philosophy) We serve the eternal God, who is the very essence of Objectivity by virtue of being the creator who clearly defined the reality in which we live through His intelligent design. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asceticism#Christianity In this reality, we are called to cast aside as much as possible whatever seperates us from worshipping and glorifying our Objective God for our salvation via His Son Jesus Christ. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Individualism Only Jesus can save us, but no one else is responsible for us as individuals in accepting Him as our Lord and Savior. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honesty Defined as "fairness and straightforwardness of conduct" or "adherence to the facts." Take an honest assessment of yourself, your desires, faults, and make a plan to reach your desires by minimizing your faults. Reconcile that you will need to be just as honest about what you find to your potential mate.
GENERAL EXPECTATIONS Match your desires with respectable traits. The following is the ideal you should aspire to, the expectation is that you look for a person who has the same shortcomings you do. It helps that you explicitly state that the following things are potential deal breakers depending on taste. feel free to copy and paste this to your dating profile as needed. Illicit drug and alcohol abuse are hedonistic by nature. No drinking is best, social drinking is acceptable but open to taste. Minimal (social) media consumption limits the ability of the devil to work against your life and relationships via its nihilist/hedonist leanings. KIK/SNAPCHAT USE and EXCESSIVE SELFIES/SOLIPSISM IS A HUGE RED FLAG. Tattoos, hair color changes and piercings are signs of self doubt, as the person doesn't believe that they are interesting enough on their own as representatives of a living God. If you have them before salvation, understand that you potentially limit your dating pool. This is where we most fall. The modern secular media makes it difficult to resist. No sex until marriage shows respect not just to your partner but to yourself. No fapping. Virginity/never married/no children is the ideal, but if you lack one of these, you potentially limit your dating pool. Dress and act respectfully in regards to biological sex. -Men should have a sunday best for church (blazer, shirt, tie, slacks, and dress shoes), business and/or casual in general, and be assertive in regards to considering themselves, their woman, and the people important to each other. -Women should enjoy wearing dresses and skirts in church and in public, use modest amounts of makeup and jewelry (if any), delight in submission, and earn respect of themselves from others. At least once a month at the minimum. It is generally understood that people may have events that would keep them from church. To taste. You both must want children and either desire or already have healthy relationships with family. Recommended height up to +/- 9in or 22.5cm, aged +/- 10 years from each other. To taste. Similar body types, gym attendance rates, intellectual pursuits, income levels, race, etc. OPPOSITES ATTRACT IS A MEME.
INTEL christianmingle.com/ free to join, only communicating via the site/app costs money. This can be circumvented somewhat by leaving your full name on your profile and the smart ones will make their cm handle the same as their fb/ig handle. match.com (SECULAR, free to join, claims to have the largest Christian dating pool on the net, proceed with caution) christiandatingforfree.com (free join/message, qt vault but has bots) catholicmatch.com/ (Mostly for Roman Catholics, maybe you can away with identifying as "little c"atholic if you aren't a dirty papist.)
>What about whores/whoremongers? list/label yourself as "ultra-traditional", regardless of your denomination. This shows you are serious about it to avoid attracting the lukewarm and desperate. You will still get them, just kindly reject them as they come. Post pics from your social media to make you easy to identify if you're gonna be a cheap skate. Make sure the pictures show you at your best. No property showcasing or trashy club/party pics good Christians don't do those things anyways, right? Get your family/friends to take or scan in pictures of you in your sunday best and business casual.nerd Start with full name (for social media stalking purposes), self description (age, weight, height, gym/church frequency, hobbies, faults/body mods). State that you don't want a physical relationship before marriage. State that you like to dress well for church and in general for God's glory, have pics that back that up. State that you're ultra traditional, your denom, date of salvation, and state that you're looking for a mate to start a family. As such, state demographic ranges, hobbies, denoms (if any) desired, desired opposite sex roles listed in general expectations. List compromises based on your own shortcomings and affirm that if a potential suitor doesn't meet your expectations, wish them luck but to not message. Don't worry about it. Care about your goal of embarking on a proper Christian journey of marriage with a mate you will see as your peer. 3 months tops. You will either find enough suitors to keep you busy, find the one, or you will completely burn out due to lack of success. This varies on population density, as larger towns will have more mostly low quality local suitors and rural areas will have fewer, yet higher quality and distant ones. Your distance tolerance is to taste, but be prepared to find the perfect person outside of your comfort/taste zone. If you don't find someone in 3 months, take a break, continue to improve yourself in Christ, then try again when you're ready. Coffee shop. Low investment opportunity to see if the truth lives up to the small talk. As long as you both believe the Nicene creed and the Chalcedonian Definition, personal, doctrinal, and familial tastes/compromises apply. There are tons of lovely christian girls 18-25 on the site. I was starting to burn out because I was in my late 20's and all the christmas cake on the site were either divorced, had kids out of wedlock, hit the wall, desperate, etc. If you are
Thomas Morales
General reminder to everyone, who mainly text with women: Stop texting As in the other thread mentioned, texting is effeminate and a waste of time. If you want to spend quality time or have a proper conversation with a woman, then have a date or call her. And when you want a date then call her, plan the details and hang up; it is a matter of five seconds for a call instead of five hours when you buy into the texting meme. Women are always on the longer end when it comes to texting and will abuse their "power" for psychological warfare; don't you ever get on that level. You are the man, you decide how to telecommunicate, and it is wise to stick to the most efficient, intelligible and direct method.
DAILY REMINDER TO STAY AWAY FROM THE SOY. EAT MORE ONIONS!!
Aiden Evans
don't be afraid to be an "asshole". the rational male is a good book to learn about that kind of stuff, ignore the fedora parts.
Nicholas Gonzalez
I think that goes more into the "be learned and confident in doctrine" and self-esteem than being obtuse, but I agree women are attracted to confidence and self esteem as close second to masculine physical traits.
how do I stop being too beta to make an account and upload a picture of my ugly mug and msg people
John Sanders
Try even more.
Zoosk actually has a lot of qts but I don't want to shill out $30 for 1 month (I'm already subscribed to CatholicMatch). I found one of the girl's (the cutest one I want to talk to) FaceBooks. Should I just message her there or is that weird and I should just bite the $30 for 1 month? She sent a message back, I just can't see it (I just sent a smile emoji, it's the only way to greet someone as a non-sub)
Carter Young
give them 30$ so you dont look like a poorfag
Owen Edwards
Yeah I was going to do this. Plus there's other girls. We have mutual friends, funny enough. Zoosk is qtcity, I've been getting tons of replies (20) by just sending smile emojis to girls I actually find attractive, but it is up to you to determine who is religious and who is not.
Chase Scott
WAIT. I AM PRETTY SURE ZOOSK SENDS YOU FAKE NOTIFICATIONS THAT YOU RECEIVED MESSAGES TO GET YOU TO SIGN UP. Disregard what I said then, but there are a lot of qts, though I'm assuming most have taken a certain carousel
Anthony Thomas
Correction: FULL ON ABORT for Zoosk. A quick google search reveals people being charge $100 in "coins" after they signed up for a month, coins they didn't ask for. Zoosk is shady garbage, use at your own risk.
Easton Morris
For more proof, it has 1/5 starts from 105 ratings on Consumer Affairs. Use anything but Zoosk.
Ayden Torres
By realizing beta is a choice not a fixed trait. I used to be the definition of beta until I made the choice to change my life for the better. Now I'm a chad that nobody guesses is still a weeaboo.
Jayden Myers
This, it can really become the start of a great journey, user
So here are the girls on POF who have logged in this week in ALL OF CANADA who are (*) 25 or under, (*) baptist, (*) don't drink (*), don't smoke, (*) and don't have kids.
I don't think I'm being too picky, but I wish I had more selection.
You think you got it bad? Results? 0. Absolutely 0 women. For fun I removed the age requirement. The only women looking are two women aged 45, and a 66 year old. You at least have a chance, and with women who don't smoke/drink. I envy you so much.
Joseph Stewart
Forgot to mention, these results were from multiple dating sites.
Alexander Barnes
I have bad news for you: You're being too specific. Try opening up the denom, look for logged in a month instead, personally visiting local churches, or just try CDFF to help your search. Best of luck mate, I'll be praying for you.
Dang bro, either open up the range, open up the denom choice, or think about moving closer to civilization in your search for a wife. I'll be praying for you too. Stay strong.
Ethan Watson
I'm going to try to get her number this week. Pray for me, guys.
Austin Anderson
Who going /IRLonly/ here? That said I have a date Saturday but shes 2 hours away (meeting halfway). Pray for me and I'll pray for you.
Josiah King
How has this attitude not been trampled out in the last two threads?
Nolan King
Because marriage is 50-50, right? You should insist to drive the 2 hours.
Isaac Parker
You don't want to put too much effort into a girl you don't even know is worth your time. I think he's being fair for doing halfway until he knows her better.
Jonathan Long
I applaud your sense of chivalry, but to drive an hour to an hour long date is enough commitment for each party at the outset. It shows that the woman is serious as well if she is willing to reciprocate in order to kindle a Godly relationship.
Jack Harris
I will be once I've overcome my porn addiction and started going to church and getting myself in order tbqhwyfam. Although I've signed up to sites in the past, I've never really liked them, I find it way too hard to not cringe at every profile and judge them, even if they're cute. Not judge as in 'you filthy sinner' but just assuming the worst of people and find it hard to think anything other than how ridiculous most of them sound writing about themselves. And I assume others think the same of me reading my profile. It realy brings out the cynic in me, which is strange as I'm a very easy going, optimistic friendly and personable guy who gets on with everyone IRL. also I did check out cdff out of curiosity, its cool you can look through a bunch of search results and profiles without signing up, but 99% of the first 10 pages of results were black women and only one white girl who was cute
Much prefer to meet women in the flesh and notice their personality and idiosyncrasies come through in the way they carry themselves and interact with you and other people, and their beauty or cuteness shine through the God-breathed life in them.
Josiah Martin
You can go to church right now, porn addiction or none. Just confess when you fall, even if you have to do it after Mass (you can still receive the Eucharist as long as you confess right after because of the intent). If you're Catholic, of course. Lol I know exactly what you mean but that comes with the territory. Yeah, cdff has a ton of flip girls trying to score a whitu piggu too. Amen, I know exactly what you mean. Every so (great) often you come across an interesting dating profile, though. I just sent this one broad a message, she had a quick and charming profile. Just when I think I've given up on the online scene, some girl comes along and makes me think online isn't all that bad. Still, IRL will always be superior. I feel like we (me especially) use online to browse/message/search for qts to fill a neediness in our hearts, though. At least more often than not that happens. Whereas if you church hop enough you're bound to find someone, assuming you live in a decently populated area.
As long as they're willing to come here I'm okay with that. I like my comfy smaller town. I don't want to go to somewhere like Toronto which is just basically California Jr. I get that some people can do this and make it work, or someone's willing to convert. But I'm Catholic and will always be Catholic, and I'm not the kind of person who would be good in a mixed faith scenario. Thank you so much. This means more to me that you can possibly imagine.
Caleb Ortiz
I know I know, I've had a shortlist of four or five to check out for months, but I've always managed to avoid it or excuse it. I'll be going this sunday though I'm sure as I'm starting to feel the draw to strongly and it's necessity.
I'm not but thanks for the advice anyway m8 Yeah I could see myself doing this and am sure I had in the past certainly my intention for a while with my shortlist, and then some that I may come across or get reccomended by people I know. Lots have two services on a sunday also so am planning to go to a morning one and then a late afternoon one at different places to get the max in. I'm down in the depths of what they call the modern BabylonLondon so pretty sure there are some decently packed services going on here and there
Noah Clark
Oh man, I feel SO bad for you. I do the burger thing and assume everyone on the internet who doesnt explicitly state otherwise at the outset is American. Will pray, brother.
Keep this man in mind, bros. No matter HOW bad you have a qt religious girl pool, no matter how barely non-existent it is, remember this lad has it much worse.
John Foster
what do I do bros, I want to follow my faith, but I also want a wife. I was thinking I could try finding a girl first, then asking if she would think about converting with me, but I think my prot friends would think I was dishonest.
Owen Evans
Faith comes first in all things.
Daniel Russell
women are easily pliable and have no real interests of their own, save what their partner (or other sexually desirable potential mate) is interested in so follow God and your faith, women will come later
Haha. I'm actually 24, just really into music. Th-thanks though
Unrelated but just to clarify: touching boobs butt even with clothes ON is absolutely sinful and lustful, right? Had a convo about this with my protty friend and she, to her credit, doesn't do anything with clothes off and she doesn't let people touch her vageen but she makes out and lets them touch her breasts/butt, again with clothes on. This is the best compromise I've ever of but it's STILL a compromise (other good prot friend said she takes her top off and makes out with her boyfriend…they've been dating for years and will probably marry but still).
I feel like even the strong Christians among us (maybe because they're women) compromise, even if it's a "better" compromise than most alternatives, most can't seem to adhere to ONLY kissing on the lips (no tongue), NO making out, etc. For crying out loud. I know I'm flawed too but I've had the chance to do that with women and I've stuck to my faith. I understand choosing your own path is a masculine trait but it's getting insane.
in other news, CucklickMatch finally came thru and there's two women on my plate, one whose number I have and who I will be going on a date with when I get back from Portland, the other who I just started talking to but she's a waifu of sorts so…and there's two actually-serious-about-their-faith looking college gals from campus Mass/Bible study so pray for me, I'll pray for you
Daniel Lee
Oh, to clarify, I did make out with 2 hot girls who weren't my girlfriend at all once, much to my extreme dismay and disappointment, but NEVER again. I have turned women down before and since because they did not align with God's will and would only get in my way.
Adam Green
That's an oxymoron, you moron. In regards to touching, always ask yourself: Would you touch your mother or your friends like that? If not, then don't do it.
Kek. By that I mean one is majoring in Theology, have an innocent demeanor so far (girlish qualities), and the other plays the flute at Mass.
In other news, pray for me PLEASE because a torrent of temptation is assaulting me with this Latina prospectwho I met through CatholicMatch
Aaron Young
Sorry to double poost but forgot to ask- a waifu on CatholicMatch lives 3.5 hours away. We just started messaging, I sent my 3rd message (2nd response) last night. How many messages should be exchanged before I propose we meet up halfway? I was thinking of doing it on the next one.
Are older people actually the "good ones" in America? I can't tell since here in Germany (i know what you think and it's true) it seems that older people are very idealistic about muh progress and personal "liberty"
Nathan Johnson
What's left of the generations before the boomers are generally wonderful people, and wonderful Christians. The rest are just grown-up hippies with way too much power.
Charles Brown
just shoot the shit a little bit, set up a meeting as soon as possible, don't be weird about it you want to meet irl asap bc that way you know if she's a good fit or not if not don't worry, on to the next one
Brandon Nelson
Thanks brother. Think I'm getting ghosted but there's like 4 broads on backlog so we're alright.
Caleb Flores
Real life>texting
Personally I dislike texting before dating. The whole texting game makes me sick and ruins everything for me. Every time the girl either uses her advantage to take too long to respond or she's too enthusiastic about it, writes too much. The first leads to her having the upper hand, the latter to you having the upper hand. That's what I dislike. I prefer to make a date as soon as possible - a phone call, texting if a call is not possible.
Meet her as soon as you can…if she's not what you're looking for, move on.
Gavin Watson
I was at the gym today and saw a girl who hasn't been to mass in a while, she awkwardly smiled at me a couple of times when I walked by, but it caught me off guard so I didn't smile back. Should have asked her why she hasn't been to church recently. Hope I get another chance and don't mess up again.
Ethan Reyes
At least you noticed her smiling, I look at girls' faces so rarely that I don't even know if they're even looking at me, let alone smiling. I have huge trouble with eye contact, I just can't bring myself to look at someone's face for more than 1 second.
Lincoln Morgan
It's not intentional, I just can't help myself from looking. God didn't make these people for my viewing pleasure, but if there's something about her, I am captivated. Though if there is eye contact, I tend to look away. Maintaining eye contact is my weakness. It is not easy.
Dominic Fisher
I've been alone so long I don't even look at girls anymore. I just assume it's a waste of time.
Owen Flores
I'm not sure what to say, I am no Stud or have experience of my own at getting girlfriends, but it sounds like I'm more confident than you. Confidence to me is something which is inconsistent but I find that nofap helps a lot.
Luis Hernandez
It's not just confidence. I know I'm not ugly. It's more like my finances are very limited and I couldn't provide the girl with anything. And my family is all screwed up too. So why bother the poor girl at all.
Colton Morgan
I've liked the same girl for something like three years now at varying levels. I hardly talk to her and usually only see her around church, but every time I'm with her I'm incredibly impressed by her and just really want to be with her. At this point I'm pretty convinced I can't get past her without moving or being turned down, and either way I think it would take quite some time to be in a healthy place to date again. I've only dated one person in my life and that was during highschool so things were completely different. Now, unlike when I was trying to date someone in highschool, I find myself unable to find excuses to hang out with her and I think if I tried something it would be obvious what I was doing. I also have no idea if I asked her out if she would say yes, though I doubt it, which makes this way worse than the one other time I asked someone out, I knew that girl was going to say yes. I'm not sure what I should do right now. It seems I might have to just point blank ask her on a date with no lead up, but I'm worried in two ways about that. The first is that I will just get turned down, but especially that I will get turned down in a non-explicit way, like that she can't go on a date then instead of telling me she won't date me, hopefully you get the distinction, and I think that if I don't have that solid rejection moving on will be even harder. The second thing I'm kinda scared of is that she might agree to a date, but just a solitary date, and that I won't be sure where things are left. I've been out of this stuff for a while and always been a social autist so its hard navigating this beginning stage. I think I'm especially worried about approaching her out of nowhere to ask her out and then acting like she's full on my girlfriend five minutes later and how all that works. I guess I just wanted to say this somewhere, maybe you'll have some input, I might add some more later
Do you know her parents? Remember to approach this as a courtship situation, if that's your intention (sounds like it is). I would mention off hand that you would like to have a coffee or a walk with her some time, and then on another occasion set a specific date for that. At the end of the first date, set a day for the next. By this point, the both of you should have tested the waters enough that you can be upfront with her, mention that you've admired her for some time, and approach her with the intention to court. Godspeed, she sounds lovely. Keep us posted!
I know her whole family and they are great, just really incredible people. My views usually line up pretty close with people who push courting, but I don't really use the vocabulary because so often the people I've talked to about it have in mind only their particular brand of courting that has never been tried before. I see dating as only acceptable when the intention is marriage so long as things work out, and physical affection should be somewhat minimal and carefully approached in that time, so usually I'm not disagreeing with people when they talk about courting. If anything the thing that is most likely to some up that I don't go along with is some sort of arrangement with the father. I would like to be in good standing with her family and would probably talk to her dad first if I was thinking of engagement, but as two adults its kinda out of place to ask him to date her or something, maybe in highschool but now its weird. She came in to see me at my job a few days ago when she was stuck in the area for a few minutes, and she had to leave when I was pulled away with some customers so I texted her later saying that I was free to hang out most mornings now (until recently I had a schedule that changed wildly every week). She said something along the lines of that she would text me some time when she was free, but the hard thing is knowing if thats just being polite and will never happen or if it actually might. If that text never comes I'm more lost, but if it happens then I have something to work with. As you said the best thing would be to have a second meeting set up by the end of the first, but thats one more place things can go wrong. The idea I favor the most is going for a walk, I just don't know if I would be pushing my luck with that. The courting thing does have it's advantages in that it bypasses the problems of vocabulary I might have to deal with, but I haven't heard her use this terminology and I don't myself so it would be kinda foreign and forced and weird to keep up with. I really would just like to come out of some sort of talk with a mutual understanding of having an exclusive relationship with the intent mentioned above. One thing I'm worried about is the mentioning of my admiring her for a while. I'm not sure if I should downplay the reality of things or be more straight forward with how long I have liked her. It would all come out in time I just can't tell when it would be best to bring up that for the last nearly three years of my life she's been the one girl that I've actually thought of like this with little exception.
Zachary Fisher
Just to be clear in case I wasn't, here I'm talking about something that would come up in a conversation with someone who promotes courting, I'm not talking about something likely to come up with her.
Kayden Murphy
Good! Now it's also important that you make her aware of this, with a light touch so she doesn't feel like a coffee date obligates her to marry you. If your goal is to marry her, when you've won enough points, make that intention clear to her and to her family. I agree that courtship as a term carries a lot of baggage. If she visits you at work again that's a good sign and a better opportunity. Tell your boss you're going on break and walk a few blocks with her. There's a lot of implications that will come up if you mention that you've admired her without making a move for three years. Might be a good idea to tacitly leave out the three years for a while, and/or the idea that you'v liked her pretty exclusively for this time.
Carson Gonzalez
I'm 28 and thought I'd be married by now. I might just go monk status or leave the city. Tried catholicmatch and there was only like 6 people within 50 miles. It's probably to stop worrying about it. Not everyone was meant for love and I am come to accept it.
This kinda worries me, but I think it will come up pretty quickly if we did get together. I'm not sure how much to talk about stuff like this without asking her out, but the thing is that with her being her I'm really just not worried that I would ask her out and then find out her views of dating are anything but acceptable. This I think would come in time, but I'm not sure how capable I am of doing this. As I mentioned above I am terrible socially and can really screw up even easier conversations. One thing I really would be excited about with her would be to have someone I could confide in a little more and talk to more comfortable if that did happen, but talking dating ethics with her family could be a little out there for me, at least at first, but I also kinda figure if anyone was really worried I would be approached, and I can always respond to that even if I don't expect it. Work is tough to ditch right now, but she was really understanding in her texts so I'm not too worried, and if she did come around again I would definitely feel much more prepared towards asking her out. I'm not planning on bringing that up real quick or anything, but it also is I think not as bad as it might sound as at least two years of that there are pretty understandable reasons for me not to have done anything
Christian Evans
I'm eager to hear of your success, user. I too find it difficult to speak to others at times, but practice makes perfect. Make a point to engage people in conversation when the stakes are lower, even just talk to yourself in the mirror.
Adam Jenkins
Thanks man, I'll come back with whatever happens
Aaron Rodriguez
Giving some followup:
All in all it was a pretty neat experience I even committed to grave sin of handholding. We have another 'date' planned next week, gonna check out this museum that piqued her interest.
kek, because there shouldn't be flutes at Mass? i feel the flute actually fits in with how Mass should "sound"…unlike any kind of guitar or most instruments that aren't piano/organ/choir
Austin Hall
No, not texting. Messages through CatholicMatch, kind of like emails. She hasn't responded so I'm going for one of the other girls. Thanks for the feedback all the same.
Jace Peterson
Don't give up yet man.
Dude, get on this. Just go balls out and be casual- say something like "Hey how about we get a coffee sometime?" and if/when she says yes, say you'll text or call her for the details (if you talk to her at work.).
Colton Nguyen
So I finally got her number just last week. I'm really hoping I can get a coffee date with her relatively soon. In seven years of trying to find a girl who's wife material, I've only even been on one date, which came to nothing. I feel cheated out of much of my 20s. This girl is really cute, part of CRU, and I just want her to be pious too.
Jose Morris
Big issue, brothers. I think a classmate has fallen for me, but she's agnostic. I know the answer is a definite no, but is there any more to it than that? Very hard for me to say no, not sure how it'll go.
Anthony Walker
Give her the Doctrine.
Ethan Morris
Talk to her about God.
Cooper Campbell
If you love her, save her from the depths of hell. Also 1.Cor 12-15 specifically talks about this, an unbeliefing wife is sanctified by the husband, since they are one flesh and the holy is superior to the unholy
Justin Allen
Thanks for the advice, I'll try talking to her about the Bible. I'll update here if/when that happens and let everyone know how it goes.
Connor Nguyen
About to ask the girl I like out - both cute and pious.Normally I am not nervous when talking to girls but I really fell for this one.. so I do feel nervous even in advance. Please mention me in your prayers so God gives me more confidence.
Colton Bennett
There's a girl I see at school a lot, usually several hours a day. Only person in a while I've spent 10 consecutive hours with and still want to be around them. Known her for several months but I'm 22 and never had a relationship so I'm at a loss.
Samuel Scott
Do you talk to her? Ask her for coffee/lunch
Sebastian Wilson
We talk a good bit, yeah. We have fun and joke around but I've never seen her outside of school. I've asked her to lunch and she'll say yes but then flake for one reason or another.
Noah Baker
If she's flaking out after saying yes then she doesn't want to go do anything with you and doesn't see you as you see her.
Nolan Walker
Idk, I'm still optimistic. We both do almost nothing but school and work so I'll see about doing something over spring break, as neither of us are traveling. I'll just have to see from there.
Jace Thompson
All I want is a cute wife who will love me as I love her. I know it's uncouth to complain about stuff like this, but I just feel isolated and lonely, you know?
Luke Brown
It is either this or she's playing mind games; in any case abort the mission.
Levi Lewis
I feel you brother, I'm the same way - but it's not good to despair. We're all gonna make it user
Noah Wright
>me and M practice increasing our intimacy spoilers ahead for lewd content >first she uses my legs as a footrest until I started tickling her feet >then she leaned into me as the movie went on, tightly holding my hand >her hands are so smol and cold that she wraps both around my hand and leans on my shoulder >she later falls asleep into my shoulder as the movie slows down until an explosion brings her back >wrap my arm around her and hold her close, she refuses to let me release her, says she's too comfy
I'm cooking up some ideas of what to do with her after this weekend since we both work, and I apologize if this is turning into blogposting, I just wanted to share my tale so you lads know that there's still good girls out there, even young ones.
Do only white grills or American grills do this? I am talking with a Mexican woman literally off the plane as of 4 months ago who is working as a maid for someone's house (an au pair). She sends me good morning texts, apologized when there was a delay, resumes the convo the next day if I sent her a night one, frequently wishes me to have a great day, and there are never any mind-games at all. It is the first time I've texted a woman (I know I know, don't text, it's feminine…we text extremely lightly) where it's been 100% stress-free 100% of the time. And when we do text, she always starts it with "I hope you have a great day!" Anyway I really hope you lads can find one like this. She's normal and sensible, I can't help but think it's because she wasn't American up until 4 months ago lol. When I'm back in-state we have a date, pray for me and I'll get you.
Landon Gomez
Ahhh, that's truly wonderful, lad! And wholesome! I am exceedingly happy for you, God bless you both! And bro, blogposting is the POINT of this board. How old are you both, if you don't mind my asking? That story put a smile on my face!
Angel Robinson
ALSO sorry to triple post but I love that song!! Wasn't that made for Deadly Premonition? That's where I first heard it…Anyway cheers and Godspeed. Ahhh, feelin pretty alright
Aaron Price
I’m 27 and I dated a 18 years old gal; nothing wrong if you keep it clean.
